Raha ya Ubazazi/Cheating!... (?)

Raha ya Ubazazi/Cheating!... (?)

Konakali said:
Is cheating forgivable? If a cheater is forgiven, will he/she stop it completely? Suppose the cheated on did not contribute in any way to be cheated, and thus she/he is the one who may forgive, what are the responsibilities of these parties in bringing back the former situation:


  • The cheated party - the one who may forgive
  • The cheater
  • The third party

Can the trust get back as in the beginning?
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Yes,
cheating is forgivable!!
 
If she/he(or both) was virgin when they met then there is no need to forgive ,but if she/he wasn't then she/he will be required by the bible to do it 70 x 70,:fencing:
 
Gaijin said:
hili suala kila siku linakuja na sura mpya.

aki cheat kwa upande wangu hamna msamaha.................namtimua sifikiri mara mbili.
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Ahaaa!!imekaa vizuri!!je wewe ukipatikana??
 
rakeyescarl said:
If she/he(or both) was virgin when they met then there is no need to forgive ,but if she/he wasn't then she/he will be required by the bible to do it 70 x 70,:fencing:
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Why not forgiving a virgin?
 
CBZ said:
Yes,
cheating is forgivable!!
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How much would you think to be a reasonable and the last forgiveness? What is the cheater should do to his/her partner to bring back the lost love? Do you think these forgiveness normally become fruitful in the future life?
 
Kaizer said:
Hapa tupo ukurasa mmoja, nadhani pia kuna a very thin line katia ya kusamehe na kusahau, ama?
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Kabisa maana kuna wengine mioyo yao kusamehe hadi uite watu karibia kumi waongee nae ndio atasemehe lakini yeye akikosea ataona ni sawa tu hata kuomba msamaha itakuwa ishu
 
cheating can be forgiven, but not forgotten!!!!
 
Acid said:
Hahaaaaaa... Ndugu yangu haya mambo ya infidelity ni balaa
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hahaha kama hujagraduate utajikuta kwenye mazingira hayo lakini ukifata katiba yetu wala......:becky: (halafu inabidi usiwe mwepesi wa kurushia watu mawe huku upo kwenye nyumba ya vioo, )
 
Kaizer said:
hahaha kama hujagraduate utajikuta kwenye mazingira hayo lakini ukifata katiba yetu wala......:becky: (halafu inabidi usiwe mwepesi wa kurushia watu mawe huku upo kwenye nyumba ya vioo, )
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Mauzoefu yanaendelea kupatikana
 
To forgive someone for something that they have done does not mean that one must accept the fact that they have been deceived by the person they love and honor the most in life. In many cases an injured person must forgive the perpetrator so that they may once again begin to feel happiness.Cheating is an act that many will say is the one true 'deal breaker' in their own marriage. However, until you have been faced with this reality I would say you can't honestly know what you would do in such circumstances.

People cheat for many reasons, some of which may not even be clear to the cheater themselves. But this act, as devastating as it may be to a relationship, doesn't mean that the two who were so much in love at one time must now become enemies.The reason for cheating, however, is not important when it comes to forgiving. Honesty, sincerity and an overwhelming desire to make the relationship work will bring with it the ability to forgive. Because it does take time and effort that most people don't feel they can put into an unsure thing, cheating often leads to divorce.

As the injured party one must still look inside themselves to know they will not fall victim to such behavior in the next relationship. Forgiving the person that betrayed your trust and moving past the incident may prove to be the difference between another doomed relationship and one that allows the injured party to love with all of their heart.
 
Every person has a breaking point. Mine is this one here being discussed. I will not trade my dignity for a half-assed apology. I say half-assed because if my woman cheats on me, she did so on her own volition. And now I'm supposed to be magnanimous and accept her apology and move on? Oh hell no.

She knew well and good what she was doing. If she couldn't stop herself from doing it the first time what is going to stop her from doing it the second, third, fourth, and the fifth time and more?

I can deal with a lot of bullshit but this one here is a no-no. I just can't bring myself to forgiving a woman who has two timed on me. That is the ultimate disrespect imaginable.
 
Imagine something that is not forgettable, I'll be reminding every few seconds, ukirudi kazini nna wewe, ukitoka nna wewe....matokeo yake inakuwa biashara ya kuku na yai!

And puliiiz.....there's no excuse for cheating jamani...
 
my ndu hii imekaa vibaya ni ngumu kusema but normally watu wanajitahidi kusamehe ingawa ngumu sana
 
Nyani Ngabu said:
Every person has a breaking point. Mine is this one here being discussed. I will not trade my dignity for a half-assed apology. I say half-assed because if my woman cheats on me, she did so on her own volition. And now I'm supposed to be magnanimous and accept her apology and move on? Oh hell no.

She knew well and good what she was doing. If she couldn't stop herself from doing it the first time what is going to stop her from doing it the second, third, fourth, and the fifth time and more?

I can deal with a lot of bullshit but this one here is a no-no. I just can't bring myself to forgiving a woman who has two timed on me. That is the ultimate disrespect imaginable.
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mmmh NN wat if is u? forgiveness should be in u bana,coz wote tukihesabiwa haki none is innocent is just the matter of being caught n tym.Na unaposamehe usiweke mawazo hasi kwamba atarudia,inawezekana ilikuwa coincidence tu jamani,,,smile:smile-big:
 
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