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[Ertugrul Bey]

2346hrs

46664 Mandela's prison number

 

[Ertugrul Bey]

2347hrs

"We don't have AK47 but we have our hands and stones"
- Winnie Mandela

From the movie Mandela Long walk to the freedom

 

[Ertugrul Bey]

2350hrs

Mandela ametufundisha nguvu ya kusamehe, pamoja na kufungwa kwa 27 na makaburu,alisema amewasamehe,kwahiyo hata watu wake wasamehe pia

Alisema Chuki ya race kati ya black na white people itawaletea ugonjwa ambao utatawala kizazi baada ya kozazi

Mandela anastahili heshima yake,alichugua msamaha dhidi ya chuki

 

[Ertugrul Bey]

VPN yako unasomeka ukiwa wapi hahaha

Nasomeka nikiwa FRANCE

 

[Ertugrul Bey]

2358hrs

My people

Bey style....

 

[Intelligent businessman]

00:22 I mean no malice to nobody

 

[Mad Max]

03:05

Tajiri

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Tajiri

Matusi ume anza lini ndugu yangu, Kemea hayo mapepo

 

[Intelligent businessman]

01:04 Intelli style

 

[Intelligent businessman]

02:11 intelli fvcking world

 

[Intelligent businessman]

02:28 when I show up, it's motion picture blockbuster

 

[Intelligent businessman]

02:47

 

[De panther]

3:12 on my way

 

[Intelligent businessman]

03:13 lonely at the top

 

[Intelligent businessman]

04:35 intelli style

 

[Intelligent businessman]

04:54

 

[Intelligent businessman]

05:00 lindo lime fungwa rasmi, intelli fvcking world.

 

[jooohs]

05:00 lindo lime fungwa rasmi, intelli fvcking world.

Handover hadi saa 12

 

[Ertugrul Bey]

2249hrs

am in

 

[Ertugrul Bey]

INFO:

Hii ni mada nzuri sana. Kwenye ndoa kuna sheria ambazo hazijaandikwa (unspoken rules) lakini ni muhimu sana kwa afya ya uhusiano. Zinafanya maisha ya pamoja yawe na heshima, mapenzi na mshikamano. Hapa kuna baadhi yake:


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👫 Sheria Muhimu zisizoandikwa katika ndoa

1. Heshima kwa kila mmoja

Usimdharau mwenzako mbele ya watu au hata ukiwa peke yenu.

Hata kama mna tofauti, mtazame kwa heshima.



2. Kusikilizana bila kukatiza

Wakati mwenzako anaongea, mpe masikio na moyo.

Usimjibu kwa hasira kabla hajamaliza kueleza.



3. Kuhifadhi siri za ndoa

Siri za chumbani, migongano au matatizo hayapaswi kutolewa nje kiholela.

Marafiki, mitandao ya kijamii au ndugu si kila mara ni sehemu ya kushare siri za ndoa.



4. Kumjali mwenzako zaidi ya marafiki na ndugu

Mke/mume wako anapaswa kuwa wa kwanza, kisha wengine wafuate.

Hii hujenga hisia za usalama na kipaumbele.



5. Kutoleta mazoea ya kulinganisha

Usimlinganishe mume/mke wako na watu wengine (mfano marafiki au wenza wa zamani).

Kila mtu ana upekee wake.



6. Kuheshimu nafasi binafsi

Hata katika ndoa, kila mmoja anahitaji muda wake binafsi: kusali, kusoma, au kutulia.

Usijisikie vibaya mwenzako akihitaji “space” ndogo.



7. Kufurahia mafanikio ya mwenzako

Sherehekea mafanikio yake kama yako.

Usionyeshe wivu au umdharau.



8. Kusema “samahani” na “asante”

Maneno haya madogo yana nguvu kubwa ya kuponya majeraha na kuongeza upendo.



9. Kuweka mipaka na jinsia tofauti

Epuka ukaribu usiofaa na rafiki wa jinsia nyingine.

Heshima hii inalinda ndoa na kuepuka mashaka.



10. Kutunza upendo mdogo mdogo kila siku



Tabasamu, salamu, kumkumbatia au kumshukuru vina maana kubwa kuliko zawadi kubwa za mara chache.



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💡 Kwa kifupi: Sheria hizi hazina maandishi kwenye karatasi, lakini ndoa bila kuzifuata mara nyingi hujaa migogoro, mashaka na hisia za kutoelewana.