Eti hatujui... kipimo gani kinatumika?

[Dark City]

K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hahahahahahahahahhahahahahah,

Kwa hiyo mkuu umepiga kunji!!!!

Huu mchanganyiko wa generations na media ni hatari sana!!

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Hapo sisemi kitu, ngoja wazee wenzangu waje kuni-rescue!

Hahahahahaha Mzee DC usikimbie bana wewe mwenyewe ndo umeanzisha!!

 

[Ikunda]

K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mmmmmmmm

 

[Bishanga]

Eh? Kikwapa? Bishanga? lol

MJ1 si bora kikwapa? nimesema K bana tena in capital letters,lol!!!!!!!

 

[Bishanga]

Hahahahahahahahahhahahahahah,

Kwa hiyo mkuu umepiga kunji!!!!

Huu mchanganyiko wa generations na media ni hatari sana!!

we acha tu,tabu kweli kweli,wengine nasikia wanalazimisha na kununa hasa wale kina mama wenye ukwasi ambao wananunua viserengeti boyz. Ila nasikia vijana wa kizaire hao ndo funga kazi masaa mawili kibo peak marangu mtoni,kibo peak marangu mtoni,kibo peak marangu mtoni.........

 

[Dark City]

Hahahahahaha Mzee DC usikimbie bana wewe mwenyewe ndo umeanzisha!!

Mhhhhhhh,

Hebu basi na wewe (taratibu mjukuu hadi wataalamu waje kunipa support), subiri kidogo kichwa kipate charge!

 

[Bishanga]

mmmmmmmm

mmmmmhhh nini Ikunda?

 

[Dark City]

we acha tu,tabu kweli kweli,wengine nasikia wanalazimisha na kununa hasa wale kina mama wenye ukwasi ambao wananunua viserengeti boyz. Ila nasikia vijana wa kizaire hao ndo funga kazi masaa mawili kibo peak marangu mtoni,kibo peak marangu mtoni,kibo peak marangu mtoni.........

Mhhhhh...Hii dunia hii....wanaijua wenyewe,

Ukisikia mlio jua risasi imekukosa!

Naamini bado niko mzima!!

 

[Dark City]

MJ1 si bora kikwapa? nimesema K bana tena in capital letters,lol!!!!!!!

Kwani hailiki/hailambiki????

Siku hizi nasikia hata vibabu vimeshazoea....Wewe umechelewa wapi au bado una hang-over ya mwaka 1947???

 

[EMT]

DC inawezekana kuna watu wameshagusia hapo, but sidhani kama kuna vigezo vinavyotumiwa ku-judge kama mtu anajua mahaba au la kwa sababu mahaba yanatofautiana from one woman to another. Kuna wanawake wengine ukiwapeleka kwenye movies ni mahaba, wengine wanaona ni kuboana tuu. Kwa wanawake wengine kuwa kissed in the public ndio mahaba. Mwingine anaona kumwandalia dinner on the beach ndio mahaba.

Mazingira, tamaduni na dini nazo zinachangia. What is romantic in America many not be romantic in Saudi Arabia au Tanzania and vice versa. Kwa wanawake wengine wa Kiafrika as long as the man is taking care of his responsibilities as a man (African man) at home like taking care of the children, has a very lucrative job, good money and is respectful, then that itself is romantic. Still wapo wengine wanadai wanaume ni romantic by nature na kinachotakiwa ni traning tuu to get the romance out of them. Wanawake wengine wanasema a romantic man must be bold, brave and noble. So what is romantic differ from one woman to another.

Nafikiri tatizo hapa tunachanganya kati ya romance and affection probably na flirting. Kuna rafiki yangu aliniambia kuwa her "boyfriend is extremely romantic. We can just sit home and just cook together or watch a movie, he loves to rub my feet or sit while I scratch his back, we love to snuggle." Nilipomwuliza whether he was actually being romantic or just affectionate akaanza kijichanganya. Kama kuna romance, kutakuwa na some affection, lakini affection inaweza kuwepo bila romance.

Wanaume wa Kiafrika wanaweza kuwa romantic (depending on how a particular woman define romance) lakini baadhi yao sio affectionate kama wanawake wengine wa Kiafrika wangependa. Kuna forum nyingine mdau aliandika: "African men are romantic to women who appreciate romantic life. But most of our women have put a price tag on love affairs. They mistake spending on them as being romantic."

 

[MAMMAMIA]

Maoni ya jumla niliyokutana nayo baada ya kusoma posts zote ni haya:
1. Mjadala ulianzia na mada kuwa "Wanaume wa Kitanzania hatujui mahaba", hivi katika kuonshana mahaba, wanawake wetu wa Kitanzania wao wanajua, au mahaba ni lazima yaoneshwe na mwanamume tu?
2. Mahaba kwa mmoja yanaweza kuwa maudhi kwa mwengine. Ikimaanisha kuwa tunaweza kuwa na definition ya romance kwenye kamusi, lakini katika application, hatuwezi kuwa na universal appllication ya mahaba. Kila couple wana njia zao za kuridhishana na kukubaliana.
3. Wengi wamepinga "mahaba ya kuigiza", na kubaki na ile maana ya jumla ya mahaba kuwa ni kuonesha mapenzi na upendo, kumjali na kumthamini mpenzi wako.
4. Mahaba kama "extra matrimonial activity" (kwa hapa, ninaimaanisha matendo ya ziada [leisures, feelings, affection, care etc.] nje ya huduma za lazima), ni muhimu kwa wapendanao, lakini inategemea uwezo, mazingira, utamaduni n.k. Kumnunulia mpenzi wako gunia la mkaa, kuku, mchele; mashine ya kufua nguo...wakati wali na kuku mnakula nyote na nguo zako zaidi ndizo zinazohitaji mashine....mmoja ataona kama ni mahaba lakini kwa mwengine atahisi ni wajibu wako.

Kwa ufupi, kwa mawazo yangu, "Romance is not something that fits-to-all- sizes". Cha muhimu ni kuwa mwenzako (sio watu wote) aridhike na unachomtendea.

 

[Dark City]

DC inawezekana kuna watu wameshagusia hapo, but sidhani kama kuna vigezo vinavyotumiwa ku-judge kama mtu anajua mahaba au la kwa sababu mahaba yanatofautiana from one woman to another. Kuna wanawake wengine ukiwapeleka kwenye movies ni mahaba, wengine wanaona ni kuboana tuu. Kwa wanawake wengine kuwa kissed in the public ndio mahaba. Mwingine anaona kumwandalia dinner on the beach ndio mahaba.

Mazingira, tamaduni na dini nazo zinachangia. What is romantic in America many not be romantic in Saudi Arabia au Tanzania and vice versa. Kwa wanawake wengine wa Kiafrika as long as the man is taking care of his responsibilities as a man (African man) at home like taking care of the children, has a very lucrative job, good money and is respectful, then that itself is romantic. Still wapo wengine wanadai wanaume ni romantic by nature na kinachotakiwa ni traning tuu to get the romance out of them. Wanawake wengine wanasema a romantic man must be bold, brave and noble. So what is romantic differ from one woman to another.

Nafikiri tatizo hapa tunachanganya kati ya romance and affection probably na flirting. Kuna rafiki yangu aliniambia kuwa her "boyfriend is extremely romantic. We can just sit home and just cook together or watch a movie, he loves to rub my feet or sit while I scratch his back, we love to snuggle." Nilipomwuliza whether he was actually being romantic or just affectionate akaanza kijichanganya. Kama kuna romance, kutakuwa na some affection, lakini affection inaweza kuwepo bila romance.

Wanaume wa Kiafrika wanaweza kuwa romantic (depending on how a particular woman define romance) lakini baadhi yao sio affectionate kama wanawake wengine wa Kiafrika wangependa. Kuna forum nyingine mdau aliandika: "African men are romantic to women who appreciate romantic life. But most of our women have put a price tag on love affairs. They mistake spending on them as being romantic."

Ahsante mkuu kwa hii very useful post....Kwa ufupi ni kuwa ili mwanamke apate maximu romance, lazima naye aweke juhudu binafsi...Huwezi kuvuna mavuno zaidi bila kuweka pembejeo za kutosha kama mbolea ikiendana na palizi!!

....Romance ni matokeo ya juhudi ya mume na mke!!

 

[Mbu]

DC inawezekana kuna watu wameshagusia hapo, but sidhani kama kuna vigezo vinavyotumiwa ku-judge kama mtu anajua mahaba au la kwa sababu mahaba yanatofautiana from one woman to another. Kuna wanawake wengine ukiwapeleka kwenye movies ni mahaba, wengine wanaona ni kuboana tuu. Kwa wanawake wengine kuwa kissed in the public ndio mahaba. Mwingine anaona kumwandalia dinner on the beach ndio mahaba.

Mazingira, tamaduni na dini nazo zinachangia. What is romantic in America many not be romantic in Saudi Arabia au Tanzania and vice versa. Kwa wanawake wengine wa Kiafrika as long as the man is taking care of his responsibilities as a man (African man) at home like taking care of the children, has a very lucrative job, good money and is respectful, then that itself is romantic. Still wapo wengine wanadai wanaume ni romantic by nature na kinachotakiwa ni traning tuu to get the romance out of them. Wanawake wengine wanasema a romantic man must be bold, brave and noble. So what is romantic differ from one woman to another.

Nafikiri tatizo hapa tunachanganya kati ya romance and affection probably na flirting. Kuna rafiki yangu aliniambia kuwa her "boyfriend is extremely romantic. We can just sit home and just cook together or watch a movie, he loves to rub my feet or sit while I scratch his back, we love to snuggle." Nilipomwuliza whether he was actually being romantic or just affectionate akaanza kijichanganya. Kama kuna romance, kutakuwa na some affection, lakini affection inaweza kuwepo bila romance.

Wanaume wa Kiafrika wanaweza kuwa romantic (depending on how a particular woman define romance) lakini baadhi yao sio affectionate kama wanawake wengine wa Kiafrika wangependa. Kuna forum nyingine mdau aliandika: "African men are romantic to women who appreciate romantic life. But most of our women have put a price tag on love affairs. They mistake spending on them as being romantic."

...hehehehe....e bana umemaliza kila kitu...ATM, kuchunwa, buzi.....
ngoja wenyewe waje kupinga hapa.

wakati huo huo na mimi na swali kwa wanaume wenzangu;
kuwa romantic maana yake nini?

1. ?
2. ?
3. ?

 

[klorokwini]

...hehehehe....e bana umemaliza kila kitu...ATM, kuchunwa, buzi.....
ngoja wenyewe waje kupinga hapa.

wakati huo huo na mimi na swali kwa wanaume wenzangu;
kuwa romantic maana yake nini?

1. ?
2. ?
3. ?

According to klorokwin: Kuwa romantic ni kujenga mazingira ya mapenzi ambayo yatamfanya mwenza wako kila wakati ajiskie raha na furaha kuwa karibu yako. Hii inajumuisha majukumu, uchokozi, utundu, Uhashuo (source:gaijin), SRM nakadhalika nakadhalika.

Romantic gauge: Ukitaka kujijua how romantic u are kwa mwenza wako jaribu kumuaga unaenda safari, huzuni yake ukiondoka na mawasiliano yake wakati upo safarini yatakujulisha ni kiasi gani umefanikiwa kuwa romantic kwake.
Ukiona umemuaga waifu, halaf waifu linafurahia na ukiondoka tu limezima simu na ukirejea safari waifu limenenepa ujue romantic gauge yako iko zero au minus. (Dedicationa yako ni wimbo wa "samaki pole")

Nimemaliza

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

According to klorokwin: Kuwa romantic ni kujenga mazingira ya mapenzi ambayo yatamfanya mwenza wako kila wakati ajiskie raha na furaha kuwa karibu yako. Hii inajumuisha majukumu, uchokozi, utundu, Uhashuo (source:gaijin), SRM nakadhalika nakadhalika.

Romantic gauge: Ukitaka kujijua how romantic u are kwa mwenza wako jaribu kumuaga unaenda safari, huzuni yake ukiondoka na mawasiliano yake wakati upo safarini yatakujulisha ni kiasi gani umefanikiwa kuwa romantic kwake.
Ukiona umemuaga waifu, halaf waifu linafurahia na ukiondoka tu limezima simu na ukirejea safari waifu limenenepa ujue romantic gauge yako iko zero au minus. (Dedicationa yako ni wimbo wa "samaki pole")

Nimemaliza

Hahahahahahh umemaliza shemeji yangu. Lizzy haitaji presha hapa. Ghobyala mayo ghobyala ghawiza, alikwing'ombe ghobyala ghawizaa eh.
Nahene lolo, bhebhe ang'u

 

[klorokwini]

Hahahahahahh umemaliza shemeji yangu. Lizzy haitaji presha hapa. Ghobyala mayo ghobyala ghawiza, alikwing'ombe ghobyala ghawizaa eh.
Nahene lolo, bhebhe ang'u

Umeona eeh? halaf washkaji zake babu DC wanatwambia hatuko romantic. unajua udaku hata ulaya pia uko, yaani Lizzy ndio alipaswa kusema siko romantic na sio hawa washkaji zake babu DC.
wameniuzi kweli

 

[Natalie]

Mkuu hii mada ina complication yake ambayo ni ngumu sana...!
Suppose your GF/BF told you that "you are so hot"....! Or "you are so tight"....! Definitely these are encouraging words, and some of the words most of us do want to here from their partners...! But, if you try to take a little bit time to think on this, there must be a hided thought...! Because if you are hot, would you ask that you are hot in relation to whom? To whom comparison did your partner make with you to justify that you are so tight?
Kwa hiyo kwa mtazamo wangu, pamoja na vitu vingine, akishasema hivyo, basi ni muhimu angesema wanaume wa Kitanzania amewalinganisha na wanaume wa nchi zipi....! Na kama ni wanaume kutoka kila nchi duniani, basi yeye mwenyewe hafai tena, na ni vema pia akasema basi wanaume hao wa Kitanzania wameshikilia nafasi gani duniani, nchi gani ni ya kwanza, na ipi ya mwisho....!
NB: Tafadhalini sana, sio kila sifa hutolewa...! Maana waweza kuulizwa maswali usiyaweza kujibu...!

Kuwa makini na mtu anayependa kukusifu tu kuwa wewe ni hot, interest zake kwako ni za kingono tu, ukipata ajali na ukawa unakaa kwenye wheeling chair, hatokujali wala kuona thamani yako tena, angalia maisha ya yule Superman aliyeumia na kuanza kuishi kwa kutegemea wheeling chair, Mke wake alikuwa mwenye upendo wa kweli, aliendelea kumjali, ingekuwa ishu ya you are hot, asingehangaika naye, wanaosema uko hot, wengi wanakuwa na interest za kingono tu

 

[Dark City]

According to klorokwin: Kuwa romantic ni kujenga mazingira ya mapenzi ambayo yatamfanya mwenza wako kila wakati ajiskie raha na furaha kuwa karibu yako. Hii inajumuisha majukumu, uchokozi, utundu, Uhashuo (source:gaijin), SRM nakadhalika nakadhalika.

Romantic gauge: Ukitaka kujijua how romantic u are kwa mwenza wako jaribu kumuaga unaenda safari, huzuni yake ukiondoka na mawasiliano yake wakati upo safarini yatakujulisha ni kiasi gani umefanikiwa kuwa romantic kwake.
Ukiona umemuaga waifu, halaf waifu linafurahia na ukiondoka tu limezima simu na ukirejea safari waifu limenenepa ujue romantic gauge yako iko zero au minus. (Dedicationa yako ni wimbo wa "samaki pole")

Nimemaliza

Kwa vituko wewe sikuwezi...Mhhh...ngoja nisiseme zaidi!!

 

[Dark City]

Hahahahahahh umemaliza shemeji yangu. Lizzy haitaji presha hapa. Ghobyala mayo ghobyala ghawiza, alikwing'ombe ghobyala ghawizaa eh.
Nahene lolo, bhebhe ang'u

Vipi tena kajukuu???? Siku hizi na wewe unanena kwa lugha???

 

[Dark City]

Umeona eeh? halaf washkaji zake babu DC wanatwambia hatuko romantic. unajua udaku hata ulaya pia uko, yaani Lizzy ndio alipaswa kusema siko romantic na sio hawa washkaji zake babu DC.
wameniuzi kweli

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