For sure I wish every one of us would contribute to this thread; including you...! But, to enable me to help you to understand me, I think it is very important to explain such complication hindering you...! Every one of us is either already found her/himself in this situation, or would find to be as long as he/she is married or just having a relationship with a BF/GF...! I am not basing on either sex, but all....! What I really want is that; can we find ourselves cheating accidentally? Or it is always a planned event? Regardless of the either, and no matter how do we contributed to the cheating, are we supposed to forgive our cheaters? Due to your experience, either from yourself, friends, relatives, neighbors, or any knowledge you might have acquired anywhere, does forgiveness given to cheaters normally bring positive advancements to particular relationships?
For sure I wish every one of us would contribute to this thread; including you...! But, to enable me to help you to understand me, I think it is very important to explain such complication hindering you...! Every one of us is either already found her/himself in this situation, or would find to be as long as he/she is married or just having a relationship with a BF/GF...! I am not basing on either sex, but all....! What I really want is that; can we find ourselves cheating accidentally? Or it is always a planned event? Regardless of the either, and no matter how do we contributed to the cheating, are we supposed to forgive our cheaters? Due to your experience, either from yourself, friends, relatives, neighbors, or any knowledge you might have acquired anywhere, does forgiveness given to cheaters normally bring positive advancements to particular relationships?
Thats why am saying the whole thing is complicated, we cannot analyse it here and come up with an answer in the form of 'one fits all'....everyone cheat, forget and forgive in quite a diverse manner such that we cannot say for sure how and why some of us cheat, forget or forgive in any given situation....got me?
Cheating is completely unforgivable!!!
Its a waste of time, coz a habit never dies,
You will forgive and forgive and forgive.....sama case always,
sasa shida zote za nini? Close that chapter - Start another
If you close the chapter, will you not engage in other sexual relationship?How far are you sure that the next partner won't cheat?
By the way even you sin and do wrongs and ask for God's forgiveness. Samehe hata saba mara sabini mazee.
Sameheni 70x7[/QUOTE IS REAL COMPLICATED,yes u can forgive what if anarudia?ukiacha kumsamehe wewe binafsi una uhakika umekuwa faithful muda wote?????????labda in one way or another u have cheated lakini hukushikwa,just look on the source of cheating and see, but as for me i prefer forgiveness.Not only to forgive but also forget:A S 8:
IS REAL COMPLICATED,yes u can forgive what if anarudia?ukiacha kumsamehe wewe binafsi una uhakika umekuwa faithful muda wote?????????labda in one way or another u have cheated lakini hukushikwa,just look on the source of cheating and see, but as for me i prefer forgiveness.Not only to forgive but also forget:A S 8:
Sameheni 70x7[/QUOTE IS REAL COMPLICATED,yes u can forgive what if anarudia?ukiacha kumsamehe wewe binafsi una uhakika umekuwa faithful muda wote?????????labda in one way or another u have cheated lakini hukushikwa,just look on the source of cheating and see, but as for me i prefer forgiveness.Not only to forgive but also forget:A S 8:
Hmmm Wiselady :A S 8:
If you close the chapter, will you not engage in other sexual relationship?How far are you sure that the next partner won't cheat?
By the way even you sin and do wrongs and ask for God's forgiveness. Samehe hata saba mara sabini mazee.
If you decide to forgive someone it means you have to forget as well, If you forgive someone and you don't forget its means you still hold grudge against him/her.