Kabla ya ndoa ujifunze lipi

[Mr Rocky]

Haya ndo maneno sasa....

BHT sio kwamba ndoa ni utumwa bana
Ndoa ni raha iwapo kila mmoja wenu ndani ya mahusiano ana raha na amani. Ndoa ni raha kama kila mmoja anaridhika na mwenzake na kufurahia uwepo wa mwenzake ndani ya nyumba na sio mmoja amenuna na mmoja ana raha na mnaaita ndoa.Ndoa ni raha ya pande zote mbili kusikilizana na kushauriana na kuheshjimiana na kupendana wote na sio utumwa na ubwana

 

[Mbu]

Na mume nae amfanyie nini mke?Mume kichwa cha familia, na mke nae?

....mume ni kichwa, ...mke ni moyo wa familia.

 

[bht]

Nimemwambia ameyataka mwenyewe leo nyumbani hakuendeki

Ndo maana ana dana dana hapa?

 

[Mr Rocky]

'intangibles' tu hizo mbona unashtuka? ipo siku mbele ya kasisi utayatamka maneno haya;

''... nitakupenda kwa shida na raha, taabu na mateso maisha yangu yote mpaka kifo kitutenganishe'' naye atakujibu... "..nitakutii, nitakuwa muaminifu, blah blah...!"

Mbu hapo Italic sijui imekutoka maana sijaona ilipoandikwa

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

'intangibles' tu hizo mbona unashtuka? ipo siku mbele ya kasisi utayatamka maneno haya;

''... nitakupenda kwa shida na raha, taabu na mateso maisha yangu yote mpaka kifo kitutenganishe'' naye atakujibu... "..nitakutii, nitakuwa muaminifu, blah blah...!"

Mbona siku hizi watu wanavibadili hivyo viapo (na mimi nawaunga mkono na miguu yangu yote)

Deku hii ya juzi juzi tu hapa Kate Middleton alivyofanya....

Kate Middleton will not vow to 'obey' Prince William in her wedding vows - following Princess Diana's lead, it was claimed last night.
The bride-to-be will instead promise to 'love, comfort, honour and keep' her husband.

The couple have decided themselves what they want to say in their vows.
Diana ditched royal protocol when she wed Prince Charles in 1981 and controversially did not vow to 'obey'.

Nimeipenda sana hiyo ya 'love, comfort, honour and keep'. Hakuna upumbavu wa kutii hapo.

Chanzo cha nukuu: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...ride-obey-following-Princess-Dianas-lead.html

 

[The Finest]

Ndo maana ana dana dana hapa?

Leo kila mtu yuko on Mbu's case ona chini hapa anavyosema Mr.Rocky lol

Mbu hapo Italic sijui imekutoka maana sijaona ilipoandikwa

 

[Mbu]

Mpaka hapo freshi.

Ila hapa ndo penye tatizo. Kwa hiyo mume yeye hatakiwi kuwa na nidhamu, adabu, na usikivu kwa mkewe?

...mume anatakiwa ampende tu mkewe. Iwapo kwenye huo upendo wa mume kuna nidhamu, adabu, usikivu, nk, ...jibu lishapatikana hapo NN.

 

[The Finest]

Mbona siku hizi watu wanavibadili hivyo viapo (na mimi nawaunga mkono na miguu yangu yote)

Deku hii ya juzi juzi tu hapa Kate Middleton alivyofanya....



Nimeipenda sana hiyo ya 'love, comfort, honour and keep'. Hakuna upumbavu wa kutii hapo.

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NN hiyo ya Kate Middleton inaitwa "On Your Face" lol no bullshitting around yaani straight forward

 

[Blaki Womani]

....mume ni kichwa, ...mke ni moyo wa familia.

Mbu umenena

 

[Mr Rocky]

...mume anatakiwa ampende tu mkewe. Iwapo kwenye huo upendo wa mume kuna nidhamu, adabu, usikivu, nk, ...jibu lishapatikana hapo NN.

Mbu mbona kuna kama subordination fulani (nidhamu, adabu na usikivu) lol

 

[The Finest]

Mbu mbona kuna kama subordination fulani (nidhamu, adabu na usikivu) lol

I was thinking the same thing

 

[Marytina]

wikiend ntazipitia posts zote za hii topic

 

[The Finest]

Mbu umenena

Utanitii?????

 

[The Finest]

wikiend ntazipitia posts zote za hii topic

Mzima wewe??

 

[bht]

....mume ni kichwa, ...mke ni moyo wa familia.

Yeye pia aweza kuwa moyo na mi nikawa kichwa, hakuna ubaya!

 

[Mbu]

Nimemwambia ameyataka mwenyewe leo nyumbani hakuendeki

...wewe si umen'kusudia tangia jana?....lete maandiko, hutaki!...nyumba yangu inaungua huku!

Mbu hapo Italic sijui imekutoka maana sijaona ilipoandikwa

...aaahh!!! nini tena?...naandika huku nasinzia bana...bht 'anachakachua' kila niandikacho pheeewwww!

 

[bht]

hivi vile viapo vya bomani, kwa ndoa zinazofungwa kule, vikoje? (nimepata shauku ya kujua)

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

...kuna kaukweli lakini hapo, "ukinitii nitakupenda!" and vice versa!

Kweli mtihani wa leo!! Mh
Nitakutii kwa sababu it makes me happy and makes me a woman.............kwa mujibu wa andiko but si guarantee ya kupendwa!! kwa maana hiyo mwanamke anauwezo wa kumtii mtu asiyempenda?? Maana hata kama unampenda mtu na yeye hakupendi iko siku si utachoka? na je ukichoka utii utaendelea kuwepo??mwe!
Ah mnanichanganya zaidi sasa, akili yenyewe hii ya kubandika na mate, ukipita upepo zimeyeyuka! Kuweni fair tafadhali!

 

[Mr Rocky]

...wewe si umen'kusudia tangia jana?....lete maandiko, hutaki!...nyumba yangu inaungua huku!



...aaahh!!! nini tena?...naandika huku nasinzia bana...bht 'anachakachua' kila niandikacho pheeewwww!

Angalia utaandikiwa mpaka kiapo chako cha ndoa ujikute unasema nitamtii na kumsujudia wife wangu

 

[Mr Rocky]

I was thinking the same thing

Tf bora nibakie na cha kwangu tuheshimiana na kupendana hayo mengine ni ubwana na utumwa tuuu