Personally I don't have issues with few individuals living abroad but when a country is losing a boat load of young people, that's a problem.
Where did you get this idea that we hate the west? It's the unfair policies against poor countries, that's the issues.
1985, the price of tea was $0.64 per pound (weight), Tanzania needed some foreign cash, so the government went on to double production of tea. Few months later, the west who determines the price of the tea, lowered it to $0.32 per pound while the price of fertilizers from the west remained the same. If you think that's okay, something is wrong with you.
We have BRT, you don't, who is playing catch up.
China has always had relationship with the west since 1800s (good or bad). Ever heard of California gold rush?
I once asked a Japanese student, why they go to study in the US when they have good universities in Japan? She told me that America is their biggest competitor, they go to learn how they do business. I suspect now the Chinese do the same.
It's a two way street bro, demand vs Supply.
No hate, just unhappy with the neocon agenda.