Mambo ya 50/50 binafsi mnitoe siyatakiiii

[ephen_]

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[min -me]

Wanawake wowote ukishasikia wanaitana shoo, shosti au shoga angu basi ujue uwezekano wa kutokuwa mabumunda ni mdogo sana.

Na ni wake za watu na wanakutana bar wana vunja vikoba , hapa labda ujifanye tahira tu maisha yasonge

 

[Habdavi]

How does it make a difference? Aren’t help and dependence the same thing? For instance, you have a house helper at home who works for you, can’t you also provide for her needs as well, such as health insurance, shelter, and food? What if she has needs won’t you fulfill them?
Please clarify your point because I don’t understand what “dependence” means, lol 🫢

It takes wisdom to strike the balance. As a man there are things you are given the mandate to take care of; the non negotiables. But if a woman has wisdom to see through things, there are small matters of the family which are within her means to help.

James 3:13–18

13 Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom.

14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. 15 Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.

17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. 18 Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.

1 Corinthians 3:19: "For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God’s sight."

 

[min -me]

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Mtu hana kazi ya kueleweka ila ana mchezo marejesho laki tano kila wiki🤔

 

[Chivundu]

Jana nilikua napitia vikao vya wanawake IG
Nikakuta somo mume akifa hutakiwi kuanza kulia! Ingia ndani kusanya hati za mali zenu zote hadi risiti za thamani za ndani mpaka ving'akuzi tafuta sehemu chimbia.
Ukimaliza ndo uanze kulia.

Nilicheka sana! Ndoa za siku hizi watu wanaviziana maslahi mbele hasahasa wanawake.

Vijana washasanukia huu mchezo, hakuna kumwaga wino; hakuna kuvisha pete, wanakutana kimjini mjini, wanaachana kimjini mjini. 😊

 

[min -me]

Jana nilikua napitia vikao vya wanawake IG
Nikakuta somo mume akifa hutakiwi kuanza kulia! Ingia ndani kusanya hati za mali zenu zote hadi risiti za thamani za ndani mpaka ving'akuzi tafuta sehemu chimbia.
Ukimaliza ndo uanze kulia.

Nilicheka sana! Ndoa za siku hizi watu wanaviziana maslahi mbele hasahasa wanawake.

Mtu wa hivi anaweza kunyonga usingizini

 

[Nyaubikra]

Dr na mbn bado unasugua nembe

 

[ephen_]

Vijana washasanukia huu mchezo, hakuna kumwaga wino; hakuna kuvisha pete, wanakutana kimjini mjini, wanaachana kimjini mjini. 😊

Vijana wengi wanasingizia kataa ndoa ila ukweli ni kwamba hawana pesa za kuhudumia familia.

Mtu anapokea mshahara laki 7 (huu ndo ukweli bongo watu wengi mshahara laki 7) anaendesha gari bovu kila siku garage hela ya kuhudumia familia atatoa wapi?

 

[ephen_]

Mtu wa hivi anaweza kunyonga usingizini

Watu wanachukua chao mapemaaa

 

[min -me]

Vijana wengi wanasingizia kataa ndoa ila ukweli ni kwamba hawana pesa za kuhudumia familia.

Mtu anapokea mshahara laki 7 (huu ndo ukweli bongo watu wengi mshahara laki 7) anaendesha gari bovu kila siku garage hela ya kuhudumia familia atatoa wapi?

Kuhudumia familia wala hakuhitaji pesa nyingi kihivyo , kuanzisha familia mnaweza jijenga taratibu kwa pamoja mpaka mkatoboa , ujambazi ndio sababu ya kataa ndoa , ujambazi ujambazi mke anadanga na kuuza mbususu ndani ya ndoa , just imagine 🤔

 

[ephen_]

Kuhudumia familia wala hakuhitaji pesa nyingi kihivyo , kuanzisha familia mnaweza jijenga taratibu kwa pamoja mpaka mkatoboa , ujambazi ndio sababu ya kataa ndoa , ujambazi ujambazi mke anadanga na kuuza mbususu ndani ya ndoa , just imagine 🤔

Hii ni kwa vijana wa zamani! Wa siku hizi wengi hawataki majukumu

 

[100 others]

Mimi ndo yule sasa mwanamke KIGEGO ambaye sipendi kutegemea pesa ya mwanaume kuendesha maisha yangu..!!

Hata muda wa kuomba penzi lazima ujitafakari mara mbili kama unastahili kupewa..!! 😹😹😹

Mwisho wa siku upwiru ukikupanda utaileta tu.. hatunaga haraka..

 

[min -me]

Hii ni kwa vijana wa zamani! Wa siku hizi wengi hawataki majukumu

Vijana wa sasa hivi naona kama huu ujambazi wanakwepana sana , wao ni kuboana vikojoleo na kutembea naona kama wanawezana na hawana stress, ila wa kizazi chetu sisi akijichanganya lazima achanganyikiwe

 

[ephen_]

Vijana wa sasa hivi naona kama huu ujambazi wanakwepana sana , wao ni kuboana vikojoleo na kutembea naona kama wanawezana na hawana stress, ila wa kizazi chetu sisi akijichanganya lazima achanganyikiwe

Sasa hivi ukitaka upate ndoa mwanamke tangaza unataka majukumu 50/50

 

[Dr. Mariposa]

Nikiwa popote na mwanamke then akajifanya anataka alipe bill ambayo tumekula au kunywa pahala, huwa namzuia nailipa mm mwenyewe

Then after hapo hata sms hapati kutoka kwangu na sim zake sipokei.. dharau sana nitoke na wewe then ujifanye kulipia bill

Nachukia sana

Na huo ndio urijali, igweeeeeee igweeeeeee unapaswa kua mwalimu wa hawa wavulana wanaokimbia majukumu yao nakuegemea kwenye kivuli cha 50/50

 

[min -me]

Kuna kisa leo dada alikisimulia humu walivyopitia changamoto na mhalifu wake na wakapambana nazo , ebe fikiria kama kungekua na jambazi katikati yao kama hiyo familia ingesimama 🤔@ephen_

 

[min -me]

Sasa hivi ukitaka upate ndoa mwanamke tangaza unataka majukumu 50/50

Ndoa za gen z

 

[Dr. Mariposa]

Kwenye hela aaah ila mengine mnataka 50/50 wakati huo huo mnataka mpambanie ajira zote na mwanaume...

Hela tamu jamani hasa ya kupewa na watu wakupendao, ajira muhimu tukikaa sana nyumban tutanenepeana

 

[Dr. Mariposa]

Umesema kuhudumiwa?

Naaam, KUHUDUMIWA

 

[ephen_]

Kuna kisa leo dada alikisimulia humu walivyopitia changamoto na mhalifu wake na wakapambana nazo , ebe fikiria kama kungekua na jambazi katikati yao kama hiyo familia ingesimama 🤔@ephen_

Nitag huo uzi
Tunaongea kutokana na yanayotokea sana kwe jamii.

Binafsi mtu wangu kanyooka hana vipengele so ikitokea changamoto za kiuchumi au kiafya lazima niwe nae bega kwa bega.

Ndoa zilizonyooka bado zipo🥂