Umeongea point let ask you out of topic inawezekana kwa mwanamke kuwa na mahusiano na mwanaume ambaye ni rafiki wa karibu sana?I humbly decline this offer 😅😅😅. But on a serious note...the road that leads to deception is very blur...it always starts with random convoz, random laughters, hitting each other in excitement, giving/getting a ride daily and having heartfelt conversations. Hizi kwa mwanamke alieolewa ni detrimental kwa sabbu tunatekwa navyo kirahisi..why??emotions zinakuwa involved and we are emotional entities.
Ndo maana ni vile dunia inampaisha mwanamke, but the rate of women cheating I feel its very high kuliko wanaume...kwa sabbu dunia imetupaint kivngne ndo maana halipigiwi kelele. Leo itengenezwe dawa yoyote afu iwekwe, kwamba ambae hajawah kucheat aruke hapa ataishi ama la anakufa..utaona tu!!! Many of us get fond of people especially if they make us happy. Sisemei wenye kazi tu ama wasomi, lakin hata mama wa nyumban, muuza genge akiwa a supporting pillar tu kihisia kwa huyu mwanamke, habar imeisha.
Tunatakiwa tustruggle kutoentertain unusual connecting with third parties when we are in a family. Being in the presence of someone consistently huwaga inaleta connection ndo maana hata ukute mtu ana strong standing gani, kuna always a moment of vulnerability itakujaga tu...so for me nimejifunza kuavoid unnecessary things that could make me lose my guard. Nimejifunza I shouldnt trust myself and my will for am a weak creature..I rely on the Holy Spirit ili yeye ndo awe confidence yangu. Sio wote waliocheat hawakuwa na msimamo, some walikuwa nayo na bado wakaanguka. Maybe you need it...yes you...🙂🙂