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- Jan 13, 2010
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Uliamini ulichotaka kuamini na unaendelea kuamini unachotaka kuamini....Hakuna aliye perfect..lakini ukiamua kuconcentrate na mabaya ya mtu ambayo huwezi hata kuyaprove basi mzigo wa Fikra-hasi utakutafuna.....
Unless you have special interests in her au yeye mwenyewe amekuruhusu kujadili hapa, still this does not justify what you are trying to do.
Nanachokiona hapa ni kama vile unajaribu ku-create mazingira ili watu wajadili her private life in public.
Unless yeye mwenyewe anataka kujadiliwa in that way, it is better to respect the private life of others, even if it contains some positive elements.
Najua siku hizi vijana wengi wanataka kuwa na maisha ya macelebrity wanaowapenda or some fantasy figures, They desperately want to look like them, dress and live their lifestyle.
Thus, what you are trying to advocate here is for youngsters, especially girls to be a person that is completely unknown to them, by clinging on to their image and believing that others lifestyle's have so much more appeal than their own.
Kwa kufanya hivyo unawafanya hao wasichana kusahau umuhimu wao kuwa their own role-models in order to make the changes necessary to our own lives.
Young girls and boys should be taught to be their own role models, rather than following others examples. They should believe in themselves, respect and admire themselves, make their own list of things they would like to do in their life, and be as best as they can.
That is what you should teach your own kids and others kids. Instead of teaching them to use their valuable energies to emulate a fantasy figure, teach them how to become their own true role model and make themselves proud. Naamini hata Mwamvita asingefikia hapo alipo kama siyo kuwa her own role model.
As the novelist Jane Austin put it "We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be."
https://www.gretchenrubin.com/happi...de-in-ourselves-than-any-other-person-can-be/