Wanawake wenzangu mnawezaje kumsamehe a cheating husband?

Wanawake wenzangu mnawezaje kumsamehe a cheating husband?

Tajiri wa Magomeni said:
it seems like you have a good heart ila ndo hivyo mambo ya michepuko yanakukera sana
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I have good heart tu, Mimi michepuko hainikeri maana inatoa balance, shida ni pale wanaume kujihalalisha wakati hata wao hawaridhishi wanawake
 
Khantwe said:
Ni bora mara 100 mtu kama amekuchoka avunje ndoa tu kuliko kujitia anakupenda saana kumbe anakupaka mafuta kwa mgongo wa chupa
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Kuna namna wanaume wanakosea na Kuna namna wanawake wanakosea pia hasa katika mtazamo.

Ndoa ni merger ya maisha mawili, malezi mawili na Malengo mawili..kwa azma au lengo moja kubadilika kwa pamoja kufikia makubaliano ya co-existance.

Changamoto ni mmoja au wote kuhisi the road to that acceptable co-existance is as simple as sleeping and waking up everything is green and beautiful. It takes sweat and pain to arrive at that point.

Leo mahusiano yamekua tit for tat.. unaweka ..naweka... Kesho inakuwa.. hayana uvumilivu and the worst of it all kizazi hiki hatujui kusikiliza... Interest na wenza imepungua almost to non.. mwenzako asipokuambia basi hushuguuliki na kuendelea kumjifunza..kumjua kupitia viashiria nk..

Na hizi trend Kama feminism (the toxic kind) zinaleta changamoto zaidi maana zinashift a bag of responsibility to another person na zinaset standard za performance bila kuzingatia background and culture.. tukipimwa na hizi standard hakuna mwanaume anatoboa..na anayetoboa is almost a robot without feelings....

Kwa kifupi wanaume wanakosea katika ndoa na wanawake wanakosea ..ushauri especially kwa ndoa changa ni kuvumilia kuwasilisha na kusikilizana.. usitake utafuniwe mtengeneze unayemtaka.. hutaki acheat njoo na namna ya kumfanya.. hakuna mtu utamkuta mume.. on the wedding day you either get a groom/bride go and make each other husband and wife... Goodluck.
 
Kamukhm said:
Kuna namna wanaume wanakosea na Kuna namna wanawake wanakosea pia hasa katika mtazamo.

Ndoa ni merger ya maisha mawili, malezi mawili na Malengo mawili..kwa azma au lengo moja kubadilika kwa pamoja kufikia makubaliano ya co-existance.

Changamoto ni mmoja au wote kuhisi the road to that acceptable co-existance is as simple as sleeping and waking up everything is green and beautiful. It takes sweat and pain to arrive at that point.

Leo mahusiano yamekua tit for tat.. unaweka ..naweka... Kesho inakuwa.. hayana uvumilivu and the worst of it all kizazi hiki hatujui kusikiliza... Interest na wenza imepungua almost to non.. mwenzako asipokuambia basi hushuguuliki na kuendelea kumjifunza..kumjua kupitia viashiria nk..

Na hizi trend Kama feminism (the toxic kind) zinaleta changamoto zaidi maana zinashift a bag of responsibility to another person na zinaset standard za performance bila kuzingatia background and culture.. tukipimwa na hizi standard hakuna mwanaume anatoboa..na anayetoboa is almost a robot without feelings....

Kwa kifupi wanaume wanakosea katika ndoa na wanawake wanakosea ..ushauri especially kwa ndoa changa ni kuvumilia kuwasilisha na kusikilizana.. usitake utafuniwe mtengeneze unayemtaka.. hutaki acheat njoo na namna ya kumfanya.. hakuna mtu utamkuta mume.. on the wedding day you either get a groom/bride go and make each other husband and wife... Goodluck.
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Sijui hata umeongelea nini
 
Trust me time heals everything
Mda ukishapita utaona kawaida sana na hata likitokea sana hutastuka
Kikubwa focus on you
Jipende,pendeza and jali watoto wako ukiweza uwe unajitoa out mwenyewe au uende hata na marafiki zako
Itakusaidia sana sana
Sote tumepita huko
Mwanzo mgum ila with time utaona kawaida tu
 
Eli79 said:
Kwa hiyo sasa hivi inabidi umuelewe kwa 0%[emoji23], her happiness comes first coz she doesn't have kids yet, akiwa na watoto huenda kids' happiness ikaja first then her's, hapo ndio misimamo yote aloyonayo itabadilika.

I get your point mkuu.
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Exactly mkuu, that's what I meant, nashukuru umenielewa vizuri, japo sidhani kama yeye kanielewa.
 
Inaonekana umesoma na una kazi nzuri. Ndivyo vinavyokupa kiburi.
 
cariha said:
I have good heart tu, Mimi michepuko hainikeri maana inatoa balance, shida ni pale wanaume kujihalalisha wakati hata wao hawaridhishi wanawake
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Hapo sasa, wanawake kila kukicha wanaume wanaongeza viporo, kuna mama alisema utasikia baby baadaye nimechoka na kazi ngoja nipumzike kidogo hapo atajikohoresha weee, break ya kwanza ni asubuhi, ngoja niwahi job mapema tu wife akirudi drama hizo hizo mpaka inakuwa single music chumbani, na wanavumiliwa!
 
Ulweso said:
Hapo sasa, wanawake kila kukicha wanaume wanaongeza viporo, kuna mama alisema utasikia baby baadaye nimechoka na kazi ngoja nipumzike kidogo hapo atajikohoresha weee, break ya kwanza ni asubuhi, ngoja niwahi job mapema tu wife akirudi drama hizo hizo mpaka inakuwa single music chumbani, na wanavumiliwa!
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Ni kweli wanaume wengi Wana underperform kwa wake zao na wanavumiliwa tu maana daily excuse humu JF kutwa kujimwambafai
 
cariha said:
Ni kweli wanaume wengi Wana underperform kwa wake zao na wanavumiliwa tu maana daily excuse humu JF kutwa kujimwambafai
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Mbona kujimwambafai, tena wale wanaojua kuchonga ndiyo zero kabisa tena mwenye pembe 2, wanatunziwa siri!
 
Ulweso said:
Acha tu kutwa kudharirisha wanawake, bila sababu mwingine eti sababu ya mwanaume kucheat ni mwanamke mwenyewe anakuwa hajui majukumu yake, mtu kama huyu unamuona ni mzima kweli?
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Wengi wao n waongo tyuuuh, wala sio uhalisia na wanaujua ukweli, wanachangamsha genge tyuuh hapa JF.
 
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