My mother is dying of Cancer

[Mhandisi Mzalendo]

Pole sana.
Kuwa imara kipindi hiki kuwa kakribubna familia na msherehekea mama kumaliza mwendo...
Apumzike kwa amani

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[Bubu Msemaovyo]

Guys,
Thank y'all for the kind words and advice and supports. I really appreciate your contributions.

My mother passed away . Its really difficult to be strong when it comes to the death of parent. We knew about her death yes, but still we were confident that she'd beat it even through miracles, though she insisted that she was not going to beat cancer and death was inevitable.

Towards the end, she was mostly quiet, and free of pain and didn't want to see anyone. She covered her eyes with a handkerchief and gave us a chance to say goodbye.

I heard father whispering in mother's ear, that he'll marry her again and again. He will choose her again and "i will see you again right? Just wait me there" He believes in reincarnation power. He was smiling and one eye watering.

We hugged her and the last words told us was, she was going to miss us and she was very sorry that she can't be around, and " take care of your brother, and father". I gave her a kiss on the forehead, then she slipped away peaceful five min later.

It's an extremely hard day. We've missed her already. It feels surreal, weird and it sucks. Guys, it's hard to put into words. But we a glad that the mother we loved so much is no longer suffering.

I am glad that I got to say goodbye and tell her I loved her and how great a mother and perfect she was to us. I followed all the advice y'all gave me.

This is so painful message Paula Paul you are so strong lady we all have to be kneeling down to pray for our departed parents I miss both. RIP Mama. Amen

 

[Beeb]

Mama ameumaliza mwendo.. apumzike kwa amani.

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[Bushmamy]

Hapana jaman huu uzi unaumiza sana

 

[Beeb]

Hapana jaman huu uzi unaumiza sana

Sana..

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[Watu8]

Words can't describe how sorry I am at this loss. You're in my prayers.

As you go through this difficult time, remember that you are so loved here.

 

[carbamazepine]

Pole sana paula
Mungu akawe faraja kuu kwako na kwa wapendwa wako.
Mungu akupe ujasiri katika kipindi hiki kigumu

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[tchaot]

Pumzika kwa amani Mama

 

[JAY MTAALAM]

Pole sana,binafsi naamin nafsi siku zote inaishi na itaendelea kuwa pamoja na waliobaki..
Naamini umejifunza mengi na wema kwa Mzazi (Peace of God will be with her forever!)
Mwenyezi Mungu awe pamoja nanyi katika wakati huu.

 

[Ushimen]

Barikiwa sana kwa hili Neno Mkuu Ushimen, huu mstari huwa ni faraja yangu kila nikijiskia siwezi ama kukata tamaa, huwa unanijia ya kuwa alisema atakuwa pamoja nami na hatoniacha, kisha ninaskia kupata nguvu mpya ya kuendelea ndani yangu.!!

Nikweli kabisa mkuu, ukiacha kwamba hapa tuna tambuana kwa fake ID's....
Lakini hii haiondoi utu wetu wenye udhaifu mbele zake Mungu, na pasipo yeye hakika hatuwezi.
Mungu akubariki nawe pia SweetieLee

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[Carleen]

Nikweli kabisa mkuu, ukiacha kwamba hapa tuna tambuana kwa fake ID's....
Lakini hii haiondoi utu wetu wenye udhaifu mbele zake Mungu, na pasipo yeye hakika hatuwezi.
Mungu akubariki nawe pia SweetieLee

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Amina mkuu wangu,
Umenena vyema sana!
tubarikiwe sote pia.!!

 

[LadyRed]

Ohh mYy pole sana Paula
Naomba Mungu awafariji jmn🙏🏽

 

[Ryzen]

Pole sana Paula, i feel sorry for you and your family, Paula Death is Natural we need not to fear it, its something that is always there Dear Friend Paula..

I remember back in the few days we used to exchange our ideas about the books we loved to read..
may i reccommend to you list of few books to read so you can overcome fear of death!

1.Enchridion by Epictetus
2.Meditations by Marcus Aurelius!
3.Letters from a Stoic by Seneca


“Death is the doorway to new life.
We live today. We shall live again.
In many forms shall we return.”

Khan

 

[Tripo9]

Very sad to hear that.
May she rest in eternal peace.
I too lost my mother through this deadly disease.
Remain strong pal!

 

[Joseverest]

OOH NOO, POLE SANA
nimesoma thread machozi yananilenga lenga.... sorry for the loss of proud mother

 

[Hosting 24]

Dah! poleni Allah atunusuru sisi na vizazi vyetu

 

[BOB OS]

I extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. May the soul of your mother be at peace with our Heavenly Father.

 

[BOB OS]

 

[Nanye Go]

Make sure you tell her you love her so much and thankful to god thst you had her as a mother.
Tell her thst as often as possible.
My mother died of cancer and was not on her bedside.

What different will it do to her cancerous body now.
She knows they all love her, why tell her they love her again as if this will help anything.

 

[Nanye Go]

Acha uongo bhana tushapoteza wengi kwa cancer, hiyo stage utampa tiba gani km siyo kumwongezea stress????

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Hahaha hawa wanamvizia Paula, hawana lolote, hata wasikusumbue na tiba zao.