My mother is dying of Cancer

[Mtili wandu]

Pole sana Paula Paul

 

[Zesh]

jamani rafiki etu Paula Paul kafiwa na Mama yetu embu tuzidi kumuombea kwa Mungu aendelee kuwafariji yeye na familia yake binafsi nimesikitika sana ngoja tuwasiliane tujue msiba uko wapi

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Duh aiseeee...... R. I. P mom[emoji29][emoji29][emoji29][emoji29][emoji29][emoji29][emoji29][emoji29]

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[Paula Paul]

Guys,
Thank y'all for the kind words and advice and supports. I really appreciate your contributions.

My mother passed away . Its really difficult to be strong when it comes to the death of parent. We knew about her death yes, but still we were confident that she'd beat it even through miracles, though she insisted that she was not going to beat cancer and death was inevitable.

Towards the end, she was mostly quiet, and free of pain and didn't want to see anyone. She covered her eyes with a handkerchief and gave us a chance to say goodbye.

I heard father whispering in mother's ear, that he'll marry her again and again. He will choose her again and "i will see you again right? Just wait me there" He believes in reincarnation power. He was smiling and one eye watering.

We hugged her and the last words told us was, she was going to miss us and she was very sorry that she can't be around, and " take care of your brother, and father". I gave her a kiss on the forehead, then she slipped away peaceful five min later.

It's an extremely hard day. We've missed her already. It feels surreal, weird and it sucks. Guys, it's hard to put into words. But we a glad that the mother we loved so much is no longer suffering.

I am glad that I got to say goodbye and tell her I loved her and how great a mother and perfect she was to us. I followed all the advice y'all gave me.

 

[Saint Anne]

Paula Paul, Pole Sana.


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[A man with no name]

Paula Paul, Mungu akawe faraja kwenu

$ There's clear light at the end of the Tannel $

 

[Nkundwe Sr]

Kifo bhana hakizoeleki hakika pole sana Paula Paul Mama hakika kapata nafasi nzuri ya kufa akiwa na matumaini ya kwenda mbinguni nakuwaga wapendwa wake that was a golden chance si wote tunapata.

Mungu wetu all the time ni mwaminifu hakika ata wakumbatia kwa upendo mkuu maneno ya Baba kwa Mama yamenitoa machozi nilikuwa darasani ikanibidi nitoke kidogo nje jamaa wakaniuliza nini sikuwajibu Binafsi nawaombea kwa Mungu awape faraja kipindi hiki kigumu pole sana rafiki pole mpenzi.

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[Cole Williams]

Paula Paul,
Pole sana Mkuu Stay Strong

Maisha Safari waliokufa wamemaliza Tayari, tuliyo Baki bado tupo safarini

 

[Breki ya Kenge]

Dah, inasikitisha sana ...RIP mama yetu na pole sana dada yetu Paula Paul

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[Pinkman]

Paula Paul, I am very sorry that you and your family are going through this. Pancreatic cancer is just awful and evil.
Please accept my condolences.

 

[Carleen]

Paula Paul,
My heartily condolences to you and your loved ones Sweet Paula, I real understand that your pain right now is very unbearable,

But I do hope that Our Alive Almighty God can cease these sufferings as soon as possible, May He be your comforter, May He shower you with everlasting blessings, May He hold you with his righteous hand and most importantly trust His doings, He can be everything you need at each and every second.!

May a Holly Ghost's care, peace and comfort be upon you! Be strong as you've been always, My prayers are always with you Mumie!!

I know this is deadly hard to you but I promise you this too shall pass, every beginning has got its ends.!!

May our beloved mother rest in eternal peace, she has been through alots let her walk away smilingly from all this world's pain and sufferings!

Be thankful that at least you've been with her in her last days, that's a huge blessing, more importantly, don't disappoint her, be that brave girl that she'll always be proud of!

dont forget that, there's always light at the end of the tunnel, Just be strong, I do trust that you can do this..!!

 

[Wild sniper]

Paula Paul, Dah pole sana sitaki kuimagine hayo maumivu kabisa.

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[James Comey]

Paula Friend,
Poleni sana kwa kuuguza. Amani ya Kristo iijaze mioyo yenu katika kipindi hiki kigumu mnachopitia kama familia. Our thought and prayers are with you...na Bwana awavushe.

Mambo yasiwe mengi, mengi yasiwe mambo

 

[EINSTEIN112]

Paula Paul, It hurts when something good ends, but it hurts even more if you cling to it, knowing that its not there.

Let her go and keep the good memories of her.

Sorry for your loss[emoji26][emoji22][emoji25][emoji29][emoji24][emoji27]

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[Mathenge]

Paula !
Poleni sana pamoja na familia yenu wote .Mama amepumzika kwa amani tele na upendo wake machoni kwenu ni ushahidi tosha ,kuna la kujifunza toka kwa mama ,na pia familia imejifunza haya yote aliopitia mama Mungu alikua anafikisha ujumbe kwenu pia jamaa na marafiki ,Kwa ufupi Mama inaonyesha alikua anamtumikia Mungu katika maisha yake na alimfanya kiongozi na fimbo ya maisha yake yote hata mwisho wake umeonekana wazi .Sifa na Utukufu Apewe MUNGU daima,Amina

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[cute b]

Paula Paul, My Condolences,
There aren't really words to provide you comfort.
I have felt a tiny bit of what you feel, I feel for you Paula. My heart aches for you all.

I don't know what to say exactly coz your pain is palpable and so challenging but it will get easier as time goes by, and when all of the grief gradually goes away you'll be reminded of good and happy memories you shared with her that you will cherish forever.

And yeah it's okay to miss your mother and if you feel to cry just cry. Don't ever feel weird about crying or missing your mother.

Be strong and continue to do what would make her proud. Take care of your brother and father for your mother.
Oh , I am practically crying. Sending you prayers, hugs and peaceful thoughts your way.


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[James Comey]

Paula Paul, Aisee poleni sana thoughts and prayers to you all.

Mambo yasiwe mengi, mengi yasiwe mambo

 

[27072019]

DAAH! POLENI SANA SANA!

 

[27072019]

UMENIUMIZA sana sana mpaka nimemkumbuka mwanajf mmoja aliyefariki kwa kansa ya kongosho pia na alisema kabisa madaktari wamesema kuwa atafariki baada ya miezi kadhaa na ikawa kweli, R.I.P wote. R.I.P folk

Uzi wake: Nimeambiwa nitafariki baada ya miezi 4 kutokana na kansa ya kongosho (pancreatic cancer stage 4)

 

[The Initiator huru]

Kasie,
maneno ya busara sana, sina cha kuongezea kwa sababu naona umeongea kila kitu, tumuombee tu mwenyezi Mungu ampe muda zaidi na ampunguzie maumivu.

 

[kedekede]

Dear Paula,
I can understand how you are feeling and what you are going through.There are certain times in life when we are left so empty and powerless when it comes to certain things.

You made me shade tears coz of what is happening to you while you have nothing to do.Sometimes we want our beloved ones to be there no matter how much we and the sick ones are going through.l remember when my mum was so sick and sometimes l prayed for God to take her so that she rests.

But deep inside me l wanted her to stay and be happy again.l also think sometimes she wished she was dead but sometimes she thought she could fight.Make her comfortable as much as you can and don't stop praying.Nobody but Allah knows when we shall pass away!