My mother is dying of Cancer

My mother is dying of Cancer

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Paula Paul said:
Guys,
Thank y'all for the kind words and advice and supports. I really appreciate your contributions.

My mother passed away . Its really difficult to be strong when it comes to the death of parent. We knew about her death yes, but still we were confident that she'd beat it even through miracles, though she insisted that she was not going to beat cancer and death was inevitable.

Towards the end, she was mostly quiet, and free of pain and didn't want to see anyone. She covered her eyes with a handkerchief and gave us a chance to say goodbye.

I heard father whispering in mother's ear, that he'll marry her again and again. He will choose her again and "i will see you again right? Just wait me there" He believes in reincarnation power. He was smiling and one eye watering.

We hugged her and the last words told us was, she was going to miss us and she was very sorry that she can't be around, and " take care of your brother, and father". I gave her a kiss on the forehead, then she slipped away peaceful five min later.

It's an extremely hard day. We've missed her already. It feels surreal, weird and it sucks. Guys, it's hard to put into words. But we a glad that the mother we loved so much is no longer suffering.

I am glad that I got to say goodbye and tell her I loved her and how great a mother and perfect she was to us. I followed all the advice y'all gave me.
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Am speechless

RIP mzazi wetu...

Pole sana wapendwa...

Nasikitika siwezi tena kuendelea kuusoma huu uzi
 
Paula Paul said:
Hello Guys,

My mother is dying of Cancer. We tried everything we possibly could, but today we have been told by the Doctors that she will likely die within two/three days. It feels like a nightmare.

She's not afraid of death, she want to die ASAP, because she has already gone through enough.

There is nothing we can do but make her remaining time comfortable and to spend the last 48 hours with her. It's just so tough and I am hoping for a miracle if it really exist.

Guys cancer is awful. I am scared to death.
I am in so much stress and pain right now, I don't know what to do.
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MAONI YA WADAU

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MANENO YA FARAJA KUTOKA KWA WADAU:

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so sorry for that......just believe in God.
 
Paula Paul said:
Guys,
Thank y'all for the kind words and advice and supports. I really appreciate your contributions.

My mother passed away . Its really difficult to be strong when it comes to the death of parent. We knew about her death yes, but still we were confident that she'd beat it even through miracles, though she insisted that she was not going to beat cancer and death was inevitable.

Towards the end, she was mostly quiet, and free of pain and didn't want to see anyone. She covered her eyes with a handkerchief and gave us a chance to say goodbye.

I heard father whispering in mother's ear, that he'll marry her again and again. He will choose her again and "i will see you again right? Just wait me there" He believes in reincarnation power. He was smiling and one eye watering.

We hugged her and the last words told us was, she was going to miss us and she was very sorry that she can't be around, and " take care of your brother, and father". I gave her a kiss on the forehead, then she slipped away peaceful five min later.

It's an extremely hard day. We've missed her already. It feels surreal, weird and it sucks. Guys, it's hard to put into words. But we a glad that the mother we loved so much is no longer suffering.

I am glad that I got to say goodbye and tell her I loved her and how great a mother and perfect she was to us. I followed all the advice y'all gave me.
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My Condolences Dear Paula.. I cried througout your Post😢😢
Mungu akupe Subra, Faraja na Nguvu ya kukabiliana na huu Msiba mzito. Kifo ni hatima yetu Binaadam. Mama ametangulia na sisi tupo njiani kuelekea huko. Takecare of your Daddy and young Brother..!
 
Umeniliza.
Pole kwa msiba dear one.
Mama amepumzika sasa.
Paula Paul said:
Guys,
Thank y'all for the kind words and advice and supports. I really appreciate your contributions.

My mother passed away . Its really difficult to be strong when it comes to the death of parent. We knew about her death yes, but still we were confident that she'd beat it even through miracles, though she insisted that she was not going to beat cancer and death was inevitable.

Towards the end, she was mostly quiet, and free of pain and didn't want to see anyone. She covered her eyes with a handkerchief and gave us a chance to say goodbye.

I heard father whispering in mother's ear, that he'll marry her again and again. He will choose her again and "i will see you again right? Just wait me there" He believes in reincarnation power. He was smiling and one eye watering.

We hugged her and the last words told us was, she was going to miss us and she was very sorry that she can't be around, and " take care of your brother, and father". I gave her a kiss on the forehead, then she slipped away peaceful five min later.

It's an extremely hard day. We've missed her already. It feels surreal, weird and it sucks. Guys, it's hard to put into words. But we a glad that the mother we loved so much is no longer suffering.

I am glad that I got to say goodbye and tell her I loved her and how great a mother and perfect she was to us. I followed all the advice y'all gave me.
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So sorry for what eventuates to ur mother. The only sln look for a man of God like KIMARO at Kkkt kijitonyama or Mmaksai at Korogwe Kumara they can pray for u and God does helin mieacles

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Ushimen said:
Usiogope, kwa maana mimi ni pamoja nawe; usifadhaike, kwa maana mimi ni Mungu wako; nitakutia nguvu, naam, nitakusaidia, naam, nitakushika kwa mkono wa kuume wa haki yangu.
Isaya 41:10

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Barikiwa sana kwa hili Neno Mkuu Ushimen, huu mstari huwa ni faraja yangu kila nikijiskia siwezi ama kukata tamaa, huwa unanijia ya kuwa alisema atakuwa pamoja nami na hatoniacha, kisha ninaskia kupata nguvu mpya ya kuendelea ndani yangu.!!
 
Paula Paul said:
Pole sana Paula.Nilishindwa kucomment chochote ndugu.Ila sasa angalau nina amani kukuona umepata tumaini jipya.Apumzike kwa amani Mama yetu!
Guys, asanteni sana.
Maneno yenu yana nafasi kubwa sana kwangu hasa kipindi hiki.

Imagine kupata upendo wa namna hii kutoka hapa. Kwanza ninaona kama surprise, sikugegemea hili kabisa .
You know sasa hivi natokwa na machozi ya furaha, moyo wangu unabubujikwa na furaha kwa 'mapenzi' mnaonionesha.

Nimeona vilio na machozi na huzuni kwenye hizi comments, imenifanya nigundue alikuwa ni mama kwangu tuu kwa kunizaa lakini pia kwa kila aliyeguswa amemchukulia kama mama pia. Niseme nini sasa? Natamani na Mimi niwape pole kwa huu msiba uliowapata. Guys mmenifanya nisijisikie mpweke tena.

Sina maneno yanayotosha kuwashukuru kwa kuwa bega na bega na mimi ,ila niseme kwamba I truly appreciate everything. Mungu awabariki sana.
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Tupo pamoja mkuu,hakika JF ni familia bora sana kwa kila mmoja wetu.Apumzike kwa amani Mama yetu!
 
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