Jibu kwa The Boss (Nyumba ndogo)

[Tabutupu]

Hii post nimeipenda... Mambo mengi unayooengea yapo very logical... Ila tu unanishangaza kua unafanya assumption kwamba kila mwanaume anae cheat ana nyumba ndogo.... Wanaume almost woote wanacheat.... Issue hapa ni nyumba ndogo... and that is where the problem lies.... Kwama ni HATARI saana mumeo kama anacheat na nyumba ndogo... Hasa for the health of his family..... Ndio maana napinga nyumba ndogo na kukataa kua sio kila mwanaume ana nyumba ndogo ingawa almost woote wana cheat!

mkwe sikubaliani na hiyo wholesale ttheory kwamba wanaume wote wanacheat. Believe me cheating ipo pande zote mbili. siwatetee walio oa lakini najua wanajitahidi japo sometimes wanakuwa forced kuwa hivyo. kwa hiyo utakuta nyumba ndogo ni kitu kinacho zaliwa kutokana na juhudi za mke na mume. Keep your man safe home he will never even think of such nosense things.

 

[AshaDii]

mkwe sikubaliani na hiyo wholesale ttheory kwamba wanaume wote wanacheat. Believe me cheating ipo pande zote mbili. siwatetee walio oa lakini najua wanajitahidi japo sometimes wanakuwa forced kuwa hivyo. kwa hiyo utakuta nyumba ndogo ni kitu kinacho zaliwa kutokana na juhudi za mke na mume. Keep your man safe home he will never even think of such nosense things.

1. Sijasema wanawake hawapo wanao cheat...
2. Sijasema kua wanaume woote wanacheat... ila ni almost...(plz zingatia tofauti)
3. Sijasema wote wanaocheat wanafanya makusudi for underlying factors ni nyingi that much i know...
4. Most men are full of shit... Waweza mkeep safe ukamlamba hata Mt** nabado akatoka believe me you...

 

[TIMING]

Tupate burudani kidogo kutoka studio zetu za Tandale, ili kupoza joto la mjadala.

swahiba una laana

duh............... nimecheka hadi nimeharibu kwa mkoloni!!!

 

[Bishanga]

Mie nitasubiri tu....

pokea kwanza toba yangu:........

 

[Mpatanishi]

Aibu ya nini? kwani hao wanaume wanaosemwa kuwa na nyumba ndogo hao nyumba ndogo/hawara ni wanaume wenzao? si wanawake. Watu tunawona huku makazini wana waume zao na ni mahawara ije kuwa mie nisie na mume?

Nimeona hapo chini umesema bado hujaoa, nyie msiooa ndio nuksi kabisa na hovyo wasumbufu hamna mfano utasikia mwingine anajinadi kabisa wanaume ambao hatujaoa tuko wachache inabidi tunyenyekewe. Nani anataka kusumbuliwa? kazini nisumbuliwe na mikazi bado nije kwako na wewe unisumbue halafu wabahili kama nini wanaume wasiooa kazi yao kutaka kulelewa tu.

Shida gani nitaendelea kuwa nyumba ndogo wala sioni aibu, mradi nina kazi yangu naweza endesha maisha mwenyewe sina mpango wa kusumbuliwa na kidume kisa nataka anioe.

dah ukisikia mawazo mfu ndio ya kwako dada.
Why uibe wanaume wa watu? Kwa nn usitafute wako?

hv unajua uchungu anaoupata mwanamke mwenzako unapomuibia mumewe?

Je ww ukiolewa utafurahia mwanamke mwengine akuchukulie mumeo.

Badilika dada kitendo unachofanya ni uzinzi na dhambi kubwa.

 

[AshaDii]

pokea kwanza toba yangu:........

Kwamba nimekuchukia?? NO... Kwamba umenikwaza?? NDIO... na nilishajibu kua nimepokea... Hivo ina maana nimesamehe...

 

[AshaDii]

dah ukisikia mawazo mfu ndio ya kwako dada.
Why uibe wanaume wa watu? Kwa nn usitafute wako?

hv unajua uchungu anaoupata mwanamke mwenzako unapomuibia mumewe?

Je ww ukiolewa utafurahia mwanamke mwengine akuchukulie mumeo.

Badilika dada kitendo unachofanya ni uzinzi na dhambi kubwa.

Wee Mpatanishi your career haikuruhusu kabisa kumshangaa huyo dada.... She is almost 40... Mwanaume gani ataoa mwanamke hajawahi olewa in the range ya hio age... Hilo huyo dada analitambua fika... hivo aidha awe lonely ama atembee na viserengeti.. Na ni mwanamke gani mwerevu (for she is) atakubali chafuliwa na vijana wadogo hali kuna wenye mvuto wa makamo BUT wana ndoa zao?? Tukija kwenye uzinzi... Siku hicho sio kitisho tosha maana siku hizi watoto wanaanza uzinzi at teen ages na watoto wenzao...

 

[Bishanga]

Umeshusha silaha au kwa sababu akina Darling tone na Sarafina wameondoka?? Toa sababu za kweli B' Acha kunisingizia.... Tuko page ya 35 ndio unagundua tumekwazika.... Kukwazika kulianza kama 10 pages ago huko... Hivo B' waweza endelea tumia silaha wee and co.

Asha hilo gundu sasa,honestly kweli nakwambia.

 

[AshaDii]

Asha hilo gundu sasa,honestly kweli nakwambia.

Honestly Bishanga sielewi maana ya "gundu" Please tell...

 

[hashycool]

Haya majibu kwa ze boss hajaisha tu?

 

[AshaDii]

Haya majibu kwa ze boss hajaisha tu?

Hashy haya kamwe hayataisha.... naona yataisha tu pale ambapo kundi moja litakimbia na kuacha kundi lingine... otherwise....

 

[Bishanga]

Honestly Bishanga sielewi maana ya "gundu" Please tell...

unamkosea mwenzio,anakuomba radhi tena kwa kupiga magoti,we unamg'ang'ania tu oh mbona kuanzia page 10 ulinikandamiza page 35 ndo unaona nuru......hilo ndo gundu......kila mmeo akikukosea unamkumbusha makosa yake ya mwaka juzi....hilo ndo gundu......lala mtoto mzuri....kisss your hubby and hug him tight....unapendwa sana mmu labda hujui tu!

 

[Taured]

bila shaka kuna sababu kwa nini wanaume huwa na nyumba ndogo! kule ni mahala pa tulizo baada ya wanaume kuchoshwa na wake zao hivyo basi wanawake wanapaswa kuwapa wanaume mapenzi ya kweli ili wanaume waepukane na kutafuta substitute! mimi nadhani mwanamke mwelevu hujenga ndoa yake ila yule mjinga huibomoa kwa mikono yake! mimi nadhani tutafiti kwa kina kwamba kwa nini kuna nyumba ndogo? kipi kinapatikana nyumba ndogo na hakipatikani nyumba kubwa?

 

[AshaDii]

unamkosea mwenzio,anakuomba radhi tena kwa kupiga magoti,we unamg'ang'ania tu oh mbona kuanzia page 10 ulinikandamiza page 35 ndo unaona nuru......hilo ndo gundu......kila mmeo akikukosea unamkumbusha makosa yake ya mwaka juzi....hilo ndo gundu......lala mtoto mzuri....kisss your hubby and hug him tight....unapendwa sana mmu labda hujui tu!

Bishanga waweza niambia kama umeelewa ni kwanini nimekwazika?? Sio kwasababu kua kuna cheating... Hapana I can not control that.... Sio kwamba eti upo tofauti na mimi kimawazo.... Hapana - ila sababu unajua fika what i mean kwa niloeleza but wajifanya hapana hujui... Hapa tupo jamvini na watu wa kila namna.... kama ulivoona katika huu Uzi... Kuna waume... Kuna wake... Kuna nyumba ndogo.. na hata mahawara pia...

Saa zoote hapa huu uzi ulikua kasi... Cha ajabu ni kwamba niko upande wa Nyumba kubwa.... nyumba ambayo wewe kama mwanaume it is your original home na yastahili uniheshimu hata kama unanicheat.... Kwamba saa zoote hizi uko kupongeza nyumba ndogo (na ofcoz wanastahili for yaelekea wakufurahisha kuliko the wife) BUT is there a need to rub it kwa mke?? Kwamba you have the audacity ya kumpongeza nyumba ndogo VS nyumba kubwa and then hio nyumba ndogo ikiondoka ndo uombe msamaha kwangu?? Haya basi nimekuelewa kuwa yawezekana ulikosea... Only to find another post kwamba umeshusha silaha sababu ya Nyumba kubwa JUST when Nyumba ndogo ndo imeeaga.... I am not that desperate nor naive.... Ndo maana nimegusia kua i can stand and forgive nikigundua mume wangu kacheat... (tegemea na mazingira na circumtances...) BUT i can not stand nyumba ndogo for huharibu saana foundation ya the original family....

That aside nasema OK... Tupo tu jamvini NO hard feelings... Nimesamehe... But hutaki kuamini mpaka ninyeyekee?? Mie ni mnyenyekevu saaana... But B' i do have my limits... OK... Nashukuru napendwa MMU... For hata mimi naipenda mno pamoja na members wake woote.. are you saying hio ndo excuse for me to kiss and hug you tite saizi?? Please Bishanga i hope umenisoma na kunipata hapa.... Nimesamehe NDIO... BELIEVE Me... But siwezi danganya kua hapa nilipo sipo Disappointed... Am really sorry na sio kwamba it is you.... I guess it is all the men... Ni zile hasira ambazo huja at a whole group... hivo inamaana sio long nitarudi my normal self...

Alafu nina swali... Hivi ina maana hata hoja mpaka ziwepo nyumba ndogo ndo you have the energy... Hivi hivi hamuwezi??

 

[Bishanga]

Bishanga waweza niambia kama umeelewa ni kwanini nimekwazika?? Sio kwasababu kua kuna cheating... Hapana I can not control that.... Sio kwamba eti upo tofauti na mimi kimawazo.... Hapana - ila sababu unajua fika what i mean kwa niloeleza but wajifanya hapana hujui... Hapa tupo jamvini na watu wa kila namna.... kama ulivoona katika huu Uzi... Kuna waume... Kuna wake... Kuna nyumba ndogo.. na hata mahawara pia...

Saa zoote hapa huu uzi ulikua kasi... Cha ajabu ni kwamba niko upande wa Nyumba kubwa.... nyumba ambayo wewe kama mwanaume it is your original home na yastahili uniheshimu hata kama unanicheat.... Kwamba saa zoote hizi uko kupongeza nyumba ndogo (na ofcoz wanastahili for yaelekea wakufurahisha kuliko the wife) BUT is there a need to rub it kwa mke?? Kwamba you have the audacity ya kumpongeza nyumba ndogo VS nyumba kubwa and then hio nyumba ndogo ikiondoka ndo uombe msamaha kwangu?? Haya basi nimekuelewa kuwa yawezekana ulikosea... Only to find another post kwamba umeshusha silaha sababu ya Nyumba kubwa JUST when Nyumba ndogo ndo imeeaga.... I am not that desperate nor naive.... Ndo maana nimegusia kua i can stand and forgive nikigundua mume wangu kacheat... (tegemea na mazingira na circumtances...) BUT i can not stand nyumba ndogo for huharibu saana foundation ya the original family....

That aside nasema OK... Tupo tu jamvini NO hard feelings... Nimesamehe... But hutaki kuamini mpaka ninyeyekee?? Mie ni mnyenyekevu saaana... But B' i do have my limits... OK... Nashukuru napendwa MMU... For hata mimi naipenda mno pamoja na members wake woote.. are you saying hio ndo excuse for me to kiss and hug you tite saizi?? Please Bishanga i hope umenisoma na kunipata hapa.... Nimesamehe NDIO... BELIEVE Me... But siwezi danganya kua hapa nilipo sipo Disappointed... Am really sorry na sio kwamba it is you.... I guess it is all the men... Ni zile hasira ambazo huja at a whole group... hivo inamaana sio long nitarudi my normal self...

Alafu nina swali... Hivi ina maana hata hoja mpaka ziwepo nyumba ndogo ndo you have the energy... Hivi hivi hamuwezi??

nimekuelewa na ninashukuru umenielewa,ila sijaelewa Asha,una maana gani kuuliza 'hivi ina maana hata hoja hata ziwepo nyumba ndogo ndo you have the energy', sijaelewa hapo dear. Energy ya kufanya nini?
I am happy for the truce though,rattled...well mambo ya kawaida Asha....sio vibaya kupimana uwezo wa kuhimili mapigo.Kwa leo i learnt a lot about you as a person,i know my limits now.Stay blessed with a blissful marriage.

 

[Mpatanishi]

Wee Mpatanishi your career haikuruhusu kabisa kumshangaa huyo dada.... She is almost 40... Mwanaume gani ataoa mwanamke hajawahi olewa in the range ya hio age... Hilo huyo dada analitambua fika... hivo aidha awe lonely ama atembee na viserengeti.. Na ni mwanamke gani mwerevu (for she is) atakubali chafuliwa na vijana wadogo hali kuna wenye mvuto wa makamo BUT wana ndoa zao?? Tukija kwenye uzinzi... Siku hicho sio kitisho tosha maana siku hizi watoto wanaanza uzinzi at teen ages na watoto wenzao...

ADii
for real inaudhi kwa kweli watu tunapinga huu uovu mana ni kuwakosea heshima mke uliyemuoa kwa kiapo.

Ni kuikosea heshima jamii,watoto,familia n.k

Na pia unyanyasaji kwa wanawake then unakuja hapa unakuta wanawake hao hao wanashangilia huu ufedhuli.

Watoto wengi wanaishi mitaani baada wazaz wao kutengana/kufa kwa ukimwi chanzo ni nyumba ndogo.
Jamii inateketea na kuteseka kwa hili balaa kwa kweli hawa wanawake wanaoshangilia hili jambo hawana Huruma na always wanawake mtabaki kukandamizwa mana ninyi wenyewe hampendani.

 

[Darlingtone]

Kweli duniani kuna watu na viatu,bila haya wala soni unakiri wewe ni nyumba ndogo.Ulikuwa wapi mpaka sasa unavizia vilivyopendezeshwa na wenzako.Huoni kwamba unajidhalilisha

Unakosea Mamito... acha hasira na utoe hoja hapa...

Sioni soni kwa sababu ni ukweli, ingawa ukweli unauma (kwa baadhi) lakini lazima uishi na uukubali...
Unasema navizia waliopendezeshwa na wenzangu.... oh my, probably yes, and probably no.... Kwa kuja kwangu inawezekana anapendeza mara mia, anapunguza stress na ananawiri

and Last... sijidhalilishi kwa sababu, amekuja kwangu, ameomba, amebembeleza.... sijajipeleka na mwisho wa siku tumekubaliana, tumeaminiana na tumeshibana.... hakuna udhalili hapo mpendwa...

na nimeshasema niko poa kabisa.... No regrets, I am having my peace of cake and I am eating it well

 

[Mbu]

Unakosea Mamito... acha hasira na utoe hoja hapa...

Sioni soni kwa sababu ni ukweli, ingawa ukweli unauma (kwa baadhi) lakini lazima uishi na uukubali...
Unasema navizia waliopendezeshwa na wenzangu.... oh my, probably yes, and probably no.... Kwa kuja kwangu inawezekana anapendeza mara mia, anapunguza stress na ananawiri

and Last... sijidhalilishi kwa sababu, amekuja kwangu, ameomba, amebembeleza.... sijajipeleka na mwisho wa siku tumekubaliana, tumeaminiana na tumeshibana.... hakuna udhalili hapo mpendwa...

na nimeshasema niko poa kabisa.... No regrets, I am having my peace of cake and I am eating it well

....dahhh,....'darling' tone...

 

[Darlingtone]

Kwa kuangalia umri wake na anayofanya utajua tu kwa alimess up somewhere sasa hii ni kama njia ya kujifariji.Na hili ndilo kundi ambalo linasumbua ndoa nyingi.Wale wasichana wadogo wao ufanywa nyumba ndogo na wenye pesa.kwani wao wapo kimaslai zaidi.Ila hawa matured wao hawaangalii pesa wanahitaji mtu

kwenye bold ni mtazamo wako kwa sababu mimi nikiandika Z kwa mtu aliyekaa kulia kwangu ataona ni N, so sikukatalii kutoa maoni...
Lakini the opposite can also be true

Hii post nimeipenda... Mambo mengi unayooengea yapo very logical... Ila tu unanishangaza kua unafanya assumption kwamba kila mwanaume anae cheat ana nyumba ndogo.... Wanaume almost woote wanacheat.... Issue hapa ni nyumba ndogo... and that is where the problem lies.... Kwama ni HATARI saana mumeo kama anacheat na nyumba ndogo... Hasa for the health of his family..... Ndio maana napinga nyumba ndogo na kukataa kua sio kila mwanaume ana nyumba ndogo ingawa almost woote wana cheat!

AshaDii, nyumba ndogo zinaanzaje?, yaani mpaka kiwanja kipatikane, mchanga, kokoto, sementi na tofali zikusanywe, kajumba kajengwe, bati liwekwe, finishing, nk.... utagundua kwamba haianzi ghafla, cheating/infidelity can lead to nyumba ndogo, inategemea amekolea vipi, sasa ishu ni hii nyumba ndogo ina madhumuni gani na huyu bwana...

wacha maji yafuate mkondo wake! nivigumu kubadili nyeusi kuwa nyekundu ladha ya nyumba ndogo wanaijua wenyewe! linda yako tu mama na mumeo asipate hayo maujuzi. kesheni mkiomba!

That's Word....

dah ukisikia mawazo mfu ndio ya kwako dada. Why uibe wanaume wa watu? Kwa nn usitafute wako?

hv unajua uchungu anaoupata mwanamke mwenzako unapomuibia mumewe?

Je ww ukiolewa utafurahia mwanamke mwengine akuchukulie mumeo.

Badilika dada kitendo unachofanya ni uzinzi na dhambi kubwa.

Jamani, kwa nini hamuelewi kwamba hakuna aliyechukua nondo akaenda kwa nyumba kubwa akabomoa akaiba mume... they know what they are looking for... and they go look for it...

unajua barabara ina njia mbili, inayokuja na inayoelekea upande wa pili, unaposema atafute wa kwake... si ndio huyo amekuja? Atakuwa wa huyo mama akiwa naye chumbani, lakini akitoka nje tu.... Ni public property...lol

Hapo kwenye red mpenda.... hakuna dhambi kubwa wala ndogo mbele za mungu... labda kama wewe una kipimo

Wee Mpatanishi your career haikuruhusu kabisa kumshangaa huyo dada.... She is almost 40... Mwanaume gani ataoa mwanamke hajawahi olewa in the range ya hio age... Hilo huyo dada analitambua fika... hivo aidha awe lonely ama atembee na viserengeti.. Na ni mwanamke gani mwerevu (for she is) atakubali chafuliwa na vijana wadogo hali kuna wenye mvuto wa makamo BUT wana ndoa zao?? Tukija kwenye uzinzi... Siku hicho sio kitisho tosha maana siku hizi watoto wanaanza uzinzi at teen ages na watoto wenzao...

Kwenye underline... I beg to differ... Kuna watu wako 50's na hawajawahi kuoa, they don't want to die in solitude na bado wanaweza kuoa tu...

Kwenye Red na Blue.... U deserve a big hug for that... thanks

 

[Darlingtone]

....dahhh,....'darling' tone...

Shkamoo kaka Mosquito.... I know u stopped biting.... U only sing...