Effects of knowing a person outside jf............prefer anonymuos

Effects of knowing a person outside jf............prefer anonymuos

Kuna walikutana humu, wakakutana nje ya hapa, sasa ni wanandoa, au wanashare kampuni. Ni mtazamo, na mpangilio tu


Sababu ya kutaka kumwona mtu ndiyo tatizo mdogo wangu na wala siyo kuonana kwenyewe....

Nimekutana na watu wengi sana...na bado sijabadili ID wala sitarajii kufanya hivyo...Na kizuri sana ni kuwa sijawahi kuwa disappointed...

Babu DC!!
 
katika watu ninaowapa heshima JF ni pamoja na wewe EMT, ilikuwa pia kwa huyo mtu, nilidhani kakomaa ubongo, tupo miji tofauti, na shida yake ilikuwa huku arusha, nilimtimizia mawasiliano yakaendelea vizuri, ghafla nikashangaa kanibwatukia alichonibwatukia, kwangu mie nimeona kama ni ujinga aliofanya kama alihitaji kunifahamu angeuliza tu ningeamua mwenyewe kujitambulisha ama la.

Hapo utakuwa umejifunza. Kuna watu wanapretend wamekomaa ubongo au wako perfect hapa, but they are just one of the bottles. We aren't perfect so you gonna be careful on what you share with people you haven't even met.

So, hapo utahitaji kuwa makini ku-divulge your number unless you really want to meet them au kama dhumuni lako la kujiunga na JF ni kutengeneza marafiki ndani na nje ya JF by meeting them.

Hata kama dhumuni la kujiunga na JF lilikuwa ni kutafuta marafiki au ulikuwa na dhumuni lingine lakini accidentally ukajikuta unatengeneza marafiki, then inabidi uweke boundaries mapema kabisaaaaa.

Kutokana na namba za simu sasa kuwa registered kwa wamiliki wao, next time kuwa makini kutoa namba hata kwa watu unaowapa heshima hata kama ni mimi EMT unless kama umeonana nao face to face and you trust them that they will respect your number.

Nafikiri tujenge tabia ya kuona namba zetu kama kitu binafsi. Hiyo shida yake isingeweza kutatuliwa kupitia PM?
 
Teh teh...nilijua tu lazima utakuja kwenye hii post ya Anjari...chezeya soda ya karafuu
Hat amim nimemiss safari atii...

ahaaa marejesho alipenda ile kitu..hakuchukua kweli?....mimi nimewamiss sio kidogo ...jamani tusafiri tena pls nipo chini ya miguu yenu
 
Hapo utakuwa umejifunza. Kuna watu wanapretend wamekomaa ubongo au wako perfect hapa, but they are just one of the bottles. We aren't perfect so you gonna be careful on what you share with people you haven't even met.

So, hapo utahitaji kuwa makini ku-divulge your number unless you really want to meet them au kama dhumuni lako la kujiunga na JF ni kutengeneza marafiki ndani na nje ya JF by meeting them.

Hata kama dhumuni la kujiunga na JF lilikuwa ni kutafuta marafiki au ulikuwa na dhumuni lingine lakini accidentally ukajikuta unatengeneza marafiki, then inabidi uweke boundaries mapema kabisaaaaa.

Kutokana na namba za simu sasa kuwa registered kwa wamiliki wao, next time kuwa makini kutoa namba hata kwa watu unaowapa heshima hata kama ni mimi EMT unless kama umeonana nao face to face and you trust them that they will respect your number.


Nafikiri tujenge tabia ya kuona namba zetu kama kitu binafsi. Hiyo shida yake isingeweza kutatuliwa kupitia PM?

Thanx my bro, tulianza PM sana tu, ishu ilipofikia hata mie niliona kuna ulazima wa nos, na aliniomba kistaarabu but ndio ikawa hivyo tena, nimejifunza kuliko maelezo.
 
There is no hard and fast rule. Let us make our own decisions as adults. Just don't expect too much or you will be very disappointed.
 
Kuna walikutana humu, wakakutana nje ya hapa, sasa ni wanandoa, au wanashare kampuni. Ni mtazamo, na mpangilio tu
LD upo ?

Nim ekumiss Long time umeadimika
 
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itategemea unaokutana nao kwa malengo yapi nimefurahi hadi sasa niliokutana nao nimejifunza kitu na wakti mwengine tumesaidiana katika shida na raha na zaidi sana tumekuwa marafiki
 
Kama hapa JF unajirepresent tofauti ya ulivyo kitaa lazima utakaokutana nao face kwa face wakuache njia kona.

Sababu ya kutaka kumwona mtu ndiyo tatizo mdogo wangu na wala siyo kuonana kwenyewe....
Kwa mara ya pili natangaza tena hii tread ako klozd....

Nyie wakongwe wawili EMT na Dark City mmemaliza kila kitu kwa hizi yuziful posts.

Salute!
 
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Kuna walikutana humu, wakakutana nje ya hapa, sasa ni wanandoa, au wanashare kampuni. Ni mtazamo, na mpangilio tu
Umeona eh? Nlitaka nimwambie sakapal hivyo hivyo. Mi nshakutana na members kibao humu, zaidi ya 50... na wote wamekuwa marafiki zangu. Tunatembeleana majumbani, maofisini na kwenye kaunta za juu ndo usiseme. Nshahudhuria harusi tatu za JF members. Nafurahia kukutana nao na nna hamu ya kuonana na wengine wengi zaidi na zaidi.

Eti mshiki ushawahi juta kuonana na mimi? Mwambie sakapal apige moyo konde akutane na mimi babu yenu eti. Hatajuta.

BTW nimekumisi, na simu yangu hupokei. Au ndo ushaanza kunipotezea? LOL
Asprin mzima wewe msalimie binamu lol sijajuta kukufahamu ujue
 
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Asprin mzima wewe msalimie binamu lol sijajuta kukufahamu ujue
Tena wewe, sichezi tena na wewe LOL

Hivi unajua likizo nachukua October? Mwambie binamu na Mromboo kabisaaaa wakae wakijua.

Pale RIP waambie siku hizi namimina Tusker Malt kama maji, wajiandae.
 
doh! mi sina hata hamu na kuna majitu namba zao nshazidelete. yaani kuna watu watahakikisha wanakukera kwa namna yoyote ile bora hata awe na muonekano mbaya ila kero jamani kero. ila kuna ambao nawakubali mwanzo mwisho na tunakeep in touch. lol
 
Bora yangu mie sijwahi na sitarajii kuPM mtu
 
doh! mi sina hata hamu na kuna majitu namba zao nshazidelete. yaani kuna watu watahakikisha wanakukera kwa namna yoyote ile bora hata awe na muonekano mbaya ila kero jamani kero. ila kuna ambao nawakubali mwanzo mwisho na tunakeep in touch. lol

Yangu umeidelete?
 
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