"2011" – What a year it has been!!! KARIBU 2012....

[Cantalisia]

Lazima ucheke mdogo wangu, i love it kama una furaha.... Zingatia tu lakini nilokuambia na nitakuongeza darasa, wanaume wa maana na walo worth it wamekua wachache hivo ukimpata..... (uje uchukue darasa maana hapa your Big shem asije jua siri ya kunipenda ni nini...lol)

Haaaa haaa,namshukuru mungu kwa nifanya mwenye furaha mpaka mda huu,
Usijali ww tena,unahusika sana tuombe uzima tu,
Hiyo ilmu unanipa tukiwa peke yetu Big shem asijue wala kusikia lol!

 

[Azimio Jipya]

.. I count myself blessed ... you agreed you willnt mind and I will keep the promise ? Yes of course!

AND

Before its the end of the year ... Want to remind you on one thing ..that .. tells me now you r really matured on the TOUGH LOVE ..the foundation of the PMs!

.. Scented cloves with Love ... Hah hah ..hah.. That is AshaDii .. I dont think I will forget this in near future ...

I hope you remember this line..!

"... I have my fighting gloves on (Worn and scented with love) guaranteed to give you bitter sweet blows at FULL CAPACITY...!"

Real Tough Love eh? ... With full force.. total impact ... Lol ... and why should i forget this!? Lolz

OMG!!!! Sikujua kua nawe ulisoma ile post.... Come to think of it...... I was so ANGRY Like neva before..... Leo if i was to write i would have wrote something else.... I think sikumtendea haki, ni kama nimemfunga mdomo instead of understanding him/her.... Siku ile nilisaha "Never to get Angry, Never to make a Threat and Reason with him/her" some how i regret.....

I know you could have given your opponent a second chance that would have bee so sweet of him! ..and its always like this!

But please get this very clear! Your option to give him/her second chance shouldn't overrule your first ACTION (the scented Glove with Love) Because that was very necessary and completely right ..because that was what is known as CORRECTIVE LOVE! You do a correction with firmness, kindness and full of Love... and since its a honest correction then it must be called TOUGH LOVE!! .. like its a fatherly Love, bitter but corrective and must be given Lol!!

Any reasonable and noble person would have done so ... I would have done the same ..It is because gloves was already scented with love .. This kind of correction ? touches the heart of an opponent even a fried/a kid etc and cause a lovely and meaningful change for good!

Yes we must all of us realize that ..there must be A RIGHT WAY TO DEAL WITH A WRONG HUMAN BEINGS ... and that is all what you did with the statement I bluued in the former post!

That is why I DEDICATED THIS POST AS MY POST OF YEAR FOR YOU!! ... and would ask you to agree!

To prove that? .. I bluntly say .. even when Azimio Jipya ... messes with Ashadii! .. ? What is AshaDii suppose to do? Has all the right to put on her Scented cloves and Respond honestly with all her deep strength of Love ..to AJ .. hahh ..I wonder how it will look like ..but I meant it! ..Cause that is the only remaining way in our society to deal with Wrong people!! Lol!!

That is what I meant Tough Love as Corrective Love, carrying with it RIGHT strong and not the WRONG strong! .. of course the dedication itself ...!!

 

[AshaDii]

Unasomeka tena una akili sana (kwa kiukweli kabisa)

Bibi yako ni mtu mzima anakaribia mwaka wa 90 sasa,
ila aliugua kidogo nikampelekea yale maushauri na mikorogo ya mzizimkavu,
alipata nafuu kubwa sana. hivyo tusiache kupitia jf dr. ni nzuri sana.

kila la kheri na MUNGU akubariki.

Mamndenyi auntie yangu hapa JF, naomba nisiseme mengi na niseme tu kua.... I am humbled :humble:THANK YOU.

 

[AshaDii]

Smile,
Kwa nini uniamini ndugu yangu au ule utukutu wa kwenye jukwaa la siasa ndio unakufanya ukose imani na mimi..

Usifananishe mambo politics kule poke tu..

Mie nahisi ni hio Avatar inayoharibu.... I hope ni moja ya mipango ya 2012 kubadilisha avatar....lol

 

[AshaDii]

Haaaa haaa,namshukuru mungu kwa nifanya mwenye furaha mpaka mda huu,
Usijali ww tena,unahusika sana tuombe uzima tu,
Hiyo ilmu unanipa tukiwa peke yetu Big shem asijue wala kusikia lol!

Good gal Cantalisia.... Uje mapema Saturday ni siku ya usafi wa nyumba nzima....lol...:juggle:

 

[FirstLady1]

FL hapo colored ndio kikubwa Mpenzi..... Alafu nakutafta Mpenzi.... Naomba on behalf of the ladies utulendee thread ya urembo kwa ajili ya wadada.... (if you won't mind) tupeane tips maana naona huku kitaa twachemka kweli dear.... Nakumbuka uliwahi toa ile ya tips za dressing hivo ukipata nafasi dear... Wadau wapo wakutosha i think....

AD nimekamatika hapa! Ila nachungulia hapa ndani kila ninapojisikia
Najaribu kuclear meza yangu tayari kwa mapumziko mamy, nitakuwa na muda mzuri zaidi wa hiyo thread kuanzia next week
Kwa sasa mkoloni ananitumia vya kutosha mpaka kichwa sometimes kinashindwa kufikilia
:smash:

 

[AshaDii]

I know you could have given your opponent a second chance that would have bee so sweet of him! ..and its always like this!

But please get this very clear! Your option to give him/her second chance shouldn't overrule your first ACTION (the scented Glove with Love) Because that was very necessary and completely right ..because that was what is known as CORRECTIVE LOVE! You do a correction with firmness, kindness and full of Love... and since its a honest correction then it must be called TOUGH LOVE!! .. like its a fatherly Love, bitter but corrective and must be given Lol!!

Any reasonable and noble person would have done so ... I would have done the same ..It is because gloves was already scented with love .. This kind of correction ? touches the heart of an opponent even a fried/a kid etc and cause a lovely and meaningful change for good!

Yes we must all of us realize that ..there must be A RIGHT WAY TO DEAL WITH A WRONG HUMAN BEINGS ... and that is all what you did with the statement I bluued in the former post!

That is why I DEDICATED THIS POST AS MY POST OF YEAR FOR YOU!! ... and would ask you to agree!

To prove that? .. I bluntly say .. even when Azimio Jipya ... messes with Ashadii! .. ? What is AshaDii suppose to do? Has all the right to put on her Scented cloves and Respond honestly with all her deep strength of Love ..to AJ .. hahh ..I wonder how it will look like ..but I meant it! ..Cause that is the only remaining way in our society to deal with Wrong people!! Lol!!

That is what I meant Tough Love as Corrective Love, carrying with it RIGHT strong and not the WRONG strong! .. of course the dedication itself ...!!

In someway you have made me feel better.... Ila tu niseme ile kitu ilikuja pabaya for i had some personal problems na sababu JF ni sehemu yangu of relaxation, it took toil on me..... Saizi nisharudi mode yangu ya Conquer your opponent with Love... Kwa maelezo zaidi narudi pm for najua the way you like pages of explanations....lol .... Nikiendelea hapa itakua out of place, nataka niseme mengi in relation and i will soon.... Soon enough.

Pamoja Saana...:grouphug:

 

[AshaDii]

AD nimekamatika hapa! Ila nachungulia hapa ndani kila ninapojisikia
Najaribu kuclear meza yangu tayari kwa mapumziko mamy, nitakuwa na muda mzuri zaidi wa hiyo thread kuanzia next week
Kwa sasa mkoloni ananitumia vya kutosha mpaka kichwa sometimes kinashindwa kufikilia
:smash:

Najua umebanwa dear.... Pole saana. Mie was just pushing the thought ili ujipange, i believe any time ni pouwa mradi tu tuletee kabla ya mwaka mpya bana....lol... ili tuwe warembo zaidi 2012... Mkoloni asikuumize kichwa kiasi hicho bana, fanya tu kwa mpangilio and all will be good. Best of Luck katika clearing your desk kwa ajili ya holiday.... Hivo "Relax for as long as GOD & YOU are in Controll" then all is well.....

 

[Consigliere]

Once and for all, I would like to say hongera sana for the touches you made and the future you prepare to build.
Back to me naungalia mwaka 2011 namna unavyoelekea ukingoni kwa kufuata njia ya Gregory Calender, nasimama tayari kuuaga kwa heshima ya Kibudha, pia kikakamavu ili nimalize kwa salute.
Mengi nimeyafanya, nashindwa tu kuyahesabu na kuyataja, sababu kwangu hiyo ni kazi ya wengine walio nifahamu kabla ya mwaka huu au hata baada, pia si utamaduni wangu kuhesabu au kusimulia mafanikio niliyoyafikia au niliyosaidia na, bali ni utamaduni wangu kuhesabu niliyoyashindwa na ku mark kila nililoharibu ili niyakumbuke na kurekebisha.
Kwa upande wa malengo, I'm not a good one at promising but in committment.
Hivyo nisingependa kuyaanika malengo yangu, hivyo nachagua kufukuza mwizi kimya kimya

 

[EMT]

Fellow JF Members.... Upande wako HOW WAS 2011? (Good OR Bad?) na What are your plans for 2012? GOD Willing?
Pamoja Saana:grouphug:
AshaDii.

What I have achieved in 2011? Few things. Some were unexpected! But the most achievement kuna kama watu 9 hivi walikuwa wanaelekea kupoteza future yao kabisa b'se they didn't know how to deal with the problems they were facing. Kwa kutumia taaluma yangu, I helped them to turn their lives around for the better. Now, whenever I meet them, they always have smiles on their faces. And that in itself make me happy b'se when I first met them, it was horrible! Wengi walikuwa wameshakata tamaa kabisa na maisha. Na ni vigumu kum-convince mtu aliyekata tamaa na maisha kuwa there is always a possibility. To succeed to just do so is a big achievement to me.

My plans for 2012? Continue to do the good things I did in 2011 and probably visit East Timor. But I take my life as it comes b'se life is a roller coaster. You can either scream every time you hit a bump or you can throw your hands up in the air and enjoy it. It's full of surprises. Just say never and you'll see. So, I will learn from the past, live for today, look for tomorrow, take a nap this afternoon and just chill – have fun.

Good morning AshaDii.

 

[AshaDii]

Once and for all, I would like to say hongera sana for the touches you made and the future you prepare to build.
Back to me naungalia mwaka 2011 namna unavyoelekea ukingoni kwa kufuata njia ya Gregory Calender, nasimama tayari kuuaga kwa heshima ya Kibudha, pia kikakamavu ili nimalize kwa salute.
Mengi nimeyafanya, nashindwa tu kuyahesabu na kuyataja, sababu kwangu hiyo ni kazi ya wengine walio nifahamu kabla ya mwaka huu au hata baada, pia si utamaduni wangu kuhesabu au kusimulia mafanikio niliyoyafikia au niliyosaidia na, bali ni utamaduni wangu kuhesabu niliyoyashindwa na ku mark kila nililoharibu ili niyakumbuke na kurekebisha.
Kwa upande wa malengo, I'm not a good one at promising but in committment.
Hivyo nisingependa kuyaanika malengo yangu, hivyo nachagua kufukuza mwizi kimya kimya

Consig' Thank you for the acknowledgement of my achievements and my plans.

Man I can not help it BUT aski.... Are you telling me you you are budha? Never heard of one in Tanzania (at least the one ambae twawasiliana hata kama ni njia ya keyboard).

Consig' sometimes you are too philosophical man... If you do not count your blessings, how would you know you are indeed blessed? Ili walau utamke yale ya Nicki Minaj "I am not Lucky I am just Blessed". IMO (thou my IMO may be wrong) it is better you count both sides, so that when you fail (at minimal) atleast you avoid being too hard on yourself on your failure. And that applies pia kwa upande wa Malengo... (The good thing ni kwamba atleast yapo but you just don't want to anika them...lol). Thank you for sharing...

 

[AshaDii]

What I have achieved in 2011? Few things. Some were unexpected! But the most achievement kuna kama watu 9 hivi walikuwa wanaelekea kupoteza future yao kabisa b'se they didn't know how to deal with the problems they were facing. Kwa kutumia taaluma yangu, I helped them to turn their lives around for the better. Now, whenever I meet them, they always have smiles on their faces. And that in itself make me happy b'se when I first met them, it was horrible! Wengi walikuwa wameshakata tamaa kabisa na maisha. Na ni vigumu kum-convince mtu aliyekata tamaa na maisha kuwa there is always a possibility. To succeed to just do so is a big achievement to me.

My plans for 2012? Continue to do the good things I did in 2011 and probably visit East Timor. But I take my life as it comes b'se life is a roller coaster. You can either scream every time you hit a bump or you can throw your hands up in the air and enjoy it. It's full of surprises. Just say never and you'll see. So, I will learn from the past, live for today, look for tomorrow, take a nap this afternoon and just chill – have fun.

Good morning AshaDii.

Katika the nine people i think I remember one of them.... (If not mistaken hapa hapa JF) I am proud of you. You have such a wonderful job it seems EMT, Lucky you. Ni wachache ambao shughuli zao uhusisha watu walo katika jamii moja kwa moja, hasa kwa watu ambao they really need the help, I Love such sort of works.... Keep up the good work Pal....

I like it that you will be doing the same thing... But am intrerested in knowing EMT asmuchas you are happy other people become happy as a result of your committed efforts... Do you feel like life is treating you well? Are you satisfied? (how is your love life - if you don't mind:A S embarassed🙂. Of all your post .... I love the words in purple.


My morning is really good EMT. Thank you for asking.... How have you been toka umepotea these few days?

 

[Kaizer]

In someway you have made me feel better.... Ila tu niseme ile kitu ilikuja pabaya for i had some personal problems na sababu JF ni sehemu yangu of relaxation, it took toil on me..... Saizi nisharudi mode yangu ya Conquer your opponent with Love... Kwa maelezo zaidi narudi pm for najua the way you like pages of explanations....lol .... Nikiendelea hapa itakua out of place, nataka niseme mengi in relation and i will soon.... Soon enough.

Pamoja Saana...:grouphug:

Love you better warn him of privacy issues....that all the PMs are being screened and scrutinized. And Thats tough love....whatever...lol

 

[EMT]

Katika the nine people i think I remember one of them.... (If not mistaken hapa hapa JF) I am proud of you. You have such a wonderful job it seems EMT, Lucky you. Ni wachache ambao shughuli zao uhusisha watu walo katika jamii moja kwa moja, hasa kwa watu ambao they really need the help, I Love such sort of works.... Keep up the good work Pal....

I like it that you will be doing the same thing... But am intrerested in knowing EMT asmuchas you are happy other people become happy as a result of your committed efforts... Do you feel like life is treating you well? Are you satisfied? (how is your love life - if you don't mind:A S embarassed🙂. Of all your post .... I love the words in purple.

My morning is really good EMT. Thank you for asking.... How have you been toka umepotea these few days?

Life has always treated me well. Of course, there are ups and downs in life but as I said before is to throw your hands up in the air and enjoy it. Regarding the words in the purple, my love life has always been green, i.e environmental friendly. I have always considered greening my love life to avoid being a total environmental disaster. Eco-love is the way forward. Have you ever thought about how green your love life is? I suggest to include it in your 2012 plans. LOL.

 

[FaizaFoxy]

Mimi mwaka 2011 nilifanikiwa kujiunga JF na kufahamiana na mtu kama FaizaFoxy ingawa hata hivyo nilipoonana naye alikataa tusipige picha.

Umeshaanza ile mboga? mbona mapema?

 

[AshaDii]

Love you better warn him of privacy issues....that all the PMs are being screened and scrutinized. And Thats tough love....whatever...lol

Sweetie your uneasiness on some of my PMs and lack of it in others... dependent on who sent them (hence your perouzin' instead of reading); makes you ignore all AJ's PMs... Otherwise you would have noticed that whenever he writes at the end of his long carefully analyzed pages of PMs he never eva forgets to mention you in conjunction with warm regards.... Stop being paranoid and READ all of them....lol... And that's tough Love Mpenzi...

 

[AshaDii]

Life has always treated me well. Of course, there are ups and downs in life but as I said before is to throw your hands up in the air and enjoy it. Regarding the words in the purple, my love life has always been green, i.e environmental friendly. I have always considered greening my love life to avoid being a total environmental disaster. Eco-love is the way forward. Have you ever thought about how green your love life is? I suggest to include it in your 2012 plans. LOL.

hahahaha.... Hio in purple umenikumbusha zile interior designing tips... na preference ya wood rather than a glass coffee table...lol... (to ring the bell - something to do with pink curtains.... hahahahaha)

Well am not really that environment friendly to the extent of bragging, hence adding that to my List. lol

 

[Azimio Jipya]

In someway you have made me feel better.... Ila tu niseme ile kitu ilikuja pabaya for i had some personal problems na sababu JF ni sehemu yangu of relaxation, it took toil on me..... Saizi nisharudi mode yangu ya
Conquer your opponent with Love... Kwa maelezo zaidi narudi pm for najua the way you like pages of explanations....lol .... Nikiendelea hapa itakua out of place, nataka niseme mengi in relation and i will soon.... Soon enough.

Pamoja Saana...:grouphug:

Love you better warn him of privacy issues....that all the PMs are being screened and scrutinized. And Thats tough love....whatever...lol

Sweetie your uneasiness on some of my PMs and lack of it in others... dependent on who sent them (hence your perouzin' instead of reading); makes you ignore all AJ's PMs... Otherwise you would have noticed that whenever he writes at the end of his long carefully analyzed pages of PMs he never eva forgets to mention you in conjunction with warm regards.... Stop being paranoid and READ all of them....lol... And that's tough Love Mpenzi...

Talking of Tough Love .... hah hah .. good topic! ... as the way to confront the opponents!

Lets look at it with .. Scented Gloves with Love .. Lol!! ... ... confronting the opponent! which i said It was a right treatment to be used by AshaDii .. to her opponents! ... As this is the right way to deal with wrong people!!

Here is an article can not put all of it here ...unless we take the rest of it to the PM ..Lol

Here it goes ..!!

• The essence of true love is not billing and cooing and being nice and friendly; it is correction. Correction is the love we all need but is also what many of us fear. Great wisdom and superb strength are needed to correct errant behavior. The basic principle to realize is that love is a facet of understanding which reveals itself in justice and in strength.

• They will hate you if you let them go, if you are too soft and weak. If you need their love, if you are fearful of hurting them by binding them or afraid of your own violence, then you are impotent. A strong "no"with courage of conviction, backed up if need be with non-angry, non-violent force is often the answer. And as children grow older, they will see the truth whenever they resent your loving authority; they will quickly become ashamed and tell you they are sorry. Do not make the fatal error of reasoning with them endlessly. It will take reasonable force to overturn the unreasoning force within them.

• You must say "no" then, without anger or resentment, with non-violent force. A woman knows that touch; a child knows that feeling; even the newborn can experience it and feel secure...

• So it is very important to be patient when attempting to correct other people.You must be forceful enough to drive the point home, but without resentment. The force I speak of is love, a deep, abiding caring, backed by the absolute certainty of the good you are doing and the knowledge of what is right. Remember, you can't be like that when you are upset and angry too! Meditate on this fact before you go to war with the error in others.

• You must be absolutely willing to go as far as you must go, never backing down once you start. If your children are smoking dope and listening to too much hard rock, then for their sakes you must put your foot down and separate them from these hypnotic influences. You must be strong and sure. You must be ready to take a lot of complaints and cursing. You must be ready to lose their love and friendship-to be alone, if that's what it takes. Your children are not strong enough to separate themselves from their habits and friends. You must do that for them. That is what love is all about .... the tough Love!!.

AshaDii ... compare this with the last two of your signature not in use... Compare this and how you defended yourself when someone did wrong posting about you!! ... did you read this before your posting.. Lol :shock:!!

 

[AshaDii]

Talking of Tough Love .... hah hah .. good topic! ... as the way to confront the opponents!

Lets look at it with .. Scented Gloves with Love .. Lol!! ... ... confronting the opponent! which i said It was a right treatment to be used by AshaDii .. to her opponents! ... As this is the right way to deal with wrong people!!

Here is an article can not put all of it here ...unless we take the rest of it to the PM ..Lol

Here it goes ..!!

• The essence of true love is not billing and cooing and being nice and friendly; it is correction. Correction is the love we all need but is also what many of us fear. Great wisdom and superb strength are needed to correct errant behavior. The basic principle to realize is that love is a facet of understanding which reveals itself in justice and in strength.

• They will hate you if you let them go, if you are too soft and weak. If you need their love, if you are fearful of hurting them by binding them or afraid of your own violence, then you are impotent. A strong "no"with courage of conviction, backed up if need be with non-angry, non-violent force is often the answer. And as children grow older, they will see the truth whenever they resent your loving authority; they will quickly become ashamed and tell you they are sorry. Do not make the fatal error of reasoning with them endlessly. It will take reasonable force to overturn the unreasoning force within them.

• You must say "no" then, without anger or resentment, with non-violent force. A woman knows that touch; a child knows that feeling; even the newborn can experience it and feel secure...

• So it is very important to be patient when attempting to correct other people.You must be forceful enough to drive the point home, but without resentment. The force I speak of is love, a deep, abiding caring, backed by the absolute certainty of the good you are doing and the knowledge of what is right. Remember, you can't be like that when you are upset and angry too! Meditate on this fact before you go to war with the error in others.

• You must be absolutely willing to go as far as you must go, never backing down once you start. If your children are smoking dope and listening to too much hard rock, then for their sakes you must put your foot down and separate them from these hypnotic influences. You must be strong and sure. You must be ready to take a lot of complaints and cursing. You must be ready to lose their love and friendship-to be alone, if that's what it takes. Your children are not strong enough to separate themselves from their habits and friends. You must do that for them. That is what love is all about .... the tough Love!!.

AshaDii ... compare this with the last two of your signature not in use... Compare this and how you defended yourself when someone did wrong posting about you!! ... did you read this before your posting.. Lol :shock:!!

Hahahahaha..... AJ Nimecheka kweli this post.... Hapa ndo wamchanganya kabisa Kaizer....lol... Lakini usijali kaelewa sasa. Ndo niliogopa hii for my dear you provide enthusiatic pages of analysis... Very informative, entertaining and eye openers.... Like you have said i compare them with the two sigs... Well i would say the one which fits better ni ya Mahatma Gandhi (conquer with Love once faced with an opponent)


About the Tough Love you are talking about I would say (in my own words of definition) kua... Its Love which has to be provided to the intended BUT with conditions... Conditions basing on making sure you give what is best NO matter if the intended would understand you love them or not thru your actions.... It is Love which is selfless... Love which takes in consideration and the intendend's best welfare.... It is Love which in most cases the intended never even perceive if they are loved by the person in question (for it is rare to for a person to understand a person who is imposing something they don't want on them). One of the examples of Tough Love is Love from Parents to Teenage kids.... Now that is what I call tough! Au sio AJ?

 

[Consigliere]

Consig' Thank you for the acknowledgement of my achievements and my plans.

Man I can not help it BUT aski.... Are you telling me you you are budha? Never heard of one in Tanzania (at least the one ambae twawasiliana hata kama ni njia ya keyboard).


Consig' sometimes you are too philosophical man... If you do not count your blessings, how would you know you are indeed blessed? Ili walau utamke yale ya Nicki Minaj "I am not Lucky I am just Blessed". IMO (thou my IMO may be wrong) it is better you count both sides, so that when you fail (at minimal) atleast you avoid being too hard on yourself on your failure. And that applies pia kwa upande wa Malengo... (The good thing ni kwamba atleast yapo but you just don't want to anika them...lol). Thank you for sharing...

Navy - I'm not telling anything maam.

My affiliation with Budhism - I have done them teachings and worked with them, I would advise you to do some them teachings, Budhism is neither a religion nor a denomination.

Red - Mindu and Maliki street Junctions at Upanga near Muhimbili

Green - I do count and list them, only that I don't talk of them.