Siwezi kuoa single Mother

[Amo1]

Technically nae ni single mother

Nina amini yule atakae mtaka na kumstiri atakuwa ameona nimekufa na atakuwa anajua hadi kaburi langu lilipo .. tofauti na hapo simshauri amuoe huyo mwanamke maana ni mali ya wengine . Atateseka tu.

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

Karibu

Kwamba nikaribie kwenye ubaba wa kambo?... Over my dead body.

 

[Amo1]

Jukwaa huru ndio ufundishe ubaguzi wa hali ya juu kiasi hiki

Nawa epusha vijana na maumivu yasiyokuwa ya lazima .. hii inaitwa guidance kaka. Muhimu kuwaepusha vijana wasije kukutwa vitu vizito mbeleni

 

[ShesRise_1]

Single mothers watakuja na povu jingi, ila mm n shahidi wa hayo, single mother kwa kijana ni sumu.

Watakuja kusema hao ambao hawajazaa wametoa mimba sana ila hii yote ni kujifariji tuu.

Kijana unayejitafuta, jiepushe na single mother, usiposikia hilo bc utashughudia mwnyw kwa maumivu makuu

Sio kila anaetetea huu upuuzi wenu ni single mother jitahidini kuwaweka kikaangoni na wanaume wenzeni wasizalishe hovyo

Swala la single mother sio lake pekee kwanini mwanaume anaacwa nyuma

NB : WANAUME WANAOBWEKA KUHUSU SINGLE MOTHER NI HOHEHAHE

 

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Nina amini yule atakae mtaka na kumstiri atakuwa ameona nimekufa na atakuwa anajua hadi kaburi langu lilipo .. tofauti na hapo simshauri amuoe huyo mwanamke maana ni mali ya wengine . Atateseka tu.

Kwa maana hiyo unakubali kwamba kuna aina za single mothers wanaostahili nafasi nyingine ?

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

This narrative that single motherhood is solely a woman’s choice ni oversimplification

A woman is gatekeeper of sex and fertility. Nothing can happen without woman’s consent, and to know if a man is serious is untill he marry her or atleast visiting her family to introduce himself. Any woman accept a man to impregnate her without that happened she is an idiot and she deserve all shit comes with a stupid decision she made.

 

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Mkuu Natafuta Ajira , unachohamasisha nini haswa!
1. Epuka single mother
2. Oa bikra

 

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Nothing can happen without woman’s consent, and to know if a man is serious is untill he marry her or atleast visiting her family to introduce himself.

Kama alibakwa? au wakati huyo mwanaume anaenda kumtambulisha kwao kapata ajali na kufa? Hapo ujinga wa huyo mwanamke upo wapi?

 

[Amo1]

Kwa maana hiyo unakubali kwamba kuna aina za single mothers wanaostahili nafasi nyingine ?

Nakubaliana na wewe .. watapewa nafasi nyingine kwa ushahidi usio na shaka wa kaburi la baba mtoto wake.

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

Kama alibakwa? au wakati huyo mwanaume anaenda kumtambulisha kwao kapata ajali na kufa? Hapo ujinga wa huyo mwanamke upo wapi?

Those are exception cases. There is exception in everyrhing, but exceptionality don't count when we make rules

 

[ShesRise_1]

The author didn't blame women. He just shared his standard term. Man's requirements is not misogynistic.

Single motherhood is woman's choice. Due to the fact that she is a gatekeeper of sex and fertility. No man came with a gun to force her to open her legs. She did it intentionally, understood and willingly.

She was in place of making a better decision but she chose chaos, then she has to face consequences of her decision without blaming no one. That's called accountability.

Natafuta Ajira Hapa ndipo umeonyesha wazi chuki yako dhidi ya jinsia ya ke kwa kuendelea kumkingia kifua huyu mwanaume mpumbavu aliyeshindwa hata kutumia kondomu au kushauriana na mpenzi wake kuhusu kufanya sex katika siku za hatari za kupata mimba

Mwanaume anayefanya sex bila kuzingatia madhara au matokeo yanayoweza kutokea mbele ni mpumbavu 📌

na mpumbavu wa pili ni yule aliyepokea shahawa za mwenzake bila hata kuwaza nini kitatokea kama yai litarutubishwa

Katika hili mwanaume na mwanamke wote wanapaswa kulaumiwa

Kulaumu upande mmoja tu ni ubinafsi na ujinga

 

[Mbaga Jr]

NB : WANAUME WANAOBWEKA KUHUSU SINGLE MOTHER NI HOHEHAHE

MIMI NI HOHEHAHE, ILA SINGLE MOTHER NI SUMU KWA KIJANA ANAYEJITAFUTA.

Kuzalishwa na mwanaume mwingine isiwe kugezo cha kuwahukumu Wanaume wengine ambao hayujazalisha au tuliwazalisha tunaishi nao.

 

[ShesRise_1]

MIMI NI HOHEHAHE, ILA SINGLE MOTHER NI SUMU KWA KIJANA ANAYEJITAFUTA.

Kuzalishwa na mwanaume mwingine isiwe kugezo cha kuwahukumu Wanaume wengine ambao hayujazalisha au tuliwazalisha tunaishi nao.

Make kwanza nchekeee 🤣🤣
Mbaga tulia mdogo wangu

Wakulaumiwa ni wawili sio mmoja hilo ndiyo nalokataa

Na kweli wengi wanaolalamika kula yao ni ya shida sana 🤣🤣

 

[min -me]

Ni kuwekea mkazo tu, kama ambavyo wao huchagua wenye pesa, endelea na msimamo wako.

Single mom for single dad!!

Hata single dad kuna kanuni za muhimu tunazingatia kwenye hilo

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

Mkuu Natafuta Ajira , unachohamasisha nini haswa!
1. Epuka single mother
2. Oa bikra

Mada haihusiani na bikira. Kujadili hicho kipengere ni kutoka nje ya mada. Kuhusu single mother, ofcourse ni chaguo bovu kwa kijana ambae anaanzisha familia. Hasara za kuoa single mother.

1. Hautakua na mzaliwa wa kwanza.
Mzaliwa wa kwanza ni baba msaidizi. Huyu ndie atakua kiongozi wa familia yako utakapoondoka hapa duniani. Je utakua na amani kuacha uangalizi wa familia kwa mtoto ambae sio wako?

2. Bloodline ya uzao wako inavulugika.
Damu nzito kuliko maji. Kuoa single mother unakaribisha invaders kwenye kaya yako.

3. Migogoro kwenye mirathi.
Italeta utata kwenye mirathi yako itakapofika wakati wa kujadiliana kama hiyo mtoto ambae sio wako ajumuishwe au awekwe pembeni.

4. Mama mtoto kujenga mji mwingine kwa siri.
Kutokana na kugokua na uhakika wa mtoto wake kukumuishwa kwenye mirathi yako inaweza ikapelekea mama mtoto kulazimika amwandalie mwanae mji mwingine kwa siri. Hii maana yake wanandoa mtakua mnajenga miji miwili tofauti.

Hizo ni baadhi lakini hasara zipo nyingi, na uzuri ni kwamba unaweza kuziepuka kwa kufanya maamuzi sahihi ya kuwaweka single mothers kwenye blacklist katika uchaguzi wako

 

[Superb2014]

Kila lakheri, kuna Wanaume wenzako wanaoa Single Mother's na wanawapenda Watoto wao na kuwasomesha wanawasomesha.

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

when it comes to social issues like single motherhood and remarriage, the "rules" or societal norms should ideally be flexible enough to accommodate individual circumstances rather than isolate or stigmatize people

If everyone has an escaping hitch to step outside of a specific alignment then that's not a rule.

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

Natafuta Ajira Hapa ndipo umeonyesha wazi chuki yako dhidi ya jinsia ya ke kwa kuendelea kumkingia kifua huyu mwanaume mpumbavu aliyeshindwa hata kutumia kondomu au kushauriana na mpenzi wake kuhusu kufanya sex katika siku za hatari za kupata mimba

Mwanaume anayefanya sex bila kuzingatia madhara au matokeo yanayoweza kutokea mbele ni mpumbavu 📌

na mpumbavu wa pili ni yule aliyepokea shahawa za mwenzake bila hata kuwaza nini kitatokea kama yai litarutubishwa

Katika hili mwanaume na mwanamke wote wanapaswa kulaumiwa

Kulaumu upande mmoja tu ni ubinafsi na ujinga

Kuambiwa ukweli sio chuki. Wanawake jengeni mazoea ya kuukubali ukweli hata kama ukweli huo haukufurahishi.

Suala la mwanaume kumkataa single mother hii ni kwa sababu mwanamke ndie sexually complementor wa mwanaume. Mwanaume hawezi kuangaika na baby daddy kwa sababu hana masilahi nae.

Kwahiyo kama wanaume wanawapiga vita single mothers nyie mlitakiwa kuwapiga vita single fathers. Single fathers ni vita yenu wanawake, sio vita ya wanaume. Kila upande upigane vita yake

 

[ShesRise_1]

Kuambiwa ukweli sio chuki. Wanawake jengeni mazoea ya kuukubali ukweli hata kama ukweli huo haukufurahishi.

Suala la mwanaume kumkataa single mother hii ni kwa sababu mwanamke ndie sexually complementor wa mwanaume. Mwanaume hawezi kuangaika na baby daddy kwa sababu hana masilahi nae.

Kwahiyo kama wanaume wanawapiga vita single mothers nyie mlitakiwa kuwapiga vita single fathers. Single fathers ni vita yenu wanawake, sio vita ya wanaume. Kila upande upigane vita yake

Alooo wee jamaa sijui hua anawaza vipi asiee🙌
Keep fighting the good fight bro🙏

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

Alooo wee jamaa sijui hua anawaza vipi asiee🙌
Keep fighting the good fight bro🙏

Mnatakiwa kuelewa kijamii na kiasili single mother na single father hawapo kwenye nafasi moja.

Mwanaume hata akiwa single father bado atabebeshwa matarajio ya kuwa provider kwa girlfriend wake. Tofauti na mwanamke ambaye single mother yeye anaingia kwenye mahusiano na matarajio ya kusaidiwa gharama za malezi na boyfriend mpya.

Hizo harakati zenu zinazowaambia mwanaume na mwanamke wapo uniform kwenye kila kitu zinawadanganya. Kuna situations ambazo hazimuathiri mwanaume lakini ni katili sana mwanamke mfano reckless past na single parenthood. Vile vile kuna situation ambazo hazimuathiri sana mwanamke lakini ni katili kwa mwanaume. Mfano umasikini. Mwanamke masikini anaweza kupendwa, kujaliwa au kuinewa huruma lakini hakuna mtu anaemuhitaji mwanaume masikini

It’s not fair, but that's nature. You can't wrestle it. All you have to do is to stay in your lane