Rushwa ya ngono kwenye ndoa na mahusiano....!!

[KOKUTONA]

Kweli duniani kuna vibweka...hapo kuna mapenzi au maslahi?

Hapo kuna PENZI PESA

 

[KOKUTONA]

Babu DC? Hata wewe unashangaa? Labda kwa kuwa we ni wa 1947. Siku hizi babu sio kitu cha kushangaza kuwa kunyimwa unyumba ni moja ya strategies za mama kudai akitakacho. Mfano anataka urudi mapema, we unamrudia saa nane, mguse uone kama hujaambulia vipepsi vya yule aloendashtaki kwa Baba Paroko. So uswazi ku'gomewa' ni ishu ya kawa sana maze. Umenikumbusha ile story ya mmama alogundua kuwa mumewe ana tabia ya kununua CD wa Kona Bar, tena kwa bei ya mpaka 50K. Naye akakaa chini, akatafakari na kuamua kuchukua hatua........Yeye anayekaa na kutoa kwa free kila siku na free packages nyingine tele mfano, kukupikia, kukutunzia watoto, e.t.c naye akaweka dau lake. Mume kaja, kabisha hodi, akaonyeswa kiganja (kama konda anavyodai nauli) ......Bila laki hapa baba hupati kitu. Jamaa kahamaki, Eboo we vipi? Yaani mke wangu mwenyewe nimekulipia mahari unanikatalia, Mkewe akamwambia, kama ulilipa mahari kuinunua hii bidhaa ina maana uliipenda ukaona inakufaa na kama kwa sasa unaona haikufai tena either imepitwa na wakati au ni toleo la kale ukaamua kwenda kulipia nyingine basi hii unatakiwa uipige bei au upeleka kwenye soko la mitumba na sio kuitumia tena. So bila 100,000 hapa basi nipige bei wapo wanaotumia mitumba wengi tu. Jamaa akamute siku ya kwanza, ya pili mambo ni yale yale. Ya tatu kazidiwa (Hawara alikuwa kasafiri) akaamua isiwe tabu akatoa 100,000 akapata mchezo ila goli moja tena lisilo na chenga............... mwisho wa siku alisalimu amri

Daah, kweli mama alimua kumdatisha mume.....hayo maneno tu mie chooka

 

[KOKUTONA]

Hivi my wife wangu anaanzaje kuniomba rushwa ya ngono? Labda kama ulimuoa kwa shilingi mbili kwahiyo anatafuta mbinu ya kuongeza mahari yake.

Mtani nakusalimu katika jina la bwana.....

 

[Dark City]

Asprin dunia ya leo imebadilika aisee.

Siku hizi mume kujahimiana na mkewe bila ridhaa ya mke ni kosa la ubakaji na adhabu yake ni kubwa.

Baadhi ya wake wanaitumia hii sheria kwa maslahi mengine kama anayoyashangaa babu Dark City.

The law was supposed to be used as a shield, but it is being used by some as a sword.

Zamani ilikuwa "The Boy is Mine": Brandy & Monica - The Boy Is Mine (Video) - YouTube

Siku hizi mpango mzima ni "It all Belong to Me" Monica, Brandy - It All Belongs To Me - YouTube

Ahsante sana Mkuu EMT,

Hapa ndipo unapoonesha kuwa ukubwa ni dawa...

Unayoyasema ni kweli kabisa...especially nikiangalia jamaa zangu wa nchi za scandnavia ambao wajitahidi kutoa uhuru kwa akina mama na sasa mambo yanawatokea puani...

Nahisi kama tutaanza vita nyingine ya ukombozi wa mwanamume soon...

Babu DC!!

 

[Dark City]

Daah, kweli mama alimua kumdatisha mume.....hayo maneno tu mie chooka

Jana ilikuwa kiboko KOKUTONA,

Watu tulidatishwa kwenye screen hadi majogoo...

Babu DC!!

 

[royna]

mi nilishasemaga ndoa za hivi ni chache sana, hazistahili kugeneralize matokeo yake kwenye jamii. na hawa wanaofanya hivi hawakufundwa! sex is a basic need for a partner in a mrriage. unaelewa maana ya basic need? Haidepend mazingira for one to offered sex, na wale wanaonunia spouses wao, na kuwabania nanii, washindwe!

 

[KOKUTONA]

Jana ilikuwa kiboko KOKUTONA,

Watu tulidatishwa kwenye screen hadi majogoo...

Babu DC!!

Babu kwa maneno hayoo lazima udate...na lazima ukodolee skreen, ukijashtuka KOKOLIKOOO...uangalia saa sasa, daybreak.

Poleni sana.

 

[EMT]

Nahisi kama tutaanza vita nyingine ya ukombozi wa mwanamume soon...

Especially when women are urged to "act like a lady" but to "think like a man": https://www.jamiiforums.com/mahusiano-mapenzi-urafiki/467966-act-like-a-lady-think-like-a-man.html

Hapo itabidi turudi zetu Mars.

 

[Dark City]

Especially when women are urged to "act like a lady" but to "think like a man": https://www.jamiiforums.com/mahusiano-mapenzi-urafiki/467966-act-like-a-lady-think-like-a-man.html

Na bahati mbaya kuna wengine wakiwezeshwa tu wanaanza kufanya revenge..

Babu DC!!

 

[KOKUTONA]

Unataka kunipeleka wapi tena mdogo wangu??

I wish ningemshawishi aje hapa aseme mwenyewe...lol

Babu DC!!

Mpaka hapo nimeelewa babu,

You mean she never bargain na she always give you what is rightful yours, the same way you give to her eti?

Au?

 

[Dark City]

Mpaka hapo nimeelewa babu,

You mean she never bargain na she always give you what is rightful yours, the same way you give to her eti?

Au?

Umeanza lini uchokozi?

 

[KOKUTONA]

Umeanza lini uchokozi?

Sasaa nisipochokoza babu nikamchokoze nani tenaa.

Unajua raha sana ku kid na babu...km huamini uliza wajukuu zako wengine, au wa babu wenzio.

Back to the topic...NI KWELI EE ee BABU...

 

[Dark City]

Sasaa nisipochokoza babu nikamchokoze nani tenaa.

Unajua raha sana ku kid na babu...km huamini uliza wajukuu zako wengine, au wa babu wenzio.

Back to the topic...NI KWELI EE ee BABU...

Hapa sasa unataka kunitimua kwenye hili jamvi...

Babu DC!!

 

[KOKUTONA]

Hapa sasa unataka kunitimua kwenye hili jamvi...

Babu DC!!

Ooooh, i do not want that to happen loh...babu relax and enjoy yourself.

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Especially when women are urged to "act like a lady" but to "think like a man": https://www.jamiiforums.com/mahusiano-mapenzi-urafiki/467966-act-like-a-lady-think-like-a-man.html

Hapo itabidi turudi zetu Mars.

Not really EMT ..actually this type of ladies wanatoa nafasi kubwa kwa Wanaume kuwa wanaume......they give you what you expect from them.

 

[Bavaria]

hakuna papuchi ya bure, na hata ukiona unapewa bure jua kuna mzinga wa maana unakuja.

 

[AshaDii]

Da Asha (AshaDii) umepotea sana hadi tunayakosa mawaidha yako adimu...

Njoo basi utupe upande wako wa shilingi..

Babu DC!!

Kaka DC,

Bahati mbaya ama nzuri thread imeniacha mno, hivyo ikitokea naongea suala ambalo limeongelewa then basi kumradhi.

Nakubalina na maelezo ya rushwa ya ngono katika mahusiano. Ikwe kabla ya mahusiano ama ndani ya mahusiano. Rushwa hii however kwa mtazamo wangu mara nyingi huwa a disadvatage kwa akina sasa/mama kama ilivyo kwa akina baba.

Rushwa hii ni more effective kabla ya mahusiano kuliko ndani ya mahusiano. Na hapo hapo ipo more effective ndani ya mahusiano ya kirafiki/wapenzi kuliko ndani ya mahusiano ya watu wanao ishi pamoja kama wapenzi or wanandoa.

So nakubaliana na kuwa kweli ipo rushwa ya ngono.

 

[mzabzab]

Not to that extent bhana....

ur statement is an acknowledgement of the element of truth in what i say.

 

[Dark City]

Kaka DC,

Bahati mbaya ama nzuri thread imeniacha mno, hivyo ikitokea naongea suala ambalo limeongelewa then basi kumradhi.

Nakubalina na maelezo ya rushwa ya ngono katika mahusiano. Ikwe kabla ya mahusiano ama ndani ya mahusiano. Rushwa hii however kwa mtazamo wangu mara nyingi huwa a disadvatage kwa akina sasa/mama kama ilivyo kwa akina baba.

Rushwa hii ni more effective kabla ya mahusiano kuliko ndani ya mahusiano. Na hapo hapo ipo more effective ndani ya mahusiano ya kirafiki/wapenzi kuliko ndani ya mahusiano ya watu wanao ishi pamoja kama wapenzi or wanandoa.

So nakubaliana na kuwa kweli ipo rushwa ya ngono.

Nashukuru sana Da Asha,

At least umenitoa mashaka na kunipa hakika kwamba biashara ya kupangiana bei kwenye ndoa siyo kitu cha kawaida..it is just an exception..and that's understandable!

Kwa hiyo, watu hawatakiwi ku-generalise kama vile ni normal act.

Babu DC!!

 

[Dark City]

hakuna papuchi ya bure, na hata ukiona unapewa bure jua kuna mzinga wa maana unakuja.

Mbona mimi sijawahi kuuziwa lakini?

Au kwa zababu maisha yangu yalikuwa ya 1947?

Babu DC!!