Ni kweli mchumba hasomeshwi?

[Msweet]

Ukweli ni kwamba mchumba hasomeshwi watu wamelia sana mimi kama shuhuda kuna jamaa yangu alikuwa anafanya kazi ya taxdriver pale Airport Mwanza miaka 5 iliyopita alikuwa anasomesha mchumba UALIMU mmhh hatar sana ndugu zangu huwezi amin siku ya sherehe dem akamwambia jamaa apige gharama zote alizotumia na nyongeza kama anataka arudishiwe jamaa alizima pale pale tukakimbiza hospitalin alizinduka kesho yake.

Aiseeeeeee sio mchezo....

 

[MWANDENDEULE]

Hahahahahahhahaa.... Lakini ni vema kufanya hili out of love without so much expectations ..... ili Hata kama ikija kutokea kama ambavyo chochote chaweza kutokea usihuzunike saaaaana .....!!!! Just do it for L.O.V.E.

Even if you do it out of love, yet it gonna hurt you. Whatever you offer to someone you're in love with goes in the name of love different from what is given to a Normal friend kwa mfano mimi shemeji yangu nimemtolea zaidi ya laki 8 shuleni ili aendelee na masomo na hainiumi ila inaniuma laki 2 tu niliyompa mara ya mwisho dada yake (mchumba wangu) ili ashone sare za kazi yake-inaniuma sana ninapoona kumbe alikuwa na boya mwingine akila mapesa yangu na pengine hata ya chakula alikuwa anakula na boya wake. Nalia kilio cha mbwa mdomo wazi mimi!

 

[chief1]

hahaa nyie wachaga nn

Dada yangu aliolewa na wakina ngosha, siku wanaancha jamaa alitoa ile real 'Iiii nimewasomesheaaaa'.

 

[Raynavero]

Kuna kabinti nakasomesha jamani.. Nikiona story kama hizi napatwa na wasiwasi kweli..Bora ziwe za uongo aisee

hongera Ila kaa ukijua hyo no try an error mi mtoto wa aunt yangu aliyemsomesha mwingine aliyemuoa mwingine
take care!!acha wazazi wabebe mzigo

 

[Youngblood]

Mkuu acha kukatisha tamaaa

Hahahaha pole sana Mkuu.

 

[Kakole]

Kwani unapomsomesha si inakuwa ni mapenzi tu...Mbona vitu vingine vya kimapenzi havijutiwi iwapo mapenzi yakiisha...Lakini mtu akikusomesha basi ataliiiiiiiiia.....wanaume wengine ni wachoyo jamani....

Issue ya kumsomesha mtu ni garama sana acha kabisa.

 

[Zurie]

Issue ya kumsomesha mtu ni garama sana acha kabisa.

Watu wanatoa gari, wanahonga nyumba na hawalii. Naamini hivi vitu ni gharama zaidi kuliko kusomesha. Ila ukisomeshwa hata certificate tu ya mwaka mmoja halafu iwe ndivyo sivyo mwanaume atasononeka, atatafuta huruma kupita maelezo.

 

[Mjamaa1]

Kuna kabinti nakasomesha jamani.. Nikiona story kama hizi napatwa na wasiwasi kweli..Bora ziwe za uongo aisee

Andika maumivu mkuu.

 

[Kule Kwetu]

Unamsomeshaje mchumba? Msomeshe Mke au wadogo zako.

Unamlipia fees mke wa mtu?

Akili kumkichwa.

 

[ContinousImprovement]

Kuna kabinti nakasomesha jamani.. Nikiona story kama hizi napatwa na wasiwasi kweli..Bora ziwe za uongo aisee

Kadunge mimba Man.

 

[Ngalikihinja]

Salaam ndugu zangu,

Upo usemi usemao mchumba hasomeshwi.

Kila uchao na uchwao kumekuwa na vilio vingi kwa vijana wa kiume waliojitolea kuwasomesha wachumba zao kabla ya kufunga ndoa ila baadae huambulia maumivu makali baada ya kusalitiwa au kutelekezwa kabisa.

Tatizo ni nini hasa mpaka nyinyi akina dada kufikia maamuzi hayo?

Kijana wa kiume yakikukuta haya utafanyaje?

Naomba kila mmoja atoe yake ya moyoni au ushuhuda kuhusu jambo hili.

Nawasilisha.

Mnaosomesha wachumba hamfai kwa lingine zaidi ya kusomesha...

 

[ContinousImprovement]

Even if you do it out of love, yet it gonna hurt you. Whatever you offer to someone you're in love with goes in the name of love different from what is given to a Normal friend kwa mfano mimi shemeji yangu nimemtolea zaidi ya laki 8 shuleni ili aendelee na masomo na hainiumi ila inaniuma laki 2 tu niliyompa mara ya mwisho dada yake (mchumba wangu) ili ashone sare za kazi yake-inaniuma sana ninapoona kumbe alikuwa na boya mwingine akila mapesa yangu na pengine hata ya chakula alikuwa anakula na boya wake. Nalia kilio cha mbwa mdomo wazi mimi!

Tatizo mnakuwa na too much expectations. Learn from your mistakes. Usirudie kosa. Usiliwaze sana hilo. Limeshapita. Best revenge is to become more successful. Move on and be a better person.

 

[ezma]

Ukimsomesha demu huna akili na kama uko nazo zitakuwa zimejaa maji

 

[EMII]

Kuna kabinti nakasomesha jamani.. Nikiona story kama hizi napatwa na wasiwasi kweli..Bora ziwe za uongo aisee

Kapige mimba mapema

 

[MWANDENDEULE]

Tatizo mnakuwa na too much expectations. Learn from your mistakes. Usirudie kosa. Usiliwaze sana hilo. Limeshapita. Best revenge is to become more successful. Move on and be a better person.

Indeed I've learnt from my previous mistake na nimejisalimisha kwa mama yangu nakumweleza juu ya kosa kubwa nililofanya ikiwa ni pamoja na matumizi mabaya ya pesa ambazo zingeweza hata kuwalisha ndugu au rafiki zangu pasipo na mategemeo ya reward yoyote kama ilivyokuwa kwa Kwezi mchumba wangu aliyenipiga chini na kuniambia, "piga gharama zako unadai shilingi ngapi nikulipe mbele ya boya wake" nilihisi kuchanganyikiwa kwa kweli. Saivi sitarudia ujinga kama huu.
Mademu si wa kuamiani hata kidogo, they are the same na akili zao ni za mizuka ukimpanda anakupiga chini pasipokujali how much you love her na umemfanyia nini na unampenda kwa upendo gani.

 

[Wong Fei]

ndiyo mchumba hasomeshwi wala hakopeshwi hela.

 

[kabunda88]

Mkubaliane umpe mimba kabla hajamaliza chuo

 

[ampo]

hahahaha...nyie tatizo hamtakagi kusoma...mnatakaga tu magari na pesa ili mkavutie wanawake wengine.

Nahisi unasomeshwa na basha wako si bure

 

[Jamaa_Mbishi]

Salaam ndugu zangu,

Upo usemi usemao mchumba hasomeshwi.

Kila uchao na uchwao kumekuwa na vilio vingi kwa vijana wa kiume waliojitolea kuwasomesha wachumba zao kabla ya kufunga ndoa ila baadae huambulia maumivu makali baada ya kusalitiwa au kutelekezwa kabisa.

Tatizo ni nini hasa mpaka nyinyi akina dada kufikia maamuzi hayo?

Kijana wa kiume yakikukuta haya utafanyaje?

Naomba kila mmoja atoe yake ya moyoni au ushuhuda kuhusu jambo hili.

Nawasilisha.

Umsomeshe mchumba kwani wewe ndiye uliyemzaa? Wazazi wake wanafanya nini?

 

[Msafirishaji]

Waswahili bwana

"Utakuja kujinyonga mchumba hasomeshwi"

Nikiufikiria huu msemo tu sina hamu