Confused!

Confused!

M'Jr said:
Asante sana, ila nitapiga goti bila kumuwekea mungu conditions maana....
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How can you make conditions unto God? How? Because the Bible says Trust in Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding , in all your ways acknoweldge him , and he will make your paths straight ".... When we give God our conditions expect Him to move His hands out of your situation you face . But when we commit all our situations unto His Holy hands with surrender humbleness heart then God will step inn and take over for His Glory... This means umeona unammpenda mtu na ungependa umuoe before you make any move go kneel down and tell God how you feel about that person na umuulize is this your willing ? I need you to show me or tell me if this is your will and if its not then disconnect my feelings from her / him.. Another thing kama hujakutana na yule ummpendae then pray to give you what your desire ( mke wa aina gani) and then finish up your prayer by saying let your willing be done ... Maana God's ways not our ways , and His thoughts not our thoughts.. Tukimmpa God our conditions ina maanisha vile ndivyo tutakavyo either atake asitake thats what we want.. Hapa tunakuwa tumetumia akili zetu , emotional zetu na fleshy zetu ambazo zina mlimit God.. God is unlimit God thats why He does impossible things beyond of our thoughts.. Amen.. I hope nimejibu ipasavyo kama sivyo then naomba unisamehe.. Thanks..
 
Ungekuwa wa Dini yangu ningekushauri uoe yeyote, akisumbua unapiga chini, unaoa mwingine akizingua unafukuza mbali, unaoa mwingine akuleta mapepe unapita hivi, yaani usiwaruhusu wakuumize kichwa, wapo wengi sana hawa, usiache mmoja akusumbue akili yako
 
Keep moving on praying ,and wait for the God's answer, for our mind and power it is too difficult to get such a women,especially in today's moment that we have.
Hence what you should do, is to be confident and patient for time has come and you will witness the power of the lord to whom your hope is.
 
M'Jr said:
Huu ni muda ambao natamani nikirudi nyumbani nipokelewe na mtu wangu wa halali, aniambie pole na kazi, karibu nyumbani, chakula kitakuwa tayari soon. Yaani natamani kuwa na mtu ninayemuita mke wangu naye ananiita mume wangu. But i am totally confused,
  1. Should i choose a girl or a woman? (Siku hizi ni vigumu sana kuwatofautisha)
  2. Je atakuwa mke au ataendelea kuwa girlfriend hata baada ya kuolewa?
  3. Ataniheshimu kama mume au nitakuwa nikitoka ananing'ong'a?
  4. Atanifanya kuwa exclusive au atanifanya kuwa part of the list?
  5. Will i love her continuously au baada ya mwezi mmoja ntaona hanivutii?
  6. Atanifanya nipende kuwa nyumbani au atanifanya nipaone nyumbani kituo cha polisi?
  7. Atakuwa tayari kujenga familia yetu (mimi na yeye) au atajenga ya kwao?
  8. Atawafukuza ndugu zangu na kuwaleta wa kwao au wote watakuwa sawa kwake?
  9. Atakuwa liwazo langu au ndio atakuwa a pain in the ass?
  10. Tukikoseana tutaombana radhi au ndio itakuwa matangazo kwa mashoga na marafiki?
I am seriously CONFUSED!
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If you are confused and you dont know what to do then it means that you ready to have a wife yet. When you are ready, you will know what to do and whom to choose.
 
M'Jr said:
Huu ni muda ambao natamani nikirudi nyumbani nipokelewe na mtu wangu wa halali, aniambie pole na kazi, karibu nyumbani, chakula kitakuwa tayari soon. Yaani natamani kuwa na mtu ninayemuita mke wangu naye ananiita mume wangu. But i am totally confused,
  1. Should i choose a girl or a woman? (Siku hizi ni vigumu sana kuwatofautisha)
  2. Je atakuwa mke au ataendelea kuwa girlfriend hata baada ya kuolewa?
  3. Ataniheshimu kama mume au nitakuwa nikitoka ananing'ong'a?
  4. Atanifanya kuwa exclusive au atanifanya kuwa part of the list?
  5. Will i love her continuously au baada ya mwezi mmoja ntaona hanivutii?
  6. Atanifanya nipende kuwa nyumbani au atanifanya nipaone nyumbani kituo cha polisi?
  7. Atakuwa tayari kujenga familia yetu (mimi na yeye) au atajenga ya kwao?
  8. Atawafukuza ndugu zangu na kuwaleta wa kwao au wote watakuwa sawa kwake?
  9. Atakuwa liwazo langu au ndio atakuwa a pain in the ass?
  10. Tukikoseana tutaombana radhi au ndio itakuwa matangazo kwa mashoga na marafiki?
I am seriously CONFUSED!
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Kwa sasa ndoa za kibongo ni chemsha bongo ama bongo muvi. Yaani hakuna mapenzi ya kweli kwa kina Mama.
 
Maswali ni mawili tuu hayo mengine umeyacreate kutokana na kuishi kwa scenario za watu.Unampenda?Anakuheshim?
Ukishajibu hayo maswali mawili kwa ufasaha majibu ya confusions zako yamo ndani yake.
 
Madam Mwajuma said:
characteristics of marriage
.willingly into
.exclusively

among of the important thing is helping some one to be aware of his/her real& ideal self(whom you expected to be and whom you are now)

parhaps you had urealistic&inapplicable expectations on marriage)
if yes then you are the problem.
(humanistic appeoach)
being selfish dominant destructs reality! i don't see what goos things you expect to do her! offer what you expect to get from her then being your wife will be in position to copy& you are the one ro help her. "if you can't find good wife the ne good husband"
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Well said Madam.
 
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