BLIND DATES: Kukutana face to face kwazua jambo

[Elizabeth Dominic]

You took me slightly out of context. Siyo wazuri wote wenye personality mbaya. Na ukiangalia kwa undani wala sio wao per se wanaosababisha kuwa na personality mbaya.

Wanawake wazuri wanakuwa “objectified” na wanaume kadri wanavyokua. Badala ya kutambuliwa as a “person” wanatambuliwa as an “object” na jamii. Kila mara these "beauty queens" wanaambiwa na familia zao, marafiki, school mates na jamii kwa ujumla kuwa they are “beautiful”.

Matokeo yake wanadhani kuwa wana sense of entitlement and get used to everyone vying for their attention. Hii inaweza kuwaletea madhara makubwa sana kwenye personality zao. Wengi huwa hawajui wafanye nini pale wanapokuwa kwenye room na watu ambao hawathamini uzuri wao au hawana mpango uzuri wao.

Uzuri siyo identity ya mtu. Identity ya mtu ni personality yake. Ndiyo maana mtu akifa watu wanamkumbuka not on how beautiful/handsome s/he was, but how a person s/he was.

Kwa hiyo, vitu subjective kama “I am a beauty" havina substance sana kwa mhusika na vinaweza kumwadhiri kwa kushindwa kutambua her “concrete identity” na “sense of self.” Na kama alikuzwa kwenye rough life anaweza kuwa identity disturbance au Personality Disorders.

Having said that sina maana kuwa wanawake wote wazuri wana personality mbaya. Kwa hiyo Kongosho asitishike. Lakini kuna funny tafiti zimefanywa kuwa mwanaume aliyeoa mwanamke mzuri sana huwa anakufa 10 years kabla ya the actual date he was supposed to die. lol. Sijui kwa wanawake vipi?

Got u Kaka.... Good observation! Kwanini wanaume wanayeoa vipusa wanajifia mapema?

 

[EMT]

Got u Kaka.... Good observation! Kwanini wanaume wanayeoa vipusa wanajifia mapema?

Kwenye huo utafiti ilidaiwa kuwa ni presha. Kwamba muda mwingi ambao hawako na hao wapenzi wao wazuri wanakuwa kiroho juu kwa kudhani kuna wanaume wengine watakuwa wanawagegeda wapenzi wao, though I doubt any confident man will bother.

 

[shansarie]

the package was not promissing lol

hata picha walikuwa hawatumiani unakutanaje na mtu hata hujui anafananaje

 

[Ilushenisti]

Na hizi avatar hizi ndio killer zone kabisaaaa...Lol

Utamu wa chatting ambayo mara nyingi hupelekea flirting hasa kati ya wanaume na wanawake hadi kuwa na hamu kubwa (pengine hadi kujenga matamanio ya penzi) ni ile kwamba kila mmoja huwa na hisia based on imagination. Ukiwa mwanamke you imagine huyo mwanaume atakuwa handsome maybe kama Denzel Washington, only to find utadhani pacha wake Wassira.

Na yeye mwanaume akidhani huyo mwanamke kama Wema Sepetu only to find out kama vile pacha wake Bi Kidude, only yeye bb kidude tayari kazeka; ila dada ndio kwanza early 20s. Unadhani nini kinafuata hapo? La kwanza unachoka na kujisikia homa ghafla! Then inafuata hamu ya penzi limekufa hadi una wasi wasi kama litakaa lirudi tena! hahaha!

Wajanja kama alijuwa kuwa ni ngono anakutakia... Anakuwambia kabisa tukutane mahala fulani. Ukitangulia hapo kwa mbali anakuchek kupiga simu kuhakikisha kama ni wewe. Akiona haulipi hapo hapo anakupigia simu sorry nimepata dharula. Atachat siku mbili tatu, mwisho wa siku anakuambia mpenzi wangu kakuta message zetu naomba tukate mawasiliano... Unabaki una ng'a ng'aa macho...

Sad. Ila habari ndio hiyo...

Hivi nimekukosea nini Asha?

Mh Wassira hapa,

 

[asakuta same]

Hivi nimekukosea nini Asha?

Mh Wassira hapa,

Hii ni kweli au wanakusingizia Muheshimiwa?

 

[ladyfurahia]

ndo kama wewe nilivyokuona nikakosa pozi maana mtoto kama wa w-s-i-r-a vile?

Kama namuona huyo bimdada alivyokosa pozi....

 

[ubuntuX]

Mimi ili uhusiano uwepo Lazima the guy nimvutie sexually!!!!!!! Iwe he cant resist me! Ila akiniambia kanipendea charm, sense of humour BIG TURN OFF!!!!!!!!! Mpenzi ni mainly kwa kuenjoy mapenzi sio urafiki!!!!!!!!!

Thank you..now nishapata clue kwanini nikivomwambia nampendea charming yake alinipotezea..u smart