Besides sex, these are other Reasons to Why Men cheat...

[FirstLady1]

Mmmh namba 1 na namba 2 c sbb ya msingi sn kwa baadhi yao...nasema hzo coz nna ushahidi tukianza na mm mwenyewe. Sababu nyngne umesema sawa kbc...kuna moja imenigusa

Ipi imekugusa ?

 

[Maundumula]

4. If you are argumentative or a big criticizer and criticize on your man every moment, then there are chances that your man would look out for a better option and cheat on you.

5. At times, the reason can be falling out of love. If your relationship has lost the spark, then there are chances that your man can look out for greener pastures to seek love. Men can easily fall out of love if the spark in a relationship is lost.

6. If you are not sharing a healthy sex life, then wandering for your man from the relationship is not a big deal. This is one big factor that keeps a man interested in the relationship. If your sex life is not all that great and you turn down your partners' moves often, then there is a possibility that the man might cheat.

xoxoxo.

Hizo hapo juu ndio sababu kubwa.

 

[Maundumula]

4. If you are argumentative or a big criticizer and criticize on your man every moment, then there are chances that your man would look out for a better option and cheat on you.

5. At times, the reason can be falling out of love. If your relationship has lost the spark, then there are chances that your man can look out for greener pastures to seek love. Men can easily fall out of love if the spark in a relationship is lost.

6. If you are not sharing a healthy sex life, then wandering for your man from the relationship is not a big deal. This is one big factor that keeps a man interested in the relationship. If your sex life is not all that great and you turn down your partners’ moves often, then there is a possibility that the man might cheat.

xoxoxo.

Hizo hapo juu ndio sababu kubwa.

 

[Rogie]

Namba 3 and not given attn

Ipi imekugusa ?

 

[Mvaa Tai]

6. If you are not sharing a healthy sex life, then wandering for your man from the relationship is not a big deal. This is one big factor that keeps a man interested in the relationship. If your sex life is not all that great and you turn down your partners' moves often, then there is a possibility that the man might cheat.

Hapo kwenye namba sita, umenena. Hii ndo sababu kubwa wanaume wengi wanacheat ila kibaya zaidi wengi hufanya hivyo bila kufanya jitihada zozote za kumbadilisha partner wake. Kwa mfano binafsi kuna vitu navipenda sana kutoka kwa mwanamke lakini ili nivipate lazima ni-communicate kwasababu siyo kila kitu anakifaham mamsap wangu, kumbuka siyo wanawake wote wanapenda kuvaa shanga kiunoni na wakati huohuo siyo wanaume wote wanaweza kumvumilia mtu asiyevaa shanga kiunoni.

Napita tuu

:behindsofa:

 

[MESTOD]

Well said

 

[IGWE]

ngoja nikalete kamusi ntarudi_sasa hivi.

 

[Blaki Womani]

ngoja nikalete kamusi ntarudi_sasa hivi.

hapo pembeni kuna stationery

 

[IGWE]

hapo pembeni kuna stationery

Yeah_Arusha stationery wapo hapa pembeni,....sema mhindi ni mchoyo wa kuazimana,..ndio maana nataka niende home kuchukua ya kwangu.

 

[Fixed Point]

oh!
Hiyo namba 10 relationship nyingi zingekuwa hadithi kitaaambooooooo

 

[Ng'wanza Madaso]

It’s a season of love. The planet is all red. St. Valentine day is here. It’s simply euphoric! True lovers and feigners alike will partake the rituals associated with Lovers’ Day. But hey! Why would a sane man cheat on his wife?

Dominique Strauss-Kahn, John Edwards, Tiger Woods, Silvio Berlusconi… all top the list of famous personalities whose gigantic careers were sent tumbling just because their loose zips couldn’t stand the irresistible allure of skirts. Illicit affairs have been with us since the beginning of time and they are not going to end any time soon. Not even the Vatican is spared of this plague. It’s always hilarious seeing the ‘holier-than-thou’ kind of women castigating men, calling them all manner of names; deceitful, despicable or just plain stupid. The big irony here is that a woman is always involved; it takes two to tango.


Women who discover their cheating men react differently. The few wise ones like Hillary Clinton dare to forgive their straying husbands for their indiscretion. The irrational majority will rush to court and file for divorce. Nevertheless, infidelity shouldn’t always lead to divorce. The Clintons have stuck together twelve years since the Monica Lewinsky sex scandal. Clinton’s presidency was salvaged simply because Hillary stood by him.

Men cheat for different reasons. Some are driven wild by their insatiable libidos to the detriment of their careers and families. Honestly, all men are potential cheaters. Clever ones do it clandestinely without ever being caught. The few who apparently manage their sex drives do so not because they have the most loving wives at home but are rather bound by circumstances to a moral and righteous living. The men of the cloth fall in this category.


Men who stray cannot be said to be “immune” to their wives’ affection. Men are naturally very adventurous creatures. They always believe the girl next door is a better offer than the woman in the house because they want something fresh and new. And that’s why they are tempted to seek love from the wildest of sources. In a futile bid to find a “self-contained” woman, one-time cheaters slowly graduate into serial philanderers because there exists no single woman who exhibits all the traits one desires. Each has her own bunch of limitations.


I believe women are the reason why their hubbies venture out. When a woman decides to‘punish’ her man by denying him his conjugal rights, such a sexually starving man cannot afford to burn with passion to ashes. The poor guy is bound to strike at the slightest opportunity and this is the genesis of a mpango wa kando (back-up plan). If a lady seems to be telling her man, “Go ahead. You can cheat. I dare you. I bet you won’t!”, she will soon discover that her bet was a bad one.


Dear ladies, please babysit your men. There is no better way to “cage” your man as to treat him like your first-born son. And if you think this is too much for you, someone somewhere will do it for you. I speak as a man. Hear it from the horse’s mouth!


Furthermore, women should never pride in their good looks. A man will still go hunting even if he has a beauty queen in his house. If Halle Berry, undoubtedly the most beautifully actress in Hollywood can be cheated on, who else can’t?


Women would better know how to connect emotionally with their men. We men are perhaps the most emotional beings on the planet yet we won’t show it, we won’t show it either.


My fellow men, if you must cheat on her this Valentine, please cover your tracks well lest you get caught. As Shakespeare put it, “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.”


End.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

The question should be, why do people cheat.

 

[AshaDii]

Madaso... One thing I know... there is No perfect woman or man... No matter what you do sometimes wanadamu hawaridhiki.... naweza nifanye kila kitu kwa mume wangu mpaka hadi kumuabudu, but when it comes to cheat he will cheat! Either sababu ziwepo za msingi za kuchea ama Lah! Is another matter.... Mimi naona niweke za kaka/baba zetu hawa wa kibongo on my opinion of why they cheat...

1. Ni hulka yake... yaani yeye haridhiki na mwanamke mmoja.
2. Mke anaweza akawa hawezi provide sex kwa kipindi fulani, either kaumwa kwa mda mrefu, kasafiri, hataki mpaka hadi kutengana vyumba na the Like...
3. Kapata mwanamke ambae anajirahisi, na by all means anataka (huyo mwanamke) kulala nae.
4. Ndio umfanya ajione mwanaume kamili... maybe kwamba nyumbani atimza na kwa hawara/nyumba ndogo atimiza.
5. Mke mwenyewe kumpush mbali mume, kwamba hamtaki mumewe karibu yake.
6. Sababu tu anaweza kupata wanawake kirahisi, basi ana cheat.
7. Mambo ya mkumbo, washikaji woote wana nyumba ndogo; nisije onekana less of a man.
8. n. k

 

[Baba Kajo]

Daaaaaaa kiongozi umetisha bonge la shule hilo

 

[cartura]

why can't men take responsibility for their cheating behaviour? why does it have to boomerang on women as the cause of the men's cheating escapades? let's be fair sometimes, dudes

 

[Masikini_Jeuri]

Madaso... One thing I know... there is No perfect woman or man... No matter what you do sometimes wanadamu hawaridhiki.... naweza nifanye kila kitu kwa mume wangu mpaka hadi kumuabudu, but when it comes to cheat he will cheat! Either sababu ziwepo za msingi za kuchea ama Lah! Is another matter.... Mimi naona niweke za kaka/baba zetu hawa wa kibongo on my opinion of why they cheat...

1. Ni hulka yake... yaani yeye haridhiki na mwanamke mmoja.
2. Mke anaweza akawa hawezi provide sex kwa kipindi fulani, either kaumwa kwa mda mrefu, kasafiri, hataki mpaka hadi kutengana vyumba na the Like...
3. Kapata mwanamke ambae anajirahisi, na by all means anataka (huyo mwanamke) kulala nae.
4. Ndio umfanya ajione mwanaume kamili... maybe kwamba nyumbani atimza na kwa hawara/nyumba ndogo atimiza.
5. Mke mwenyewe kumpush mbali mume, kwamba hamtaki mumewe karibu yake.
6. Sababu tu anaweza kupata wanawake kirahisi, basi ana cheat.
7. Mambo ya mkumbo, washikaji woote wana nyumba ndogo; nisije onekana less of a man.
8. n. k

AshaDII

Nafurahi umeonesha kuhusika kwenu haswa hapo kwenye namba 2 na 5!

 

[Ntuya]

Much respect to AshaDii, a visionary woman.Big up!

 

[IKHOIKHOI]

Ebwanaaaaaaaaeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee,,,,,, nakubaliana nawe mkubwa. Umenigusa sana. Nadhani wanaume tumeumbiwa nguvu za ajabu sana, kiasi kwamba tusipozicontrol zitatucost. Huwa najiuliza zamani tunasikia kidume kingeweza kuwa na wanawake wengi hata 100 ana aliwamudu wote, leo unaambiwa mke ni lazima awe mmoja tu, jeee!

Ni mawazo yangu kwamba, wanaume wengi wanajikuta wanalazima kuwa na mke mmoja kwa sababu ya mfumo na sheria kama za dini nk. Lakini ingekuwa ruhusa kujimwaga, am sure wapo ambao japo wanaishi na mke mmoja, mfumo ukibadilika leo kwamba ruksa kuoa idadi ya wanawake unaotaka bila kujali masharti ya dini ama tamaduni, nk, ungeshangaa wapo watu wangeongeza wanawake wengi zaidi.

 

[Boflo]

Men by nature, which was the sole reason they marry more than one wives in the past decades, but due to the recent religious practices and for economic reasons, it had been widely discouraged that men marry more than one wife, yet, men do marry more than one wife, maybe not officially, but with different girlfriends and concubines, so my question now is, do you agree that all men cheat on their wives and girlfriends? If you are a guy and you disagree, please convince the house, and if you are a lady and you disagree, give your prove for trusting your lover, husband, fiance, boyfriend so much that he doesn't cheat?

 

[Kongosho]

Duh . . . .
Kwa hiyo tuwe wote single kwa kuogopwa kuchitiwa.
innocent until proven guility.