You know what it depend na huyo mtu kam-approach vipi huyo demu, kuna a lot of things ambavyo guys dont understand when approaching a woman.Yes you might be a nice guy but your approach is whack.First and foremost you need to understand women perspective.Some guys whenever they see a woman all they think about is down there and not up in the head.
I did my reseach and find out them bad boys they know how to talk to a woman,and respect and try to understanf where she comes from read her lips when she talk look her into her eyes...try to learn her like what she likes and dislike.
SOME guys thing that the only way to get a woman is to talk about sexy noooooooooooooo!....