Ushauri please: Vidume vyangu vinadundana balaa

mwena · Jan 14, 2017

Epuka kupiga piga watoto pasipo sababu za msingi kisa tu wanapigana, hiyo ni hali ya kawaida kwa watoto. Hasa mdogo anapenda kuonesha ubabe kwani anajua mkubwa anapendelewa. Ukiwapa kibano kwa style huyo utawafanya wawe wakorofi na watakusumbua hadi utajuta kuwazaa. Lamsingi ni kuwakanya na mda mwngine unajifanya km huwaoni vile. Tuache ubabe wa wazazi wetu walivyokua wanatutolea hasira kitu kidogo tu kibano. Tulee watoto wetu kama wasomi na watu tulioelimika

Ulukolokwitanga · Jan 14, 2017

Weka mbali hizo screw drivers asije huyo mdogo akamchomelea nayo jichoni kaka yake. Screw drivers na vitu vyote vyenye ncha kali ni hatari kwa watoto.

Ubuntu trusty tahr · Jan 14, 2017

Karucee said:
Habari za weekend wapendwa,

Natumai mambo yanaenda sawa na mnapata mda wa kupumzika na familia zenu mwisho wa wiki kama huu.

Nina watoto wawili wa kiume. Wa kwanza miaka 4 na wa pili miaka 2. Ni watundu sanaaaa na silalamiki kuhusu utundu wao because I saw it coming.

Tatizo ni kwamba wanadundana aisee. Huwa najitahidi kuweka balance kati yao katika kila kitu lakini wapi. Kitu kidogo tu hao. Sipendi kabisa hali hii na sometime huwa nawakung'uta lakini I just end up feeling guilty.

Najitahidi kuwanunulia same toys lakini huyu mdogo haipitagi siku mbili unamkuta na screwdriver keshalibomoa la kwake. Halafu anachukua la kaka yake anataka alifumue na la kwake. Baada ya hapo sijui anataka alifanyie panel beating?

Wa kwanza ni mpole flani. Ana huruma sana na anajua namna ya kumtuliza mwenzie by turning it all into a new game. Lakini akiwa fed up ama akihisi kuonewa ngumi zinaanza. Baba yao wala haimuumizi. Anajibu, 'Yes! Vidume hivyo acha vidundane' and it makes me feels like eating him alive.😱

I love my sons very very much and I hate to see them fight. I want them to love each other deeply. To be friends as well as brothers. To always take care of each other and have each others back.

What shall I do? What I'm I doing wrong?

natumai watakaa sawa ni hatua tu ila zitapita...jitaidi kuwaeka sawa kisha kuwa mvumilivu...

chipuputa · Jan 14, 2017

FaizaFoxy said:
Naam, wanajenga mapenzi na kila mmoja hapo anajuwa yupo safe kwa mwenzake.

Wacha wapigane.

Fastaaa said:
Ni yupi mwenye baba mkorofi kati yao??

Duuh! Hataree

miss chagga · Jan 14, 2017

JipuKubwa said:
Kweli inawezekana ukawa mrefu kwangu kwasababu siku hizi mnatumika sana...kina cha bahari ntakiweza wapi.Hongera kwa kuwa mrefu ' kuleee'[emoji23][emoji23]

Mfyuùuuu kwa kunachimbika?

Castr · Jan 14, 2017

Niadopt mimi nije kuwatuliza. Ila nina deni Loan Board.

Ty_Vigilante · Jan 14, 2017

Fungua BOXING...haaaaahh haaahhh jus kidding ni utoto tuu wakikua watapendana tena sio mbali ikifika age ya primary watenge shule zao wata mic one another sio kiu gomvi but just brotherhood

JipuKubwa · Jan 14, 2017

Karucee said:
Dah. Hupati presha?

Hapana mkuu, napenda hii hali.

Bujibuji Simba Nyamaume · Jan 14, 2017

Karucee uwe mkweli, fungua codes, hao watoto hata kama wamepatikana kwenye ndoa takatifu, kila mmoja ana baba yake.

JipuKubwa · Jan 14, 2017

miss chagga said:
Mfyuùuuu kwa kunachimbika?

Kunakuwa bwawani [emoji23][emoji23]

Hornet · Jan 14, 2017

Hongera Karucee wanangu pia wamepishana miaka miwili, mdogo ni mtata huyo akishika kitu hata kuwe na watoto Wengine atamdunda dada ake ,huyu mkubwa akikwazika anamdunda mdogo wake wote wanalia,imefika mahali nakaa kimya nawaacha au nawaambia atakayeshinda nampa zawadi wanaachatu kila mtu anapita na shughuli zake.
Ila ni kazi sana kuwahandle

miss chagga · Jan 14, 2017

JipuKubwa said:
Kunakuwa bwawani [emoji23][emoji23]

Ha ha ha ha ogolea

The Tomorrow People · Jan 14, 2017

Huyo mdogo ni Electrical Engineer, huyo mkubwa ni Lawyer. Hapo lazima ngumi zipigwe. Go with them to the shop.....ask engineer anataka nini mnunulie vya kwake, ask lawyer anataka nini naye mnunulie vya kwake.

Hapo engineer hatakuja kuchukua visivyo vyake maana hakuvichagua. Na mara kwa mara mwambie engineer atunze vitu vyake... Na kila siku jioni Waite wote engineer na lawyers...ukitoka job.... Waambie walete toys zao.

Yule ambaye toys zake hazijahatibika kwa pamoja mnampigia makofi. Engineer atajisikia vibaya next time hataharibu.

Sometimes njoo home na kitu kimoja either pipi, biscuits, juicy wape wagawane wenyewe wewe kazi yako ni kuhakikisha wanapeana equal parts.

Buni michezo yeyote mfano kuvuta kamba wao wakae wawili wewe peke yako na makes sure wao wanashinda. Hii itawajengea bonding na Upendo.

Anyway mambo mengine ukihitaji nitafute

Karucee · Jan 14, 2017

Bujibuji said:
Karucee uwe mkweli, fungua codes, hao watoto hata kama wamepatikana kwenye ndoa takatifu, kila mmoja ana baba yake.

Wewe gilesi wewe nikikufungulia code utakimbia jf. Tulia.

Karucee · Jan 14, 2017

Thanks sweetie. Great input.

The Tomorrow People said:
Huyo mdogo ni Electrical Engineer, huyo mkubwa ni Lawyer. Hapo lazima ngumi zipigwe. Go with them to the shop.....ask engineer anataka nini mnunulie vya kwake, ask lawyer anataka nini naye mnunulie vya kwake.

Hapo engineer hatakuja kuchukua visivyo vyake maana hakuvichagua. Na mara kwa mara mwambie engineer atunze vitu vyake... Na kila siku jioni Waite wote engineer na lawyers...ukitoka job.... Waambie walete toys zao.

Yule ambaye toys zake hazijahatibika kwa pamoja mnampigia makofi. Engineer atajisikia vibaya next time hataharibu.

Sometimes njoo home na kitu kimoja either pipi, biscuits, juicy wape wagawane wenyewe wewe kazi yako ni kuhakikisha wanapeana equal parts.

Buni michezo yeyote mfano kuvuta kamba wao wakae wawili wewe peke yako na makes sure wao wanashinda. Hii itawajengea bonding na Upendo.

Anyway mambo mengine ukihitaji nitafute

Bujibuji Simba Nyamaume · Jan 14, 2017

Karucee said:
Wewe gilesi wewe nikikufungulia code utakimbia jf. Tulia.

Ninataka kukimbia na sina brake

Kanungila Karim · Jan 14, 2017

Wapeleke police

bukoba boy · Jan 14, 2017

Karucee said:
Habari za weekend wapendwa,

Natumai mambo yanaenda sawa na mnapata mda wa kupumzika na familia zenu mwisho wa wiki kama huu.

Nina watoto wawili wa kiume. Wa kwanza miaka 4 na wa pili miaka 2. Ni watundu sanaaaa na silalamiki kuhusu utundu wao because I saw it coming.

Tatizo ni kwamba wanadundana aisee. Huwa najitahidi kuweka balance kati yao katika kila kitu lakini wapi. Kitu kidogo tu hao. Sipendi kabisa hali hii na sometime huwa nawakung'uta lakini I just end up feeling guilty.

Najitahidi kuwanunulia same toys lakini huyu mdogo haipitagi siku mbili unamkuta na screwdriver keshalibomoa la kwake. Halafu anachukua la kaka yake anataka alifumue na la kwake. Baada ya hapo sijui anataka alifanyie panel beating?

Wa kwanza ni mpole flani. Ana huruma sana na anajua namna ya kumtuliza mwenzie by turning it all into a new game. Lakini akiwa fed up ama akihisi kuonewa ngumi zinaanza. Baba yao wala haimuumizi. Anajibu, 'Yes! Vidume hivyo acha vidundane' and it makes me feels like eating him alive.😱

I love my sons very very much and I hate to see them fight. I want them to love each other deeply. To be friends as well as brothers. To always take care of each other and have each others back.

What shall I do? What I'm I doing wrong?

Kawaida sana hy0 kwa watoto waliofuatana.Mimi mwnyewe nimempiga sana mdogo wangu.

Karucee · Jan 14, 2017

Dah. Labda nitapata nguvu ya kuwapuuza huko mbele

Ulukolokwitanga said:
Weka mbali hizo screw drivers asije huyo mdogo akamchomelea nayo jichoni kaka yake. Screw drivers na vitu vyote vyenye ncha kali ni hatari kwa watoto.

I know mkuu. Kuna zile set za toolbox za watoto ndo huwa anachezea.

Karucee · Jan 14, 2017

Dah. Kisaaaa?

bukoba boy said:
Kawaida sana hy0 kwa watoto waliofuatana.Mimi mwnyewe nimempiga sana mdogo wangu.

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