Tabia inayoharibu maisha ya wanawake

Tabia inayoharibu maisha ya wanawake

Saiz kaka nimekuwa mdeadly kinoma yule nilikuwa bwege kwake coz nlikuwa na future nae sio hawa wakusuuza rungu hao huwa sichukui time nimesha dump huko
Demu unaempenda ndie atakupa gonorrhea, hua wanasema hivyo usimpende mwanamke kupitiliza utaugua ukichaa we penda kiasi tu na usimpe nafasi kiviiile kuna mwanamke unavyotaka awe sivyo yeye anavyotaka awe, ushawahi kutana na hio kitu?

Nilikua na manzi moja imeshona jarada haswa mimi sikua napenda avae kihunihuni Ila manzi alikua anapenda kuvaa kihuni ukimpa pesa ananunua nguo za kihunihuni yeye sio mhuni Ila mavazi yake ukimwambia usiwe hivi anajibadirisha kwa mda anaendelea kuvaa kihuni nikaja baini alishakua programmed hivyo before aliwahi date na muhuni muhuni mmoja kwa hio ile hali imebaki kwenye mindset yake kua kila mwanaume anapenda mwanamke anaevaa kihunihuni

PIGA CHINI FASTA
 
Wanawake ni wabinafsi sana, i remember two years ago niliwahi muapproach mwanamke mmoja tukiwa chuo, akanireject tena sio kunireject na some kind of drama kibao, mara afanye kushikana kimahaba na mens wengine infront of me, nk.

Moja kati ya kitu niko vizuri ni emotional intelligence basi japo ilikuw inaniumiza kiasi ila sikuwahi kumuonesha ajue...it was just me and my soul...

Ikafika kipindi akaacha hyo tabia baada kuona i don't give a JamiiForums' Community Engagement Guidelines | Mwongozo wa Ushiriki kwenye Mijadala about anything, but tulikuwa tuna tendency ya kuchat ,dah asee lakini nikigusia swala la kuwa naye alikuwa anakaza all she say its i want to be just friends only. Once namuapproach alisema hana mtu na haitaji kwa sasa, ila baada ya kuimbisha sana akaniambi kuna mtu anampenda, ooh jibu lililonifanya ni move on kabisa na nikate mawasiliano naye kabisa.

Life likaendelea now ni miaka miwili passed, ananichek she is a single mother and she say she loves me, she text everytime, calls all she say is i want to be with you, kila nikiongea naye huwa naenda kama yeye, anavyotaka sijawahi kumuonesha kama nimebadili mtazamo wa hisia zangu kwake.

But kiukweli i love her but i can't be with her... kiukweli huyu mwanamke alijua nampenda kweli ila shida ipo hapa kwenye timing za mapenzi.

My point is; "women's knows the man who truly loves them, but sometimes for the search of their lifestyle their reject the man who truly loves them, and ends up in regrets."

Ndo maana hata mwanamke akikukataa, au akakucheat akienda huku anakoenda, ila moyoni mwake anajua kabisa kuna mwanaume fulani ananipenda kweli, ila wanawke wanatabia ya kujaribu, anaweza akahisi kabisa mahusiano na mwanaume fulani hatuwezi kudumu ila ankubali hivyo hivyo akifail, kesha pewa mimba jamaa kakimbia ndo anarudi kwa yule ambaye alimkataa mwanzo anayejua huyu ndo sahihi.

Sasa hapa ndo wao wanapopoteza ramani ya maisha yao kabisa sababu, tayari anakuwa single mother na wewe upendo ulisha potea, ila yeye anafikiri zile hisia zako zitakuwa vile vile kama mwanzo.. Kumbe everything has changed. Ndo hapo sasa unakutana na men mwengine anataka alipize kisasi ankujaza anapiga mzigo anakuacha..unabaki ni majuto tu...
if you're to jump of o bridge, make sure you know how deep the water is.
Yaan kapigwa kachakaa ndio anataka aje afie ghetto kwako yeye na mwanae mtoto wa baba mwingine? Wanawake umbwa kweli,
 
Wanawake ni wabinafsi sana, i remember two years ago niliwahi muapproach mwanamke mmoja tukiwa chuo, akanireject tena sio kunireject na some kind of drama kibao, mara afanye kushikana kimahaba na mens wengine infront of me, nk.

Moja kati ya kitu niko vizuri ni emotional intelligence basi japo ilikuw inaniumiza kiasi ila sikuwahi kumuonesha ajue...it was just me and my soul...

Ikafika kipindi akaacha hyo tabia baada kuona i don't give a JamiiForums' Community Engagement Guidelines | Mwongozo wa Ushiriki kwenye Mijadala about anything, but tulikuwa tuna tendency ya kuchat ,dah asee lakini nikigusia swala la kuwa naye alikuwa anakaza all she say its i want to be just friends only. Once namuapproach alisema hana mtu na haitaji kwa sasa, ila baada ya kuimbisha sana akaniambi kuna mtu anampenda, ooh jibu lililonifanya ni move on kabisa na nikate mawasiliano naye kabisa.

Life likaendelea now ni miaka miwili passed, ananichek she is a single mother and she say she loves me, she text everytime, calls all she say is i want to be with you, kila nikiongea naye huwa naenda kama yeye, anavyotaka sijawahi kumuonesha kama nimebadili mtazamo wa hisia zangu kwake.

But kiukweli i love her but i can't be with her... kiukweli huyu mwanamke alijua nampenda kweli ila shida ipo hapa kwenye timing za mapenzi.

My point is; "women's knows the man who truly loves them, but sometimes for the search of their lifestyle their reject the man who truly loves them, and ends up in regrets."

Ndo maana hata mwanamke akikukataa, au akakucheat akienda huku anakoenda, ila moyoni mwake anajua kabisa kuna mwanaume fulani ananipenda kweli, ila wanawke wanatabia ya kujaribu, anaweza akahisi kabisa mahusiano na mwanaume fulani hatuwezi kudumu ila ankubali hivyo hivyo akifail, kesha pewa mimba jamaa kakimbia ndo anarudi kwa yule ambaye alimkataa mwanzo anayejua huyu ndo sahihi.

Sasa hapa ndo wao wanapopoteza ramani ya maisha yao kabisa sababu, tayari anakuwa single mother na wewe upendo ulisha potea, ila yeye anafikiri zile hisia zako zitakuwa vile vile kama mwanzo.. Kumbe everything has changed. Ndo hapo sasa unakutana na men mwengine anataka alipize kisasi ankujaza anapiga mzigo anakuacha..unabaki ni majuto tu...
if you're to jump of o bridge, make sure you know how deep the water is.
kwani hujui kuwa "MWALIMU WA WANAWAKE NI KIPOFU" yaani haoni mbele.
 
Kuna kitu nikikumbuka mpaka leo kinanikeleketa kis*nge

Kuna huyo dem alikuwa mkali kichizi nilikuwa nampiga maelezo aninichomolea anasema anajamaa ake lakini mda wote anataka awe na mimi tena anakuja ghetto kabisa all the time

Nikigusia hiyo mada anajifanya kumaindi baada ya nusu saa anakuja tena ghetto, mi na ujinga wangu hata simgusi

Sikuhizi ndo najua sikuwa nahaja yakujieleza vile
Ushachana nyavu au badoo, wewe hadi gheto anakuja mie hata mlango wa gheto langu hajawahi kuuona
 
Noma sana kwa hio ulichezea za mbavu alafu kuna muhuni tu somewhere anaempakua mda huu bila kujali future yake itakuaje akishachoka kubanjuliwa huko kachakaa atakutafuta aje kufia ghetto kwako au utamkataa?
Mkuu sijawahi fanya maamuzi magumu kwenye mapenzi kama wakat huu ngoja nione msimamo wangu ,ila kama nikilegeza ntakuja kuwaaambia wana yamenishindaa
 
Demu unaempenda ndie atakupa gonorrhea, hua wanasema hivyo usimpende mwanamke kupitiliza utaugua ukichaa we penda kiasi tu na usimpe nafasi kiviiile kuna mwanamke unavyotaka awe sivyo yeye anavyotaka awe, ushawahi kutana na hio kitu?

Nilikua na manzi moja imeshona jarada haswa mimi sikua napenda avae kihunihuni Ila manzi alikua anapenda kuvaa kihuni ukimpa pesa ananunua nguo za kihunihuni yeye sio mhuni Ila mavazi yake ukimwambia usiwe hivi anajibadirisha kwa mda anaendelea kuvaa kihuni nikaja baini alishakua programmed hivyo before aliwahi date na muhuni muhuni mmoja kwa hio ile hali imebaki kwenye mindset yake kua kila mwanaume anapenda mwanamke anaevaa kihunihuni

PIGA CHINI FASTA
Yeaah sure kuna mademu huwez kuchange mindset zao, saiv na go with the flow sina muda wa kupoteza ukinizingatia freshi ukijiona uko na ego za kutoshaa nakuachaaa
 
Mi nilipewa shit moja tu MOVE ON WITH YOU LIFE nikasema umesema? Akasema haujasikia au haujaelewa nikasema FRESH futa zake data zoote hata kwenye recycle bin nikachill down nikala movie kesho yake kaja anaanza mbanga zake nikamwambia we mbwa Jana si uliniambia ni MOVE ON leo unanifuatia nini?
😅😅😅
 
Nilikuwa siamini kuwa mafeelings huwa yana disappear baada ya muda saiv kuna mabidada nlokuwa nawachombeza miaka hiyo hadi naona kwan pale nilikuwa nataka nn hasa,huyu mwanamke hakustahili muda wangu kabisaa
Feelings huwa zina expire date hasa mtu akikuletea mapicha picha zikija kuisha unamuona wa kawaida sana.
 
Wanawake ni wabinafsi sana, i remember two years ago niliwahi muapproach mwanamke mmoja tukiwa chuo, akanireject tena sio kunireject na some kind of drama kibao, mara afanye kushikana kimahaba na mens wengine infront of me, nk.

Moja kati ya kitu niko vizuri ni emotional intelligence basi japo ilikuw inaniumiza kiasi ila sikuwahi kumuonesha ajue...it was just me and my soul...

Ikafika kipindi akaacha hyo tabia baada kuona i don't give a JamiiForums' Community Engagement Guidelines | Mwongozo wa Ushiriki kwenye Mijadala about anything, but tulikuwa tuna tendency ya kuchat ,dah asee lakini nikigusia swala la kuwa naye alikuwa anakaza all she say its i want to be just friends only. Once namuapproach alisema hana mtu na haitaji kwa sasa, ila baada ya kuimbisha sana akaniambi kuna mtu anampenda, ooh jibu lililonifanya ni move on kabisa na nikate mawasiliano naye kabisa.

Life likaendelea now ni miaka miwili passed, ananichek she is a single mother and she say she loves me, she text everytime, calls all she say is i want to be with you, kila nikiongea naye huwa naenda kama yeye, anavyotaka sijawahi kumuonesha kama nimebadili mtazamo wa hisia zangu kwake.

But kiukweli i love her but i can't be with her... kiukweli huyu mwanamke alijua nampenda kweli ila shida ipo hapa kwenye timing za mapenzi.

My point is; "women's knows the man who truly loves them, but sometimes for the search of their lifestyle their reject the man who truly loves them, and ends up in regrets."

Ndo maana hata mwanamke akikukataa, au akakucheat akienda huku anakoenda, ila moyoni mwake anajua kabisa kuna mwanaume fulani ananipenda kweli, ila wanawke wanatabia ya kujaribu, anaweza akahisi kabisa mahusiano na mwanaume fulani hatuwezi kudumu ila ankubali hivyo hivyo akifail, kesha pewa mimba jamaa kakimbia ndo anarudi kwa yule ambaye alimkataa mwanzo anayejua huyu ndo sahihi.

Sasa hapa ndo wao wanapopoteza ramani ya maisha yao kabisa sababu, tayari anakuwa single mother na wewe upendo ulisha potea, ila yeye anafikiri zile hisia zako zitakuwa vile vile kama mwanzo.. Kumbe everything has changed. Ndo hapo sasa unakutana na men mwengine anataka alipize kisasi ankujaza anapiga mzigo anakuacha..unabaki ni majuto tu...
if you're to jump of o bridge, make sure you know how deep the water is.

Kwa akili zangu nakupiga mzigo wa mwana kojoakojo uku nakupa maneno matamu na kitombo cha haja siku ya pili yake sipokei Wala si reply.....

Kuna demu nlikua na mpenda since form one mpk tuna maliza cha six hanielew ila mijamaa mingine inapiga tu mzigo fresh basi nikaja potezana nae miaka kibao nakuja kurud mkoan nakuta single mother af ana kashifa ya ngoma lkn kanona kishenz bas pamoja na kashifa nikaandaa zangu rough rider zangu pakit mbili nikampanga nikapiga bonge la game la kumkomoa I’m sure hajawah kupata game ka ile before and after kitokeo cha apo nikamnbroke kabisa....
 
Kuna kitu nikikumbuka mpaka leo kinanikeleketa kis*nge

Kuna huyo dem alikuwa mkali kichizi nilikuwa nampiga maelezo aninichomolea anasema anajamaa ake lakini mda wote anataka awe na mimi tena anakuja ghetto kabisa all the time

Nikigusia hiyo mada anajifanya kumaindi baada ya nusu saa anakuja tena ghetto, mi na ujinga wangu hata simgusi

Sikuhizi ndo najua sikuwa nahaja yakujieleza vile
😂 kwahiyo mliishia kupiga story tu
 
Wanawake ni wabinafsi sana, i remember two years ago niliwahi muapproach mwanamke mmoja tukiwa chuo, akanireject tena sio kunireject na some kind of drama kibao, mara afanye kushikana kimahaba na mens wengine infront of me, nk.

Moja kati ya kitu niko vizuri ni emotional intelligence basi japo ilikuw inaniumiza kiasi ila sikuwahi kumuonesha ajue...it was just me and my soul...

Ikafika kipindi akaacha hyo tabia baada kuona i don't give a JamiiForums' Community Engagement Guidelines | Mwongozo wa Ushiriki kwenye Mijadala about anything, but tulikuwa tuna tendency ya kuchat ,dah asee lakini nikigusia swala la kuwa naye alikuwa anakaza all she say its i want to be just friends only. Once namuapproach alisema hana mtu na haitaji kwa sasa, ila baada ya kuimbisha sana akaniambi kuna mtu anampenda, ooh jibu lililonifanya ni move on kabisa na nikate mawasiliano naye kabisa.

Life likaendelea now ni miaka miwili passed, ananichek she is a single mother and she say she loves me, she text everytime, calls all she say is i want to be with you, kila nikiongea naye huwa naenda kama yeye, anavyotaka sijawahi kumuonesha kama nimebadili mtazamo wa hisia zangu kwake.

But kiukweli i love her but i can't be with her... kiukweli huyu mwanamke alijua nampenda kweli ila shida ipo hapa kwenye timing za mapenzi.

My point is; "women's knows the man who truly loves them, but sometimes for the search of their lifestyle their reject the man who truly loves them, and ends up in regrets."

Ndo maana hata mwanamke akikukataa, au akakucheat akienda huku anakoenda, ila moyoni mwake anajua kabisa kuna mwanaume fulani ananipenda kweli, ila wanawke wanatabia ya kujaribu, anaweza akahisi kabisa mahusiano na mwanaume fulani hatuwezi kudumu ila ankubali hivyo hivyo akifail, kesha pewa mimba jamaa kakimbia ndo anarudi kwa yule ambaye alimkataa mwanzo anayejua huyu ndo sahihi.

Sasa hapa ndo wao wanapopoteza ramani ya maisha yao kabisa sababu, tayari anakuwa single mother na wewe upendo ulisha potea, ila yeye anafikiri zile hisia zako zitakuwa vile vile kama mwanzo.. Kumbe everything has changed. Ndo hapo sasa unakutana na men mwengine anataka alipize kisasi ankujaza anapiga mzigo anakuacha..unabaki ni majuto tu...
if you're to jump of o bridge, make sure you know how deep the water is.

Nitumie namba yake
 
Ahahaha haya mambo haya kuna jamaa anasema hayana muongozo.

Kuna bidada huyo nlitokea kumkubali kinoma ,at first she was just a friend to me but nikaona she can make a good wife nikamu approach lakn akawa anasingizia ye bado ni mdogo kiumri that time yuko na 17 i think 2019 .

Basi muda unazidi songa nikawa nakumbushia, kuna muda nikaacha ,last time 2021 nikarudisha tena majeshi anakuja kuniambia anamtu ,daaaah nilidata nikahisi masiala dogo akakaza , kuna rafiki yake mmoja akanambia kuwa kweli dogo anamdau tayariii.

DAAAAH HIII STORY NIKO NAYO IMOSHONOOO SANAA

kufupisha story nikajisemea mwaka 2022 ndio mwaka wangu wa mwisho kufosi hii kitu kwake, December nlienda rekebisha gari karibu na hometown kwake nikakimbia mafundi niende kuzuga kwake huku mafundi wakikamilisha mzigo, nimefika pale nikampa salamu akajibu ile juu juuuu tuuu, nikawa nampa story no response nzuri toka kwake yuko busy na mambo yakee, nikamuuliza shida nn kwan mbona haupo Normal akajibu hamna kituuuu.

Ikabidi nijifanye nimepigiwaa simu nikaaga nikasepaa akajibu kinyongee hivo hivoooo.

From that day onwards nikaapa siji mtafuta huyu mtoto nikafunga kurasa mazima,
Nimeanza 2023 sijamcheki hajanichek after week kadhaa nikazoeaa ,siku zimepita hata akilin inaweza pita siku nisimuwazee.

Feb 10s alinipigia simu kwa sauti ya kinyonge sana, ANASEMA NAOMBA NISAMEHE KWA YALE nlokuambia mwaka jana (Huko nyuma ashai nambia hanipendi ,hawezi kuwa namie etc na maneno mengine magumu kama hayo na ashanambia several times ikafika kipindi nikawa naishi nayo nikayazoea) ,mie nikamwambia usiwazeee kuhusu hayo mbona ulisema ukweli uliomoyon mwako so huna haja ya kujutia maaana ulinichana ukweli mie ndio niamue kukaza fuvu.

Akashusha lawama kwann simtafuti kama zaman wala simpigiiii simu kama zaman ikabidi nimchane ukweli.

Nikamkumbusha kuwa kuna cku ile unakumbuka nimekuja kwako Afu hukuwa na time na mie akasema ndiyoo am sorry nlikuwa siko na mood siku hiyoo na blaaa blaaaah kibao , akaongeza tena usiniulize Kwann sikuwa na mood nikaona kanataka kuleta ukaribu ambao mie nishaacha kuutaka, siku entertain hayo maongez tukaaagana

Story yetu ikaishia hapo nikafunga ukurasa mazimaaa
Safi sana, ila mimi na jambo langu kwanza

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Wanawake ni wabinafsi sana, i remember two years ago niliwahi muapproach mwanamke mmoja tukiwa chuo, akanireject tena sio kunireject na some kind of drama kibao, mara afanye kushikana kimahaba na mens wengine infront of me, nk.

Moja kati ya kitu niko vizuri ni emotional intelligence basi japo ilikuw inaniumiza kiasi ila sikuwahi kumuonesha ajue...it was just me and my soul...

Ikafika kipindi akaacha hyo tabia baada kuona i don't give a JamiiForums' Community Engagement Guidelines | Mwongozo wa Ushiriki kwenye Mijadala about anything, but tulikuwa tuna tendency ya kuchat ,dah asee lakini nikigusia swala la kuwa naye alikuwa anakaza all she say its i want to be just friends only. Once namuapproach alisema hana mtu na haitaji kwa sasa, ila baada ya kuimbisha sana akaniambi kuna mtu anampenda, ooh jibu lililonifanya ni move on kabisa na nikate mawasiliano naye kabisa.

Life likaendelea now ni miaka miwili passed, ananichek she is a single mother and she say she loves me, she text everytime, calls all she say is i want to be with you, kila nikiongea naye huwa naenda kama yeye, anavyotaka sijawahi kumuonesha kama nimebadili mtazamo wa hisia zangu kwake.

But kiukweli i love her but i can't be with her... kiukweli huyu mwanamke alijua nampenda kweli ila shida ipo hapa kwenye timing za mapenzi.

My point is; "women's knows the man who truly loves them, but sometimes for the search of their lifestyle their reject the man who truly loves them, and ends up in regrets."

Ndo maana hata mwanamke akikukataa, au akakucheat akienda huku anakoenda, ila moyoni mwake anajua kabisa kuna mwanaume fulani ananipenda kweli, ila wanawke wanatabia ya kujaribu, anaweza akahisi kabisa mahusiano na mwanaume fulani hatuwezi kudumu ila ankubali hivyo hivyo akifail, kesha pewa mimba jamaa kakimbia ndo anarudi kwa yule ambaye alimkataa mwanzo anayejua huyu ndo sahihi.

Sasa hapa ndo wao wanapopoteza ramani ya maisha yao kabisa sababu, tayari anakuwa single mother na wewe upendo ulisha potea, ila yeye anafikiri zile hisia zako zitakuwa vile vile kama mwanzo.. Kumbe everything has changed. Ndo hapo sasa unakutana na men mwengine anataka alipize kisasi ankujaza anapiga mzigo anakuacha..unabaki ni majuto tu...
if you're to jump of o bridge, make sure you know how deep the water is.

Kwa sasa tumia tu kiswahili, achana na jamp ze bridge and deep za water, maana

"My point is; "women's knows the man who truly loves them, but sometimes for the search of their lifestyle their reject the man who truly loves them, and ends up in regrets."
 
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