Pdidy
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How To Know A Woman That Is Ready For Marriage!
Many women are waiting for marriage, but they are not ready for marriage.
Some women may have married without these qualities, but it will show in the quality of their marriage.
But when a woman is truly ready for marriage, these qualities must be evident.
1. She's Productive:
A woman who is lazy is not yet ready for marriage.
I believe that a lady will not understand the true meaning of love, until she starts working for her own money. It is laziness that makes a girl think that any man that buys her an iPhone loves her. When a woman is productive, and working for her own money, mature men will find her more attractive and ready for marriage. It is a heavy burden to marry an unproductive woman.
2. She's Supportive:
A woman that is ready to become a wife should have understood that marriage is partnership. No man wants to marry a liability. Men are looking for a woman that will support them; mentally, spiritually, emotionally and even financially, in some cases. Once a mature man finds a supportive woman, marriage becomes his next agenda.
3. She's Submissive:
No man is looking for another mother or an elder sister. Every man is looking for a woman that will allow him to be the head. Anything with two heads is a beast. Submission means you are willing to recognize your husband as your head. If you're still showing traits of insubordination and saying stuff like "women are equal with men in marriage," or "I'm a wife and not a cook," you're not yet ready to attract a good man.
4. She's Not Materialistic:
A woman that is ready for marriage knows how to cut her coat according to her cloth. She's a keeper, not a waster. She's a contented woman.
A materialistic woman wants everything other women have, but she's not willing to work for it. She believes it's a man's responsibility to sponsor her luxurious lifestyle.
A materialistic woman is not a wife material.
5. She's No Longer Emotionally Attached To Her Ex-boyfriend:
She shows emotional maturity.
This does not need further explanation. A woman that is dating another man, but still emotionally entangled or even secretly meeting or sêxting with her ex-boyfriend, is not ready for marriage. She's still stuck in the past. She's not ready for the future. She needs to do a "Soul Detoxification" - disconnect your soul from all the men you've dated in the past. It's time to be a holistic woman.
6. She's Respectful:
A woman that insults every man she thinks is not her class, is not ready to settle down. The funny thing is, it was another man that improved the quality of your life, and bought you all the expensive things you have. You now have class to insult other men. Who put you in that class?
Even if you are not interested in a man, you should talk to him with respect. Even if you want to break up or decline a man's friendship request, you shouldn't destroy his dignity.
Sêx can attract boys, who will only play games with your heart, but respect will attract men who are ready to commit.
7. She's Not Desperate:
Desperation is a sign that you're not prepared for what you're waiting for. A lady that is truly prepared for marriage will not be desperate. She will not be trying so hard to convince a man to choose her. A mature lady that is ready for marriage is calm, cool and steady, because she understands her true worth and value. A good man will see her worth and treat her the way she deserves. Desperation will only make you a toy in the hands of evil men.
8. She Won't Use Sex To Keep A Man:
Can sex keep a man? Can a man marry a woman simply because of sêxual escapades?
When sêx is the only thing a woman can offer in a relationship, it's a sign that she's not ready for marriage. I have often said that, and this applies to singles, "Any relationship where sêx is cheap, true love will be scarce." Too much free sêx may be the reason you're still single, as a lady.
To be continued.
Dear single lady, with all these points I highlighted,
Do you still think you're ready for marriage?
Many women are waiting for marriage, but they are not ready for marriage.
Some women may have married without these qualities, but it will show in the quality of their marriage.
But when a woman is truly ready for marriage, these qualities must be evident.
1. She's Productive:
A woman who is lazy is not yet ready for marriage.
I believe that a lady will not understand the true meaning of love, until she starts working for her own money. It is laziness that makes a girl think that any man that buys her an iPhone loves her. When a woman is productive, and working for her own money, mature men will find her more attractive and ready for marriage. It is a heavy burden to marry an unproductive woman.
2. She's Supportive:
A woman that is ready to become a wife should have understood that marriage is partnership. No man wants to marry a liability. Men are looking for a woman that will support them; mentally, spiritually, emotionally and even financially, in some cases. Once a mature man finds a supportive woman, marriage becomes his next agenda.
3. She's Submissive:
No man is looking for another mother or an elder sister. Every man is looking for a woman that will allow him to be the head. Anything with two heads is a beast. Submission means you are willing to recognize your husband as your head. If you're still showing traits of insubordination and saying stuff like "women are equal with men in marriage," or "I'm a wife and not a cook," you're not yet ready to attract a good man.
4. She's Not Materialistic:
A woman that is ready for marriage knows how to cut her coat according to her cloth. She's a keeper, not a waster. She's a contented woman.
A materialistic woman wants everything other women have, but she's not willing to work for it. She believes it's a man's responsibility to sponsor her luxurious lifestyle.
A materialistic woman is not a wife material.
5. She's No Longer Emotionally Attached To Her Ex-boyfriend:
She shows emotional maturity.
This does not need further explanation. A woman that is dating another man, but still emotionally entangled or even secretly meeting or sêxting with her ex-boyfriend, is not ready for marriage. She's still stuck in the past. She's not ready for the future. She needs to do a "Soul Detoxification" - disconnect your soul from all the men you've dated in the past. It's time to be a holistic woman.
6. She's Respectful:
A woman that insults every man she thinks is not her class, is not ready to settle down. The funny thing is, it was another man that improved the quality of your life, and bought you all the expensive things you have. You now have class to insult other men. Who put you in that class?
Even if you are not interested in a man, you should talk to him with respect. Even if you want to break up or decline a man's friendship request, you shouldn't destroy his dignity.
Sêx can attract boys, who will only play games with your heart, but respect will attract men who are ready to commit.
7. She's Not Desperate:
Desperation is a sign that you're not prepared for what you're waiting for. A lady that is truly prepared for marriage will not be desperate. She will not be trying so hard to convince a man to choose her. A mature lady that is ready for marriage is calm, cool and steady, because she understands her true worth and value. A good man will see her worth and treat her the way she deserves. Desperation will only make you a toy in the hands of evil men.
8. She Won't Use Sex To Keep A Man:
Can sex keep a man? Can a man marry a woman simply because of sêxual escapades?
When sêx is the only thing a woman can offer in a relationship, it's a sign that she's not ready for marriage. I have often said that, and this applies to singles, "Any relationship where sêx is cheap, true love will be scarce." Too much free sêx may be the reason you're still single, as a lady.
To be continued.
Dear single lady, with all these points I highlighted,
Do you still think you're ready for marriage?
