Sifahamu mimi ni nani

[kawombe]

 

[Al-Watan]

Waswahili walisema "Undugu ni kufaana, si kufanana".

Unajua hata Nyerere Chifu Burito si baba yake wa kibaiolojia lakini ndiye aliyemlea, aliyemsomesha na ndiye anayepata ujiko mpaka leo kwamba baba yake Kambarage Nyerere?

Unajua Baba yake wa kibaiolojia Bill Clinton jina lake si Clinton, Mzee Clinton ni Baba aliyekuja kumkuta Mama yake Bill ana mtoto tayari, akamuoa,lakini kwa sababu alimlea mtoto vizuri mpaka jina Bill Clinton akabadilisha kutoka William Blythe (Blythe ni jina la familia ya baba yake wa kibaiolojia) akajipa jina la Bill Clinton (Clinton ni baba yake aliyemlea)

Guess what?

Majina ya Nyerere na Clinton yamevuma kama majina ya marais kwa sababu ya ulezi wa mababa hawa, si kwa sababu ni mababa wa kibaiolojia.

 

[Maserati]

Jina halina uhusiano na wewe hata kama ungeitwa kisu hamna ambae angepinga na undugu ni kusaidia na sio kufanana nilichokibaini kutoka kwako ni kadiri ulivyokisoma ndivyo ulivyokipingua akiri umefundishwa miaka yote kwa maneno na matendo kwamba huyu babayako na huyu mama yako wakakughalamia kwa juhudi na maalifa kisha anakuja mjonga mmoja tu kuvunjwa elimu uliyofundishwa na wepenzi wako wanaokutakia mema tena kwa dakika 5 nawe kwa ujinga wako unafuta yooote na kuanza kuomba ushauri kwa jambo la kipumbavu. Umenichukiza sana lau kama mimi ndie ningekua mama yako na adabu hiyo unayonivunjia kwa kuwa tu eti umepata kazi sasa na unajifanya unajitambua ningekuazibu azabu ambayo dunia ingejifunza kitu kutokana na ujinga wako.

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Sure, hata mimi namuona mjinga sana. Siwezi kusema huyo mzee kakosea kumuambia ukweli.
Lakini, lazima ujielewe ujue kuna watu wanatamani wangepata watu wa kuwasaidia na kuwatoa katika dimbwi walilomo now, fikiria huyo baba ako mzazi mjinga mjinga unae mtaka angefanga alichowafanyia as huyo mzee alivyowaambia hivi unafikiri hizo international school ungezisoma?? Ungezisikia kwenye bomba tu, wala hiko chuo kikuu pengine usingefika. U just tell your mom, you proud of your father kwa kuwasomesha and taking good care of you, but you hear this and this, is it true??

Sio unauliza kufanana, kufafa hata nyani wamefanana na sio ndugu.

 

[Mr.Junior]

Nothing just curious to know the truth, by the way i don't hate anything about the chaggas I'll kinda be hating myself because I'm everything, absolutely everything about them,whenever i mention my name or wear my name target at work normally everyone thinks that I'm from Kilimanjaro, sometimes my fellow military staffs even call me mangi and i don't have an option than accepting it because if I react i will be obliged to tell everyone my story something which i can hardly do

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Mkuu nenda kamwombe msamaha Mama kwa maswali uliyomuuliza.

fanya kama hujasikia kitu ili maisha yasonge mbele.

Kama huyo mzee amefanya yote hayo huna haja ya kumjua huyo unayemwita biological father kwani kunaweza kuibua matatizo zaidi.

 

[General Mangi]

I thought knowing oneself is part of what you're talking about (education) but i don't blame anyone concerning what they have to offer as an advice/comment by the way education is a wide concept, so i don't know how you define education from your perspective but when it comes to me incase if I'm to be asked i would say Education is what triggered the need to find out the truth.. Trust me kama sio shule nisingekua na sababu ya kuutafuta ukweli ulio jificha

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hutafuti ukweli, bali unatafuta ujinga usio na maana.

Sio kila kweli ni muhimu.

 

[Southern Highland]

Samahani brother kufukua makaburi maana yako ni ipi hasa? I mean how is it related with digging graves

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Nilimaanisha unajaribu kufungua vitu ambavyo vilishafungwa kitambo. Kama mama hakuamua kukwambia mwenyewe nakushauri brother u better leave it. Hawa wazazi wetu wanahangaika sana kutulea kuna mapresha ndani sisi hatujui. Muache mama bhana usimuhangaishe mkuu

 

[pharaoh_2]

The old man is nothing but a bitch! Atakuharibia kuwa naye mbali kama mbingu na ardhi.sauwah!?

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Mzee yupi ataniharibia mkuu?

 

[pharaoh_2]

Jina halina uhusiano na wewe hata kama ungeitwa kisu hamna ambae angepinga na undugu ni kusaidia na sio kufanana nilichokibaini kutoka kwako ni kadiri ulivyokisoma ndivyo ulivyokipingua akiri umefundishwa miaka yote kwa maneno na matendo kwamba huyu babayako na huyu mama yako wakakughalamia kwa juhudi na maalifa kisha anakuja mjonga mmoja tu kuvunjwa elimu uliyofundishwa na wepenzi wako wanaokutakia mema tena kwa dakika 5 nawe kwa ujinga wako unafuta yooote na kuanza kuomba ushauri kwa jambo la kipumbavu. Umenichukiza sana lau kama mimi ndie ningekua mama yako na adabu hiyo unayonivunjia kwa kuwa tu eti umepata kazi sasa na unajifanya unajitambua ningekuazibu azabu ambayo dunia ingejifunza kitu kutokana na ujinga wako.

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You started like a Bang but unfortunately ended it like a whimper it is your advice anyway you are still entitled to your opinions [emoji12]

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[pharaoh_2]

Unachokitafuta kiko sahihi kabisa ni vizuri ujifahami hata kama huyo mzee hakukulea wewe ulikuwa mtoto huwezi kuelewa Mambo ya nyuma kwani kujua ukweli kuna ubaya gani je kama huyo mazazi wako alikuwa fukara utajuaje tuache kupotosha ukweli huyo mazazi anachokificha ni nini Hizo chuki zake na huyo mazazi wako asikujumlishie na wewe busara ni vizuri Zaidi ikatumika kuliko kukukatili usijue ukweli

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Asante Mirajin i really appreciate your contribution

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[pharaoh_2]

Waswahili walisema "Undugu ni kufaana, si kufanana".

Unajua hata Nyerere Chifu Burito si baba yake wa kibaiolojia lakini ndiye aliyemlea, aliyemsomesha na ndiye anayepata ujiko mpaka leo kwamba baba yake Kambarage Nyerere?

Unajua Baba yake wa kibaiolojia Bill Clinton jina lake si Clinton, Mzee Clinton ni Baba aliyekuja kumkuta Mama yake Bill ana mtoto tayari, akamuoa,lakini kwa sababu alimlea mtoto vizuri mpaka jina Bill Clinton akabadilisha kutoka William Blythe (Blythe ni jina la familia ya baba yake wa kibaiolojia) akajipa jina la Bill Clinton (Clinton ni baba yake aliyemlea)

Guess what?

Majina ya Nyerere na Clinton yamevuma kama majina ya marais kwa sababu ya ulezi wa mababa hawa, si kwa sababu ni mababa wa kibaiolojia.

Asante ndugu nimekuelewa the same case applies to me now and I'm comfortable with it. but it's just the other part of me that pushes me to the limits

 

[Fidelisfcm]

Habari za leo wana forum,

Mimi ni kijana at late 20's toka nimezaliwa mwanzoni mwa miaka ya 90 nilikuwa nafahamu kuwa baba na mama yangu ndio hawa waliokua wakinilea lakini mwaka 2015 wakati nimemaliza chuo na kurudi nyumbani niliipata taarifa ambayo ilibadili mtazamo wangu kuhusu hawa wazazi wangu na siri kubwa waliyo nayo.

Iko hivi kwa mama yetu mzazi tuko watoto wa nne, mimi ni wa pili kuzaliwa kuna wa kwanza wa kiume na wadogo zetu wawili wa kike na kiume ambao sina shaka juu ya uhalisia wao kwa kua wamezaliwa nikiwa na akili timamu.

Baba yetu tunae mfahamu ni askari wa jeshi la wananchi na mama yetu kipindi hicho alikua ni mwalimu wa shule ya msingi. Kusema ukweli mzee huyu ametulea ki- dictator mpaka inafikia stage unamuogopa and you cannot make story with him or express yourself to him as your father lakini tukazoea na kuona labda tunalelewa kijeshi and by then we lived in a military Barack.

But the good thing about the oldman ni kwamba amekuwa na moyo wa kujitolea kuhusu maisha yetu like taking us all to the most expensive school in town and supplying all our basic needs abundantly, inshort he is Generous nadhani hii ndio sababu iliyotuaminisha kua he is our biological father kwa kua mpaka ada ya kulipia chuo kikuu amenilipia bila kua na mkopo kutoka HESLB.

Sasa wakati nimemaliza chuo nilirudi kijijini kumsalimia bibi (mama wa mama) huko nilikutana na mzee mmoja ambae alinitambua kwa jina la asili ambalo sikuwahi kulijua kabla nilishangazwa na lile jina nikaamua kumuuliza yule babu vipi mbona tunaitana majina ya ajabu.

Mzee akaniuliza kwani wewe unaitwa nani nikamtajia jina langu kwa kudhani kua amenifananisha, akasema "nakufahamu tokea ukiwa mtoto wa umri wa siku moja" yaani kabla mama yetu hajaolewa na huyu mzee tunaemuita baba, honestly he ruined my day and i almost slapped him on his face but thank God i managed to conceal my true feelings.

Nikamwambia mzee kabla sijaondoka nitakuja nikuone tuongee vizuri. Hata sikutamani tena kukaa kwa yule bibi yetu muda wote nilikua nafikiria maneno ya yule mzee baada ya siku 3 niliamua nimuage bibi and i went straight to the oldman's house.

Yule mzee alinieleza kwa masharti kua nimekua mtu mzima nahitaji kujitambua mimi ni nani, na asingeweza kuniambia hizo taarifa wakati wa kipindi cha nyuma labda nisingeweza kumuheshimu huyu mzee wetu ukizingatia anatusaidia kwa mambo makubwa ambayo mama yetu as a single parent asingeweza ku afford like taking us all to international schools.

Nikamuuliza mzee vipi kuhusu hili jina ninalotumia? Akanieleza kua baba yetu (sisi watoto wawili wa kwanza) alikuwa ni dereva wa magari makubwa alikua akija pale nyumbani kwa msimu na hakua akituhudumia.

Sasa huyu askari alipohamishiwa kwenye mji ule kikazi ndipo akakutana na mama yetu akiwa na watoto wawili (mimi na kaka yangu) akafanya kutu adopt na kutubadilishia majina yetu na kuanza kutumia majina ya ukoo wake, kuna muda baba yetu alikuja pale nyumbani alipata kichapo akaenda mahakamani akashindwa kesi kua hana mchango kwa familia kwa hiyo akatoweka mpaka Leo, mimi mpaka sasa hivi sijijui kua ni nani.

Nikimaanisha kabila wala ukoo, ndugu zangu wote hawajagundua hili and we all live like brothers, namuheshimu sana huyu mzee na amefanya kila kitu kuhakikisha tunasoma ili tujitegemee kiasi kwamba nilivyomaliza tu chuo akanitafutia nafasi jeshini moja kwa moja and to be honest I was just glad.

Naomba mnishauri hapa kwa kua niliamua kumkabili mama anieleze ukweli kwa njia ya kumdadisi kwa kua sifanani na mama wala na baba huyu tofauti na wadogo zetu. Lakini mama amekua mkali kua namkosea heshima maswali hayo ni ya kumvua nguo na nimekosa nini kwa baba huyu mpaka kuulizia mtu nisiye mfahamu wala asiyenisaidia lolote.

Yuko sahihi lakini mimi natumia majina ya kichaga ambayo kiuhalisia nimepewa tu hayana mahusiano na mizizi yangu mie and what disturbs me the most ni wanangu, hawa wanangu watakua kabila gani? Si nitakua nimewapa kabila ambalo sio lao? Na wajukuu zangu pia?

Naombeni ushauri this is killing me inside whenever it comes to my mind because I'M A STRANGER TO MYSELF

Regards

Pharaoh_2

Anzisha ukoo wako na kabila lako

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[Fidelisfcm]

Habari za leo wana forum,

Mimi ni kijana at late 20's toka nimezaliwa mwanzoni mwa miaka ya 90 nilikuwa nafahamu kuwa baba na mama yangu ndio hawa waliokua wakinilea lakini mwaka 2015 wakati nimemaliza chuo na kurudi nyumbani niliipata taarifa ambayo ilibadili mtazamo wangu kuhusu hawa wazazi wangu na siri kubwa waliyo nayo.

Iko hivi kwa mama yetu mzazi tuko watoto wa nne, mimi ni wa pili kuzaliwa kuna wa kwanza wa kiume na wadogo zetu wawili wa kike na kiume ambao sina shaka juu ya uhalisia wao kwa kua wamezaliwa nikiwa na akili timamu.

Baba yetu tunae mfahamu ni askari wa jeshi la wananchi na mama yetu kipindi hicho alikua ni mwalimu wa shule ya msingi. Kusema ukweli mzee huyu ametulea ki- dictator mpaka inafikia stage unamuogopa and you cannot make story with him or express yourself to him as your father lakini tukazoea na kuona labda tunalelewa kijeshi and by then we lived in a military Barack.

But the good thing about the oldman ni kwamba amekuwa na moyo wa kujitolea kuhusu maisha yetu like taking us all to the most expensive school in town and supplying all our basic needs abundantly, inshort he is Generous nadhani hii ndio sababu iliyotuaminisha kua he is our biological father kwa kua mpaka ada ya kulipia chuo kikuu amenilipia bila kua na mkopo kutoka HESLB.

Sasa wakati nimemaliza chuo nilirudi kijijini kumsalimia bibi (mama wa mama) huko nilikutana na mzee mmoja ambae alinitambua kwa jina la asili ambalo sikuwahi kulijua kabla nilishangazwa na lile jina nikaamua kumuuliza yule babu vipi mbona tunaitana majina ya ajabu.

Mzee akaniuliza kwani wewe unaitwa nani nikamtajia jina langu kwa kudhani kua amenifananisha, akasema "nakufahamu tokea ukiwa mtoto wa umri wa siku moja" yaani kabla mama yetu hajaolewa na huyu mzee tunaemuita baba, honestly he ruined my day and i almost slapped him on his face but thank God i managed to conceal my true feelings.

Nikamwambia mzee kabla sijaondoka nitakuja nikuone tuongee vizuri. Hata sikutamani tena kukaa kwa yule bibi yetu muda wote nilikua nafikiria maneno ya yule mzee baada ya siku 3 niliamua nimuage bibi and i went straight to the oldman's house.

Yule mzee alinieleza kwa masharti kua nimekua mtu mzima nahitaji kujitambua mimi ni nani, na asingeweza kuniambia hizo taarifa wakati wa kipindi cha nyuma labda nisingeweza kumuheshimu huyu mzee wetu ukizingatia anatusaidia kwa mambo makubwa ambayo mama yetu as a single parent asingeweza ku afford like taking us all to international schools.

Nikamuuliza mzee vipi kuhusu hili jina ninalotumia? Akanieleza kua baba yetu (sisi watoto wawili wa kwanza) alikuwa ni dereva wa magari makubwa alikua akija pale nyumbani kwa msimu na hakua akituhudumia.

Sasa huyu askari alipohamishiwa kwenye mji ule kikazi ndipo akakutana na mama yetu akiwa na watoto wawili (mimi na kaka yangu) akafanya kutu adopt na kutubadilishia majina yetu na kuanza kutumia majina ya ukoo wake, kuna muda baba yetu alikuja pale nyumbani alipata kichapo akaenda mahakamani akashindwa kesi kua hana mchango kwa familia kwa hiyo akatoweka mpaka Leo, mimi mpaka sasa hivi sijijui kua ni nani.

Nikimaanisha kabila wala ukoo, ndugu zangu wote hawajagundua hili and we all live like brothers, namuheshimu sana huyu mzee na amefanya kila kitu kuhakikisha tunasoma ili tujitegemee kiasi kwamba nilivyomaliza tu chuo akanitafutia nafasi jeshini moja kwa moja and to be honest I was just glad.

Naomba mnishauri hapa kwa kua niliamua kumkabili mama anieleze ukweli kwa njia ya kumdadisi kwa kua sifanani na mama wala na baba huyu tofauti na wadogo zetu. Lakini mama amekua mkali kua namkosea heshima maswali hayo ni ya kumvua nguo na nimekosa nini kwa baba huyu mpaka kuulizia mtu nisiye mfahamu wala asiyenisaidia lolote.

Yuko sahihi lakini mimi natumia majina ya kichaga ambayo kiuhalisia nimepewa tu hayana mahusiano na mizizi yangu mie and what disturbs me the most ni wanangu, hawa wanangu watakua kabila gani? Si nitakua nimewapa kabila ambalo sio lao? Na wajukuu zangu pia?

Naombeni ushauri this is killing me inside whenever it comes to my mind because I'M A STRANGER TO MYSELF

Regards

Pharaoh_2

Anzisha ukoo wako na kabila lako

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[Fidelisfcm]

Habari za leo wana forum,

Mimi ni kijana at late 20's toka nimezaliwa mwanzoni mwa miaka ya 90 nilikuwa nafahamu kuwa baba na mama yangu ndio hawa waliokua wakinilea lakini mwaka 2015 wakati nimemaliza chuo na kurudi nyumbani niliipata taarifa ambayo ilibadili mtazamo wangu kuhusu hawa wazazi wangu na siri kubwa waliyo nayo.

Iko hivi kwa mama yetu mzazi tuko watoto wa nne, mimi ni wa pili kuzaliwa kuna wa kwanza wa kiume na wadogo zetu wawili wa kike na kiume ambao sina shaka juu ya uhalisia wao kwa kua wamezaliwa nikiwa na akili timamu.

Baba yetu tunae mfahamu ni askari wa jeshi la wananchi na mama yetu kipindi hicho alikua ni mwalimu wa shule ya msingi. Kusema ukweli mzee huyu ametulea ki- dictator mpaka inafikia stage unamuogopa and you cannot make story with him or express yourself to him as your father lakini tukazoea na kuona labda tunalelewa kijeshi and by then we lived in a military Barack.

But the good thing about the oldman ni kwamba amekuwa na moyo wa kujitolea kuhusu maisha yetu like taking us all to the most expensive school in town and supplying all our basic needs abundantly, inshort he is Generous nadhani hii ndio sababu iliyotuaminisha kua he is our biological father kwa kua mpaka ada ya kulipia chuo kikuu amenilipia bila kua na mkopo kutoka HESLB.

Sasa wakati nimemaliza chuo nilirudi kijijini kumsalimia bibi (mama wa mama) huko nilikutana na mzee mmoja ambae alinitambua kwa jina la asili ambalo sikuwahi kulijua kabla nilishangazwa na lile jina nikaamua kumuuliza yule babu vipi mbona tunaitana majina ya ajabu.

Mzee akaniuliza kwani wewe unaitwa nani nikamtajia jina langu kwa kudhani kua amenifananisha, akasema "nakufahamu tokea ukiwa mtoto wa umri wa siku moja" yaani kabla mama yetu hajaolewa na huyu mzee tunaemuita baba, honestly he ruined my day and i almost slapped him on his face but thank God i managed to conceal my true feelings.

Nikamwambia mzee kabla sijaondoka nitakuja nikuone tuongee vizuri. Hata sikutamani tena kukaa kwa yule bibi yetu muda wote nilikua nafikiria maneno ya yule mzee baada ya siku 3 niliamua nimuage bibi and i went straight to the oldman's house.

Yule mzee alinieleza kwa masharti kua nimekua mtu mzima nahitaji kujitambua mimi ni nani, na asingeweza kuniambia hizo taarifa wakati wa kipindi cha nyuma labda nisingeweza kumuheshimu huyu mzee wetu ukizingatia anatusaidia kwa mambo makubwa ambayo mama yetu as a single parent asingeweza ku afford like taking us all to international schools.

Nikamuuliza mzee vipi kuhusu hili jina ninalotumia? Akanieleza kua baba yetu (sisi watoto wawili wa kwanza) alikuwa ni dereva wa magari makubwa alikua akija pale nyumbani kwa msimu na hakua akituhudumia.

Sasa huyu askari alipohamishiwa kwenye mji ule kikazi ndipo akakutana na mama yetu akiwa na watoto wawili (mimi na kaka yangu) akafanya kutu adopt na kutubadilishia majina yetu na kuanza kutumia majina ya ukoo wake, kuna muda baba yetu alikuja pale nyumbani alipata kichapo akaenda mahakamani akashindwa kesi kua hana mchango kwa familia kwa hiyo akatoweka mpaka Leo, mimi mpaka sasa hivi sijijui kua ni nani.

Nikimaanisha kabila wala ukoo, ndugu zangu wote hawajagundua hili and we all live like brothers, namuheshimu sana huyu mzee na amefanya kila kitu kuhakikisha tunasoma ili tujitegemee kiasi kwamba nilivyomaliza tu chuo akanitafutia nafasi jeshini moja kwa moja and to be honest I was just glad.

Naomba mnishauri hapa kwa kua niliamua kumkabili mama anieleze ukweli kwa njia ya kumdadisi kwa kua sifanani na mama wala na baba huyu tofauti na wadogo zetu. Lakini mama amekua mkali kua namkosea heshima maswali hayo ni ya kumvua nguo na nimekosa nini kwa baba huyu mpaka kuulizia mtu nisiye mfahamu wala asiyenisaidia lolote.

Yuko sahihi lakini mimi natumia majina ya kichaga ambayo kiuhalisia nimepewa tu hayana mahusiano na mizizi yangu mie and what disturbs me the most ni wanangu, hawa wanangu watakua kabila gani? Si nitakua nimewapa kabila ambalo sio lao? Na wajukuu zangu pia?

Naombeni ushauri this is killing me inside whenever it comes to my mind because I'M A STRANGER TO MYSELF

Regards

Pharaoh_2

Anzisha ukoo wako na kabila lako

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[pharaoh_2]

Sure, hata mimi namuona mjinga sana. Siwezi kusema huyo mzee kakosea kumuambia ukweli.
Lakini, lazima ujielewe ujue kuna watu wanatamani wangepata watu wa kuwasaidia na kuwatoa katika dimbwi walilomo now, fikiria huyo baba ako mzazi mjinga mjinga unae mtaka angefanga alichowafanyia as huyo mzee alivyowaambia hivi unafikiri hizo international school ungezisoma?? Ungezisikia kwenye bomba tu, wala hiko chuo kikuu pengine usingefika. U just tell your mom, you proud of your father kwa kuwasomesha and taking good care of you, but you hear this and this, is it true??

Sio unauliza kufanana, kufafa hata nyani wamefanana na sio ndugu.

Sasa wewe Maserati unaniona mjinga kwa lipi labda? Kwani nimesema namdharau mlezi wangu? Mbona i have explained everything in detail!! Mambo ya kusema kunao watu wanatamani wangepata wakuwa somesha inatokea wapi?? Kwa hiyo ni mimi nimeziba nafasi zao au unamaana ipi? This is a no brainer situation, from what i know each and everyone of us have our lives written by THE MOST HIGH before the foundation of the entire universe, point yangu ni kwamba maisha unayo ishi wewe yalijulikana kabla hata hujazaliwa haijalishi umeangukia mikononi kwa nani, hata kama asingekua huyo ambae amekua msaada kwako bado it could not change what the nature has decided for you, Trust me angetokea mtu mwingine ili tu maandiko yatimie.. So don't tell me I'm lucky because it was supposed to be that way and this doesn't change my desire to know who I really am!! Let the nature take place and the nature is God himself [emoji115]

 

[pharaoh_2]

hutafuti ukweli, bali unatafuta ujinga usio na maana.

Sio kila kweli ni muhimu.

Go to hell general, it's widely open for you "silence is the best answer" they say... if you have nothing to offer you better give your fingers a break

 

[pharaoh_2]

Anzisha ukoo wako na kabila lako

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Umeamshwa usingizini wewe, hakuja kucha bado, go back to sleep!

 

[Pritty wa joseph]

Mthamini sana MTU anaekujali wakati hujitambui,
Elewa utamuumiza sana huyo baba mlezi endapo atagundua kuwa unamtafuta baba yako,

My dear, acha kabisa, hujiulizi kwann Mzee kaamua kunyamaza kimya? Kawalea bila kuwabagua? Ni kwasababu kuwa baba ni zaid ya kumwaga sperms kwenye papuchi

spend less, save more

 

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Umeongea ukweli japo kua sikuelezea kutoka mwanzo kuna mambo niliambiwa na yule mzee lakini sikuyatilia maanani labda kwa kua sijalelewa katika familia inayo amini mambo ya mizimu au anything that has something to do with witchcraft or spiritual commitments zilizofanywa au walizo kua nazo wazazi wetu halisi upande wa Baba (spiritual background)
Ni hivi ukiniacha mimi kuna kaka yangu pia (as i said previously) hua anasumbuliwa na some kind of evil spirits zinazomfanya ashindwe kabisa ku-focus kwenye maendeleo yake as a person dispite of having a good paying job his family never had peace, he even attempted killing himself, let alone him I also have my complications (prefer not to say) tofauti kabisa na hawa wadogo zetu wawili waliozaliwa tukiwaona they live peacefully and never went through what we are going through. Siamini sana mambo ya mizimu lakini niliambiwa kua we may not be settled in life because we're disconnected from our Origin and our Fathers (whenever they're) are not happy with it
Hii pia ni sababu iliyo nifanya niutafute ukweli


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Kwa maelezo yako haya huna budi kumtafuta babaako kwa udi na uvumba na ndio kitu nilichogusia kidogo kwenye ushauri wako .

Pia ni muhimu kupata story ya upande wa pili kwa kuwa hivi sasa hata mamaako ukizungumza nae hawezi kusema positive kuhusu your real father. Lakini ukweli lazima upo tena pengine ukiujua ukweli huo unaweza kumuona mamaako useless kabisa.

Kama babaako halali hakuwa anawatunza wewe na kakaako ilikuwaje mamaako akakubali kubeba mimba ya kakaako tena akarudia akabeba yako pia kama babaako hakuwa mtu makini au asiyejali familia???

Jiulize Pharaoh_2 kwa makini, unawezakuta hata hii story ya kutokuwatunza wewe na kakaako sio ukweli.

Tafuta ukweli utakuweka huru. Wanawake wengi (japo sio wote na sisemi na mamaako yupo hivyo) toka enzi wamekuwa wanawaacha waume zao na kwenda kwa waume wapya kwa sababu ya mali. Unakuta mwanamke akipata mwanaume mpya na mwenye pesa kuliko mumewe anamtafutia sababu ya kumuacha wa zamami. Kuna wengine huenda mbali kwa kuwapiga na kuwabambika kesi na kuwafunga jela ili aishi na mwanaume mpya.

Hivyo seek the truth so as to be free.

 

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Umesoma vizuri mkuu? Aliishia kichapo kupelekwa mahakamani na akashindwa kesi kwa sababu hakuwa na mchango wala msaada kwa familia, umeelewa ndugu? Hata mahakama iliona hana mchango.

Unazijua mahakama za Tanzania kwa undani ?? Tanzania hatuna sheria ya kumnyima fatherhood mtoto eti kisa hakumtunza .seek legal advice kwanza kaka.

Ni vema jamaa apate story ya upande wa pili, wanawake wengi wameacha wanaume zao na kwenda kwa wanaume wengine kisa mali.

Kuna wanaume wengine wamanyang'anywa wake zao na kufungwa juu.

Msimdiscourage mtu anayetafuta ukweli bila kujua ukweli wa upande mwingine.

 

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1. Naomba ku-subscribe kwenye hii thread. Usiache kuja kutupa mrejesho mkuu

2. Mara nyingi tunapoomba msaada tunakuwa tayari tuna upande wa majibu ambao tunautamani kuusikia. Inapotokea mtu akakujibu tofauti na matarajio yako ni rahisi kukasirika na kuanza kujibu vibaya (hata kama yeye ndiyo kaanza kukutukana).

3. Mwisho wa yote, maamuzi ya mwisho utayafanya wewe na yatakayojiri utayabeba mwenyewe. Hivyo chukua shauri zote kisha ziweke kwenye mizani. Yaani kwa sasa, chukulia kama pande zote mbili ziko sahihi. ondoa jibu ulilonalo kichwani. Tafakari kwa kupima.

4. Baada ya kusoma mabishano ya comments kadhaa ninachelea kutoa maoni yangu ila nikusihi uwe na msimamo wa peke yako. Sikiliza ushauri (hata matusi na maudhi) kisha fanya maamuzi yako binafsi. Muombe sana Mungu (kuna nyakati nimeshindwa kujua kama unaamini mizimu au la) lakini nikusihi kuomba sana juu ya hili. Maadamu ni box lililokwisha kufunguliwa ni ngumu sana kulifunga bila kutaka kujua kilichopo ndani. Kuna nyakati ni baraka na kuna nyakati ni heri kutochungulia..again, unahitaji tafakuri sana.

5. Usipunguze heshima yako kwa baba yako. Umeshajua ukweli, huwezi kuufukia na kujifanya huujui. Usiache kumheshimu na kuendelea kumuita 'baba' hata kama utaamua baadaye kumtafuta na hata ukimpata huyo mwingine.

6. WADADA: Mimi ninalia na dada zangu..mnaona yanayotokea kwa huyu? Basi iwe funzo kwenu. Tutapiga kelele kuwasema vijana wasiojali watoto wao lakini ni vyema mtambue, mwisho wa yote mzigo mkubwa unatua kwenu. Kwenye suala la mimba aisee, jukumu kubwa ni lenu. BE VERY WISE.

Salaam.