Mwanaume Mwenye Pesa Ndo Mpango Mzimaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!

[Nyani Ngabu]

hahaha! Na mi utanifundisha nin?

Ntakufundisha 'kijogoro chawika'

 

[Husninyo]

Ntakufundisha 'kijogoro chawika'

mmmmh! Hiyo nayo hesabu? Nifundishe kufuga vitwita.... Oops! Vitwitwi..

 

[EMT]

lawyer utanifanyia bure au na hela? Lol

Hakuna mwanasheria anayetoa huduma bure, let alone kukopesha.

Labda no win no fee, otherwise lazima unilipe.

Don't wanna be another victim bana. lol.

 

[Husninyo]

Hakuna mwanasheria anayetoa huduma bure, let alone kukopesha.

Labda no win no fee, otherwise lazima unilipe.

Don't wanna be another victim bana. lol.

jamani, hata kama no free lunch mi si nadoea kidogo tu simalizi chote! Lol!
Haya lawyer wangu, ngoja nijipange..

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

mmmmh! Hiyo nayo hesabu? Nifundishe kufuga vitwita.... Oops! Vitwitwi..

kumbe unataka na mi nikifundishe hesabu?

Basi ntakufundisha differential equations pamoja na trigonometry.

 

[EMT]

jamani, hata kama no free lunch mi si nadoea kidogo tu simalizi chote! Lol!
Haya lawyer wangu, ngoja nijipange..

Una maana unipe free lunch ili nikuwakilishe au mie nikupe free lunch?

Jipange fasta basi, unajua tena Krismasi ndiyo inabisha hodi na nataka kufanya white Christmas.

Na mti wenyewe wa Krismasi bado sijanunua.

snowhite keshanizungua.

 

[Mike 1234]

hii mada inahamasisha wanaume wafanye kazi kwa bidiii

 

[snowhite]

hii mada inahamasisha wanaume wafanye kazi kwa bidiii

namshangaa EMT anachelewa kunitumia pesa ya xmas mie we ngoja waje wenye mihela yao!

 

[Wiyelelee]

Wakubwa zangu shikamooni!

Peopleeeeeeees!

Kama kawa kama dawa nimeletakwenu Mada dume, mada champions league! Lazima pachimbike hapa! Hii ni kazi chafu ila lazima mtu aifanye, na huyo mtu ndo nimejitoa muhanga!!!!!

1. Kutoka na mtu anaejiweza kuna sifa bwana asikwambie mtu!!!!!! Kila mtu anaona umeukata (Japo kiukweli sina lolote) ila tu jamii kukukubali kiaina na kukuwazia positive jst because ni Demu wa flani kuna raha yake wajameni!

2.Self esteem na comfidence level approaching 1000% Dah! Yaani among all choices alizoweza kumake kanichagua mie!!!!!!!! Bonge ya achievement na accomplishment hiyo!!!! Kwenye hierachy of Needs self satisfaction iko juu mbayaaa!

3. Its always about him!!!! Kila saa anajiongelea yeye na mikakati yake! Sasa kwa mtu kama mie mwenye past ya kuficha ficha si manajua every Saint has a past na every sinner has a future!!! inakuwa afazali nageuka msikilizaji na msapotiji tu! ! Ila mlalahoi lazima akujue in details!!!!!

4.Tittle! Unatoka kuwa little Miss No Body hadi Demu wa Flani! Si mchezo atiii! You share his glory! Hata wanawake wenzio wanaanza kukunotice Kubwa lao ukikatiza!

5.Gifts na Shopping!!!!!! Daaaaaah! Kwa raha zako unajimwaga! Sio anakupa coz anakupenda sanaaa, nooo! Coz kwake ni mambo madogo sanaaaa! He can afford! I dont care! Japo mlalahoi akikupa ujue amekuthamini sanaaa!

6.Networking na Exposure! Na wewe unaanza kukutana na watu wa maana, kwenda sehemu za maana na kuwa wa maana! Si yule chausiku wa mtaa wa pili, ila ni Madam Chau!

7. Social approval unaipata fastaaa! Jamii haiweki vikwazo visivyo na tija! Kila mtu busy kujikomba komba nae aponee hapo hapo! Mashosti hata kama Iddi Amini Dadar watamsifu handsome tena baby face!


8.Pressure na wogawoga wa kuishiwa na kurudi kijijini unakuisha! Mambo ya kuhesabu tarehe yanakuisha! Kila siku kwako mwisho wa mwezi!

9. Watoto ukizaa huna stress kabisaaa, insurance za kumwaga unajua kesho yao iko guaranteed!

10.Dreams come true! Kama mwenyewe ulikuwa na ndoto zako kuzitekeleza njenje!!!!!!!!

Wewe wapenda nini?

Hizi debate mbona zinaibuka tena? Nakumbuka wakati niko UDSM kuna dada mmoja alikuwa anajigamba kama hivvyo, hadi leo amebaki nungaembe na wenzake tunapeta! Mali ambayo unakuwa nayo na raha ni ile ambayo umeshiriki kuitafuta. Hiyo utaitetea kwa nguvu zote. Ukinikuta nina nyumba na gari, kaa pembeni hizo sio mali zako wewe! Mali zako ni makalio tu niliyoyapenda na si vinginevyo.

 

[Von Mo]

Chezea nguvu ya pesa wewe, yuda kamsaliti yesu kwa sababu ya pesa.

 

[tracy]

In one way or the other naeza kukubaliana na wewe Lara on the basis ya mazingira na what the world is today irrespective ya gender.(no generalisation)Wanaume hupenda kusema wanawake ni materialistic but in reality they are sana tu.how many men wanawaacha wake waliotafuta nao kwasababu ya a girl who has big boobs,a@,etc..?aint that materialism? and at the end wanasema mke sio umbo na sura bali tabia,je mume ni nini?The world today ni just a b.trade and its just so dissapointing that trade iko hadi in very important matters like relationships,marriage,Kabla ya some men pointing fingers on women who value money,let them look at themselves and how many times they have used their money over whats really important or how many times materials zimekua more impoprtant than their families or relationships?2.we differ in perspective,if money sio important kwako,it is to another..sometimes hua najiuliza,whats the point of suffering na mwanaume ambaye at the end of the day huna guarantee that he will appreciate that or mwingine ndo atakuja kutumia all your hard earned money?BUT i based on what i believe in,i stay grounded to that.so,pesa ni muhimu kwenye mahusiano ila to some sio kila kitu.

 

[NAGAMAHONGA]

ndio maana mnaliwa hata visivyoliwa kwa kupenda kwenu pesa.

 

[Matan]

Pesa jawabu la matatizo yote yanayotaka pesa....haya sasa pale unapotatua yasiyotaka pesa na pesa...jibu unalo:glasses-nerdy:...mchanganyiko wa pesa na imani waleta raha:becky:.

 

[Sal]

MR. ABLE msalie mtume.... sasa afanyeje kama ndivyo alivyoumbwa jamani. nina imani tungekua twajiumba wenyewe, hata wewe usingekua hivyo ulivyo. Acha kashfa, kibaya kwako kizuri kwa mwenzio. tena hao wa design hiyo ndio kutwa wanaolewa, hao unaowapenda wewe wanaishia kua magumegume, ndio wanaotafunwa kama BIG G na kutemwa.

Mwanamke makalio na chuchu saa sita huna hivyo kaakushoto.
Sio unanijia hapa na makalio ya kijapan ukijumlisha matiti mpaka udeki ndo yasimame?
Natalia na mwnzio lara 1 kama hamna vigezo hivyo kaeni left hand.

 

[BAK]

Money money money money, money (x6)
Some people got to have it
Some people really need it
Listen to me y'all, do things, do things, do bad things with it
You wanna do things, do things, do things, good things with it
Talk about cash money, money
Talk about cash money- dollar bills, yall

For the love of money
People will steal from their mother
For the love of money
People will rob their own brother
For the love of money
People can't even walk the street
Because they never know who in the world they're gonna beat
For that lean, mean, mean green
Almighty dollar, money

For the love of money
People will lie, Lord, they will cheat
For the love of money
People don't care who they hurt or beat
For the love of money
A woman will sell her precious body
For a small piece of paper it carries a lot of weight
Call it lean, mean, mean green

Almighty dollar

I know money is the root of all evil
Do funny things to some people
Give me a nickel, brother can you spare a dime
Money can drive some people out of their minds

Got to have it, I really need it
How many things have I heard you say
Some people really need it
How many things have I heard you say
Got to have it, I really need it
How many things have I heard you say
Lay down, lay down, a woman will lay down
For the love of money
All for the love of money
Don't let, don't let, don't let money rule you
For the love of money
Money can change people sometimes
Don't let, don't let, don't let money fool you
Money can fool people sometimes
People! Don't let money, don't let money change you,
it will keep on changing, changing up your mind.

 

[akenajo]

Jinsi unavyojua mambo mengi ndio unakosa amani ya kuishi ,poleni kwa kujuzwa mambo mengi na lara one:a s 12:

 

[Mama Mdogo]

"Fedha si Msingi wa Maendeleo" - Mwalimu J.K. Nyerere, 1967

 

[Sumu]

Manungaembe at work.

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[Binti Magufuli]

SnowBall, pamoja na kwamba lara 1 amefunga mjadala, let me break it down a little bit. Ni miaka ya hivi karibuni tuu tumekuja kutambua kuwa mahusiano ya mwanaume na mwanamke huwa yanaongozwa pia na “sexual politics”. Hizi sexual politics huwa zina-exist nje ya mahitaji na choices za mwanaume na mwanamke.

Hata hivyo, kuna sexual politics kati ya mwanaume na mwanamke pia. Tofauti ni kwamba mahusiano kati ya mwanaume na mwanaume huwa yanaongozwa na rules ambazo ni vigumu kuonekana kama ilivyo kwa rules za mahusiano kati ya mwanaume na mwanamke. Pia jamii isingeweza kuwa na power dynamics zilizopo hivi sasa kati ya wanaume na wanawake kama kusingekuwa na power dynamics kati ya wanaume na wanaume.

Kimsingi, men don’t just happily bond together to oppress women. Lakini wanaume huwa tunaji-rank wenyewe kwa wenyewe na huwa tunashindana wenyewe kwa wenyewe kulingana na our masculinity. Tuna-compete wenyewe kwa wenyewe kwa kutumia resources tulizonazo for the differential payoffs that patriarchy allows us as men.

Wanaume katika jamii mbalimbali wana sababu tofauti wanazozitumia kuji-rank wenyewe kwa wenyewe. Baadhi ya jamii huwa zinatumia simple facts kama umri na physical strength and power kuwagawa wanaume. Refer to the theory of social stratification.

Lakini kwa miaka ya hivi karibuni jamii nyingi huwa zinawagawa wanaume according to their physical strength and athletic ability kwenye miaka ya mwanzo, lakini kwa maisha ya baadae ya wanaume hawa jamii ina-focus zaidi kwenye success with women na uwezo wa kutengeneza pesa. Mfano mzuri ni rappers wa Kimarekani ambao wame-influence sana hii practice.

Sasa unapo-link hii power struggle between men na men’s power over women, unakuta kwamba power struggle iliyopo baina ya wanaume inafanya wanaume wawatumie wanawake kama symbols of success dhidi ya wanaume wengine, kama mediators, kama refugees na sometimes kama underclass. Kama unahitaji more explanation ya hizi roles let me know.

Kwenye roles zote hizi wanawake wanakuwa dominated na wanaume kutokana na direct struggle between men themselves. Kwa hiyo, ili mwanaume aweze ku-deal na sexual politics za mahusiano yake na wanawake, inambidi kwanza a-deal na sexual politics za mahusiano yake na wanaume wengine.

Ndiyo maana kwenye hii thread akina dada kama Natalia, Ciello, wispa Mrembo by Nature, Preta na wengine wamekuwa akiwaambia akina kaka kama SAUDARI, Father of All, mzabzab, Bulldog, Matola, Eiyer, mafinyofinyo na wengine kuwa wakiweka financial statements zao mezani, they can be “squeezed in kimtindo”. It is the only man who can beat the others financially will be squeezed in.

This simply means that kama financial statement ya SAUDARI imekaa vizuri ataweza kumtumia Ciello kama symbol of success dhidi Bulldog, kama mediator, kama mkimbizi and possibly kama underclass.

I respect mawazo ya wengine kama akina BADILI TABIA, Zion Daughter, Mwali, nk, lakini naamini kwamba “women emancipation” will never succeed, unless there is an end of the sexual politics between men themselves. How will this sexual politics end then?

Only when women stop being used by men as symbols of success against other men, as mediators, as refugees and as underclass. In the meantime, the only way forward for men seems to me to get rich or die trying.

Heshima hela bwana, shkamoo makelele tu!! hata kwenye familia mwenye hela anajikuta akikubalika hata pale anapofanya makosa. Naumia sana kuishi katika mtizamo huu lakini ni jamii yangu ndio imenifanya nikubali kwamba MONEY iwe kwenye urafiki, uchumba, ndoa, familia, na penginepo ndio kiunganishi cha ukweli na cha uhakika. Mwanzoni sikuwa nawaza hivyo lakini imenibidi nibadilike kwani haiwezekani chombo kinanipeleka magharibi alafu mimi nikajikuta naelekea kusini ....siwezi kupingana nacho kamwe