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Mke aja juu kubadilishwa jina na mumewe...

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Mzee Mwanakijiji, Sep 8, 2011.

  1. Mzee Mwanakijiji

    Mzee Mwanakijiji Platinum Member

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    Nimesoma mahali fulani mama mmoja baada ya kuolewa siku moja akakuta barua na nyaraka mbalimbali zote zimebadilishwa kuwa Mrs. Rose Pesambili - Pesambili likiwa jina la ubin la mume wake. Mume aliporudi siku moja ukawa ugomvi.. kwanini amembadilisha jina lake bila kumuuliza na kwanini hata initials zikawa za mumewe..

    Mwisho wa siku mke akafanya mgomo "baridi" kwani alisema kikabila cha kwao wao wanaitwa majina ya wazazi wao. Huyo mama ni Mngoni na kwao wanaitwa "Nakomba" yaani binti ya Komba. Alidai kuwa kuchukua jina la mumewe ni tamaduni za wazungu. "Kwa kuolewa mtu haachi kuwa binti ya babake" alinukuliwa kusema dada huyo.

    Mume hakujua afanye nini kwani aliamini kuwa ndio kawaida "siku hizi"...

    Mgomo baridi unaendelea...
     
  2. Rutashubanyuma

    Rutashubanyuma JF-Expert Member

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    nimevutiwa sana na huu mgomo baridi nifafanulie ni kwenye maeneo yepi............................isije jamaa yangu ananyimwa haki zake za kimsingi.........
     
  3. Ndahani

    Ndahani JF-Expert Member

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    Mwanakijiji umeanza,lol! Mgomo gani huo unaoendelea usio na athari kwa huyo mama pia?
     
  4. Saint Ivuga

    Saint Ivuga JF-Expert Member

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    kama ningekuwa mimi wala nisingemsumbua hata kidogo..ningemkubalia atumie jina lake bila tatizo lolote...hii ni dhana tu ..ya kumbadilisha mwanamke jina ila kama mtu ni muelewa hakuna ulazima ...obey your thirst
     
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    Marytina JF-Expert Member

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    huyo mama atakuwa mgomvi asisingizie tamaduni
    aache mgomo baridi manake akisusa wenzie watafaidi
     
  6. BADILI TABIA

    BADILI TABIA JF-Expert Member

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    mume : david pesambili
    mke: rose nkomba
    baada ya ndoa: rose pesambili

    hivi wewe mume ndo umemzaa huyo mke?

    ila ni "uanaume " tu unafanya kutaka mke atumie ubini wako, wengine wanadai ndo inaongeza mapenzi. lakini haizidishi wala haipunguzi kama mke anakupenda anakupenda tu atumie jina la mume, la baba yake hata la mjomba wake it doesnt make any difference

     
  7. Smile

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    katika kitu nachukia duniani ni sir name yangu i wish atokee wa kuibadilisha
     
  8. afrodenzi

    afrodenzi Platinum Member

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    "Mgomo baridi" haifanyi kazi siku hizi ..
    we lete huyo mgomo ye ana leta vinjemba vidogo vina fanana na yeye
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  9. Kimey

    Kimey JF-Expert Member

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    Haya mambo yameanza juzi juzi tu, Enzi za mwalimu kulikua hakuna ubishi baada ya ndoa tu jina linabadilika. Siku hizi ndo ni "very risk", sasa wanaona watabadili jina mara ngapi? Leo Pesambili baada ya miezi umeachwa waolewa tena unakua Mrs Karata and the list goes on!
     
  10. Viol

    Viol JF-Expert Member

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    Huo mgomo baadaye utaisha tu kisirisiri.
     
  11. SG8

    SG8 JF-Expert Member

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    Kazi kweli kweli. Sio lazima kuchukua Surname ya Mwanamme lakini pia mgomo baridi sio suluhu
     
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    Aine JF-Expert Member

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    Hapa naona kuna tatizo kwa pande zote mbili. Kwa upande wamwanaume ndio tatizo limeanza kwani yeye kiustaarabu alipaswa kujadili suala hilo na mkewe kwa hiyo angejua kilichopo moyoni mwa mkewe bf hajabadili jina hilo.

    Kwa upande wa mwanamke tatizo lake ni kuendeshwa na mila bila kujali mabadiliko kwani mtu ukisha olewa jina la ukoo linabadilika once unakuwa ukoo wa mwanaume, sasa ni makubaliano baina ya wanandoa hao kuona kama kuna umuhimu wa kubadili jina la mwanamke au la, wakikubaliana mwanamke aendelee kutumia jina la ukoo wake fine au wakikubaliana abadili na kuitwa ukoo wa mwanaume fine, ni suala la makubaliano tu btn the two
     
  13. Nyambala

    Nyambala JF-Expert Member

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    What if kama huyo mumewe angekuwa na surname "Kikwete" I am just thinking in the kibongobongo environment!
     
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    Mkeshaji JF-Expert Member

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    Sawa mkuu,
    ila hako kekundu umetukosea kidogo sisi akina manyani, manguruwe, mafisi.....Ni Nyakomba!
     
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    FaizaFoxy JF-Expert Member

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    Mwanamke hana thamani hata ya kutumia jina lake kwa wale wanaowabadilisha majina, halafu wanawake wengine wanaona sifa kubadilishwa jina. Hawajui kama ni dharau kwake na kwa asili yake.
     
  16. Gaijin

    Gaijin JF-Expert Member

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    Way to go woman......akubadilishe jina kakuzaa au kakununua? :]
     
  17. Bishanga

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    Kwa maisha ya kileo uzoefu unaonyesha kwamba mwanamke pindi akiolewa na mwanaume mwenye jina kubwa haraka haraka huwa anabadili ubini,akiolewa na mchovu kama Bishanga wakati kwao jina kubwa ndo utasikia anaitwa mrs Chaupele Bakhresa Bishanga au Mrs Rose Mkapa Bishanga.

    Na hapo Bishanga utakuwa na bahati maana wengine wanapotezea kabisa kama huyo Nyakomba anayekataa kuitwa Pesambili. Hiyo ndo hali halisi ya maisha yetu maana hata mke wa Clinton(aliolewa wakati bwamzee bado kidampa) naye mpaka leo anajiita Hilary Rodham Clinton,bila shaka Rodham lilikuwa jina kubwa. Na Nancy Reagan ambaye aliolewa na superstar mcheza sinema Reagan haraka haraka alijiita Nancy Reagan.
     
  18. Vin Diesel

    Vin Diesel JF Gold Member

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    Ni surname best...sijawahi ona mantiki ya kubadili jina...mke wangu atabaki na jina lake.
     
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    Gad ONEYA JF-Expert Member

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    Did you mean surname?
     
  20. NYENJENKURU

    NYENJENKURU JF-Expert Member

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    Naomba iwe bebii Nyenjenkuru
     
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