Wanatokea ambao moyo wangu haujawaridhia.....lakin na amini Mungu atanipa wa kufanana nami
Wote tunajua it takes two to tango, It takes two to make a relationship work , kwa nini relationship isipoworkout mara nyingi wanawake wanataka kuwa victims na kuseek sympathy huku wakisahau kwamba na wao walikuwa na responsibility to make the relationship work. We ukiambiwa bye tu na we unasepa, hapo kweli utasema ulichukua reasonable measures to make the relationship work.Miaka yote minne ndo kashtuka Leo? Hapo ana sehemu kawekeza moyo wake tu..baas
Ni kweli mamie... Ndani ya hiyo 4yrs kawakatalia wanaume kadhaa tena waliodeserve kumuoa pasi na shaka, lakini aliwakatalia kwa ajili yake.
Anatamani siku zirudi nyuma awakubalie, lakini holla! Anatamani awatafute ili ajue kama wameshaoa lakini ni kitu ambacho hakiwezekani.
Mie nimemshauri "Kila jambo lina kusudi lake" hawezi jua ni nini kaepushiwa kwa huyo mwanaume.
Unaongopea Uma ndugu, Mfano mtoto kakidhi vigezo vyote, unahamu ya Papuchi, then anakuuliza una malengo gani nae, utamwambia u r only there for Sex?
Experience zinatofautiana sana bro, nilikuwa advocate mkubwa sana wa open relationships na ilo nililiweka wazi toka mwanzoni na cha ajabu sijawahi kukimbiwa au kukataliwa kwa kuwa muwazi. Keep in mind sio kila mwanamke anataka ndoa kwako.
Kupunguza stress ka hizi ndo mana mi nishapitisha azimio mbili MOJA:la NO FREE P(Cc lara 1 ) habari za kufunuana ovyo ovyo aisee si nzuri hata roboo..ROHO INAUMAJEEE ukiachwa,acha yani..kuna watu ntarevenge hakyanani,mistreatment was js too much i can hardly forget..
MBILI: CASUAL DATING as many guys as possible...ukizingua tu wala sikulilii sana i got options,tena uwahi uende usinipotezee waqt....mshindi ndo ntampa title in the end na nishaamua ntatulia siku navaa shela baaas...ni ujinga kumweka mtu priority in ur life wakt ye hana habari...
Mpe pole best ako mwaya ,inauma sana nahisi kupewa majibu ka hayo after 4 long years of hard screwing ukijua umepata kumbe umepatikana...
Ni kwa nini mwanaume unampotezea bintu wa watu miaka minne halafu unaona tu kirahisi bora aende zake?? Ndiyo maana ndoa nyingi hazidumu maana laana mnazoachiwa na x wenu mliowaacha bila sababu ya msingi zinawatafuna, hapa ni kwa pande zote mbili. Kuna dada rafiki wa dada yangu alikuwa na mchumba wake na huyo mwanaume alimpenda sana. Huyo dada was a very descent girl ever seen ofcorse after my wife. Yule dada alishindwa kuwa na msimamo wa jambo fulani hivi. Basi siku yule dada anamweleza kijana kuwa haitawezekana kuendelea kijana moyo ulimuuma hadi machozi na alimwambia "fulani unaniacha umeshindwa kutetea mahusiano yetu ya muda mrefu ila utanikumbuka". Yule dada aliolewa ndoa hardly illidunu mwaka. She remained fully single parent maana jamaa despite being a Bank of Tanzania senior has abondoned the kids completely mmoja akiwa mlemavu. Huwa nikimwangalia huyu dada moyo unauma sana. They are stilk friends with my sister and she always regrets for the mistake she did. Wazazi msihusike kuatamia watoto wenu katika mamuzi ya maisha hasa ndoa. Wanagharimika baadaye.
Hujui twapalilia ndoa......
Unafua,
Unapika,
Unapiga pasi,
Unadeki,
Hadi site unaenda kumwagilia tofali.....
Hapo ukiwajua wazaa chema hukauki kwenda kuwafanyia kazi
Pumbavu...kumbe kagugeuza msaidizi wake
Ujinga huo sikufanyaga aisee....nikija weekend nafata dudu tu.....kazi ajiri kijana wakati wangu bado
Kuna Tatizo ambalo rafikiyo hataki kukwambia huyu jamaa si chizi kufanya vitu bila sababu.Mkuu si unajua tena mahaba niue yanavyokuwa, in short hawana ugonvi labda uwe wa chini chini. Ila mpaka jana naachana nao walikuwa fresh utadhani ndio wanatongozana. Usiku wa manane napata call ya shost ananambia wamebreak up... Hata mie sikuamini aisee ila ndio hivyo jamaa kaamua kuonesha rangi yake!
haya mambo haya
naomba Mungu aepushie mbali
Mkuu hivi unaposema wanatokea ila moyo wako haujawaridhia, unataka kufikisha ujumbe gani hapa,, hivi binadamu huwa anaridhika? Au moyo wa binadamu huwa unaridhika? Na je unatambua kuwa hakunaga alie mkamilifu ambae moyo wako utaridhia 100%,, yupo?
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"Gladdy najua unanipenda and of course na mimi nakupenda pia sana tu kama nitakosea naomba unisamehe... you are the woman na zaidi ya hayo una malengo yako hata kama nitakukosa haina shida kama utakuwa ktk mikono salama. mi nina mambo mengi nashindwa kutoa msimamo kwa sasa"
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Tumfariji na kujifunza pia kupitia relationship hii...
Amen Mkuu, niwie radhi kama nilikukwaza, Ila wa kuoa yupo, kwani wanawake wa humu wote vicheche mkuu?
Mimi hua nawashangaa sana tena hasa kinadada,unakuta mnaanza mahusiano na mwanamme kiholela halafu baadaye unaanza kutaka kuolewa kwani wakati mnaanza mahusiano mlipatana kuwa mtaoana mnafikili kila mtu utakaye kuwa naye kimapenzi basi atakuoa:
Mkuu naomba nikusahihishe kidogo... Kwa mawazo yangu nafikiri NDOA huanza na urafiki, hapa kila mmoja huanza kumfahamu mwenzie kisha wakaanza MAHUSIANO hapo ndipo utakapoamua ama kuona kama huyu Mwanaume / Mwanamke ananifaa. Kisha UCHUMBA na NDOA humalizikia.
Sidhani kama kuna NDOA ilianza from nowhere, unakutaka na mwanamke unamwambia nataka nikuoe bila hata kufahamiana au kumchunguza???
Hebu wenye NDOA mnisahihishe kama nakosea, et siku ya kwanza ulipomuona mkeo je ndio siku ulimtamkia ninataka kukuoa?????
Wadau... Ni kweli kwamba Gladdy kila alipokuwa akiuliza hatma ya mahusiano alipigwa kalenda. Kila mwaka kuna sababu.
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Wadada tusijitoe sana kwenye haya mahusiano make tukiachwa ndio kama hivi....
Yaani majanga......siku za mwanzoni huwez kuuliza hivyo ingawa sina ndoa.Unaweza ukaigiziwa mpaka ukome.Na wanaume pia hawezi kukwambia mapema unaweza ukajifanya wife material....kumbe wewe ni wife raw material