Na hakuna mwanamke anayekubali alicheat kila mtu anajifanya kama haimhusu vile,Dah! lawyer nimegundua.
Linapokuja suala la cheating watu wengi humu ni ma greti thinkaz, yaani hili uzi watu wanavyomwaga mapwenti utazani wamepata ile kiduku ya asubuhi a.k.a morning glory
weee nani amsotee mtu heri niwe nyumba ndogo full kukenua meno mwe
naongea hapa kama mwanamke ambae hajaolewa kama upo kwenye mahusiano wanawake kiukweli hatuna tabia ya kucheat ila inasababishwa na hawa wenzwetu wa upande wapili
upo na mtu kwenye mahusiano analeta mapozi hakujali hamna mawasiliano vizuri yaani haeleweki
then anatokea mtu mwingine lazima tu utatoka mana hamna guarantee ila kwa wanawake wenye ndoa sijui naona kucheat ni ngumu kidogo
Na hakuna mwanamke anayekubali alicheat kila mtu anajifanya kama haimhusu vile,
hakuna wa kunidanganya ..... we jua kama wewe ni mwanaume unamcheat mkeo na yeye kiaina
anakucheat sana , hata kwa kupokea sms za mapenzi tu nayo ni cheating, kuna mama mmoja
namjua yeye huwa havuki mipaka lakini anapenda kuchart sms, bbm ,fb, na watu msg za mapenzi
anasema hiyo tu inampa faraja, wakikaa waliowahi cheat yeye anajitoa, hapo utasemaje?
kiukweli lizzy mimi sijawai kucheat nawatetea tu wanawake wengine ambao najua wanacheat kutokana na kuwa namahusiano mabaya na wenzao ili kupata faraja wanatoka nje, mimi kwa upande wangu nipo na wewe kama sipati faraja nahama tu wala sijifichisasa smiley badala ya kucheat kwanini usimwache huyo asiyekujali all together???
Huoni itakua bora kwenda huko unakojaliwa na kupata yale unayostahili/kupenda bila kujificha na kupita vichochoroni?
Mpenzi hapo namaanisha ukitendwa sana inafika sehemu hata kama utapenda mambo hayawezi fanana na waliotangulia gundi za mioyo yetu nazo huwa zinaexpire ukweli usiopingika wakati mwingine unaweza kuwa unaumiza watu wasiohusika bila kujijua au kwa kujua sababu tu ya historia ya mapenzi uliyopitia..........na inawezekana kabisa hata hao waliokusababishia hawakufanya makusudi/au makusudi lakini tayari wamekufikisha hapo ulipofika na duara huwa linaendelea kutengenezwa toka mtu mmoja mpaka mwingine.
Yap!! Mpwa nakupata kabisa loud and clear ila cha kushangaza zaidi ni pale mtu unapomuomba mwenzako mkae chini mzungumze yeye anakwambia wala hakuna tatizo lolote lile lakini akitoka nje he/she starts nagging and complaining akirudi nyumbani unasikia anakwambia "You are not the problem its just me" sasa if i am not the problem why do you keep on complaining about our relationship ukiwa nje huko na watu wengine watu hawana guts za kusema "Bwana i dont think this relationship it's working we should part ways" atakufanyia visa weee utafikiri kalishwa sumu ya panya
Sijui nimeikosaje hiyo post ya Mbu!! But nakubaliana naye 100% Na iko both ways, wanaume na wanawake. ofcourse kuna kutoa second chance, but hata mie HOPE kuwa kutoa second chance kunasaidia ilishanitoka, ila simshauri mwingine asitoe second chance. Utatoa hadi 10th chance, lakini utayaona tena tuu!
Communication breakdown ikishatokea kwenye mahusiano, nadhani utakuwa kama muujiza tu kwamba mtaelewana tena. It is usually gone for ever. Hiyo misururu ya excuses hairudishi mawasiliano hata kidogo.
Asante......Lizzy we are on the same pageAsante dearest...nimekusoma na nimekuelewa but i'm gonna choose to disagree.
Mfano wako umesimama na nakubali kwamba wazazi wengi kama sio wote would probably go out of their ways for their kids...even I would but that's because it's a matter of life and death. Kwa kujua kwamba nikijifanya mtakatifu sana na kurudi nyumbani mikono mitupu wakati opportunity ya kupata nnachohitaji ili mtoto wangu apate matibabu iko mbele yangu naweza kumsababishia kifo , ntachukua hiyo wallet ila siwezi/wala sikubali kwamba cheaters (most of them) hua wanajikuta kwenye same situation. Kwamba acheat ili yeye/mtu mwingine wa karibu yake abaki na uhai au asicheat yey/huyo mtu apoteze uhai.I just won't buy it!!
Kuna vitu ambavyo kweli sio simple black n white...ndoa for example and I know that.Ila kucheat ni kucheat tu...na hizo tunazotumia kama sababu za kwanini tumefanya hivyo ni visingizio na sio zaidi. Hamna mtu anaeweza kumlazimisha mwenzake acheat...kushawishi ndio...ila mwisho wa siku maamuzi anayafanya CHEATER na sio mwenzi wake.
ujue mapenzi ya nyumba ndogo uzuri wake toka mwanzo yanaeleweka hayana assuarance muda wote upo tayari kwa lolote , sasa haya mengine unakuta mtu umesharelax wee dah siku yakikatika vilio na kusaga meno lohhata huko kuna ushindani coz ukikuta mwanaume haja2lia atakutafutia na kigaloni, kisoda,kidampa etc....tough game kwa kweli.
Na hakuna mwanamke anayekubali alicheat kila mtu anajifanya kama haimhusu vile,
hakuna wa kunidanganya ..... we jua kama wewe ni mwanaume unamcheat mkeo na yeye kiaina
anakucheat sana , hata kwa kupokea sms za mapenzi tu nayo ni cheating, kuna mama mmoja
namjua yeye huwa havuki mipaka lakini anapenda kuchart sms, bbm ,fb, na watu msg za mapenzi
anasema hiyo tu inampa faraja, wakikaa waliowahi cheat yeye anajitoa, hapo utasemaje?
kiukweli lizzy mimi sijawai kucheat nawatetea tu wanawake wengine ambao najua wanacheat kutokana na kuwa namahusiano mabaya na wenzao ili kupata faraja wanatoka nje, mimi kwa upande wangu nipo na wewe kama sipati faraja nahama tu wala sijifichi
Kumwambia tu ingekuwa inatosha, matatizo yasingekuwa mengi kama ilivyo. Umwambie, awe tayari kusikiliza na kuona mambo vile unayaona wewe! Hapo ndo changamoto kubwa!
Utamwambia vile unafeel, kipi bora kwako na kipi hakifai; ila yeye anaona vinginevyo; yaani kile we unaona bora, yeye anaona si bora. Hapo ndo changamoto ilivyo, si rahisi!
Asante dearest...nimekusoma na nimekuelewa but i'm gonna choose to disagree.
Mfano wako umesimama na nakubali kwamba wazazi wengi kama sio wote would probably go out of their ways for their kids...even I would but that's because it's a matter of life and death. Kwa kujua kwamba nikijifanya mtakatifu sana na kurudi nyumbani mikono mitupu wakati opportunity ya kupata nnachohitaji ili mtoto wangu apate matibabu iko mbele yangu naweza kumsababishia kifo , ntachukua hiyo wallet ila siwezi/wala sikubali kwamba cheaters (most of them) hua wanajikuta kwenye same situation. Kwamba acheat ili yeye/mtu mwingine wa karibu yake abaki na uhai au asicheat yey/huyo mtu apoteze uhai.I just won't buy it!!
Kuna vitu ambavyo kweli sio simple black n white...ndoa for example and I know that.Ila kucheat ni kucheat tu...na hizo tunazotumia kama sababu za kwanini tumefanya hivyo ni visingizio na sio zaidi. Hamna mtu anaeweza kumlazimisha mwenzake acheat...kushawishi ndio...ila mwisho wa siku maamuzi anayafanya CHEATER na sio mwenzi wake.
ingawa sijawai kucheat mimi naona wapo sawa tu mpenzinafurahi kusikia hivyo smiley...
Ila badala ya kuwatetea jaribu kuwashauri ukikumbana nao!
ujue mapenzi ya nyumba ndogo uzuri wake toka mwanzo yanaeleweka hayana assuarance muda wote upo tayari kwa lolote , sasa haya mengine unakuta mtu umesharelax wee dah siku yakikatika vilio na kusaga meno loh
Na hakuna mwanamke anayekubali alicheat kila mtu anajifanya kama haimhusu vile,
hakuna wa kunidanganya ..... we jua kama wewe ni mwanaume unamcheat mkeo na yeye kiaina
anakucheat sana , hata kwa kupokea sms za mapenzi tu nayo ni cheating, kuna mama mmoja
namjua yeye huwa havuki mipaka lakini anapenda kuchart sms, bbm ,fb, na watu msg za mapenzi
anasema hiyo tu inampa faraja, wakikaa waliowahi cheat yeye anajitoa, hapo utasemaje?
another golden platinum point.tabu inakuja ukishanogewa/ukamzoea/kumpenda then aanze longolongo....utayarudia maumivu yale yale, tena haya nadhani ndio makali kabisa coz utajilaumu/mlaumu kwa mengi, ulikuwa unajua hana future na wewe bali ukaamua 2, utasema amekuchezea, utasema amekupotezea muda etc....hili game halitabiriki.