Ladies...... Is life all about marriage?????????????????????

[muxin]

Jamii inavyomtazama mwanamke asiyeolewa ni tatizo la kwanza.

Ugumu wa maisha pia unachangia wadada wengi kuona ndoa ni mkombozi(kiuchumi)

hapi umenena mkuu.

 

[FirstLady1]

haya mama tumekusikia ngoja tujitulize home

 

[ayanda]

I can't say the sentiment is reciprocated

haaahaaaaaaahahhhahhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaa

nimekupendaje!

weraaaaa weraaaaaaaa haloooooooo

halooooo ya ki-gaijin!

COME AGAIN PLEASE!

ME WANNA HEAR MORE!

 

[gfsonwin]

You are right, mimi nafikiri ni yeye mwenyewe yuko desperate na anachofanya ni kujishawishi na kujipa moyo baada ya kuharibu, sasa ameamua atulie huenda akapata mume.
Si unajua zetu, unasagia kitu unachokitamani ili kupata nafuu kidogo moyoni.

Bidada cataliya, mimi in my late 30s sijaolewa and l am okay with that; na wala sioni waliolewa ni watumwa wala nini. Nafurahia na kuipokea siku jinsi inavyokuja; so relax. Wanawake wa leo wote wana malengo hata kama kuolewa ndio lengo, sio mbaya!

ila mtu unapojifariji unakuwa na kazi ngumu sana manake hadi uweze kushawish mazingira yashabihiane na ulivyo ww sio mchezo.
it needs one to understand her position in life as a lady and how capable she is out of so many circumstances.
if a lady fails this she will always regret. ishu jikubali kisha jitambue period.

 

[muxin]

jamani ah haya majangaaaaaaaaa tena majangaaaaaaaaaaaa

hiyo STATUS hapo ni kwa mujibu wa mila na desturi ambazo nimeelezea vizuri!

jamani hivi mbona sisomeki!

tangu mwanzo nimesisitiza jinsi jamii inavyochukulia ishu ya ndoa, na status ambayo tuliopo kwenye ndoa tunapewa na jamii hata kama hatustahili, BUT THE FACT THAT UR MARRIED, THE SOCIETY GIVES A CERTAIN RESPCET WHICH U CANT GET IF UR NOT IN MARRIAGE.

Ah mnanichosha bwana nyie watoto!

nimeanza kuhisi maybe hapa JF wengi ni form 4 leavers 2012, yaani mnaleta emotions zenu kwangu badala ya kuangalia concept ya marriage in an african society ambayo wengi wetu humu ndo tupo

yah! umeongea jambo la msingi sana ndugu.....
ni kweli kabisa mtu aliye kwny ndoa huwez kabisa mkompare na asiye hata km ana umri mdg kuliko but heshima yake ni kubwa sn ktk jamii

 

[Victoire]

mhuuuuuu,ngoja tuone

 

[ayanda]

yah! Umeongea jambo la msingi sana ndugu.....
Ni kweli kabisa mtu aliye kwny ndoa huwez kabisa mkompare na asiye hata km ana umri mdg kuliko but heshima yake ni kubwa sn ktk jamii

baelezeee batoto baelewe

 

[cataliya]

tuna goals zetu, na tulisha ziarchieve ila bado ndoa tu

Then be patient, he will eventually come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! y the struggle??

 

[muxin]

ila mtu unapojifariji unakuwa na kazi ngumu sana manake hadi uweze kushawish mazingira yashabihiane na ulivyo ww sio mchezo.
it needs one to understand her position in life as a lady and how capable she is out of so many circumstances.
if a lady fails this she will always regret. ishu jikubali kisha jitambue period.

yah! umeongea bonge la point ndugu yang......
ingekua zawad ningekuzawadia GPA ya 5.

 

[gfsonwin]

yah! umeongea bonge la point ndugu yang......
ingekua zawad ningekuzawadia GPA ya 5.

sifa hizi ziende kwa Kaunga my mentor lol!

 

[muxin]

haya mama tumekusikia ngoja tujitulize home

kha ha ha....
kumbe mlikua hamjajituliza bado!

 

[mimiks]

si unaona eh!

nilisema nafikiria divorce, sasa ningekua nina uhakika juu ya divorce ningekuja kuomba ushauri?

nachomaanisha kutoka hakuna anayetaka wala nini! ingekuwa nataka ningekua nimeshadivorce wala sio kuja kuomba ushauri hapa!

chezeya libeneke la divorce weye! unadhani nitachukua maamuzi mazito kama hayo kwa ushauri wa JF members! Thubutuuuuuuuuuuu

Inavyoonekana dada Ayanda uko tayari kwa manyanyaso yote ili tu umaintain status ya ndoa kazi kweli kweli

 

[cataliya]

the worse thing ni kwamba her HW reads like yuko frustrated.
kwangu mimi nimemperseve kama vile ana ndugu ambaye maisha yake yamekuwa stagnant kisa tu hajaolewa sasa she wants to tell her lkn anaogopa.
BTW nimependa ukaribisho wako manake umejaa salam kabambe.

gfsonwin, amnt frustrated, ujumbe wangu ni kwamba most gals wakiona hawaolewi wana hangaika mpaka una mnotice!!!! so insecure na usiombe awe na bf wake eg in work place basi pakitokea bf anaongea na mdada ni tatizo. kama ni wako utaolewa tu huna haja ya kujipa ma presha just for a man ambaye huna uhakika kama atakuowa!!!!

Just be @ wait while your are well behaved, eventually u will. That's is ma point mdada....

 

[ayanda]

Inavyoonekana dada Ayanda uko tayari kwa manyanyaso yote ili tu umaintain status ya ndoa kazi kweli kweli

Ndoa yangu haina manyanyaso ya dizaini yeyote ile

 

[ngoshas]

Heading na ulichoeleza Ni tofauti, anyway ukiona WA hivyo ujue anaolewa ili asifiwe co kutimiliza mpango WA Mungu

 

[Kaunga]

sifa hizi ziende kwa Kaunga my mentor lol!

really???????
since when, wakati weye ndiye mwalimu wangu na mshauri mkuu!

 

[Nivea]

Napenda nijuzwe hivi ladies maisha ni ndoa tu?????????????????? Umezaliwa kuolewa??????????????

Ladies hamna goals za kufikia ila ni ndoa tu??????????????? Hivi mnajua kuwa watu wana-manipulate hii dhana kichwani mwenu kwamba mmezaliwa just ku satisfy men, which nasema it zn't tru kabisa!!!!!!!
Naamini ni mpango mzima wa Mungu kila mtu apate mwenza wa maisha ila patience is just required thats all....
usifanye trial and error kisa u just want to get a man to marry you....

Ukijitunza eventually utapata a man sent by God and you will have a strong Home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EVERYTHING WILL FALL INTO PLACE JUST BY PATIENCE!!!!!!!!!!




Live a life of a purpose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Join Date : 24th June 2013
HAYA DADA KILA LA KHERI
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[muxin]

ndo hvyo mkuu....
kwakweli inauma sn hasa kw upande wa dada zetu hawa. but s'timz naweza kusema mengi wanayataka wnyw mana kuna mdada m1 hapa mtaan kwetu mrembo kweli kweli na kwao mambo safi but kilichomtokea hamuwez amini....
Ile Kipind cha usista duu wake aliwakataa wachumba kbao kisa si mahandsome&hawana pesa ka walizonazo kwao.
Sa kilichomtokea kila aliyetaka kumchumbia anamkimbia......
mdada wetu mpk kafikia 38yrs hakuna anayetokea, kila BF anaekua nae mara ataskia miez miwili mitatu kaoa dem mwngn wkt yy yupo tena hapa hapa town kila siku ye wakulia tu.
Juz kati hapa ndo kapata mchumba tena mtu mwnyw mme wa wake wawili, mdada wa watu imembidi tu aolewe hakuna alternatv tena umri ushamtupa mkono.

 

[muxin]

sifa hizi ziende kwa Kaunga my mentor lol!

kha ha ha.....
why not you?

 

[gfsonwin]

really???????
since when, wakati weye ndiye mwalimu wangu na mshauri mkuu!

sasa huamini kiile ninachokisema??
u r my mentor. na ndio ukweli huwez kujua ila najua mimi.