Introverts Vs Relationship

Tatigha · Apr 23, 2020

mtegemea Mungu said:
Mimi nipo kundi ganj sasa?

Ni muongeaji mzuri tu nikiamua kuomgea tena nina story hasa na mtu akinianza kuniongelesha atahisi rafiki kapata ila nikitoka hapo simtilii maanani tena yaani hata anaweza nitxt nisijibu kwa wakati akapiga cm nisipokee nakua sijisikii kuongea nae au kuchat nae!

Napenda kukaa ndani tena peke yangu naweza kukaa ndani hata siku tatu nisionekane nje! Nimesoma shule zote day school ila ht majirani walikua wanadhani niko boarding na sijawah kuchoka kukaa ndani.

Sina marafiki na i hate friends nawachekea juu juu tu ila sijawahi kuwaamini na wala sijawahi tendewa nao ubaya! Sipendi kuongozana na mtu km ushost yaan ht nilivyokua chuo ni nitoke room kwangu niingie class nitoe hi niweke earphone niingie netflix niamgslie movie km lecture hajaingia kimyaaa ila ukiniongelesha narespond kwa bashasha mok unaweza shangaa

Napenda kutoka out peke yangu nijinunulie kinywaji changu nisikilize mziki ila asije mtu kunipa company ananiharibia tu starehe ht km ananijua anisalimie tu apite aniache alone.

Am a girl ila nikimpenda mtu namwambia straight forward kua i like u sinaga aibu yaani na nikiwa na mahusiano my boyfrnd anakuaga anatake over almost ratiba yote ya maisha yng yaani ni mimi na yy sijui inakuagaje ht awe vp utashangaa tumestick together and life is all abt us inshort na yy automatic anapoteza marafiki anakua na mimi tu na sijawahi command hilo kwa mwanaume nilienae.

Am very confident hasa kwenye kujieleza pale itapotakiwa nifanye hivyo siogopi mtu wala watu eg. kwenye presentation ilikua lzm nipate extra points

Naweza nikacheka na ww nisijue ht jina lako nimesoma na baadhi ya watu miaka3 mitatu kozi moja darasa moja ila siwajui majina na wengine siwajui hata sura zao!

Nikipenda napenda haswaa na nakuaga km nina ka convicing power fulani hv..sifokeagi mwanaume wala kumuamrisha ila automatic anakua vile ninavyotaka awe and ina turn out kua healthy relationship ever.

Nina huruma mnoo..ni mwepesi kutoa msaada ila mgumu kukopesha hela yaani bora nikupe kidogo sababu siwezi kudai...naonekana km kauzu ila hakuna mtu ninaeumia emotionalyy km mimi.

Nina wivu wa mapenzi sijawahi ona yaani i want my man to be only mine nikinusa harufu ya usaliti nahisi km moyo unachemka kwa hasira I can even kill wallah personally nikipenda nimependa

Nina visasi yaani ukiniudhi kitu kikaniingia sawasawa lazima nitakulipizia tuuu hata baada ya miaka.

Naambiwaga ninaringa na nina dharau while najiona sina tabia hiyo sababu kutoka moyoni naheshimu kila mtu kwa class yake na sipendangi kumjudge mtu inshort niseme hua na mind my own business na mwanaume ambae niko nae tu.

Hata uniseme au unisengenye nakuona hv usitegemee nikareact na nikiamuaga kitu nimeamua sitaki mtu anibadilishe mawazo yangu nahisigi nilichoamua kiko sahihi maana natumiaga mda mref sana kufikia maamuzi.

Nipo kundi gani? Extrovert? Introvert? None of the above au wapi exactly?

Wewe ni Ambivert..! Umemix character za extrovert na introvert

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Squidward · Apr 23, 2020

Sang'udi said:
Changamoto

Kuonekana domo zege

Kutokuaminika kama wapo serious

Kuonekana wana maringo

Kuonekana wanajisikia

Umeandika ukweli mtupu

Saint Anne · Apr 23, 2020

mtegemea Mungu said:
Mimi nipo kundi ganj sasa?

Ni muongeaji mzuri tu nikiamua kuomgea tena nina story hasa na mtu akinianza kuniongelesha atahisi rafiki kapata ila nikitoka hapo simtilii maanani tena yaani hata anaweza nitxt nisijibu kwa wakati akapiga cm nisipokee nakua sijisikii kuongea nae au kuchat nae!

Napenda kukaa ndani tena peke yangu naweza kukaa ndani hata siku tatu nisionekane nje! Nimesoma shule zote day school ila ht majirani walikua wanadhani niko boarding na sijawah kuchoka kukaa ndani.

Sina marafiki na i hate friends nawachekea juu juu tu ila sijawahi kuwaamini na wala sijawahi tendewa nao ubaya! Sipendi kuongozana na mtu km ushost yaan ht nilivyokua chuo ni nitoke room kwangu niingie class nitoe hi niweke earphone niingie netflix niamgslie movie km lecture hajaingia kimyaaa ila ukiniongelesha narespond kwa bashasha mok unaweza shangaa

Napenda kutoka out peke yangu nijinunulie kinywaji changu nisikilize mziki ila asije mtu kunipa company ananiharibia tu starehe ht km ananijua anisalimie tu apite aniache alone.

Am a girl ila nikimpenda mtu namwambia straight forward kua i like u sinaga aibu yaani na nikiwa na mahusiano my boyfrnd anakuaga anatake over almost ratiba yote ya maisha yng yaani ni mimi na yy sijui inakuagaje ht awe vp utashangaa tumestick together and life is all abt us inshort na yy automatic anapoteza marafiki anakua na mimi tu na sijawahi command hilo kwa mwanaume nilienae.

Am very confident hasa kwenye kujieleza pale itapotakiwa nifanye hivyo siogopi mtu wala watu eg. kwenye presentation ilikua lzm nipate extra points

Naweza nikacheka na ww nisijue ht jina lako nimesoma na baadhi ya watu miaka3 mitatu kozi moja darasa moja ila siwajui majina na wengine siwajui hata sura zao!

Nikipenda napenda haswaa na nakuaga km nina ka convicing power fulani hv..sifokeagi mwanaume wala kumuamrisha ila automatic anakua vile ninavyotaka awe and ina turn out kua healthy relationship ever.

Nina huruma mnoo..ni mwepesi kutoa msaada ila mgumu kukopesha hela yaani bora nikupe kidogo sababu siwezi kudai...naonekana km kauzu ila hakuna mtu ninaeumia emotionalyy km mimi.

Nina wivu wa mapenzi sijawahi ona yaani i want my man to be only mine nikinusa harufu ya usaliti nahisi km moyo unachemka kwa hasira I can even kill wallah personally nikipenda nimependa

Nina visasi yaani ukiniudhi kitu kikaniingia sawasawa lazima nitakulipizia tuuu hata baada ya miaka.

Naambiwaga ninaringa na nina dharau while najiona sina tabia hiyo sababu kutoka moyoni naheshimu kila mtu kwa class yake na sipendangi kumjudge mtu inshort niseme hua na mind my own business na mwanaume ambae niko nae tu.

Hata uniseme au unisengenye nakuona hv usitegemee nikareact na nikiamuaga kitu nimeamua sitaki mtu anibadilishe mawazo yangu nahisigi nilichoamua kiko sahihi maana natumiaga mda mref sana kufikia maamuzi.

Nipo kundi gani? Extrovert? Introvert? None of the above au wapi exactly?

Maelezo yako yanasisimua

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Curvyminx · Apr 23, 2020

Sang'udi said:
Changamoto

Kuonekana domo zege

Kutokuaminika kama wapo serious

Kuonekana wana maringo

Kuonekana wanajisikia

dah nimeambiwa sana kuwa ninaringa na kujisikia wakati kiukweli sina cha kuongeza kwenye story za wengine kwasababu pengine nina enjoy kusikia tu wengine wakiongea 🙁

CUBICBOY · Apr 23, 2020

Saint Anne said:
Mimi mwenyewe huwa nasubiri ikate.
Tena huwa situmi sms muda huo huo maana nahofia itapigwa Tena...

Huwa naunga kifurushi naishia kutumia MBs tu,nikitumia dakika basi nimewapigia wazazi.
Kwa sasa Niko nyumbani dk zangu huwa zinaisha tu muda wake situmii hata sekunde.

Kuna messages hizi za kuchat chat tu huwa sijibu..labda mtu awe na shida..lakini story,sijui umbea a wapi.
Hadi Sasa simu yangu Ina normal text Kama Mia,za kuforwardiwa na nyingine za Mambo
Nikivuta pale juu nikaona ya kuforward hata sigangaiki kufungua.
Nina mwezi mzima sijazifungua labda nitajaribu kuzijibu weekend ijayo

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mimi mtu akinipigie simu huw siongei muda mrefu ,ikitokea ninae onge nae anaongea muda mrefu natamani amalize haraka kuongea huwa nachoka sana kumsikiliza

CUBICBOY · Apr 23, 2020

-KANA- said:
unamaanisha kwamba introverts hawawezi oral/verbal interactions pekee sio?

mbona kama unaniongelea mimi

ChoiceVariable · Apr 23, 2020

Fursakibao said:
Uko sahihi na ikitokea mwanamke akaxungusha basi ndio anapotezewa kihivyo. Pili huwa tunakuwa straight forward, hatutumii janja janja kuomba k

Huwezi kuta intros wanajipendekeza,sijui wambea wambea,huwa tunajiamini sana na tunaamini kwenye ability sio ujinga ujinga wa umbea na kujipendekeza..Ukikuta kiongozi ni intros alafu mtu anakuwa na tabbia za ajabu ajabu lazima atakuumbua

Tansy · Apr 23, 2020

mtegemea Mungu said:
Mimi nipo kundi ganj sasa?

Ni muongeaji mzuri tu nikiamua kuomgea tena nina story hasa na mtu akinianza kuniongelesha atahisi rafiki kapata ila nikitoka hapo simtilii maanani tena yaani hata anaweza nitxt nisijibu kwa wakati akapiga cm nisipokee nakua sijisikii kuongea nae au kuchat nae!

Napenda kukaa ndani tena peke yangu naweza kukaa ndani hata siku tatu nisionekane nje! Nimesoma shule zote day school ila ht majirani walikua wanadhani niko boarding na sijawah kuchoka kukaa ndani.

Sina marafiki na i hate friends nawachekea juu juu tu ila sijawahi kuwaamini na wala sijawahi tendewa nao ubaya! Sipendi kuongozana na mtu km ushost yaan ht nilivyokua chuo ni nitoke room kwangu niingie class nitoe hi niweke earphone niingie netflix niamgslie movie km lecture hajaingia kimyaaa ila ukiniongelesha narespond kwa bashasha mok unaweza shangaa

Napenda kutoka out peke yangu nijinunulie kinywaji changu nisikilize mziki ila asije mtu kunipa company ananiharibia tu starehe ht km ananijua anisalimie tu apite aniache alone.

Am a girl ila nikimpenda mtu namwambia straight forward kua i like u sinaga aibu yaani na nikiwa na mahusiano my boyfrnd anakuaga anatake over almost ratiba yote ya maisha yng yaani ni mimi na yy sijui inakuagaje ht awe vp utashangaa tumestick together and life is all abt us inshort na yy automatic anapoteza marafiki anakua na mimi tu na sijawahi command hilo kwa mwanaume nilienae.

Am very confident hasa kwenye kujieleza pale itapotakiwa nifanye hivyo siogopi mtu wala watu eg. kwenye presentation ilikua lzm nipate extra points

Naweza nikacheka na ww nisijue ht jina lako nimesoma na baadhi ya watu miaka3 mitatu kozi moja darasa moja ila siwajui majina na wengine siwajui hata sura zao!

Nikipenda napenda haswaa na nakuaga km nina ka convicing power fulani hv..sifokeagi mwanaume wala kumuamrisha ila automatic anakua vile ninavyotaka awe and ina turn out kua healthy relationship ever.

Nina huruma mnoo..ni mwepesi kutoa msaada ila mgumu kukopesha hela yaani bora nikupe kidogo sababu siwezi kudai...naonekana km kauzu ila hakuna mtu ninaeumia emotionalyy km mimi.

Nina wivu wa mapenzi sijawahi ona yaani i want my man to be only mine nikinusa harufu ya usaliti nahisi km moyo unachemka kwa hasira I can even kill wallah personally nikipenda nimependa

Nina visasi yaani ukiniudhi kitu kikaniingia sawasawa lazima nitakulipizia tuuu hata baada ya miaka.

Naambiwaga ninaringa na nina dharau while najiona sina tabia hiyo sababu kutoka moyoni naheshimu kila mtu kwa class yake na sipendangi kumjudge mtu inshort niseme hua na mind my own business na mwanaume ambae niko nae tu.

Hata uniseme au unisengenye nakuona hv usitegemee nikareact na nikiamuaga kitu nimeamua sitaki mtu anibadilishe mawazo yangu nahisigi nilichoamua kiko sahihi maana natumiaga mda mref sana kufikia maamuzi.

Nipo kundi gani? Extrovert? Introvert? None of the above au wapi exactly?

Wewe ni ambivert

An ambivert is someone who falls in the middle of the introvert/extrovert continuum.

Ambiverts have a blend of traits from both introverts and extroverts, as well as their own unique strengths.

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Fursakibao · Apr 23, 2020

ChoiceVariable said:
Huwezi kuta intros wanajipendekeza,sijui wambea wambea,huwa tunajiamini sana na tunaamini kwenye ability sio ujinga ujinga wa umbea na kujipendekeza..Ukikuta kiongozi ni intros alafu mtu anakuwa na tabbia za ajabu ajabu lazima atakuumbua

Na hapo ndipo inapofika wanasema tunajisikia ama tunaringa. Shida sasa uwe na tu hela kidogo utachukiwa na kila mtu.

Saint Anne · Apr 23, 2020

CUBICBOY said:
mimi mtu akinipigie simu huw siongei muda mrefu ,ikitokea ninae onge nae anaongea muda mrefu natamani amalize haraka kuongea huwa nachoka sana kumsikiliza

Mimi huwa sipendi kupokea kabisa.

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Saint Anne · Apr 23, 2020

Fursakibao said:
Na hapo ndipo inapofika wanasema tunajisikia ama tunaringa. Shida sasa uwe na tu hela kidogo utachukiwa na kila mtu.

Hii ya kujisikia ni kawaida kusemwa.

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Fursakibao · Apr 23, 2020

Wewe

mtegemea Mungu said:
Mimi nipo kundi ganj sasa?

Ni muongeaji mzuri tu nikiamua kuomgea tena nina story hasa na mtu akinianza kuniongelesha atahisi rafiki kapata ila nikitoka hapo simtilii maanani tena yaani hata anaweza nitxt nisijibu kwa wakati akapiga cm nisipokee nakua sijisikii kuongea nae au kuchat nae!

Napenda kukaa ndani tena peke yangu naweza kukaa ndani hata siku tatu nisionekane nje! Nimesoma shule zote day school ila ht majirani walikua wanadhani niko boarding na sijawah kuchoka kukaa ndani.

Sina marafiki na i hate friends nawachekea juu juu tu ila sijawahi kuwaamini na wala sijawahi tendewa nao ubaya! Sipendi kuongozana na mtu km ushost yaan ht nilivyokua chuo ni nitoke room kwangu niingie class nitoe hi niweke earphone niingie netflix niamgslie movie km lecture hajaingia kimyaaa ila ukiniongelesha narespond kwa bashasha mok unaweza shangaa

Napenda kutoka out peke yangu nijinunulie kinywaji changu nisikilize mziki ila asije mtu kunipa company ananiharibia tu starehe ht km ananijua anisalimie tu apite aniache alone.

Am a girl ila nikimpenda mtu namwambia straight forward kua i like u sinaga aibu yaani na nikiwa na mahusiano my boyfrnd anakuaga anatake over almost ratiba yote ya maisha yng yaani ni mimi na yy sijui inakuagaje ht awe vp utashangaa tumestick together and life is all abt us inshort na yy automatic anapoteza marafiki anakua na mimi tu na sijawahi command hilo kwa mwanaume nilienae.

Am very confident hasa kwenye kujieleza pale itapotakiwa nifanye hivyo siogopi mtu wala watu eg. kwenye presentation ilikua lzm nipate extra points

Naweza nikacheka na ww nisijue ht jina lako nimesoma na baadhi ya watu miaka3 mitatu kozi moja darasa moja ila siwajui majina na wengine siwajui hata sura zao!

Nikipenda napenda haswaa na nakuaga km nina ka convicing power fulani hv..sifokeagi mwanaume wala kumuamrisha ila automatic anakua vile ninavyotaka awe and ina turn out kua healthy relationship ever.

Nina huruma mnoo..ni mwepesi kutoa msaada ila mgumu kukopesha hela yaani bora nikupe kidogo sababu siwezi kudai...naonekana km kauzu ila hakuna mtu ninaeumia emotionalyy km mimi.

Nina wivu wa mapenzi sijawahi ona yaani i want my man to be only mine nikinusa harufu ya usaliti nahisi km moyo unachemka kwa hasira I can even kill wallah personally nikipenda nimependa

Nina visasi yaani ukiniudhi kitu kikaniingia sawasawa lazima nitakulipizia tuuu hata baada ya miaka.

Naambiwaga ninaringa na nina dharau while najiona sina tabia hiyo sababu kutoka moyoni naheshimu kila mtu kwa class yake na sipendangi kumjudge mtu inshort niseme hua na mind my own business na mwanaume ambae niko nae tu.

Hata uniseme au unisengenye nakuona hv usitegemee nikareact na nikiamuaga kitu nimeamua sitaki mtu anibadilishe mawazo yangu nahisigi nilichoamua kiko sahihi maana natumiaga mda mref sana kufikia maamuzi.

Nipo kundi gani? Extrovert? Introvert? None of the above au wapi exactly?

Wewe ni Introvert yule mwenyewe.
Suala la kupiga story na mtu linakuja pale unapokuwa confotable nae.

Sasa suala la kuringa hili haliepukiki kwa introvert. Kabla sijajijua ni Introvert nilikuwa naumia sana pale watu wakinisema kuwa nina dharau na maringo. Baadae nilikuja nikazoea kwa hivyo sipatishida.

Baby mama wangu mtarajiwa nilisha mwambia kuwa mimi ni introvert kwa huyo asije kushangaa pale maongezi yatakapokata tukiwa pamoja, naona kama ananielewa lakini kuna mda anajisahau anasema ninadharau.

Changamoto ninayo ipata saa hivi ni ile ya kula papuchi kimya kimya bila hata miguno. Hii inawaboa sana wanawake wengi sana. Sasa inabidi nijilazimishe tu lakini kwa baby mama wengi ni mwendo wa silent mode ilikuwaga

Fursakibao · Apr 23, 2020

Saint Anne said:
Hii ya kujisikia ni kawaida kusemwa.

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Nishaga izoe hii.

Fursakibao · Apr 23, 2020

Saint Anne said:
Mimi huwa sipendi kupokea kabisa.

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Huu ugonjwa wetu sote.

Saint Anne · Apr 23, 2020

Fursakibao said:
Nishaga izoe hii.

Watu wanataka sijui tuwe tunatembea kusalimia majirani nyumba kwa nyumba

Wanataka utoke ukapige story...ni zoezi nilisiloliweza

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Saint Anne · Apr 23, 2020

Fursakibao said:
Huu ugonjwa wetu sote.

Mimi labda simu za wazazi wangu na yule mtu wangu wa Karibu

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PierreLiquid · Apr 23, 2020

Mimi nadhani ni introvert ila sio wale ngumu kumeza sometimes najichanganya ila kwa watu niliowazoea ila tuu niliwahi kudate na mwanamke ambae complete introvert aise just imagining hata kusamilia watu hawez anaona aibu mpaaka raia wakawa wananichana bana mwambie manz yako awe anasalimia sijashtushwa Sana maana ata mm siku ya kwanza kukutana hakuweza kunisalimia na aliwahi kuniambia ni mtu pekee ninaemuelewa na mtu wa aina gani na namkubali alivyo. Nikiwa nae Mimi na yeye tuu anaongea kama redio ya mbao sasa awepo ata mtoto mdogo kati yenu anatulia kama maji kwenye mtungi tena mkikaa sana utaona anakuginya apo ashatuma sms P tuondoke ukimuuliza kwann atakujib I'm not comfortable. Urafiki wake yeye na mtu ujue kuna kitu yan benefits anaitaka mpaka nikazoea nikiona shoga yake mpya ujue kuna jambo analifanya akishamaliza na anaweza kumblock ata. Tulivyoachana ni kimasihara yani ni kiumbe wa ajabu sijawahi kuona

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mtegemea Mungu · Apr 23, 2020

data said:
Aisee...
I like your character.

Sijui nipo kundi gani sasa

mtegemea Mungu · Apr 23, 2020

Tatigha said:
Wewe ni Ambivert..! Umemix character za extrovert na introvert

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Ooh asante kwa kunijuza sikuwahi kulijua hilo!

mtegemea Mungu · Apr 23, 2020

Saint Anne said:
Maelezo yako yanasisimua

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Yaani watu wananionaga na kunichukulia very weird

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