I don't call it cheating, I call it having a plan B...

donlucchese · Mar 4, 2020

Salaam wakuu,

Straight to the point. Asilimia kubwa tumeshawahi kuumizwa katika maswala ya relationships, haijalishi jinsia ke au me. Unajikuta umejitoa kimasomaso kwaajili ya MTU ukiamini ndiye the right person for you lakini he/she ends up hurting your feelings.

Nimefanya tafiti yangu isiyo rasmi nimegundua kwamba katika mahusiano shurti uwe na plan B (wanasemaga kidumu). Hii inasaidia incase plan A fails, unahamishia nguvu zako kwenye palm B. Hii hulka nimegundua wenzetu jinsia ke wanayo sana (samahanini jamani) unakuta mwingine ana mpaka plan G.

Imagine umetokea kumpenda MTU kwa moyo wako wote then mpaka ndugu umewataarifu kua umempata MTU sahihi and then anakuja kukengeuka ghafla na kuku-dump. It really hurts a lot lakini at least ukiwa na ka plan b kako you won't endup a total loser.

On the record, sichochei watu wacheat kwenye mahusiano yao but according to my personal view Naona ni vyema kua na backup plan.

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fundi bishoo · Mar 4, 2020

Vp mvua huko gaoro bado inanyesha mkuu au??[emoji1787][emoji1787]

yess BiShoo haswaaAaa

Goddess · Mar 4, 2020

Na plan B ikafail unaenda wapi?!

Darmian · Mar 4, 2020

Mwanaume unakuwaje na demu mmoja??..Plan B ni muhimu

TheChoji · Mar 4, 2020

donlucchese said:
Salaam wakuu,
Straight to the point. Asilimia kubwa tumeshawahi kuumizwa katika maswala ya relationships, haijalishi jinsia ke au me. Unajikuta umejitoa kimasomaso kwaajili ya MTU ukiamini ndiye the right person for you lakini he/she ends up hurting your feelings. Nimefanya tafiti yangu isiyo rasmi nimegundua kwamba katika mahusiano shurti uwe na plan B (wanasemaga kidumu). Hii inasaidia incase plan A fails, unahamishia nguvu zako kwenye palm B. Hii hulka nimegundua wenzetu jinsia ke wanayo sana (samahanini jamani) unakuta mwingine ana mpaka plan G. Imagine umetokea kumpenda MTU kwa moyo wako wote then mpaka ndugu umewataarifu kua umempata MTU sahihi and then anakuja kukengeuka ghafla na kuku-dump. It really hurts a lot lakini at least ukiwa na ka plan b kako you won't endup a total loser.
On the record, sichochei watu wacheat kwenye mahusiano yao but according to my personal view Naona ni vyema kua na backup plan.

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Kwa kawaida mwanaume wa maana akijitahidi sana yaani yule ambae ni muaminifu kabisa na ana heshima zote, basi atakua na wanawake angalau watatu hivi. Anaweza kuwa anakula mmoja, ila hao wawili wako stand by mda wowote akiwahitaji anajua atawala.

Kwa upande wa mwanamke, kama ni mzuri wa sura na ana chura, basi at any time T ana wanaume zaidi ya 100 ambao wako stand by na wanamsumbua wakitaka kuwa nae. Katika hao, kuna wanaokula kimasihara, kuna wanaokula kawaida, kuna wahongaji, kuna wanaojidai washkaji ila nia yao nao ni kula, na kuna mazuzu wapo wapo tuu hawajielewi kazi yao ni kutuma tuma meseji za usumbufu.

msweken · Mar 4, 2020

Watu tunaplan mpaka Z-001, nini plan B?

Demi · Mar 4, 2020

fundi bishoo said:
Vp mvua huko gaoro bado inanyesha mkuu au??[emoji1787][emoji1787]

yess BiShoo haswaaAaa

Gaoro ipo nchi gani

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Demi · Mar 4, 2020

TheChoji said:
Kwa kawaida mwanaume wa maana akijitahidi sana yaani yule ambae ni muaminifu kabisa na ana heshima zote, basi atakua na wanawake angalau watatu hivi. Anaweza kuwa anakula mmoja, ila hao wawili wako stand by mda wowote akiwahitaji anajua atawala.

Kwa upande wa mwanamke, kama ni mzuri wa sura na ana chura, basi at any time T ana wanaume zaidi ya 100 ambao wako stand by na wanamsumbua wakitaka kuwa nae. Katika hao, kuna wanaokula kimasihara, kuna wanaokula kawaida, kuna wahongaji, kuna wanaojidai washkaji ila nia yao nao ni kula, na kuna mazuzu wapo wapo tuu hawajielewi kazi yao ni kutuma tuma meseji za usumbufu.

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donlucchese · Mar 5, 2020

Hahah kiainamkuu

fundi bishoo said:
Vp mvua huko gaoro bado inanyesha mkuu au??[emoji1787][emoji1787]

yess BiShoo haswaaAaa

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donlucchese · Mar 5, 2020

Hahahah

msweken said:
Watu tunaplan mpaka Z-001, nini plan B?

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donlucchese · Mar 5, 2020

TheChoji said:
Kwa kawaida mwanaume wa maana akijitahidi sana yaani yule ambae ni muaminifu kabisa na ana heshima zote, basi atakua na wanawake angalau watatu hivi. Anaweza kuwa anakula mmoja, ila hao wawili wako stand by mda wowote akiwahitaji anajua atawala.

Kwa upande wa mwanamke, kama ni mzuri wa sura na ana chura, basi at any time T ana wanaume zaidi ya 100 ambao wako stand by na wanamsumbua wakitaka kuwa nae. Katika hao, kuna wanaokula kimasihara, kuna wanaokula kawaida, kuna wahongaji, kuna wanaojidai washkaji ila nia yao nao ni kula, na kuna mazuzu wapo wapo tuu hawajielewi kazi yao ni kutuma tuma meseji za usumbufu.

Ni kweli kabisa mkuu

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Nyani Ngabu · Mar 5, 2020

Haya mambo bana...yaacheni tu kama yalivyo.

Kuna wanawake na wanaume ambao wapo kwenye ndoa na kila mara wanachepuka.

Cha ajabu, ni wamejiaminisha kabisa kuwa wakifanyacho si kosa.

Yaani wamejishawishi wenyewe kuwa wanachofanya si kuchepuka.

Halafu hapo hapo, kila Jumapili hawakosi kwenda kusali [kwa wale waumini wa Kristu].

Wanajiona waadilifu sana.

Na mara zote, wenye makosa na utovu wa uadilifu huwa ni wengine.

Hapo kwa watu wahalisia kama mimi, ndo tunasema kuwa ‘uaminifu’ wa mtu ni siri yake moyoni mwake tu.

Nje ya hapo, ni usanii kwa kwenda mbele, nyuma, na hata pembeni.

Nawapa pole mliopo kwenye ndoa 😉

Sibonike · Mar 5, 2020

donlucchese said:
Salaam wakuu,
Straight to the point. Asilimia kubwa tumeshawahi kuumizwa katika maswala ya relationships, haijalishi jinsia ke au me. Unajikuta umejitoa kimasomaso kwaajili ya MTU ukiamini ndiye the right person for you lakini he/she ends up hurting your feelings. Nimefanya tafiti yangu isiyo rasmi nimegundua kwamba katika mahusiano shurti uwe na plan B (wanasemaga kidumu). Hii inasaidia incase plan A fails, unahamishia nguvu zako kwenye palm B. Hii hulka nimegundua wenzetu jinsia ke wanayo sana (samahanini jamani) unakuta mwingine ana mpaka plan G. Imagine umetokea kumpenda MTU kwa moyo wako wote then mpaka ndugu umewataarifu kua umempata MTU sahihi and then anakuja kukengeuka ghafla na kuku-dump. It really hurts a lot lakini at least ukiwa na ka plan b kako you won't endup a total loser.
On the record, sichochei watu wacheat kwenye mahusiano yao but according to my personal view Naona ni vyema kua na backup plan.

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Anayefanywa plan B huwa mara nyingi anajua. Ukianza kumfanya plan A, anaishia zake. Hataki stress!

Joh Doe · Mar 5, 2020

Hahaha unapaswa kufahamu kuwa either way dating or married, she's never yours, it's just your turn and when your time ends, don't cry over it.

A woman's love is very shortlived and will never last more than 12 months. After that she subconciously weighs your utility value (ability to provide) vs her reproductive resources, if you fall short unawekwa kando.

Aidanna · Mar 5, 2020

Goddess said:
Na plan B ikafail unaenda wapi?!

Unaruka had plan Z

Aidanna · Mar 5, 2020

TheChoji said:
Kwa kawaida mwanaume wa maana akijitahidi sana yaani yule ambae ni muaminifu kabisa na ana heshima zote, basi atakua na wanawake angalau watatu hivi. Anaweza kuwa anakula mmoja, ila hao wawili wako stand by mda wowote akiwahitaji anajua atawala.

Kwa upande wa mwanamke, kama ni mzuri wa sura na ana chura, basi at any time T ana wanaume zaidi ya 100 ambao wako stand by na wanamsumbua wakitaka kuwa nae. Katika hao, kuna wanaokula kimasihara, kuna wanaokula kawaida, kuna wahongaji, kuna wanaojidai washkaji ila nia yao nao ni kula, na kuna mazuzu wapo wapo tuu hawajielewi kazi yao ni kutuma tuma meseji za usumbufu.

Ila mazuzu wengi jaman wanajaa kwenye abood mbili na BM moja.

Depal · Mar 5, 2020

Niaje mkuu?!! Una maoni gani hapa 😅😅
Mjep

Light Saber Imetosha Sasa · Mar 5, 2020

I dated her 4 years + , with no side chick , we part last two months , I can't have side chicks(plan B) once I'm into one its enough.... And now it will take two years or plus To date another(to love someone again)

mzabzab · Mar 5, 2020

donlucchese said:
Salaam wakuu,
Straight to the point. Asilimia kubwa tumeshawahi kuumizwa katika maswala ya relationships, haijalishi jinsia ke au me. Unajikuta umejitoa kimasomaso kwaajili ya MTU ukiamini ndiye the right person for you lakini he/she ends up hurting your feelings. Nimefanya tafiti yangu isiyo rasmi nimegundua kwamba katika mahusiano shurti uwe na plan B (wanasemaga kidumu). Hii inasaidia incase plan A fails, unahamishia nguvu zako kwenye palm B. Hii hulka nimegundua wenzetu jinsia ke wanayo sana (samahanini jamani) unakuta mwingine ana mpaka plan G. Imagine umetokea kumpenda MTU kwa moyo wako wote then mpaka ndugu umewataarifu kua umempata MTU sahihi and then anakuja kukengeuka ghafla na kuku-dump. It really hurts a lot lakini at least ukiwa na ka plan b kako you won't endup a total loser.
On the record, sichochei watu wacheat kwenye mahusiano yao but according to my personal view Naona ni vyema kua na backup plan.

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Kwanza mie naona ata plan b haitoshi wee kuwa na plan hadi z.
Point ya. Singi mkuu ni kwamba kama umemkuta sio bikra kaa ukijua huyo ni wakugegedwa tuu na wala usiweke moyo wako hapo.

Mahondaw · Mar 5, 2020

Basi sauwaa

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