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- Oct 14, 2008
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Hii debate yoote naiona inazungumza
zaidi kwa watu wenye umri below 25...
ukiwa una approach 30 au zaidi
huwezi kuwa na misimamo ya 'i want this' ' i want that'
soon una realize 'relationship is about compromising'
its about 'what we want' na sio 'i what i want'
as you age kuna vingi vya kutazama..
ukiugua? utaugua alone?
ukifa ghafla utaacha nini?
ukipa ajali na ukapata ulemavu ,je utakuwa na choices na option kama ulizo nazo now?
hapo ndo unapokubali lazima u compromise,you lose some, you win some...
unaanza kuwa more giving than kuwa more receiving.....
na hapo ndo 'utaweza vumilia ups and downs za relationship'
Now this is consoling...
I must say I am not under 25 n maybe that's why my focus is more on th giving of one self n not material stuff.
Then again I know I must wait longer to achieve that..to meet the grown lara 1's ...beautiful bt not centralized on material worldly things.
Oh time....
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