Debate: Bado nipo nipo sana...Mentor vs Lara 1

Debate: Bado nipo nipo sana...Mentor vs Lara 1

Hii debate yoote naiona inazungumza
zaidi kwa watu wenye umri below 25...
ukiwa una approach 30 au zaidi
huwezi kuwa na misimamo ya 'i want this' ' i want that'
soon una realize 'relationship is about compromising'
its about 'what we want' na sio 'i what i want'

as you age kuna vingi vya kutazama..
ukiugua? utaugua alone?
ukifa ghafla utaacha nini?
ukipa ajali na ukapata ulemavu ,je utakuwa na choices na option kama ulizo nazo now?

hapo ndo unapokubali lazima u compromise,you lose some, you win some...

unaanza kuwa more giving than kuwa more receiving.....
na hapo ndo 'utaweza vumilia ups and downs za relationship'

Now this is consoling...

I must say I am not under 25 n maybe that's why my focus is more on th giving of one self n not material stuff.

Then again I know I must wait longer to achieve that..to meet the grown lara 1's ...beautiful bt not centralized on material worldly things.

Oh time....
 
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Hii debate yoote naiona inazungumza
zaidi kwa watu wenye umri below 25...
ukiwa una approach 30 au zaidi
huwezi kuwa na misimamo ya 'i want this' ' i want that'
soon una realize 'relationship is about compromising'
its about 'what we want' na sio 'i what i want'

as you age kuna vingi vya kutazama..
ukiugua? utaugua alone?
ukifa ghafla utaacha nini?
ukipa ajali na ukapata ulemavu ,je utakuwa na choices na option kama ulizo nazo now?

hapo ndo unapokubali lazima u compromise,you lose some, you win some...

unaanza kuwa more giving than kuwa more receiving.....
na hapo ndo 'utaweza vumilia ups and downs za relationship'


Hahahaaaaaaaaa! I think compromising inategemean na wewe zaidi ulivo nafsini mwako! Age has a little to do with it! Unaweza kuwa below 25 na ushajijengea compromising culture! Kuna watu wanakaa na just a BF ila anamuhudumia kama mume just because its in her ku COMPROMISE!!!!!!!!!! Na kuna watu ni very UNGRATEFUL compromising aint just in their dictionary!

Sasa kama huku chini huna asili ya kujito kwa wenzio umri hauwezi kukupa hio nguvu vaaaaaaaap! Unless uamue kujifunza and you wont be hapy kuifanya! Utaifanya basi tu tofauti na Mama Terasa wazoefu wa miaka mingi!

Mimi sipendi mtu acompromise furaha yake ili awe na mimi for any reason! Nikihisi tu huyu mwenzangu kabakia kwa gratitude najikataa mwenyewe!!!!!!!!!! Ndo maana nasisitiza sana kupata mtu amabe mna share same vision n passion for things, na Mashallah mkawa na body chemistry hapo walau future inaingilika!

COMPROMISING INA NGUVU ENDAPO UNA FEELINGS KWA YULE MTU! Bila hivo utratraaa! Ndo kucompromise unamuoa mtu afu chakula cha usiku kristapen, ilhali furaha yako iwe pengine!
 
Now this is consoling...

I must say I am not under 25 n maybe that's why my focus is more on th giving of one self n not material stuff.

Then again I know I must wait longer to achieve that..to meet the grown lara 1's ...beautiful bt not centralized on material worldly things.

Oh time....

Age is just a number to me! I was thinking like this since i was 17! You can imagine that! Over 6 years and no change of heart! That is OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!!
 
Hii debate yoote naiona inazungumza
zaidi kwa watu wenye umri below 25...
ukiwa una approach 30 au zaidi
huwezi kuwa na misimamo ya 'i want this' ' i want that'
soon una realize 'relationship is about compromising'
its about 'what we want' na sio 'i what i want'

as you age kuna vingi vya kutazama..
ukiugua? utaugua alone?
ukifa ghafla utaacha nini?
ukipa ajali na ukapata ulemavu ,je utakuwa na choices na option kama ulizo nazo now?

hapo ndo unapokubali lazima u compromise,you lose some, you win some...

unaanza kuwa more giving than kuwa more receiving.....
na hapo ndo 'utaweza vumilia ups and downs za relationship'

Teh teh,...hapo kweny giving hapo!
...aisee....
The boss pamoja na kuwa kwny 30 tuna option bana, hata ya k-lyn option wala hatoi,anapokea tu
 
Hahahaaaaaaaa! Tunarudi point ya mwanzo ONLY IF I HAD LISTENED TO MY MAMA!!!!!!!!!!! The joke would be on him!

if you had, you wouldnt have been the lara 1 we know!
 
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Jamani, NITARUDI BDAE KIDOGO! Mpambano Half Time!!!!!!!!!!! TEAM MONEY MONGER OYEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i hope you are back, let me ask you sister, do u think EXCESSIVE money completes the relationship life? take examples of those refer themselves as mabilionea wa arusha, do u know how their wives feel?
 
lara 1 lemmie ansa u on th beauty part first...uzuri haununuliwi.

I remember back in 2004 when i was in form six, I met this young beautiful lady..natural beauty (refer my Mwanayumba story). Yeah sometime I thought t wil wear off when she grows up or something...with age atakuwa tu kama wengine.

Theeen I met her in 2008...and I knew you dont need lotsa cash to be beautiful. She was jus a primary school teacher.

My point is...for as long as I, ur man, love you lazima ntakutunza..I wil make sure i get u the best i can afford and have you have a comfortable life n enjoy th relationship.

Lakini wasiwasi wangu kwako (&co.) ni hiyo tamaa ya ziada ya pesa...pesa zisizo zako...pesa ambazo zinakufanya ukiwa peke yako ujihisi like a paid w.hore.

Jiulizee when i get married will he do th same? Kunihonga n stuff? Exerience has it that most of those ladies that had it fake..wa kupewa tu bila kujua ilipotoka...wa kuhongwa bila kujali strength ya mahusiano yao....have it really tough in marriage. Kwa sababu wat you really dont know is all that supply will b cut off. It was simply his marketing strategy.

You claim to really know men but what you seem to have overlooked is money and love r two very unrelated things to us. Plus we know by giving you cash we get to ur heart easily bila maneno mengi.
U keep fooling urself with beliefs kuwa kama anakupenda atakujali atakupa hela ili upendeze.

My dear kama hueezi kupendeza with a primary school teacher's salary my dear hata ukipewa pesa za Bill Gates u will stil be a decorated ugly betty (mh consoling ryt?!)

Beauty is invaluable...never money worth, just like true love.

HAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! MEN AND THERE DECEIVING SKIMS!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just out of LOGIC! Put your Brains and Intelligence at sleep! USE JUST LOGIC!!!!!!!!!!!

HIVI KWELI JAMANI, YOU ARE JUST 20, LOOKING HOT AS EVER! SIMPLY GORGEOUS!!!! UNA GUME GUME HALIKUHUDUMIII HATA KUMI! NA COMPETITION YOTE YA KUNYANGANYWA, YA WEWE KUMTOSA, ILA SENTI TANO KIPANDE YAKE HUIONI! UACHE KUCHAJI BONGO UJIBWETEKEE KUFATIZA MANENO YA KWENYE RED HAPO NEGRO PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!! ETI AKIKUOA, COMPETITION HAKUNA, WAPINZANI WAKE WASHAOA NAO, UMEZAA UMECHUJA, UMRI USHAKUKAMATA ETI OUT NDO PESA YAKE UTAIONAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THUBUTU YAKO!!!!!!!!!!!! KAMA HUKUFETCH HIGH PRICE KABLA HAJAKUVUA BAHARINI KWENYE KAPU YOU WILL COST EVEN LOWER!!!!!!!!!!!

NASEMA SIDANGANYIKII NG'OOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hapo kwenye blue THAT IS THE LOGIC! IT MAKES SENSE!!!!!!!!!!! HAINGIIIIIIIII AKILINI MTU AKUPENDE THEN AWE CONSERVATIVE NA WEWE N SHIT! AKIKUPENDA ATAKUSPOIL EVEN A 13 YEARS CAN SEE THROUGH THAT!!!!!!

Nimeona memngi sanaa umri huu! KUOLEWA IS JUST THE BEGGINING!!!! Tuko nao ofisini mumeo wake bosi mkubwa yeye haishi kukopa kopa daily, Hawezi hata kujispoil akanunua kakitu kazuei, watoto watateseka! hela haionekani nyumbaniiii! Ndo hio mtu hakupi 10 afu unakubali akuoe, unazani ndo atakupa!!! Imekula kwako!
 
i hope you are back, let me ask you sister, do u think EXCESSIVE money completes the relationship life? take examples of those refer themselves as mabilionea wa arusha, do u know how their wives feel?

CRYING ON A BMW X6 IS BETTER THAN CRYING ON A BICYCLE!!!! lolest!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Shem Kaizer the qn should be...how many Mengi's do we have??!

shem Mentor najua sana..ila ndo mambo ya indirect questions hayo, majibu yake ameshanipa nila kumtaja Mengi.....ila anasema eti 'wako wengi'
 
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Ha haa haa Uwiii mbavu zangu mie Lara 1, basi sawaaaaa

Eeeeh! Kwani uongo! Ukilia kwenye baskeli unaaibika mtaaa mzima na kuhadhirika kwa wapita njia! Ila kwenye BMW lako Tinted, umefunga vioo vyote, full ac, full stereo, wapiga zako ukunga weee!!!!! nani atakae kustukia!!!!

Ila kwenye baskeli michozi inakumwagika, hata trafic anaweza simamisha msafara namumeo kuuliza shwari hapa?
 
Hupewi vote ili upate sababu ya kuamka jumapili kwenda church
sijawahi comment kwenye hilii jukwaa leo imenibidi.why this lara?unawatia hofu sana vijana?money is essential but not everything to make some one happy you cant buy happiness there ar rich people with a lot of money but they ar not happy.Ni muhimu kijana awe na pesa kiasi fulani hata ya kununulia powder kwa mwezi ila sio pesa ya kununua kiwanda cha poda ndo maana watu wanauza unga lakini mwisho wa siku
no happy
 
Ofcoz that was my point! Back 2 lara 1s topic...pesa ndo .....

so at more than 25yrs, u have to compromise that fact..kwamba utakuwa na A man 30 yrs older than you...and you get along as long as he has money.....

Now if you use Mengi's example...how many of that calibre do we have? how many can buy you BMW X6s? Au hata kacorola tu? How many of you are lined up and subject to strict shortlisting? I mean, How many of you have K-Lyns qualities?
 
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