Wanawake wenzangu mnawezaje kumsamehe a cheating husband?

Hahaaa that's my standing about this issue, it has nothing to do with hurt, bitter or wherever you call. That's my standing as I respect URS.
You smell pain and misery all over you....... Pretending u are okay won't work.
 
You smell pain and misery all over you....... Pretending u are okay won't work.
That's ur assumption my dear I respect it as long as ur not in my head and my heart keep guessing. I always write what I believe & it has nothing to deal with anything. but today I forget to call me single mother
 
That's ur assumption my dear I respect it as long as ur not in my head and my heart keep guessing. I always write what I believe & it has nothing to deal with anything. but today I forget to call me single mother
Trust me.... As much as u r trying to hide it, it becomes clear and more visible for anyone who understands. You clearly got daddy isssues..... And u are trying so hard to look comfortable and okay but it is written all over your reactions that u are not behaving normal.

Don't take this as an offense. Its a care gesture.
 
Trust me.... As much as u r trying to hide it, it becomes clear and more visible for anyone who understands. You clearly got daddy isssues..... And u are trying so hard to look comfortable and okay but it is written all over your reactions that u are not behaving normal.

Don't take this as an offense. Its a care gesture.
My dear I'm behaving very normal, I'm good happy, health and I'm blessed with everything that's life has to offer. So what ur seing to me is ur feeling's even I can say ur insecurities that's why ur projecting me in that way. Of course I don't have any daddy issues, I was raised by my parents with lot of love and caring, they taught me to do what I believe and they always support me. So I didn't lack father figure when I was growing, I refute it.
And I'm very comfortable about what I'm writing here bcoz it's something I believe, and many people don't understand rather than they keep attacking me, JF isa great thinker forums were we dare to talk openly.
 
My dear I'm behaving very normal, I'm good happy, health and I'm blessed with everything that's life has to offer. So what ur seing to me is ur feeling's even I can say ur insecurities that's why ur projecting me in that way. Of course I don't have any daddy issues, I was raised by my parents with lot of love and caring, they taught me to do what I believe and they always support me. So I didn't lack father figure when I was growing, I refute it.
And I'm very comfortable about what I'm writing here bcoz it's something I believe, and many people don't understand rather than they keep attacking me, JF isa great thinker forums were we dare to talk openly.
Nifundishe ngeli rafiki
 
so mwanamke kama anamridhisha mke wake it's ok awe na mchepuko?
Ndio Kama akijiskia kufanya hivo, na hamna binadamu anayeweza kuridhishwa na kitu kimoja maana ukiwa mzuri sehemu flani, basi Kuna sehemu tu utakuwa weak, huwezi kuwa full package, hafu kuchepuka ni choice ya mtu hata umfanyie Nini yeye hatulii tu
 
Ndio Kama akijiskia kufanya hivo, na hamna binadamu anayeweza kuridhishwa na kitu kimoja maana ukiwa mzuri sehemu flani, basi Kuna sehemu tu utakuwa weak, huwezi kuwa full package, hafu kuchepuka ni choice ya mtu hata umfanyie Nini yeye hatulii tu
so solution ni nini hapa?
 
Hili suala la kuchepuka ndani ya ndoa ni tata sana. Unaweza kuta mume katulia lakini mke moto chini. Ukikuta mke katulia mume moto chini. Saa nyingine unakuta wote moto chini mume na mke ngoma droo wote wachepukaji hapa kidogo hamna shida lakini ndoa ya namna hii haichelewi kuwaacha watoto yatima bila mwangalizi. Mara chache sana kukuta hakuna anayechepuka kati ya mume na mke. Kimsingi sidhani kama kuna "solution" kwani kuchepuka imekua tabia za watu hasa kadri siku zinavyoenda ndivyo wanandoa wamekuwa kama wanahalalisha hivi uchepukaji. Yaani sasa hivi imekuwa kama fasheni halafu ukiwakuta kwenye makundi wanavyojidanganya eti chepuka huku ukifanya siri sana tena mbali huko mwenzio asijue eti hiyo ndio kumlindia mwenzako heshima ndani ya ndoa. Kikubwa ni kumuomba tu Mungu wewe usichepuke na Mungu akusaidie upate mwenza asiye mchepukaji .
 
Hili suala la kuchepuka ndani ya ndoa ni tata sana. Unaweza kuta mume katulia lakini mke moto chini. Ukikuta mke katulia mume moto chini. Saa nyingine unakuta wote moto chini mume na mke ngoma droo wote wachepukaji hapa kidogo hamna shida lakini ndoa ya namna hii haichelewi kuwaacha watoto yatima bila mwangalizi. Mara chache sana kukuta hakuna anayechepuka kati ya mume na mke. Kimsingi sidhani kama kuna "solution" kwani kuchepuka imekua tabia za watu hasa kadri siku zinavyoenda ndivyo wanandoa wamekuwa kama wanahalalisha hivi uchepukaji. Yaani sasa hivi imekuwa kama fasheni halafu ukiwakuta kwenye makundi wanavyojidanganya eti chepuka huku ukifanya siri sana tena mbali huko mwenzio asijue eti hiyo ndio kumlindia mwenzako heshima ndani ya ndoa. Kikubwa ni kumuomba tu Mungu wewe usichepuke na Mungu akusaidie upate mwenza asiye mchepukaji .
Wewe umenena.
 
Hili suala la kuchepuka ndani ya ndoa ni tata sana. Unaweza kuta mume katulia lakini mke moto chini. Ukikuta mke katulia mume moto chini. Saa nyingine unakuta wote moto chini mume na mke ngoma droo wote wachepukaji hapa kidogo hamna shida lakini ndoa ya namna hii haichelewi kuwaacha watoto yatima bila mwangalizi. Mara chache sana kukuta hakuna anayechepuka kati ya mume na mke. Kimsingi sidhani kama kuna "solution" kwani kuchepuka imekua tabia za watu hasa kadri siku zinavyoenda ndivyo wanandoa wamekuwa kama wanahalalisha hivi uchepukaji. Yaani sasa hivi imekuwa kama fasheni halafu ukiwakuta kwenye makundi wanavyojidanganya eti chepuka huku ukifanya siri sana tena mbali huko mwenzio asijue eti hiyo ndio kumlindia mwenzako heshima ndani ya ndoa. Kikubwa ni kumuomba tu Mungu wewe usichepuke na Mungu akusaidie upate mwenza asiye mchepukaji .
ndio ukweli uloandika
 
Hili suala la kuchepuka ndani ya ndoa ni tata sana. Unaweza kuta mume katulia lakini mke moto chini. Ukikuta mke katulia mume moto chini. Saa nyingine unakuta wote moto chini mume na mke ngoma droo wote wachepukaji hapa kidogo hamna shida lakini ndoa ya namna hii haichelewi kuwaacha watoto yatima bila mwangalizi. Mara chache sana kukuta hakuna anayechepuka kati ya mume na mke. Kimsingi sidhani kama kuna "solution" kwani kuchepuka imekua tabia za watu hasa kadri siku zinavyoenda ndivyo wanandoa wamekuwa kama wanahalalisha hivi uchepukaji. Yaani sasa hivi imekuwa kama fasheni halafu ukiwakuta kwenye makundi wanavyojidanganya eti chepuka huku ukifanya siri sana tena mbali huko mwenzio asijue eti hiyo ndio kumlindia mwenzako heshima ndani ya ndoa. Kikubwa ni kumuomba tu Mungu wewe usichepuke na Mungu akusaidie upate mwenza asiye mchepukaji .
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