cocastic
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- Nov 30, 2019
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Kabisaaaah mam tunawachora tyuuuhHili ni kweli kabisa, mpaka mtu anatoa matusi kabisa kumbe siri yake, nyau kabisa!
Kabisaaaah mam tunawachora tyuuuhHili ni kweli kabisa, mpaka mtu anatoa matusi kabisa kumbe siri yake, nyau kabisa!
You smell pain and misery all over you....... Pretending u are okay won't work.Hahaaa that's my standing about this issue, it has nothing to do with hurt, bitter or wherever you call. That's my standing as I respect URS.
That's ur assumption my dear I respect it as long as ur not in my head and my heart keep guessing. I always write what I believe & it has nothing to deal with anything. but today I forget to call me single motherYou smell pain and misery all over you....... Pretending u are okay won't work.
Trust me.... As much as u r trying to hide it, it becomes clear and more visible for anyone who understands. You clearly got daddy isssues..... And u are trying so hard to look comfortable and okay but it is written all over your reactions that u are not behaving normal.That's ur assumption my dear I respect it as long as ur not in my head and my heart keep guessing. I always write what I believe & it has nothing to deal with anything. but today I forget to call me single mother
My dear I'm behaving very normal, I'm good happy, health and I'm blessed with everything that's life has to offer. So what ur seing to me is ur feeling's even I can say ur insecurities that's why ur projecting me in that way. Of course I don't have any daddy issues, I was raised by my parents with lot of love and caring, they taught me to do what I believe and they always support me. So I didn't lack father figure when I was growing, I refute it.Trust me.... As much as u r trying to hide it, it becomes clear and more visible for anyone who understands. You clearly got daddy isssues..... And u are trying so hard to look comfortable and okay but it is written all over your reactions that u are not behaving normal.
Don't take this as an offense. Its a care gesture.
Nifundishe ngeli rafikiMy dear I'm behaving very normal, I'm good happy, health and I'm blessed with everything that's life has to offer. So what ur seing to me is ur feeling's even I can say ur insecurities that's why ur projecting me in that way. Of course I don't have any daddy issues, I was raised by my parents with lot of love and caring, they taught me to do what I believe and they always support me. So I didn't lack father figure when I was growing, I refute it.
And I'm very comfortable about what I'm writing here bcoz it's something I believe, and many people don't understand rather than they keep attacking me, JF isa great thinker forums were we dare to talk openly.
my kaka mito najifunza funza kwa Ras SimbaNifundishe ngeli rafiki
so mwanamke kama anamridhisha mke wake it's ok awe na mchepuko?I have good heart tu, Mimi michepuko hainikeri maana inatoa balance, shida ni pale wanaume kujihalalisha wakati hata wao hawaridhishi wanawake
Ndio Kama akijiskia kufanya hivo, na hamna binadamu anayeweza kuridhishwa na kitu kimoja maana ukiwa mzuri sehemu flani, basi Kuna sehemu tu utakuwa weak, huwezi kuwa full package, hafu kuchepuka ni choice ya mtu hata umfanyie Nini yeye hatulii tuso mwanamke kama anamridhisha mke wake it's ok awe na mchepuko?
so solution ni nini hapa?Ndio Kama akijiskia kufanya hivo, na hamna binadamu anayeweza kuridhishwa na kitu kimoja maana ukiwa mzuri sehemu flani, basi Kuna sehemu tu utakuwa weak, huwezi kuwa full package, hafu kuchepuka ni choice ya mtu hata umfanyie Nini yeye hatulii tu
Solution Ni kuwa na self control basiso solution ni nini hapa?
vipi imewahi kukutokea nini?Unaeza ukawa mbunifu sana anakubinua kila style anayotaka mnoo, ukampa heshima sanaa, ukamtunzia watoto vizuri sana, ukamuombea mema mnoo, ukamfurahisha kuliko kawaida... Aisee na bado akachepukaa vizuri tu
Ndiwoo tajirii... Tugawane utajiri kidogo basiivipi imewahi kukutokea nini?
njoo tuyajenge PMNdiwoo tajirii... Tugawane utajiri kidogo basii
Kumbe ni ume confirm ulichokuwa unahisi badala ya logic
Wewe umenena.Hili suala la kuchepuka ndani ya ndoa ni tata sana. Unaweza kuta mume katulia lakini mke moto chini. Ukikuta mke katulia mume moto chini. Saa nyingine unakuta wote moto chini mume na mke ngoma droo wote wachepukaji hapa kidogo hamna shida lakini ndoa ya namna hii haichelewi kuwaacha watoto yatima bila mwangalizi. Mara chache sana kukuta hakuna anayechepuka kati ya mume na mke. Kimsingi sidhani kama kuna "solution" kwani kuchepuka imekua tabia za watu hasa kadri siku zinavyoenda ndivyo wanandoa wamekuwa kama wanahalalisha hivi uchepukaji. Yaani sasa hivi imekuwa kama fasheni halafu ukiwakuta kwenye makundi wanavyojidanganya eti chepuka huku ukifanya siri sana tena mbali huko mwenzio asijue eti hiyo ndio kumlindia mwenzako heshima ndani ya ndoa. Kikubwa ni kumuomba tu Mungu wewe usichepuke na Mungu akusaidie upate mwenza asiye mchepukaji .
Binadamu yoyote huwa na hisia regardless of genderLogic ni Kwa wanaume tu, wanawake wana mambo mengi na wakati mwingine hawahitaji logic kuyafanya, just their emotions.
ndio ukweli uloandikaHili suala la kuchepuka ndani ya ndoa ni tata sana. Unaweza kuta mume katulia lakini mke moto chini. Ukikuta mke katulia mume moto chini. Saa nyingine unakuta wote moto chini mume na mke ngoma droo wote wachepukaji hapa kidogo hamna shida lakini ndoa ya namna hii haichelewi kuwaacha watoto yatima bila mwangalizi. Mara chache sana kukuta hakuna anayechepuka kati ya mume na mke. Kimsingi sidhani kama kuna "solution" kwani kuchepuka imekua tabia za watu hasa kadri siku zinavyoenda ndivyo wanandoa wamekuwa kama wanahalalisha hivi uchepukaji. Yaani sasa hivi imekuwa kama fasheni halafu ukiwakuta kwenye makundi wanavyojidanganya eti chepuka huku ukifanya siri sana tena mbali huko mwenzio asijue eti hiyo ndio kumlindia mwenzako heshima ndani ya ndoa. Kikubwa ni kumuomba tu Mungu wewe usichepuke na Mungu akusaidie upate mwenza asiye mchepukaji .
Veeery fact...Hili suala la kuchepuka ndani ya ndoa ni tata sana. Unaweza kuta mume katulia lakini mke moto chini. Ukikuta mke katulia mume moto chini. Saa nyingine unakuta wote moto chini mume na mke ngoma droo wote wachepukaji hapa kidogo hamna shida lakini ndoa ya namna hii haichelewi kuwaacha watoto yatima bila mwangalizi. Mara chache sana kukuta hakuna anayechepuka kati ya mume na mke. Kimsingi sidhani kama kuna "solution" kwani kuchepuka imekua tabia za watu hasa kadri siku zinavyoenda ndivyo wanandoa wamekuwa kama wanahalalisha hivi uchepukaji. Yaani sasa hivi imekuwa kama fasheni halafu ukiwakuta kwenye makundi wanavyojidanganya eti chepuka huku ukifanya siri sana tena mbali huko mwenzio asijue eti hiyo ndio kumlindia mwenzako heshima ndani ya ndoa. Kikubwa ni kumuomba tu Mungu wewe usichepuke na Mungu akusaidie upate mwenza asiye mchepukaji .