What you can do if you are really tired is to bear the costs!There you are, i got you my brother for admitting that the world it's not fair to women when it comes to relationships issues! I think something has to be done we are tired of being the victims!
Take care of your b/friend in need,hire a room for him,pay fees for his college education,give him pocket money,pay dowry,etc,etc .
Then you can talk of "changes!".