mysteryman
JF-Expert Member
- Aug 4, 2011
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How can your current partner be mchumba wako kama hata hujamtambulisha? au ni uchumba ule wa kuvikana pete tu?
Since you are not sure about your feelings for her anymore, just cancel the introduction to your family. That will remove part of the pressure just then. Then take your time to evaluate the situation again.
Just because you have cancelled the introduction does not mean you have to break up. and if you do break up, this does not mean that you have to replace her immediately. and even if you decide to break up with A, and start a relationship with B, this does not mean that you have to marry B. Sio lazima uanze nae pale utakapo ishia na mchumba wako wa sasa. it is a new relation that will come with its challenges as soon as you stop considering her as a replacement.
well said my dia.....muhusika fuata ushauri huu...