c kweli u cant be in love with 2 guys at the same time, naamini yupo umpendaye kwa dhati between those 2, mwingine utakuwa unaangalia features alizo nazo like physical appearance,income,position in society or his job and the like, then wafall in love na hizo features, but real love utakuwa wampenda m1 kati ya hao wawili nawe walifahamu hili fika, ila kinachokutatiza ni picha ya feature uipigayo na hao 2 lovers u have.uamuzi ni wako kuchoose better future 4 ur kids or kuchoose true love of ur life, and trust me usimake mistake ya kufall for material things utajajuta for the rest of ur life.future yatafutwa nanyi nyote, that is what i belive my self.so akili kichwani mwako kwani we ndo muolewaji na challenges za ndoa utazipata wewe sisi wengine ni third parties tu.