Mbu
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- Jan 11, 2007
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..mke wangu alikuwa amepitisha mwezi mzima hataki nimguse popote japo tulikuwa tunalala kitanda kimoja tena akiwa uchi kabisa, anapenda kulala uchi mke wangu. Mimi nilikuwa nahesabu kuwa ni unyanyasaji wa kijinsia, yaani mwanamke analala na mimi uchi, tena ana mapaja na tukunyema nzuri mno nikigusana nae moyo unanienda mbio, lakini jibu lake ni moja tu, 'niache bwana nimechoka!' ...
...nikijaribu kumgusa sehemu zake zile ninazojua za ashki, hushtuka usingizini na kuanza kugomba hadi najuta kwa nini nilimgusa, halafu nakasirika vibaya!
Kama hamjui kuna kutingwa vibaya, basi hayajawakuta, yaani nina mambo mengi mno kichwani humu.
...Mkuu, pole sana ndugu yangu, ...sina la kukusaidia zaidi ya kukuelewesha utambue mkeo yumo naye katika msongo mkubwa wa mawazo. Inahitaji busara kubwa kum handle mkeo katika hali hiyo, kum support hizo phase za mid-life crisis anazopitia kwa sasa.
Kusoma ni kuelimika, nimejaribu ku summarize few quotes (na rangi za kukutahadharisha) kwa nini wanawake wana cheat, huenda nawe ikakupa picha kinachoweza kuja tokea;
Stage 1
Women at Stage 1 feel as though something is missing in their lives.
They view sex as a job. Some women claim they feel violated when their husbands touch them. Their bodies freeze up and they feel tightness in their chest and/or a sick feeling in their stomach.
Stage 2
Women at Stage 2 experience reawakened desire stimulated by an encounter outside the marital relationship. Many women will become negative and sarcastic when speaking of their husbands and their marriages and it is not uncommon for an extramarital affair to follow.
Stage 3
Women at Stage 3 are involved in affairs, ending affairs, or contemplating divorce. Women who are having affairs experience feelings unlike anything they have experienced before. These women are also typically in tremendous pain, the pain of choosing between their husbands and their new love interests. They typically believe that what they are doing is wrong and unfair to their husbands, but yet are unable to end their affairs.
source; Infidelity, Cheating Wives - Women's Infidelity
Stage 4
The women in stage four included those who chose to stay married and continue their affairs and those who chose to divorce. Almost all of the women in this latter category were having affairs with married men. They believed their affairs could continue indefinitely without disrupting either partner's primary relationship.