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Quarter-life crisis
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The
quarterlife crisis is a period of life ranging from twenties to thirties,
[1][2][3] in which a person begins to feel doubtful about their own lives, brought on by the
stress of becoming an
adult. The term was coined by analogy with
midlife crisis.
AspectsEdit
According to
The Boston Globe, the
quarter-life crisis occurs in one's twenties, after entering the "real world".
[4] Erik H. Erikson, who proposed eight crises that humans face during their development, proposed the existence of a life crisis occurring at this age. The conflict he associated with young adulthood is the
Intimacy vs. Isolation crisis. According to him, after establishing a personal identity in adolescence, young adults seek to form intense, usually
romanticrelationships with other people.
[5]
Common symptoms of a quarter life crisis are often feelings of being "lost, scared, lonely or confused" about what steps to take in order to transition properly into adulthood. Studies have shown that unemployment and choosing a career path is a major cause for young persons to undergo stress or anxiety. Early stages of one living on their own for the first time and learning to cope without parental help can also induce feelings of isolation and loneliness.