Marriage (What it is and why we do it)

[Extrovert]

Ila kuongea tu kwa watu kuwa ndoa yangu nzuri au kuelezea uzuri wa ndoa haitoshi kuamini km ndoa yake ni salama, ninaye rafiki wa karibu sana in anatoaga semina za ndoa,,jinsi ya kuishi na Mume/ mke,, kusali pamoja mamb mengi,,na anamotivate hasa,,Sikh zote nasema huyu ndoa yake ni tamu sana,,,Siku moja ananiambia Mara nyingi wananuniana na mume,,wanatengana vyumba Mara kwa Mara,,,mambo kibao ila akiongea unaweza tamani

Hata Chris anaweza kuwa anaongea vile kwakua ni kazi yake,,,

Anataka kutupiga changa yule ili tuingize matatizo ndani. Wengi wamemsanukia anatupiga kabobo..Ndoa ni ngumu usawa huu, ukiwaza ukata, usaliti, ubinafsi, kununiwa, kelele dah. Inahitaji moyo wa chuma

 

[Lazaroj]

Kwani wewe mama yako ameolewa? Na ana watoto?

nafikiri hujanielewa

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[Evelyn Salt]

Hahaha hapo kwa role model hututendei haki hehehe

brain is the beautiful part of the body.

Huyo ndo role model wenu ha ha ha

 

[Extrovert]

Mmmh nyie hata mbaki wawili ndani ya nyumba na mwenzio anaumwa, still utaambiwa "jikaze tu", ilhali mume ni mzima wa afya na yupo tu. Huko kumdekeza mwenzio si ndo mnaita ufilipino?

Aah heaven, ina maana hata mkiwa wawili bado anakukazia tu? Kuna ME wana roho za spana...Mi ukiumwa nakusaidia kiroho safi. Its the only moment you can dog me the way you like.

 

[Heaven Sent]

Akienda namuombea agongwe goti na boda pumbaav 😀
Roho mbaya

Haha mbona utapata tabu kumuuguza tena. Akiwa mzima tu ni kama mkoma, ndo aumie goti sasa weee. Akimbizwe tu na panya road na mapanga ila wasimdhuru [emoji13] [emoji13] [emoji13]

 

[Heaven Sent]

Aah heaven, ina maana hata mkiwa wawili bado anakukazia tu? Kuna ME wana roho za spana...Mi ukiumwa nakusaidia kiroho safi. Its the only moment you can dog me the way you like.

Teh mbona ntaumwa kila siku

 

[Extrovert]

Kubebisha inahitaji masaa mangapi?
Mbona Michepuko tunaibebisha? Tujenge ndoa tuache bla bla

Kidogo tu ila mostly stress ndio zinatufanya tusiwabebishe na uchovu wa shughuli. Ila naamini kama ukijitoa na kusema "baba J naomba nikusaidie kupunguza bills hizi na zile walau tuweze kupata time ya kuinjoy wote pamoja muda mwingi" sidhani kama kuna kidume atachomoa hapo!

 

[Extrovert]

Teh mbona ntaumwa kila siku

Hahahahah ndio hapo tu ukauzu naweka kando, ila ukiwa mzima ni sera za urusi tu! Siezi fanya majukumu yasiohusiana na kukubebisha bila sababu!

 

[mojave]

Huyo ndo role model wenu ha ha ha

Hehe

brain is the beautiful part of the body.

 

[Joseverest]

Umeshaweka akilini kuwa wanawake wote viburi. Hayo maperuvian kama huyapendi kwanini umchukue mwanamke wa hivyo? Duniani kuna wanawake wa aina mbali.mbali. nenda kwa yule unayeona anafaa. Mbona wapo !!! Usigeneralize vitu...watu hawafanani

Aisee na wewe usigeneralize wanaume wote wabaya

 

[Joseverest]

Kweli kabisa, na hawa Wanaume ngozi nyeusi wasivopenda kuambiwa ukweli, role model wao ni yule "mimi sipangiwi"

Mmh

 

[GEBA2013]

Mke akinuna unafanya marekebisho kuondoa huo mnuno, sio akinuna nawe unanuna, unaenda kucheka na washkaji bar hao sio wake zako

Kazi Sna,hi Tabia Yawanawake Kununanuna Inanikera Sna Tna Sna Kila Jambo Kununa Tu,sometime Huwa Nafikia Ukomo Wakufikiri Wakusema Hakuna Maana Yakuoa Nibora Kuwapeke Yako,kuliko Mauzi Ya Wanawake

 

[gilldenu]

Mmezoea kuongea negative tu kuhusu ndoa, Ndio maana mauki anasifia mnamuona sio.

Sister uyo mauki yupo mtandao gani eti???

LOVE ABOVE ALL[emoji173]

 

[Heaven Sent]

Tena siku hizi hizo Habari ni nyingi jaman. Ukipata kuona photoshoots za maharusii uwiiiiii wanapendeza,wananoga..watafute afta 6months balaa jinamizi kashaingia.
Wanawake wengine wanakuwa desperate mpaka unawaonea huruma

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Haha nyie fantasy za "harusi" ni tamuuuu. Baada ya muda jini mkata kamba huyooooooo

 

[Extrovert]

Kazi Sna,hi Tabia Yawanawake Kununanuna Inanikera Sna Tna Sna Kila Jambo Kununa Tu,sometime Huwa Nafikia Ukomo Wakufikiri Wakusema Hakuna Maana Yakuoa Nibora Kuwapeke Yako,kuliko Mauzi Ya Wanawake

Wazoee hao...mi nakula tizi lakununiwa ili nikioa niwe nishakula black belt.

 

[Heart]

dua la kuku hilo halmpati mweeeeweee

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Unaonesha ni womaniser mfyuuuuuuu

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[Heaven Sent]

Ila kuongea tu kwa watu kuwa ndoa yangu nzuri au kuelezea uzuri wa ndoa haitoshi kuamini km ndoa yake ni salama, ninaye rafiki wa karibu sana in anatoaga semina za ndoa,,jinsi ya kuishi na Mume/ mke,, kusali pamoja mamb mengi,,na anamotivate hasa,,Sikh zote nasema huyu ndoa yake ni tamu sana,,,Siku moja ananiambia Mara nyingi wananuniana na mume,,wanatengana vyumba Mara kwa Mara,,,mambo kibao ila akiongea unaweza tamani

Hata Chris anaweza kuwa anaongea vile kwakua ni kazi yake,,,

Na kwa nini tuassume kuwa anaongea tu kwa kuwa ni kazi yake? Hakunaga ndoa nzuri? Afu sidhani kama ashawahi kusema ndoa yake ni salama, anasemaga tu hata wao wana changamoto. Of coz ina changamoto zake kama ambavyo mahusiano yoyote yalivyo, but hiyo haifuti mazuri mengi ya ndoa yake na ameamua kustick na hiyo +ve side zaidi, tatizo ni nini? Afu sometimes mtu anaweza akakushauri kitu not because ndoa yake ni perfect, ila maybe anapitia/amepitia or ameona mwingine alivyosolve changamoto fulani. Huyo rafiki ako hata kama ana changamoto, just sikiliza ushauri wake kama unakufaa. Mfano Ameshauri kusali kwa pamoja, je ni kitu kibaya wanandoa kusali kwa pamoja? Hata kama yeye hafanyi as long as ni kitu chenye faida kwako, kwa nini usikifanye kama inawezekana?. Tatizo ni kwamba tunatamani tusikiage tu mabaya ya ndoa za watu, maybe inatufariji kuwa sio peke yetu "tunaodumu". Maana mtu akiisifia tu ndoa yake, lazima tuone anapretend, mmh unaweza tu kuhisi ndoa nyingi ni za aina gani kama haziamini kuna ndoa nzuri.

 

[Lazaroj]

Unaonesha ni womaniser mfyuuuuuuu

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tuliaaaa wewe

 

[Manchris Jbisd]

Ndoa sio mbaya, hakuna kitu ambacho Mungu alikitengeneza afu akakiona ni kibaya,; vyote alivyovitengeneza Mungu ni vyema machoni pake including ndoa. Na hakuna taasisi ambayo Mungu ameiheshimisha kama ndoa. Ndo maana hata akaufananisha uhusiano wa mume na mke, na uhusiano wa Kristo na Kanisa. Sisi wanandoa ndo tunaijitahidi kuidharaulisha na kuitukanisha ndoa kutokana na matendo yetu. Angalau hata kina Chris wa najitahidi kuonesha kuwa pamoja na chagamoto zote, still Ndoa ni kitu chema sana, so tushirikiane kuzipa uhai ndoa zetu.

Nimekuelewa, but help me out with something. Please
Kwa namna gani tushirikiane kuzipa uhai? I mean, umejiuliza kwanza why ndoa needs maintenance, in the first place? Why cant it just be smooth? There must be something we are doing wrong. Trust me, the things people going through kwenye marriage ni so devastating kiasi kwamba kunaathiri the rest of the parts of life.
So please, enlighten me, kama mtoa mada; what is it? Why is it important? And why should we keep fighting for that.

 

[Evelyn Salt]

Kazi Sna,hi Tabia Yawanawake Kununanuna Inanikera Sna Tna Sna Kila Jambo Kununa Tu,sometime Huwa Nafikia Ukomo Wakufikiri Wakusema Hakuna Maana Yakuoa Nibora Kuwapeke Yako,kuliko Mauzi Ya Wanawake

Hata wanaume wananuna mbona teh