Kusamahe: Kuna mengine huwa hayasameheki?

[kaburungu]

Kusamehe siwezi........
Kuna mtu alinikosea sana cku nikimsamehe basi sumu itahusika

Tinna Tina pls usifanye hivo kabisa. Yan samehe kiroho safi kabisa.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

It depends....

To me forgiveness requires penitence.

If you show/ express suitable penitence for what you've done wrong to me then I'd feel the need to forgive you.

But I can't forgive you just for the sake of it. I may forget you. But that doesn't mean I've forgiven you.

 

[KIKUNGU]

KIKUNGU jifunze haya...yatakusaidia..

ukisamehe haina maana umekubali kilichotokea kuwa na sahihi
kusamehe sometimes ni ku let go.....
kusamehe pia ni kujisamehe wewe mwenyewe

sababu mahusiano yaki collapse haliwezi kuwa kosa la mtu mmoja 100 percent

mahusiano ya wawili yaki collapse basi wote kwa namna moja au nyingine mmechangia kufika hapo

hata kile kitendo cha wewe kuingia tu kwenye mahusiano na mtu huyo ni 'kosa' lako pia..
ambalo unapaswa kujisamehe na kumsamehe ,mwenzio...

halafu love inapaswa kuwa free...usiwe unatazama uliyomfanyia kama vile alipaswa kukushukuru au kuyathamini,,
yote uliyomfanyia uliyafanya kwa sababu ya love in your heart.....na sio necessary ya love uliyopewa...

to love is to give.....so ulimpenda na uliyafanya yote........hupaswi kugeuza deni au kudai 'kushukuriwa'

The Boss,we acha tu,namshukuru mungu aisee hata kufikia kukubali kuwa nimeshamehe,mungu ni wa ajabu sana

 

[The Boss]

It depends....

To me forgiveness requires penitence.

If you show/ express suitable penitence for what you've done wrong to me then I'd feel the need to forgive you.

But I just can't forgive you just for the sake of it. I may forget you. But that doesn't mean I've forgiven you.

What if huyo mtu anaona hajafanya anything wrong?
au na yeye anaona wewe ndio uko wrong na unatakiwa umuombe msamaha..
yaani both of you mko mnaamini mko right na mwenzio ndo yuko wrong?

 

[KIKUNGU]

Kusamehe hakutoshi tu bali mtihani wa pili ni kusahau...

Namshukuru mungu,nilianza na kusahau ,watu8

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

What if huyo mtu anaona hajafanya anything wrong?
au na yeye anaona wewe ndio uko wrong na unatakiwa umuombe msamaha..
yaani both of you mko mnaamini mko right na mwenzio ndo yuko wrong?

In such a scenario, where those two divergent viewpoints offset each other....

I say let the stalemate continue!

 

[The Boss]

In such a scenario, where those two divergent viewpoints offset each other....

I say let the stalemate continue!

stalemate ikiendelea not healthy
halafu in life sio kila unaekutana nae awe the way unavyotaka
inabidi ukubali watu wengine wako tofauti...una let go....
faida za kufahamiana na watu zinaendelea mfano wa KIKUNGU amezaa na huyo mwanamke
for the kids 'sake wanatakiwa kusameheana angalau waweze kuongea yanayowahusu watoto freely...

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

stalemate ikiendelea not healthy

Not healthy per who? Because some of us are wired very differently.

halafu in life sio kila unaekutana nae awe the way unavyotaka

I ain't got no argument there.

inabidi ukubali watu wengine wako tofauti...una let go....

True that! And you can let go without apologizing especially if in your heart of hearts you believe you didn't do anything wrong.

faida za kufahamiana na watu zinaendelea mfano wa KIKUNGU amezaa na huyo mwanamke

But every situation has its own set of unique facts.

for the kids 'sake wanatakiwa kusameheana angalau waweze kuongea yanayowahusu watoto freely...

Kama wote wahusika wakiridhia kusameheana, sioni shida. Acha tu wasameheane.

 

[UPOPO]

KIKUNGU jifunze haya...yatakusaidia..

ukisamehe haina maana umekubali kilichotokea kuwa na sahihi
kusamehe sometimes ni ku let go.....
kusamehe pia ni kujisamehe wewe mwenyewe

sababu mahusiano yaki collapse haliwezi kuwa kosa la mtu mmoja 100 percent

mahusiano ya wawili yaki collapse basi wote kwa namna moja au nyingine mmechangia kufika hapo

hata kile kitendo cha wewe kuingia tu kwenye mahusiano na mtu huyo ni 'kosa' lako pia..
ambalo unapaswa kujisamehe na kumsamehe ,mwenzio...

halafu love inapaswa kuwa free...usiwe unatazama uliyomfanyia kama vile alipaswa kukushukuru au kuyathamini,,
yote uliyomfanyia uliyafanya kwa sababu ya love in your heart.....na sio necessary ya love uliyopewa...

to love is to give.....so ulimpenda na uliyafanya yote........hupaswi kugeuza deni au kudai 'kushukuriwa'

nimejifunza kitu ubarikiwe ndugu

 

[The Boss]

Not healthy per who? Because some of us are wired very differently.



I ain't got no argument there.



True that! And you can let go without apologizing especially if in your heart of hearts you believe you didn't do anything wrong.



But every situation has its own set of unique facts.



Kama wote wahusika wakiridhia kusameheana, sioni shida. Acha tu wasameheane.

Wakina Botha hadi wanakufa waliamini kabisa hakuna kosa walilolifanya kumfunga Mandela
na kuweka ubaguzi..
but Mandela hadi kumzika Botha alienda kumzika na kasamehe......hapo unaona faida ya kuwa na a big heart...

 

[KIKUNGU]

stalemate ikiendelea not healthy
halafu in life sio kila unaekutana nae awe the way unavyotaka
inabidi ukubali watu wengine wako tofauti...una let go....
faida za kufahamiana na watu zinaendelea mfano wa KIKUNGU amezaa na huyo mwanamke
for the kids 'sake wanatakiwa kusameheana angalau waweze kuongea yanayowahusu watoto freely...

Yeah haswa mtu kama umeshare damu ndio mtihani kwani mnawaambiaje watoto wewe kuelewa hasa wakiwa bado wadogo

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Wakina Botha hadi wanakufa waliamini kabisa hakuna kosa walilolifanya kumfunga Mandela
na kuweka ubaguzi..

Sasa kama waliamini hivyo tatizo liko wapi? Manake imani ya mtu ni imani ya mtu. Si wengine hatuwezi kufanya lolote juu ya hilo.

Ni kama tu wale wanaoamini mungu kupitia dini na madhehebu mbalimbali. Ni mtu tu mwenyewe mwenye uwezo wa kubadili imani yake kwani mara nyingi kama si zote, imani ni fikra zinazoelea tu akilini kwa mtu.

but Mandela hadi kumzika Botha alienda kumzika na kasamehe......hapo unaona faida ya kuwa na a big heart...

Sasa faida hapo iko wapi? Na iko kwa nani?

 

[Watu8]

Kusamehe siwezi........
Kuna mtu alinikosea sana cku nikimsamehe basi sumu itahusika

Itabidi nihamishie hii biashara yangu yya sumu hapo mtaani kwenu...

 

[The Boss]

Sasa kama waliamini hivyo tatizo liko wapi? Manake imani ya mtu ni imani ya mtu. Si wengine hatuwezi kufanya lolote juu ya hilo.

Ni kama tu wale wanaoamini mungu kupitia dini na madhehebu mbalimbali. Ni mtu tu mwenyewe mwenye uwezo wa kubadili imani yake kwani mara nyingi kama si zote, imani ni fikra zinazoelea tu akilini kwa mtu.



Sasa faida hapo iko wapi? Na iko kwa nani?

faida ipo kwa wananchi wao wakiwa kama leaders..kusamehe kwa Mandela kumeunganisha watu wa rangi zote
na wewe inaweza kukuhusu katika level ya kifamilia....faida kwa watoto

huo ni mfano tu

 

[Kongosho]

nilitaka kujua hilo.

Kila mtu ana tafsiri yake ya msamaha, mwingine ili aone mmesameheana ni mawasiliano ya.mara kwa mara.

Mie kuna mtu alinikwaza miaka ya zamani, it took me mwaka.na.nusu kumsamehe na kumsemesha tena.
Kama waswahili wasemavyo, mbwa ukimjua jina hakusumbui, kwa kuwa nishamjua.guts zake, and how far anaweza kwenda naishi naye very strategic.

Nawasiliana naye mara moja moja, na mashirikiana naye kwa mambo kadhaa tu, utadhani si ndugu kivile.

Kwa nini nilimsamehe wakati hata hakuniomba msamaha? Ni wa muhimu kwangu bila kujali mchango wake kwangu.

Kuna mtu mwingine anakuumiza kwa kusudi tu, sababu anajua huna guts za kulipa kisasi. Mtu kama huyo kaa naye mbali.

Kuna watu wengine hata kama unawasamehe, weka mpaka wa mahusiano sababu watakuumiza kila wasaa wanaoupata. Ukishamjua mtu uasumbui.

Nilidhani una moyo wa kanisa, umrudie muendeleze familia. Lakini kwa mtizamo wangu lazima uwe na mahusiano ya karibu na wanao hata kama nyie wazazi ni paka na chui.

Ha ha ha ha wewe Kongosho wewe,no i have moved on.Mawasiliano ya mara kwa mara hasa issues za watoto

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

faida ipo kwa wananchi wao wakiwa kama leaders..kusamehe kwa Mandela kumeunganisha watu wa rangi zote
na wewe inaweza kukuhusu katika level ya kifamilia....faida kwa watoto

huo ni mfano tu

Context is everything Bossman!

Huyo huyo Mandela mbona hakumsamehe Winnie baada ya kugundua kuwa alikuwa anatombwa na vijana wadogo kabisa?

Si angemsamehe tu waendelee kuishi kama mke na mume....

 

[The Boss]

Context is everything Bossman!

Huyo huyo Mandela mbona hakumsamehe Winnie baada ya kugundua kuwa alikuwa anatombwa na vijana wadogo kabisa?

Si angemsamehe tu waendelee kuishi kama mke na mume....

Nimejikuta nacheka tu.....

alimsamehe ila hakutaka mahisiano ya mke na mume...yaendelee but alisamehe

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Nimejikuta nacheka tu.....

alimsamehe ila hakutaka mahisiano ya mke na mume...yaendelee but alisamehe

Hahaaaa sasa ndo kusamehe gani huko?

Kwa nini sasa hakutaka waendelee kuwa mume na mke kama kweli alimsamehe kwa moyo mmoja?

Halafu kuna sehemu ambapo yeye Mandela alikiri kuwa alimsamehe? Unacho chanzo? Nitashukuru kama ukinipatia ili nami nijionee alichokisema.

 

[The Boss]

Hahaaaa sasa ndo kusamehe gani huko?

Kwa nini sasa hakutaka waendelee kuwa mume na mke kama kweli alimsamehe kwa moyo mmoja?

Halafu kuna sehemu ambapo yeye Mandela alikiri kuwa alimsamehe? Unacho chanzo? Nitashukuru kama ukinipatia ili nami nijionee alichokisema.

Nimesahau source but alisema kasamehe.....

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Nimesahau source but alisema kasamehe.....

Poa, siku ukiikumbuka nitaarifu basi....