Kufiwa!

Papa Mopao · Jul 30, 2011

Samahani kwa yeyote nitakayemkwaza kwa hii mada lakini ni sehemu ya kubadilishana mawazo:
Ni hivi; Mtu anapofiwa kuna mawili, moja ni kulia tena kwa machozi, nyingine kulia kimya kimya machozi hayatoki. Sasa kuna watu wakifiwa na mtu wao wa karibu kabisa, kila wakijaribu walie kwa machozi hawafanikiwi, hao tuseme wana kasoro ama kuna jambo lingine linalowasumbua?

Meritta · Jul 30, 2011

mh, ijawahi kunitokea hiyo

Maayo · Jul 30, 2011

Sijawah ona.

The Boss · Jul 30, 2011

Yaani sipendi wale wanaojiliza kwa kupiga kelele
na kuongea maneno mengii huku wanalia.....

Hata kama mna uchungu,kulia kwa adabu pia....

SHERRIF ARPAIO · Jul 30, 2011

Papa Mopao said:
Samahani kwa yeyote nitakayemkwaza kwa hii mada lakini ni sehemu ya kubadilishana mawazo:
Ni hivi; Mtu anapofiwa kuna mawili, moja ni kulia tena kwa machozi, nyingine kulia kimya kimya machozi hayatoki. Sasa kuna watu wakifiwa na mtu wao wa karibu kabisa, kila wakijaribu walie kwa machozi hawafanikiwi, hao tuseme wana kasoro ama kuna jambo lingine linalowasumbua?

Emotional grieving can differ from one person to another or from one society to another. Some of us may weep openly i.e. crying while shouting or even singing. On the other end there are those who may just appear stone-faced while deeply hurt/weep inside.
In some societies (mine included) men are not supposed to show their emotions, cry or weep in the open as it's considered a sign of weakness. so hakuna kasoro mkuu papaaa batu banalia machozi bamutu wakati wowote.

AshaDii · Jul 30, 2011

Personally msiba uloniumiza kuliko yooote maishani mwangu... ilinichukua
saa nzima nimeketi na niktafakari ile habari ... na kujaribu kuimeza... then
ndio nililia.... cha ajabu huku watu wamenizunguka wakilia kwa mayowe...
naona it is my own way of dealing... lakini si kwamba ni tatizo...
For tumetofautiana extremes za kutoa ule uchungu wa kufiwa....

The Boss · Jul 30, 2011

Kuna wengine ni attention seekers
wakiona watu wengi....
Mfano badala ya mtu kulilia chumbani akiwa amekaa

anakwenda kwenye dirisha linalotazama nje kwenye watu

halafu anaanza maaaaaa maa weeee
siaaaamini umetutokaaaaa
tutakwendaaa wapiii sieeeeee

wananiudhi hao,basi tu..

PakaJimmy · Jul 30, 2011

Nina mfano wa mzee aliyefariki siku ya mazishi ya mwanae mpendwa. Mzee huyu hakuonekana kulia kabisa baada ya kupata habari za msiba wa mwanae, lakini wakati wa mazishi akiwa amesimama kaburini alianguka na ikawa ndio mwisho wa maisha yake.
Wanafamilia wakaanzisha msiba mpya!

AshaDii · Jul 30, 2011

PakaJimmy said:
Nina mfano wa mzee aliyefariki siku ya mazishi ya mwanae mpendwa. Mzee huyu hakuonekana kulia kabisa baada ya kupata habari za msiba wa mwanae, lakini wakati wa mazishi akiwa amesimama kaburini alianguka na ikawa ndio mwisho wa maisha yake.
Wanafamilia wakaanzisha msiba mpya!

Mungu wangu!!! Hii mbaya... masikini huyo mama ambae hapo hapo ni mke.... Dah!

MwanajamiiOne · Jul 30, 2011

Na mtu anayeshindwa kulia kwa msiba wa mtu wake wa karibu mara nyingi huwa anaumia sana. Mimi nilishuhudia Mdada aliyefiwa na dadake (waliyeshare baba) yule mdada hakulia na alikuwa support kubwa kwa ndugu zake wengine kiasi kwamba kila mtu alikuwa anashangaa........shughuli ilikuwa siku ya arubaini (wenyewe wanasema kugawa mali za marahemu)........watu tulijua tunayaanika tena majamvi!

So si kweli kuwa ana matatizo au msiba hauja muuma, ni namna tu mtu anavyoreact kwenye maumivu

King’asti · Jul 30, 2011

khabari yake attention seekers banaa! skiza hii: ndugu yangu kanipigia abt msiba.nikashangaa imekuwaje?akanipa umbea wa marehemu toka kuzaliwa kwake hadi kufa though marehemu was 30yrs older than us.tukapitiana,tunaingia msibani anaendeleza umbea wa ku-identify wahanga wa marehemu hadi nikawa uncomfortable! dah,ile tunaingia ndani mi nikamsalimia mjane, naona mwenzangu ananiangukia na kilio!nilimkwepa haraka,nikatoka zangu nje.kamaliza drama zake kaja nje,si anaanza kuniambia 'yule alovaa kanga za pink pale ndani etc",nikasema huyu si alitaka kukata roho mle ndani,kumbe ka-absorb picha nzima?lolo! kwa kweli kuna drama queens!

The Boss said:
Kuna wengine ni attention seekers 
wakiona watu wengi.... 
Mfano badala ya mtu kulilia chumbani akiwa amekaa 
 
anakwenda kwenye dirisha linalotazama nje kwenye watu 
 
halafu anaanza maaaaaa maa weeee 
siaaaamini umetutokaaaaa 
tutakwendaaa wapiii sieeeeee 
 
wananiudhi hao,basi tu..

Desidii · Jul 31, 2011

Mie nilifiwa na mwanangu nimemshika kaniita Mama mara tatu na akafariki u can't imagine sikushituka wala kulia but nilivofika home ndo nikaamini kuwa hayupo break ya kwanza hospital na drip juu unajua unakuwa na shock na Mungu anakupa nguvu za ajabu unaweza.

afrodenzi · Jul 31, 2011

kila mtu ana njia tofauti ya kuomboleza...

wasiotoa chozi nje wanayatoa ndani..
si lazima kudondosha chozi.....

ni bora anaelia kuliko anaeshikilia ..

afrodenzi · Jul 31, 2011

Desidii said:
Mie nilifiwa na mwanangu nimemshika kaniita Mama mara tatu na akafariki u can't imagine sikushituka wala kulia but nilivofika home ndo nikaamini kuwa hayupo break ya kwanza hospital na drip juu unajua unakuwa na shock na Mungu anakupa nguvu za ajabu unaweza.

dahhhh
Pole sana ......

MwanajamiiOne · Jul 31, 2011

Desidii said:
Mie nilifiwa na mwanangu nimemshika kaniita Mama mara tatu na akafariki u can't imagine sikushituka wala kulia but nilivofika home ndo nikaamini kuwa hayupo break ya kwanza hospital na drip juu unajua unakuwa na shock na Mungu anakupa nguvu za ajabu unaweza.

...........Desidii........pole sana mpenzi!.

Yericko Nyerere · Jul 31, 2011

Papa Mopao said:
Samahani kwa yeyote nitakayemkwaza kwa hii mada lakini ni sehemu ya kubadilishana mawazo:
Ni hivi; Mtu anapofiwa kuna mawili, moja ni kulia tena kwa machozi, nyingine kulia kimya kimya machozi hayatoki. Sasa kuna watu wakifiwa na mtu wao wa karibu kabisa, kila wakijaribu walie kwa machozi hawafanikiwi, hao tuseme wana kasoro ama kuna jambo lingine linalowasumbua?

nimefungua haraka kweli sikusoma vizuri heading nikatafsiri tofauti!

Papa Mopao · Jul 31, 2011

Ni kweli kuna hilo jambo, wapo watu wa aina hiyo, sijui mioyo migumu ila nadhan Mungu anawafanya wawe imara pale penye wakati mgumu! Nakubaliana na wewe juu ya hilo!

Papa Mopao · Jul 31, 2011

AfroDensi! Dah kulia kwa ndani aisee yahitaji moyo! Sasa kwa mtu wa aina hiyo afanyeje machozi yatoke?

Papa Mopao · Jul 31, 2011

Jason bourne said:
nimefungua haraka kweli sikusoma vizuri heading nikatafsiri tofauti!

Dah pole sana mzee!

Papa Mopao · Jul 31, 2011

Desidii said:
Mie nilifiwa na mwanangu nimemshika kaniita Mama mara tatu na akafariki u can't imagine sikushituka wala kulia but nilivofika home ndo nikaamini kuwa hayupo break ya kwanza hospital na drip juu unajua unakuwa na shock na Mungu anakupa nguvu za ajabu unaweza.

Pole sana dada yangu!

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