Kuchukiwa pasipo sababu...

Kiziza · Dec 30, 2011

Hivi ni kweli kwamba kuna mtu anakuwa anachukiwa bila sababu,yaani kwamba kazaliwa tu hivyo.

Acha ile hali ya kawaida kwa mwanadamu
kuwa hawezi kupendwa na wote,hata manabii hawakupendwa na wote.

Lakini kuna ile unakuta mtu popote anapokuwepo inatokea hapendwi yaani iwe chuoni,ofisini au kwenye jamii kwa ujumla.

Sasa je ni kweli kuna kitu kama hicho yaani mtu anakuwa tu hapendwi?Au muhusika anakuwa ndio sababu ya yeye kuchukiwa kwa sababu mbalimbali ikiwepo tabia n.k?

Nimeshawahi kusikia neno ...damu ya kunguni...,utasikia fulani ana damu ya kunguni anachukiwa tu bila sababu,ni kweli???

Viol · Dec 30, 2011

Mkuu kuna watu yaani damu haziendani,unakuta sio wewe tu au hata wengine,au unakuta kuna familia watu wanaikwepa.
kuna kaukweli

Gaijin · Dec 30, 2011

Siamini kuzaliwa na "Bahati ya kuchukiwa bila sababu"

Hakuna hicho wala kitu "damu haziendani" kwangu.

Anaekuchukia ana sababu japo ziso msingi na inawezekana mwenyewe hazijui tu

Viol · Dec 30, 2011

Gaijin said:
Siamini kuzaliwa na "Bahati ya kuchukiwa bila sababu"

Hakuna hicho wala kitu "damu haziendani" kwangu.

Anaekuchukia ana sababu japo ziso msingi na inawezekana mwenyewe hazijui tu

Gaijin ipo sana tu labda we hujawahi kuona,usijiangalie wewe angalia familia zinazokuzunguka

Roulette · Dec 30, 2011

Kuchukiwa bila sababu? Sidhani kwa kweli.
Kama mtu anachukiwa constantly basi kuna kitu toka kwake (attitude, character, etc) kinamfanya achukiwe. akibadili hicho kitu ataona mambo yake yanabadilika pia.

Gaijin · Dec 30, 2011

Excellent said:
Gaijin ipo sana tu labda we hujawahi kuona,usijiangalie wewe angalia familia zinazokuzunguka

Mie sijakutana nayo hiyo kwa hata familia zilizonizunguka.

Mi nadhani ni mitizamo tu, vitu ukiviangalia kwa jicho fulani ndio hivyo hivyo vinavyokuwa

Nyani Ngabu · Dec 30, 2011

Kisaikolojia hii inaelezewa na dhana ya projection.

Unaweza kudhani kila aliyekuzunguka hakupendi wakati huenda wewe mwenyewe ndiyo hujipendi na huko kutokujipenda ndiyo kunapelekea udhani kuwa watu hawakupendi.

Au unaona kama vile umezungukwa na watu wachoyo kumbe ukweli wa mambo wewe mwenyewe ndiyo mchoyo ila hujijui tu!

Viol · Dec 30, 2011

RussianRoulette said:
Kuchukiwa bila sababu? Sidhani kwa kweli.
Kama mtu anachukiwa constantly basi kuna kitu toka kwake (attitude, character, etc) kinamfanya achukiwe. akibadili hicho kitu ataona mambo yake yanabadilika pia.

Hivi unachukia tabia za mtu kutokana na kukosana naye au hata usipokosana naye bado utachukia tabia zake?

Viol · Dec 30, 2011

Gaijin said:
Mie sijakutana nayo hiyo kwa hata familia zilizonizunguka.

Mi nadhani ni mitizamo tu, vitu ukiviangalia kwa jicho fulani ndio hivyo hivyo vinavyokuwa

umeficha ukweli,ila nakuja na swali

Prof Griff · Dec 30, 2011

I believe it has a lot to do with general demeanor and attitude. Some people apparently appear to have a negative vibe about them regardless. That being said, who doesn't have a story of feeling hated for all the wrong reasons at one or another occasion?

Gaijin · Dec 30, 2011

Excellent said:
umeficha ukweli,ila nakuja na swali

Unakaribishwa

Gaijin · Dec 30, 2011

Ndjabu Da Dude said:
That being said, who doesn't have a story of feeling hated for all the wrong reasons at one or another occasion?

Mie sina

AshaDii · Dec 30, 2011

Mara nyingi mtu ambae anasema kua anachukiwa bila sababu ni tu kwamba hataki face facts kua kuna sababu zimefanya achukiwe, hizo zaweza kua sababu za msingi ama za kijinga, Lakini siamini kua kuna kuchukiwa bila sababu.... Why mtu out of No where akuchukie alafu ujustify kua umechukiwa bila sababu? Sometimes it is good kujitazama upya kupata jibu.... You may not like the truth thou....

Ave Ave Maria · Dec 30, 2011

Hakuna kitu kama hicho! Mtu anayesema anachukiwa bila sababu jaribu kumchunguza yeye ama wanaomchukia.........lazima kuna sababu tu!!!

Mtambuzi · Dec 30, 2011

Haiwezekani kila mtu awe ni mbaya kwako, kila mtu anakuchukia, wewe tu, kila mtu hakutendei haki, kila mtu ana kasoro?
Je wewe ndivyo unavyoishi hivi? Kama jibu ni ndiyo au kama una mtu wako wa karibu ambaye anaishi katika mtindo huu wa maisha, unapaswa kujua kwamba, una mtu ambaye ana matatizo makubwa.

Kwa nini?

Ni kwa sababu haiwezekani kila mtu akawa kama mwingine, yaani akikuchukia huyu na yule ni lazima atakuchukia, ni lazima hatakutendea haki na mengine ya aina hiyo. Kwa nini sasa wote wawe na tabia za aina moja, yaani wafikie kukuchukia?

Kwa kuwa watu hawafanani kitabia, kimwenendo na kimtazamo, ni wazi ukiona wote wanakuchukia wewe, tatizo haliko kwao, kwa sababu hawawezi wote kuwa na mkabala wa aina moja. Ina maana kwamba wewe ndiye ambaye hujipendi na kutojipenda kwako kunaonekana kwa watu hao.

Tunaposhindwa kujipenda, hasira dhidi yetu huwa tunazitolea kwa watu waliotuzunguka. Kwa hiyo kama unahisi kwamba watu wanakuchukia, jitahidi kujiuliza kuhusu jambo hilo. Ni wazi haliwezi kuwa jambo la kweli hata kidogo. Kama ni kuchukiwa, hivi inawezekana ukachukiwa na kila mtu kweli?

Kiziza · Dec 30, 2011

Excellent said:
Mkuu kuna watu yaani damu haziendani,unakuta sio wewe tu au hata wengine,au unakuta kuna familia watu wanaikwepa.
kuna kaukweli

Hivi kumbe ni kweli da!! Nichangamoto kubwa.

Kiziza · Dec 30, 2011

Gaijin said:
Siamini kuzaliwa na "Bahati ya kuchukiwa bila sababu"

Hakuna hicho wala kitu "damu haziendani" kwangu.

Anaekuchukia ana sababu japo ziso msingi na inawezekana mwenyewe hazijui tu

Ni kweli sasa unakuta hakuna wa kumueleza muhusika ukweli na anaishia kuona watu wanamchukia.

Kiziza · Dec 30, 2011

RussianRoulette said:
Kuchukiwa bila sababu? Sidhani kwa kweli.
Kama mtu anachukiwa constantly basi kuna kitu toka kwake (attitude, character, etc) kinamfanya achukiwe. akibadili hicho kitu ataona mambo yake yanabadilika pia.[/
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Ni kweli sema unakuta mtu mwingine anajiona yeye yuko sahihi na wengine ndio wenye problem.

Kiziza · Dec 30, 2011

Nyani Ngabu said:
Kisaikolojia hii inaelezewa na dhana ya projection.

Unaweza kudhani kila aliyekuzunguka hakupendi wakati huenda wewe mwenyewe ndiyo hujipendi na huko kutokujipenda ndiyo
kunapelekea udhani kuwa watu hawakupendi.

Au unaona kama vile umezungukwa na watu wachoyo kumbe ukweli wa mambo wewe mwenyewe ndiyo mchoyo ila hujijui tu!

kweli matokeo yake mtu anaanza kuhisi watu wanamuona vile anavyojiona.

Kiziza · Dec 30, 2011

AshaDii said:
Mara nyingi mtu ambae anasema kua anachukiwa bila sababu ni tu kwamba hataki face facts kua kuna sababu zimefanya achukiwe, hizo zaweza kua sababu za msingi ama za kijinga, Lakini siamini kua kuna kuchukiwa bila sababu.... Why mtu out of No where akuchukie alafu ujustify kua umechukiwa bila sababu? Sometimes it is good kujitazama upya kupata jibu.... You may not like the truth thou....

Ni kweli na kuna aina ya watu unakuta anafahamu kabisa ni nini kinafanya watu wamuone hivyo lakini anakuwa na ile attitude ya kutokujali na anaendelea kuumiza wenzake.

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