Kiburi chake kinampoza sasa, anaomba poooo

Kiburi chake kinampoza sasa, anaomba poooo

at that point nilikuwa sijamaster dark code,hisia zilikuwa zinaniendesha at that time natumia logic,hisia pembeni
Sawa.

Sasa hao watoto inakuwaje mkuu?

Mtawaleaje kwa ugomvi huu?

Na mfano, unaposema humpi pesa huyo mama yao, watoto wanafanyaje hapo, wanakula vipi, wanahudumiwaje mambo ya kila siku hapo?

Mkiachana itakuwaje, utabaki na watoto au watoto atabaki nao yeye?

Akibaki nao yeye utampatia pesa ya matunzo ya watoto?
 
THE 15 DARK CODE COMMANDMENTS
01. NEVER LOSE YOURSELF Usijipoteze kwa sababu ya mwanamke. Utambulisho wako, malengo yako na heshima yako vinabaki kuwa vya kwako.
02. TRUST IS EARNED Usimwamini mtu kwa maneno matamu pekee. Uaminifu hujengwa kwa matendo yanayojirudia.
03. NEVER IGNORE RED FLAGS Usipuuze tabia zinazokuumiza kwa sababu tu unampenda mtu.
04. ACTIONS OVER WORDS Maneno yanaweza kudanganya. Matendo ya muda mrefu yanaonyesha tabia halisi ya mtu.
05. NEVER BEG FOR LOVE Usilazimishe mtu akupende, akuheshimu au abaki nawe. Mapenzi ya kweli yanahitaji hiari ya wote wawili.
06. SET YOUR BOUNDARIES Jua unachokubali na usichokubali. Mipaka yako isiwe tishio; iwe mwongozo wa jinsi utakavyoishi.
07. NEVER FINANCE YOUR OWN DESTRUCTION Usiharibu maisha yako ya kifedha ili kuthibitisha mapenzi yako. Saidia kwa uwezo wako, si kwa presha.
08. DO NOT TRY TO FIX EVERYONE Wewe si mwokozi wa kila mtu. Unaweza kusaidia, lakini huwezi kumbadilisha mtu asiyetaka kubadilika.
09. NEVER CONFUSE BEAUTY WITH CHARACTER Muonekano huvutia macho, lakini tabia ndiyo huamua ubora wa uhusiano.
10. CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS Usifanye maamuzi makubwa ukiwa na hasira, wivu au maumivu. Utulivu ni nguvu.
11. NEVER ABANDON YOUR MISSION Usiache malengo yako, kazi yako na maendeleo yako kwa sababu ya uhusiano.
12. RECIPROCITY IS THE RULE Usiwe mtu pekee anayejitahidi. Uhusiano mzuri unahitaji juhudi, mawasiliano na kujali kutoka pande zote mbili.
13. NEVER TOLERATE REPEATED DISRESPECT Mazungumzo yanaweza kutatua makosa. Lakini tabia ya kuumizana inayojirudia bila kuwajibika inahitaji uamuzi.
14. LEARN TO WALK AWAY Wakati mwingine kuondoka kwa amani ni bora kuliko kubaki mahali ambapo heshima, usalama na utulivu vimepotea.
15. BUILD YOURSELF FIRST Jenga akili yako, afya yako, kipato chako na maisha yako. Usiingie kwenye uhusiano ukitarajia mtu mwingine akukamilishe.
⚫ THE FINAL CODE
No desperation.
No blind trust.
No financial self-destruction.
No begging for affection.
No ignoring repeated disrespect.
No decisions made in anger.
No abandoning your purpose.
No manipulation.
No revenge.
No loss of self-respect.
LOVE WITH YOUR HEART. OBSERVE WITH YOUR MIND. DECIDE WITH LOGIC. LIVE WITH DISCIPLINE.
Your mission is not to defeat women. Your mission is to master yourself.
THE DARK CODE: RESPECT IS MUTUAL. PEACE IS ESSENTIAL. WALK AWAY WHEN NECESSARY.
Kwangu mimi niliona red flags za kutosha mbinu pekee aliyokuwa anaitumia ni kuomba msamaha ! Ilifika time nilichoka i peacefully walked away now sihitaji mahusiano ya kiduwanzi yaliyojaa stress!
 
THE 15 DARK CODE COMMANDMENTS
01. NEVER LOSE YOURSELF Usijipoteze kwa sababu ya mwanamke. Utambulisho wako, malengo yako na heshima yako vinabaki kuwa vya kwako.
02. TRUST IS EARNED Usimwamini mtu kwa maneno matamu pekee. Uaminifu hujengwa kwa matendo yanayojirudia.
03. NEVER IGNORE RED FLAGS Usipuuze tabia zinazokuumiza kwa sababu tu unampenda mtu.
04. ACTIONS OVER WORDS Maneno yanaweza kudanganya. Matendo ya muda mrefu yanaonyesha tabia halisi ya mtu.
05. NEVER BEG FOR LOVE Usilazimishe mtu akupende, akuheshimu au abaki nawe. Mapenzi ya kweli yanahitaji hiari ya wote wawili.
06. SET YOUR BOUNDARIES Jua unachokubali na usichokubali. Mipaka yako isiwe tishio; iwe mwongozo wa jinsi utakavyoishi.
07. NEVER FINANCE YOUR OWN DESTRUCTION Usiharibu maisha yako ya kifedha ili kuthibitisha mapenzi yako. Saidia kwa uwezo wako, si kwa presha.
08. DO NOT TRY TO FIX EVERYONE Wewe si mwokozi wa kila mtu. Unaweza kusaidia, lakini huwezi kumbadilisha mtu asiyetaka kubadilika.
09. NEVER CONFUSE BEAUTY WITH CHARACTER Muonekano huvutia macho, lakini tabia ndiyo huamua ubora wa uhusiano.
10. CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS Usifanye maamuzi makubwa ukiwa na hasira, wivu au maumivu. Utulivu ni nguvu.
11. NEVER ABANDON YOUR MISSION Usiache malengo yako, kazi yako na maendeleo yako kwa sababu ya uhusiano.
12. RECIPROCITY IS THE RULE Usiwe mtu pekee anayejitahidi. Uhusiano mzuri unahitaji juhudi, mawasiliano na kujali kutoka pande zote mbili.
13. NEVER TOLERATE REPEATED DISRESPECT Mazungumzo yanaweza kutatua makosa. Lakini tabia ya kuumizana inayojirudia bila kuwajibika inahitaji uamuzi.
14. LEARN TO WALK AWAY Wakati mwingine kuondoka kwa amani ni bora kuliko kubaki mahali ambapo heshima, usalama na utulivu vimepotea.
15. BUILD YOURSELF FIRST Jenga akili yako, afya yako, kipato chako na maisha yako. Usiingie kwenye uhusiano ukitarajia mtu mwingine akukamilishe.
⚫ THE FINAL CODE
No desperation.
No blind trust.
No financial self-destruction.
No begging for affection.
No ignoring repeated disrespect.
No decisions made in anger.
No abandoning your purpose.
No manipulation.
No revenge.
No loss of self-respect.
LOVE WITH YOUR HEART. OBSERVE WITH YOUR MIND. DECIDE WITH LOGIC. LIVE WITH DISCIPLINE.
Your mission is not to defeat women. Your mission is to master yourself.
THE DARK CODE: RESPECT IS MUTUAL. PEACE IS ESSENTIAL. WALK AWAY WHEN NECESSARY.
Mkuu nikuulize swali kwanini upange kutengana na mkeo ilihali unajua kusudi la Mungu ni kuishi pamoja
 
Bro iko hivi mwanaume hatelekezi kizazi chake najipanga kwa mda fulani mwisho wa siku watoto wanapelekwa sehemu ambayo kuwaona ni ngumu,watateseka kwa sasa ila kwa baadae wata ishi vyema
Acha waishi na mama yao,pia hakikisha Kuna sehem kuna jasho lako wanalichuma ili kukidhi mahitaji ya kila siku!!
Ili wakikuita kwenye ustawi jamii na asasi nyinginezo utaongea kwa kujiamini kama kiongozi!!!

Usitenganishe watoto na mama Yao hizo no tabia za kike ambazo wanatufanyia sisi!!!
 
Nimeyapitia hayo maumivu,nikiwa na watoto wawili naye,wa mwisho akiwa na mwaka mmoja tu.
Dogo wa mwisho nikawa naenda naye ofisini, akapata rafiki jirani na ofisini kwangu,akawa anamuogesha,anamlisha na kushinda naye ofisini kwake.
Sasa ni miaka 16 imepita yule rafiki yake mtoto wangu ni mama yake mlezi.
Nimeipenda hii.
 
Mkuu,

Unasema unajua sana ku calculate yajayo, lakini mbona umeshindwa kumjua huyu mwanamke unayemsema mbaya sana, ukakaa naye mpaka umezaa naye sasa mnaenda kuwapa tabu watoto kwa ugomvi wenu?

Yani hapo napo unajiona unajua ku calculate yajayo bado?

Unajua ku calcukate yajayo kweli au unajidanganya mwenyewe tu?
Namhala ! upo mbele sana 😀😀😀
Lengo la huu uzi ni jamaa apate relief ya maumivu aliyopitia na bado yawezekana hayajaisha
 
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