I'm too lazy to be a housewife

I'm too lazy to be a housewife

atoto said:
wakiwa wakweli eti wanawake wa digitali, binadamu tunapenda unafiki kweli.
hakuna anayependa shurba, ni vile hamna namna tu.
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Tatizo lenu mnaish maisha ya kufikirika. Waulizeni mama zenu au bibi zenu, mara nyingi sana naongea na wamama watu wazima sana na wabibi. Mara zote wamekuwa wakisikitishwa na kutuhurumia namna tunavyoishi leo
 
kat.ph said:
Mashine ya kufulia kwa maji gani? Haya maji machafu ya dawasco? Come on. Acha uchoyo hire two young people wa kike na kiume wakusaidieni. Wa kike ndani, wa kiume nje. Stop being selfish.... Kuna unemployment rate kubwa sana jamani.

By the way, now vijana wa ku hire ni lazima wawe wamefika hata form four.
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Tatizo mkuu ukiwachukua hao wawili na kuwaweka pamoja na wao watajifanya baba na mama yaani hujafanya kitu
 
nsanzu said:
Tatizo lenu mnaish maisha ya kufikirika. Waulizeni mama zenu au bibi zenu, mara nyingi sana naongea na wamama watu wazima sana na wabibi. Mara zote wamekuwa wakisikitishwa na kutuhurumia namna tunavyoishi leo
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hata wao ukiwauliza wanakwambia hawakufanya kwakuwa wanapenda bbali kwakuwa ilibidi na hawakuwa na jinsi tu, sasa mtu akisema ukweli eti anafake, hapo ni kufake au kuwa real?
 
toxic9 said:
Huyo uliye quote comment yake ni jipu..... Yeye kila siku ana mawazo hasi juu ya wanaume jaribu kufuatilia uzi zake alizo zianzisha... Sasa sijuwi mahusiano yake doesnt work the way she wishes basi she concludes all women they experience the same.....
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Toxic baba umefikia hapa,[emoji3] [emoji3]unawezaje ongelea mtu na wala humjui we si tushamalizana mbona maneno mbovu mbovu mpaka huku...ulisema you're moving on mbona uko kwa business zangu kaka...you take jf so serious vepee? mi mahusiano yangu ni tofauti na unavyohisi
 
housegirl said:
Kumbe naishije embu niambie?? WanaJF buana!



We Naye embu nitolee stress zako! Kuna Mtu kalazimishwa aishi navyotaka? Ni lazima wote tuishi unavyotaka wewe? Livivu tu linataka kufanyiwa kazi zote na mwanamke. OVYO!

Wakina mama Theresa kutwa kukesha kanisani kumtuliza mume usijaribu kutetea ujinga hapa.

Hakuna mwanamue atakayelazimishwa kuishi na mimi! So chill
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[emoji23] [emoji23] [emoji23] [emoji23] [emoji23] [emoji23] ndindi toxic9 nini mbaya....si upite kimya kimya
 
housegirl said:
Mbona mwanamke ana wajibu pande mbili lakini mwanaume hana??

Lakini hamna shida. Ni kuchagua tu mwanaume anayejua kuwa nyakati zimebadilika na division of labor ya Leo ni tofauti. Mwanaume kupiga kazi za nyumbani bwana.



kimekuuma nini we we janaume!!! manake toka huko mwanzo unanipa attacks tu. kuna mwanamke kakuacha kisa kasoma thread yangu. get a life.
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Teh teh mdomo koma brenda kaa kimya[emoji40] [emoji40] [emoji40]
 
Kakole said:
Sina shida na hili ila inabidi tuwe hatuishi kwenye nyumba ya kupanga au km tunapanga tuwe na nyumba ya peke yetu na yenye ukuta maana watanzania hawachelewi kusema nimelishwa limbwata.
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Hahaha umenifurahisha....ila vizuri kama utakuwa unamsaidia...
 
Tarakilishi said:
Mimi husaidiana na mke wangu kumuosha mwanangu, kufua nguo za mwanangu na hata kumbeba mwanangu. Ni fahari mimi kama baba kumfulia nguo mwanangu. Infact sipendezwi sana mwanangu anavofuliwa nguo na housegirl. Napenda mimi mwenyewe au mke wangu ndio afue nguo za mwanangu. Lau si mihangaiko ya maisha kama baba, kwakweli ningeshinda nyumbani nimlee mwanangu. Ni fahari kumuona mtoto amekuwa mkubwa na unajua ulihangaika kwa kila hali juu yake. Mke wangu anajisikia fahari sana kuwa na mume kama mimi ambaye mara nyingi nikiwa nyumbani himsaidia mke wangu kazi. Kazi ambazo huwa sifanyi ni zile za usafi wa nyumba na vyombo. Wakati mke wangu anaumwa huwa namfulia nguo zake mimi mwenyewe kwa mikono yangu hata chakula huwa nahangaika kuhakikisha mke wangu amekula. Ni maisha mazuri sana kusaidiana pale inapowezekana. Pamoja na yote hayo mke wangu anatambua kuwa ni wajibu wake kufanya kazi za nyumani, namimi ni wajibu wangu kutafuta chakula na mahitaji muhimu kwa ajili ya familia yangu japo mke wangu hunisaidia pia katika hayo pale ninapokwama kifedha.
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Nikisema kuna wanaume wa type yako wengi mtu haelewi....wapo wanaume wengi tu wanaosaidia kazi bila shurti kwa mapenzi...
 
brenda18 said:
Nikisema kuna wanaume wa type yako wengi mtu haelewi....wapo wanaume wengi tu wanaosaidia kazi bila shurti kwa mapenzi...
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Hakika wapo wengi tu. Tatizo ni kuwa wanaume hatupendi kutumwa. Personally huwa sipendi kutumwa na mke wangu lakini hujitolea kwa moyo mkunjufu kabisa. Kuna vitu kama naelekea sehemu fulani mke wangu anaweza kuniagiza hapo huwa sina tatizo.
 
Tarakilishi said:
Hakika wapo wengi tu. Tatizo ni kuwa wanaume hatupendi kutumwa. Personally huwa sipendi kutumwa na mke wangu lakini hujitolea kwa moyo mkunjufu kabisa. Kuna vitu kama naelekea sehemu fulani mke wangu anaweza kuniagiza hapo huwa sina tatizo.
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Kweli kabisa huwezi kumtuma mume afanye kwa mapenzi yake...mbarikiwe wanaume wa type hii[emoji122] [emoji122]
 
Kakole said:
Kama hicho ndicho kitakanachompa amani nitaachaje kumsaidia? mapenzi ni kufanya yale yanayomfurahisha mwenzi wako na kuepuka yale yatayomnyima furaha.
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Mungu akujalie furaha zaidi...maisha sio kuiga wengine wanafanyaje mfumo dume ni mambo ya kale, wote ni binadamu na kuchoka mnachoka wote ni vizuri kusaidiana inapobidi....
 
housegirl said:
Do you make enough money to make your wife a housewife and give her the life she wants?

incase you die, will they survive?
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A very good question in deed. Currently, I make good money, I am sure more than the salaries of many working couples. Since I make a very good money and since my kids need parental care, I have no reason why my wife should not stay home and take good care of my kids. Honestly, I stopped my wife from working so that she can provide a good care to our kids since even her job I thought was not paying enough as she drives the car that I bought for her, provided her with fuel and everything so I thought I personnaly spent more than what she earnt. For a kind of a money that I earn it is no sense to leave my kids on the hands of the housegirls and school driver and get spoilt while my wife is alive. The second part is that, I fully understand that I may be the first to go and therefore my wife and kids may suffer. Following that I am trying the best to invest as I work outside the country my wife now and then supervises those projects without jerpodizing her main motherhood tasks. In doing so she gets acquainted with way the projects are run and managedI definately treat her like a queen and she is one of the very few luckiest women on health to have a man who is happy and proud to provide everthing to his wife and at the same time to empower her so that in the long run she can be economically sustainable. it is just a matter of a long term strategic plan on where you want to go and how you reach there.
 
mwanalumango said:
A very good question in deed. Currently, I make good money, I am sure more than the salaries of many working couples. Since I make a very good money and since my kids need parental care, I have no reason why my wife should not stay home and take good care of my kids. Honestly, I stopped my wife from working so that she can provide a good care to our kids since even her job I thought was not paying enough as she drives the car that I bought for her, provided her with fuel and everything so I thought I personnaly spent more than what she earnt. For a kind of a money that I earn it is no sense to leave my kids on the hands of the housegirls and school driver and get spoilt while my wife is alive. The second part is that, I fully understand that I may be the first to go and therefore my wife and kids may suffer. Following that I am trying the best to invest as I work outside the country my wife now and then supervises those projects without jerpodizing her main motherhood tasks. In doing so she gets acquainted with way the projects are run and managedI definately treat her like a queen and she is one of the very few luckiest women on health to have a man who is happy and proud to provide everthing to his wife and at the same time to empower her so that in the long run she can be economically sustainable. it is just a matter of a long term strategic plan on where you want to go and how you reach there.
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Vizuri sana
 
Housegirl, nakuunga mkono. Kwa mtazamo huo, endelea kuwa kishoka tu, nakubaliana na wewe kuwa huna sifa za mke! Mojawapo ya sifa ambazo huna ni: kuamka wa kwanza na kulala wa mwisho! Huwezi kabisa! Usithubutu kuolewa utajuta!
 
Kakole said:
Hahahaha.......kumbe kupikiwa pia inawapa mood ya mgegedo sio? najua kusonga ugali tu itakuwaje sasa.
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hata nao sawa tu, hebu fikiria umemkuta mkeo jikoni, uji unachemka ukamwambia mama chanja wangu lete leo nikuoneshe ufundi.. ukausonga mkala kwa furaha... unafikiri utanyimwa mechi?
 
In addition, I save enough money for kids with immediate effect after birth. Saving money to their accounts is the most priority item when I receive my monthly pay. This has enable my kin
The secretary said:
Vizuri sana
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I am so principled, since I get good money, the first thing that I do when I receive monthly pay is to deposit to my kids account pre-planned fixed amount of cash before I do anything else. I usually open bank accounts of my kids with the effect from the first months of their birth and there is no compromise on their monthly deposits. Therefore, once they reach at age of P1 already have enough money in their account to study from primary to University level and therefore even if I die they will definately study as man my first priority is my family (my wife and kids).
 
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