I'm too lazy to be a housewife
I'm too lazy to be a housewife
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Tarakilishi
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Hapo pia upo sahihi. Maisha ya ndani ya nyumba nyie mnaoyaishi ndio mnaochagua muishi vipi. Kama mpo comfortable kwa staili hiyo mimi sioni tatizo.
housegirl
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I'm sorry my brother. at first it sounded like you live a fairytale everyone wishes for until you said you don't live with your family.
I'm sory, family means together. I never want yo be in a long distance relationship. You think your kids have everything. But they unfortunately don't have a dad.
If you were my husband you'd have never left the country. If you insisted I would've run away and left you with your kids.
Don't even talk about greener pasture, you should've thought of that before you had kids.
#plus I wonder if you've remained celibate for all this time! Oh poor woman your wife.
housegirl
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As I said, housework is a lot of work. hata kama haendi kazini ujue anapiga kazi hasa! hongera kwa kumtunza mkeo, hopefully karidhika na lifestyle.
mimi kazini lazima. Watoto watakuwa na wa kuwatunza tu.. Nafasi ya mama haibadiliki kamwe. I would know how to play my part.
kuwa mama mzuri sio kupikia wanao kila siku, sio umama kwangu huo.
Plus Nina lifestyle nayojitengenezea niishi. Watoto lazima watofautishe tu. I don't care if people think I'll make a terrible mom, I think I'd make a super mom.
Plus I need a life. Life ya kushinda nyumbani while you go out do things and meet people, hapana.
FENtastic
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apology accepted....but ur argument lack coherence mdada..."
sikuwa tayari kuungwa mkono na mwanaume...
kweli wanaume kibaaao'' can u clarify it more to me.....
Michael Amon
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Mungu alipomuumba mwanamke kama msaidizi wa mwanaume hakusema kuwa huyo mwanamke awe msaidizi wa dudu tu, bali awe msaidizi wa kila kitu katika maisha ya mwanaume.
Mungu alipomuumba mwanaume aligundua udhaifu uliopo kwa mwanaume, alijua kuwa kuna vitu ambavyo mwanaume ambavyo anaweza kuvifanya na kuna vitu ambavyo mwanaume hawezi kuvifanya na ndio maana akamuumba mwanamke ili awe msaidizi kwa mambo ambayo mwanaume hawezi kuyafanya.
Sasa kama wewe unaona alichofanya Mungu alikosea, basi fanya unavyoona wewe inafaa halafu utaona matokeo yake.
Dear as I said read my post very well , process it in your brain , if you don't understanding its okay to ask .. There is nothing bad to think that you know something / everything but you don't know and you don't know that you dont know.. Keep think what you think and pick some sentence or word and answer it without understanding it? Its like you are fouling on yourself .. Honestly its okay to say loveissweet you post this but what did you mean by saying that because I don't understand.. " The bible didnt say men are like baby .. But it says this " wife submit yourself to your husband and husband love your wife as Christ loved His church ".. Tafakari the word of " Submit". The bible also says " Diligent hands will rule , but laziness ends in slave labor " .... " He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord" ... " The wise woman builds her house , but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down ". " He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity"... " Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife ".. The bible also talks about the Wife of Noble character , why the bible does not talk about the husband of Noble character? Why? Ask yourself and spend more time to know His word.. These are some the wife of Noble Character : " A wife of noble character who can find ? She is worthy far more than rubies".. "Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value ".. " She brings him good , not harm , all the days of her life ".. " She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands ".. " She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar". " She gets up while it is still dark ; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls ".. " She considers a field and buys it out of her earnings she plants a vineyard ".. " She sets about her work vigorously ; her arms are strong for her tasks " ... " She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness ".... " Her children arise and call her blessed her husband also , and he praises her"... "Many women do noble things , but you surpass them all "... What can I say? Just read your bible very well , to prevent your self from the lack of knowledge.. .. . ... Thanks..
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Hahahaaa! Hujajib swal
sinafungu
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nahisi kama vile bado hujitambui...... wawezaje kuepuka kivuli chako......? mamiyo angelikuwa kama wewe jiulize we ungelikuwa wapi muda huu........?
Dear its not just sometimes marriage is sacrifice.. Bali always marriage is about sacrifice .. Why? Because we do many of the things for the sake of marriage kuna vingine wa nnje wanakuona uko crazy and ask why we do that but because of covenant we made with God .. Marriage is covenant with God na mume ndio inafuata.. But first ni God.. This reminded me on something.. Only I can say if we , women are not ready to get marry then don't .. Because the marriage is not about sex only , kujipamba, kwenda salon, kula raha na etc... Trust me its more than that and it takes more than the love you have toward God and the person you have married..... God help us.. Huwa nikiwazaga hivi nachoka I just ended up to postpone and tell my partner to wait ( woga) ... Na ndoa ya Church? Uwiiiii let me keep waiting.. . Seriously God help me.. Thanks...