Pamoja na usaliti,kutothamini ama kutokua na malengo ya pamoja
yeah ni kweli kabisa vyote ulivyoandika ni msingi mzuri sana ukiongezea na haya
1. Love Means Growing together, but growth looks different for everyone. you have to observe how YOU grow and help your partner grow in a way that is natural and organic to you not what you expect from yourself
2. YOU are not in this world to make someones happy, that's his/her responsibility to make himself/herself happy. YOU are the person to support, enhance and add to anything your partner do and he should do the same
3. YOU are not together to feed each others insecurities and ego. You are with the person to become the best version of yourself and for you to encourage, enlighten and empower each other
4. There are times when man will lead and there are times when woman will lead knowing when and letting the other do so is very important
5. Whenever there's an issue, Argument or challenge, remember, it's the two of you against the problem. You are team, there's no right or wrong, there's is no winning or losing
6. Without a higher spiritual purpose any bond can weaken and break
(a) Love is about support not sacrifice
(b) Love is about communication not compromise
(c) Love is about trust not tolerance
(d) Love is about Energy not ego
All these things takes time someone shouldn't expect them in one day.