Does the Age Difference Really Matter Katika Mahusiano!!!!!!!!

[kipimo]

Hapo mwanawane olewa hiyo difference ndo normal na inatakiwa hata heshima hapo inakuwepo na usisahau kua mwanamke ndo anakua wa kwanza kuzeeka for that matter mtazeeka pamoja na heshima itakuwepo kama kawa

ushauri mzuri huo, ila nawe pia fanya maamuzi yako kwani wewe ndo utaenda kule, na yatakayokukuta huko yatakuhusu wewe,i mean it is your life, and your choice! wachache waliopata 100% spouses wenye sifa kama walizozitaka awali.

 

[tracy]

Age doesnt matter
kuna mtu ambae yupo in his thirties lakini ana akili na mienendo kama 18year old na kuna mwingine yupo kwenye 20s ana akili na mienendo ya 40 or 30yr old and the viceversa is true
jiulize kama mnaenda?unampenda?your personality na yake au values?can he be a friend at the same time a lover(thats what i ask myself ,so my oipinion)?
all in all,i can detect some :love:
GOODLUCK..

 

[Blessed Keinerugaba]

Wataalamu wa mahusiano/saikolojia/mapenzi wanashauri juu ya age difference ktk mahusiano ambayo haizidi miaka 10(10 years)

 

[Heaven on Earth]

ushauri mzuri huo, ila nawe pia fanya maamuzi yako kwani wewe ndo utaenda kule, na yatakayokukuta huko yatakuhusu wewe,i mean it is your life, and your choice! wachache waliopata 100% spouses wenye sifa kama walizozitaka awali.

hapa unamwambia mwekundu au ni ujumbe wangu.........

 

[Heaven on Earth]

Wataalamu wa mahusiano/saikolojia/mapenzi wanashauri juu ya age difference ktk mahusiano ambayo haizidi miaka 10(10 years)

so am I in a right track according to those psychologist!!!!!!

 

[irenejoe]

age is just a number look for happinessand listen to ua heart

 

[Horseshoe Arch]

Madam,jitoe muhanga,bahati za aina hii zinatoka kwa utaratibu wa majimbo,yumkini isitokee tena...Umri ni tarakimu tu

 

[kipimo]

hapa unamwambia mwekundu au ni ujumbe wangu.........

ooh! ni Heaven on earth, aliyeomba ushauri; kueleweka napo vigumu!

 

[Marga]

Vi feelings naviona tena vinakuja kwa kasi ya ajabu......

nimedate na mtu tulikuwa the same age,what happened left me with a broken heart
sema hii age difference nimeiona kama ni kubwa,I just dont know for real.........

huyo aliekuacha with broken heart haimaanishi kua umri ndio ulisababisha ila ni tabia 2 ya m2 pia wa2 hutofautiana ktk mtazamo wa maisha na mahusiano,,waeza date m2 aliekuzd umri na bado akakuumiza kwa kua pengne wakat anaingia ktk uhusiano alikua ana yake tofaut na upendo au ukadate m2 pengne mwalngana au kakuzd only 2yrs mkadumu! i dated the guy alienizd 10yrs and he left me with broken heart
ktk uhusiano kinachomata ni true love ILA umri pia una nafac yake maana eti huez sema tc juct a namba halaf mvulana akadate na mwanamke aliemzidi 25yrs!!!

 

[Heaven on Earth]

huyo aliekuacha with broken heart haimaanishi kua umri ndio ulisababisha ila ni tabia 2 ya m2 pia wa2 hutofautiana ktk mtazamo wa maisha na mahusiano,,waeza date m2 aliekuzd umri na bado akakuumiza kwa kua pengne wakat anaingia ktk uhusiano alikua ana yake tofaut na upendo au ukadate m2 pengne mwalngana au kakuzd only 2yrs mkadumu! i dated the guy alienizd 10yrs and he left me with broken heart
ktk uhusiano kinachomata ni true love ILA umri pia una nafac yake maana eti huez sema tc juct a namba halaf mvulana akadate na mwanamke aliemzidi 25yrs!!!

hahaaa umenichekesahaje hapo kwenye RED........,

Yeah ni tabia yake alikuwa Mwingi wa habari,

Asante kwa ushauri my Sister

 

[Heaven on Earth]

ooh! ni Heaven on earth, aliyeomba ushauri; kueleweka napo vigumu!

asante kipimo,nimekuelewa tena sana tu........

 

[mathcom]

Habari zenu wana MMU!!!!!!!

i think its my first time kuomba ushauri humu hasa kuhusiana na my personal life,
am a girl in my earlier 20"s elim yangu na nna kazi yangu kiasi kwamba I can take care of myself,
nimepitia kwenye relationship that really sucks mpaka ikabidi nijiweke Pembeni kidogo na mambo ya mahusiano,

Lakin sasa nimekuja kukutana na huyu kijana,tuliwahi ku attend workshop pamoja kipindi fulani na tukawa
kwenye category moja so hiyo ilitupa chance ya kuwa friends/collins baada ya workshop kuisha
kila mtu alienda njia yake ikabakia "HI" za hapa na pale!!!!!

hizi siku za karibuni ndio that Guy ameniibukia,sijashangaa sana cos that time I just read the signs nikajua
jamaa kuna kitu kazimikia sema hakunambiaga tu!!!!!!!

sasa what makes me worries ni age difference yetu,yeye ni amenizidi kwa miaka 10,so nikikwambia am in my
early 20's ye nae yuko in his early 30's, sometimes I find it so weird.

I'm beginning to have feelings but I find it so awkward nikiwaza age naona ana act as an adult sana
sa mi Heaven on earth naona I have a certain kind of life ambae ni tofauti na yeye sasa my worry is
will I be able to cope,cos hatujaingia ktk relationship ila naona kama ni mtu wa kuniambia the DO'S and DONT'S!!!!!!

mambo mengine he is okay,he is lookong forward to a long term commitment (mtakuwa mmenielewa hapo)
financially stable ila sitaki hiko kuwa the main reason ku enter into relationship,i just want to consider other things.

Am planning to talk to my Mum this weekend but nahitaji kujua hili ni sahihi!!!!!!
watu wa hivi wapo na maisha yao ya ndoa huwa yana WORK OUT!!!!!!

mkuu ukisikia heaven on earth ndio hiyo. Ukiwa kwenye 20's unatakiwa upate wa 30's kama mna lengo la long term relationship..!! hao wa same and close to your age, niwazuri labda kwa kuruka nao break dancing tu, only few wana-sustain in the relation.
Mimi na mke wangu tuna age difference ya 12 years..!! tunaishi kirafiki sana, na tukiwa pamoja we behaved and yet behaving like kids..!! Sasa tuna watoto, na tunaishi vizuri tu. Omba Mungu awe mume bora tu basi..!! Best wishes..!!

 

[mantoghoyoka]

A man has to at least 5 years and at most 10 years older than his spouse Relax

 

[Mr. Wise]

Hiyo ndio age inayofaa, Na mkibahatika kuoana ndoa yenu itadumu. Epuka kuolewa na mtu mnaefanana umri

Hapo mi kidogo nitakua tofauti.

 

[Heaven on Earth]

mkuu ukisikia heaven on earth ndio hiyo. Ukiwa kwenye 20's unatakiwa upate wa 30's kama mna lengo la long term relationship..!! hao wa same and close to your age, niwazuri labda kwa kuruka nao break dancing tu, only few wana-sustain in the relation.
Mimi na mke wangu tuna age difference ya 12 years..!! tunaishi kirafiki sana, na tukiwa pamoja we behaved and yet behaving like kids..!! Sasa tuna watoto, na tunaishi vizuri tu. Omba Mungu awe mume bora tu basi..!! Best wishes..!!

we mathcom nikoje!!!!!!!!!!

swali;je kwenye swala la kuniambia fanya hiviusifanye hivi is it OKAY?
we ulikuwa ulikuwa una mcontroll mkeo some how just because of age!!!!

 

[Heaven on Earth]

Hapo mi kidogo nitakua tofauti.

utofauti wako uko wapi,please tuambie basi........

 

[mathcom]

we mathcom nikoje!!!!!!!!!!

swali;je kwenye swala la kuniambia fanya hiviusifanye hivi is it OKAY?
we ulikuwa ulikuwa una mcontroll mkeo some how just because of age!!!!

Usishtuke! nimekusudia hiyo bahati uliyoipata ni kama "heaven on earth" okay!
Hakuna kitu kum-control. Mimi nilikua na muongoza tu, nae alikua muelewa, wala hapakua na uzito wowote. Life is good.

 

[WISE BOY]

Go ahead Heaven on earth, hilo la miaka mm naona ni soooo perfect, check maeneo mengine labda

 

[mgeni10]

Tofauti ya Umri sio tatizo kabisa, Ila SEMA na Moyo Wako Kwa uwazi bila kuwa na msukumo wa kitu chochote ila Mapenzi ya kweli.

Kuhusu the do's and don'ts, ninaamini ni za kujenga na si utoto, kama ndivyo ilivyo huna sababu ya kuogopa utayaweza tu yote, Mtangulize Mungu ktk kila jambo

 

[JF2050]

Sasa leo ndio nimekamata mtu "live" bila chenga, umemwaga story hapa ukijua mie sio member! Ngoja nikusome mathread yako kwanza, dah! ndio nichukue uamuzi! Lol